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Single and lving life or a married with childern.

sexibttm69

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I just wanted to take a random survey of what you guys would rather be. I do not think that most of the guys on here sound like they want to settle down but, I just wanted to see their opinions?
 
Re: Single and lving life or a married with childe

settle down w/ kids
 
Re: Single and lving life or a married with childe

If being married with children meant this, I would remain single no matter how lonely and horrible life would be for me:

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However, if it meant that life would be this, I might give it some serious consideration. Nick would make life so exciting and unpredictable:

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Re: Single and lving life or a married with childe

Single , love it. If I met the right person? No problem, I have been in a 5 year and also two 2 year relationships. I don't want kids, I have 5 nephews and 1 niece...that's enough
 
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Well, I was married and the kids are about to graduate from college. My son is getting married July 25 (he just told me). My daughter is probably not far behind.

I just met a terrific guy -- Barry is 26 -- and we are settling down. Neither of us wants more children; I told him he can help me with the grandkids someday! lol!
 
Re: Single and lving life or a married with childe

was with one guy for over 25 years and with Lalo for just under 14 years. if it happens again, i won't resist at all, but the happening is something that i have never been able to explain. it can be very nice to be with someone with whom you are comfortable - and that is not easy and takes time to happen
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Re: Single and lving life or a married with childe

I would like to settle down with my soulmate who is also the love of my life.
 
Re: Single and lving life or a married with childe

If I was born a girl, I would want to get marry and have 1-2 kids by now. But it didn't happen, and my kids are not going to be born. I don't want to be like the rest of the world, full of baby dumping idiots. If I cannot provide the time and income to a child, I will not adopt one. Rather die alone than hear the sentence "you weren't there for me" and know that it was my fault.
 
Re: Single and lving life or a married with childe

I'd like to settle down and have more kids.
 
Re: Single and lving life or a married with childe

I am 'married' and we have children. I wouldn't have it any other way.
 
Re: Single and lving life or a married with childe

the future's not ours to see, say sara sara
 
Re: Single and lving life or a married with childe

i'm not sure yet. i don't date much so maybe it's just i can't imagine "married with kids." oh btw i could add a poll to your thread if you wanted?
 
Re: Single and lving life or a married with childe

i would like to settle down and have kids but i can't even get a date.
 
Re: Single and lving life or a married with childe

Why didn't you just make the options "living life the way it was meant to be lived" and "shackled to some ugly bitch and screaming rugrats"?

Lex
 
Re: Single and lving life or a married with childe

I guess I have the best of both worlds. I have grown kids and I am divorced, so that makes me single with kids. The only grandson I have is a 8 yo choc lab. but he's cute.
 
Re: Single and lving life or a married with childe

>>>Why didn't you just make the options "living life the way it was meant to be lived" and "shackled to some ugly bitch and screaming rugrats"?

Judging by some comments I've been getting, I should rephrase this. :)

My beef was actually how the original question was written. To wit: "Single AND LIVING (or was it LOVING?) LIFE, or married with children?" The implication there is that, being single, you can live (or love) life, but by getting married, you're no longer living/loving life. So I just pushed it further, in a sort of "Geez, why didn't you just phrase it THIS way while you we are it" sort of way.

I most certainly do NOT think having kids and/or settling down is a bad idea - not for me or anyone. I myself have settled down. (Not that I was that unsettled to start with.) I don't have kids, and personally don't have any interest in having them, ever. I don't have the parent gene in me, and personally don't do well with kids, so I'm gonna remain childless.

Lex (hopefully with tail fully covered this time)
 
Re: Single and lving life or a married with childe

Single...I can't see myself in a long term relationship or having kids.

Not in my cards. :)

I think that we have the same dealer; I know I'm not going to be in a long term relationship or parenting little toddlers.
 
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