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So scared to go to the university gay centre

You are making excuses ;)

Gay Groups flow sometimes they are busy sometimes they aren't. Usually you don't have a gay group that just collapses, but it occurs at some schools especially if there are alternatives.

Don't make plans on what you are going to do from now on now, take each day on its own. Dont' decide things, just go with the flow.

Hope you have fun, with whatever you do :)
 
if you are out or want to come out, go to the meeting. go when there aren't many people there to help you get adjusted. just ease in, talk with a couple other people. if you uncertain, just tell them you wanted to see what the meeting was about, you don't have to tell them you are gay, just say you are trying to figure out things, and meet other people. you will not be expected to stand up and say, "Hi, my name is Tom, and I am gay"

if they ask why you are there, just say to meet other students and leave it at that.
 
I'm glad your first meeting was good, dude!
When I was at university, I wasn't even aware of my own sexuality yet, but I was starting to get inklings that I was at least sexual -- which I'd been denying all my life. I peeked into the campus GLBT group once, checked out their booth at the campus orientation day... and never went back. The sort of freaks there scared me off enough I promptly went back to denying I was even sexual.
Since your group there seems to have something going, though, stick with it. If I'd had JUB to back me up, and a group that wasn't "love gays or die!" about things, I might have actually had a chance at a life. Don't you lose it when you have the opportunities there!
 
Take a deep breath and summon up your courage. If you just can't do it, contact the people who run it first and speak to them. They'll understand the journey you are taking. Best of luck, there's a whole room ful of guys here who will be with you in spirit as you walk through the door. Joe
 
I'm too scared to go to my university gay centre aswell...I just don't think it's for my benefit..other than OMG are you gay? "kills grim"...

I think it's a way to get spotted to be bugged and bullied..

"hides in a corner"
 
_Grim_ said:
I'm too scared to go to my university gay centre aswell...I just don't think it's for my benefit..other than OMG are you gay? "kills grim"...

I think it's a way to get spotted to be bugged and bullied..

"hides in a corner"
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Theoretically Grim, its a Safe Place. Everyone else there is gay too.

Hiding in a corner is safe but its also very lonely. Try it the way that me12121 has done it. Start a thread and keep talking to us before and after you go. It could change your life.
 
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