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I am a little confused. I am a 29 year old single man living in Austin, Tx. I like women. I have had feelings for them, emotionally and sexually. However.. from time to time.. since I am lonely.. I have let men in Austin give me bjs. Basically I see it as a form of masturbation.

When I was in college I had a gay roommate. Most of the time I would stay at my gfs place or crash at the fraternity house. But sometimes I would come back to the dorms. One night I was pretty drunk.. came home and he was gone. I thought.. good chance to jerk off. I was jerking off and he came in. I put my cock away.. but he made a joke about "need a hand? " I laughed and said more like a mouth. A week or so went by and he made a reference that if I did ever need a mouth to let him know. Which I eventually did. for about 5 months a couple times a week I would let him service me.

That all stopped. I moved into the frat house the next year... never had another guy do anything to me. Then years later I move to Austin from California. Here I dont know anyone... and while I am trying to meet girls... I often find myself saying fuck it and letting guys blow me and feeling really guilty about it for some reason afterwards.

Their is a girl in my life, but I am stuck in the friend zone with her. As I type this I am on CL looking for someone to come over to blow me.

Any thoughts, or suggestions, advice or comments?
 
Welcome to JUB. I'm not quite sure what to make of your post. If we were speaking face to face I'd ask about you feelings towards guys, how you found JUB and what you have been doing regarding the straight dating scene.

I'd want to more about the guilt you feel. Is that coming from homophobia? This may be the time to seek out a good therapist. That cycle of excitement while cruising, hooking up and then being guilty could be a sign of sex addiction, or it might be the consequence of coming to terms with your sexual orientation. In any case, I think it wise that you are seeking answers. Good luck and best wishes to you.
 
I think you're just a sexual person, and it just so happens that men come easier than women. Nothing wrong with that, as long as you keep "clean."
 
Thanks for all the kind words. :) I just really like blowjobs. My downstairs neighbor just gave me a doosy of a bj. Also if anyone in Austin wants a load. let me know!
 
seeing that you are still young you may get to live in a world where less people care about what you do and who you do it with.
If you were in my area i'd be sucking your cock every day .
At least you dont have any problem hooking up with men that like sucking cock.:bj:
 
Stop feeling guilty...

Enjoying blowjobs doesn't mean you're gay, it means you're gay. If you and your girlfriend had a 3some with another girl, and your girlfriend ate the other girl's pussy, would you think that she was a lesbian or just that she was enjoying sex? This is no different. Enjoy it.

And, if you realize that you are finding yourself attracted to men as well as women, there's nothing wrong with that.
 
I met another guy on Craigslist. He couldn't wait to suck me. He said all gay men love sucking straight guys cocks. Is that true?
 
I'm not understanding something...Craigs List is Filled with Men & Women that want to give Blow-Jobs..

Why is it that you prefer to have the Men do it? At some point you're going to have to accept that you're more Bisexual than straight...
 
It's easier to find males willing to have no question sex with you than females. Of coarse, age is relevant. Choices come in to play as well, if you do find a willing female - what does she look like?
 
^^^^We're talking about Craigs-List...90% of the people willing to do anything for Sex range from Mediocre to Ugly...

A Gay Brad-Pit look-a-like is NOT sucking on Austinguy1's Dick...He's getting responses from someone like Pit-Crater-Face Brad...Every straight Dude is not eager to spread his Legs for another Dude just because he's failing with women...

Any straight Dude choosing to have REPEAT sexual encounters with Men is inching out of being Straight &/or Bi-Curious...He's now in the world of Bisexuality...
 
Austinguy1 said:
Thanks for all the kind words. :) I just really like blowjobs. My downstairs neighbor just gave me a doosy of a bj. Also if anyone in Austin wants a load. let me know!
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Kinda sounds to me like the pleasure these guys bring you far outweighs any guilt you may feel.

One question you may want to ask yourself is would you really want to stop meeting up with guys if a girl came along?
 
I should clarify that when i find a female who wants to suck.. I always take that option. Ill usually only go the guy route if im not getting any other bites. and Yes if a woman comes along i would totally have no problem being with only her and not using guys mouths as a cum dumpster.
 
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