So yea, this will probably be verbal buck shot but...

[SomedaySoon]

SQUEEEEEEE!!!

I am sleeping over at his house on Thursday night, and we are going to Disneyland on Friday with some of his close friends, who I will be meeting for the first time.

I can hardly contain my excitement.

That's all for now

 

[Lube]

Wow, what a difference in you since you started this thread! Congrats!!

You're really coming out of your shell.

Just one thing: please develop a group of gay friends to hang out with. If this relationship ends for whatever reason, you don't want to start over at step 1. Having local gay friends to talk about this stuff with will help.

Good luck and keep us informed!

 

[SomedaySoon]

Just a really quick update.

It has come to my attention that we will be sleeping in the same bed tomorrow night. Not a big ass bed either, just a regular twin sized bed. Super excited, and trying to keep my cool XD

I sense cuddling (at the very least) in my near future.

 

[SomedaySoon]

Ok, so i know I am slightly less interesting than some of the other threads here, but I have some updates.

The last guy I was talking about in my last few posts didn't work out. We both apparently couldn't read eachother's attraction so neither of us really jumped at it (we only ever kissed once). We tried staying friends, but I find him extremely annoying now and can't for the life of me figure out why I liked him in the first place.

Since then I had one other major guy, but he was having some serious personal issues, so that candle burned out pretty quickly.

And just last week, I met this super cute guy, absolutely everything I was looking for. We flirted back and forth for a few days, then he tells me that he is getting back together with his ex. Suffice it to say, I was a little bummed. He too says that he wants to be friends, and I am trying desperately to make it work. In this case though, it does make it a little easier because you can totally tell him and his boyfriend are mad (or at least lusting) for each other.

So I guess what I am trying to get across here is that in terms of guy/relationships, I have yet to really find anything that works out. It seems like the universe is toying with me. It is VERY carrot on a stick.

On a more personal note, I have dropped down to 155 (down from 190 in my earlier posts I believe), I'll attach a picture.

I am still trying to tone up, not completely secure in taking my shirt off in public still, but in all honesty, I feel like it may just be residual fear from when I was a shit-ton heavier.

Thanks for listening guys =)

 

[altlover85]

I'm sorry to hear that things haven't worked with the other guys, but definitely keep at it.

You look good and while I can see why you'd want to lose more weight, I don't think it would be the end of the world if you didn't.

Keep up the good work and keep us posted!

 

[KaraBulut]

So I guess what I am trying to get across here is that in terms of guy/relationships, I have yet to really find anything that works out. It seems like the universe is toying with me. It is VERY carrot on a stick.

Hmmm... So, in 6 months you went from closeted, inadequate, few friends and experience with only 1 guy to meeting guys making friends and dating.

And you don't think that's progress?