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So your boyfriend goes on a road trip to visit his family...

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And because you work a shitty job you have to stay home and not take weeks and weeks of vacation all year..

Now he's going with his best friend, his straight best friend.

He's had a crush on him a few years ago but nothing ever happened because he was totally straight and was not interested. Which is totally understandable.

So you're stuck working all week while they drive across the country and have fun.

Oh but thats right, last month he told you about how he is totally a closet case fag.



Oh my god! Why am I so jealous right now? Is that even normal? Would you be jealous?!
 
And we've been together about a year now, and he treats me amazingly and is constantly telling me he loves me and how attractive i am and ughhhh...and how he only has eyes for me.

Should I not feel that way? I am overeacting? I tend to be a drama queen sometimes.
 
I'd be a little anxious, but I would try and lessen my anxiety and focus on the fact that I can trust him and that he hasn't violated my trust before, assuming that he hasn't violated your trust of course.

Why did he feel the need to tell you the friend was a closet case right now? How did it come up?
 
Your boyfriend's best friend came out to you? Did he also come out to your boyfriend?
 
He never violated my trust, that's true, and good... I usually harass him about the fact that they're gay together.
He was telling me all about how he fucked with his head for years and all that jazz that comes with having feelings for your closest guy friend and he always told me that he believed he was gay.

So when he was talking to him on the phone one day apparently he opened up and told him, and then when he hung up he told me.

Grrr, so I'm a jealous bitch apparently.

^And he didn't come out to me he came out to my boyfriend, sorry for the shitty way i wrote that OP.
 
Entity, your boyfriend is fucking his friend as I type this. Long roads, lonely nights, hours of nothing but closeness. Yup, they'll-be-a-fucking.

"And we've been together about a year now, and he treats me amazingly and is constantly telling me he loves me and how attractive i am and ughhhh...and how he only has eyes for me."

.....you keep thinking that while he sprays this load all over his best buddy's face.
 
xeetim said:
Entity, your boyfriend is fucking his friend as I type this. Long roads, lonely nights, hours of nothing but closeness. Yup, they'll-be-a-fucking.

"And we've been together about a year now, and he treats me amazingly and is constantly telling me he loves me and how attractive i am and ughhhh...and how he only has eyes for me."

.....you keep thinking that while he sprays this load all over his best buddy's face.
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Awww thanks! (*8*) <3 I feel honored to have your first post.
 
i agree with the others i would be worried as hell if my boyfriend is hanging out with a guy he used to like.


My advice would to be is call him at random hours and if he trys to rush you off the phone its a time to be suspicious did you discuss with him how uncomfortable you feel about this?

Me if my boyfriend couldn't come on a trip with me i would postpone it until he can come with me.
 
Also he told me way long ago that he was going to take this trip and they go every year and he constantly asked me if it was okay..
And he annoys the shit out of me with phone calls all hours of the day and night.

I Think I'm trying to convince myself that it's all fine.

lol

And my job sucks, so i don't have but like 4 days vacation, we're going somewhere else when we get a chance.



Ahhhhhhhhhhhh. This is what I get for being such a dick myself that i cant trust anyone :(
 
I don't know what to say except I hope it's all OK and nothing dodgy is going down...

(*8*)
 
Entity said:
Also he told me way long ago that he was going to take this trip and they go every year and he constantly asked me if it was okay..
And he annoys the shit out of me with phone calls all hours of the day and night.

I Think I'm trying to convince myself that it's all fine.

lol

And my job sucks, so i don't have but like 4 days vacation, we're going somewhere else when we get a chance.



Ahhhhhhhhhhhh. This is what I get for being such a dick myself that i cant trust anyone :(
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If he's done nothing to break your trust, then I would trust him on this. That said, you need to let him know how this made you feel when he comes back. Ask him to put himself in your place if he doesn't seem to understand why this would bother you.

I think you're having a normal reaction, even if it is colored by some understandable anxiety.
 
So, you're annoyed that he always calls you and misses you, too?

There's just no winning with you. If the guy upsets you THAT much, dump him; it seems that there's way too much jealousy and disrespect in this relationship for it to last, at least.
 
Plenty of other fish in the sea if you're having doubts my dear.... And I highly doubt you'll have any problem catching 'em from what I've seen ;)
 
wow....and we wonder why gay relationships don't last long (not just to OP).

I've been in a relationship for 15 years now and I've had this exact same situation, except it was me going with my very good friend.

Let me put it down this way; If you can't trust him for 7 DAYS you certainly can't trust him for a lifetime.

And if you never give him a chance to prove himself, how in the hell will you ever trust him fully? Keep him on short leash and you'll choke him out.

If on the off chance he does fuck up then you'll have two choices; work through it and change the dynamics of your relationship (for good or bad) or end it and be done.
 
You need to chill. Relationships are built upon trust.
 
this would be so not be cool with me. imagine you guys were a str8 couple...your husband finds out his long time hot dyke friend (that he's had a crush on for yrs) is bi right before they're leaving for a cross country road trip? please no one would think that was ok. you should have a preemptive orgy while they're gone.
 
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.


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I definitely agree that when he comes back that you should tell him how it made you uncomfortable. Trust is definitely the key to any relationship. I just hope that he thinks with his mind and not his dick. Good luck! For now, do something to keep your mind off of it like cleaning or reading.

I also agree with giving him a call.
 
i would not stop my bf from taking a trip under these circumstances, I would however let him know that I am very very unhappy. in my life, if FPNY aint happy, aint no body happy. i guarantee, he would not be going anywhere with this number..no way.
 
You say they have done this trip before?

I wouldn't worry too much. You'd just stress everyone out. If he seems the same old lover when he returns -- and appreciates you gave him the chance to do what he's done before, maybe even before you -- then I think he'll think better of you.
 
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