Stonie Sex Change!

[Críostóir]

Those pictures look awfully Photoshopped to me. But maybe that's just wishful thinking.

 

[dav242]

yeah, he was beautiful and definitely had a great bubble butt. as a gay guy, he really had it made - i'm sure he had his pick of boys.

if i looked like him (pre-op), i definitely wouldn't feel the need to change myself so drastically, even if i emotionally identified more as a female. i'd capitalize on my hot boy-ness and just enjoy it.

so it makes me wonder what must've driven him to the operation - i guess his inner gender was just so overwhelming for him to handle, despite the fact that he was a hot gay guy.

of course, to each his own - and if he's happy, that's really all that counts. it's a damn waste, though - such a fucking adorable, perfect-assed gay boy.

 

[jaxon29]

I'm a big Stonie fan and wish him luck in his new body. Supposedly people have sex change ops after a life of feeling like they're trapped in the wrong gender body, and they have to go through lots of therapy. You don't just decide to change sexes. Who knew. He must have been very unhappy all these years.

 

[azcub01]

I think she looks a bit Posh Spice as well !! good for her follow your dreams girl!

 

[BlueLantern]

Surprised here....but he/she does look good.

Yes, it is surprise what a haircut and make up can do o.o

in this picture I would have sworn that he is a girl... and from hollywood

http://imageevent.com/johnw/stonie2?p=2&n=1&m=-1&c=2&l=0&w=4&s=0&z=2

I know him from the web, but never actually had a interest... not my taste. specially now >.<

 

[BlueLantern]

Also: is he already with a vagina now?

 

[Paul-1985]

I've just been doing some "further reading" and it appears the dick is staying, for the time being. And the tits, apparently are implants, so I guess he really hasn't really had a sex change "operation" in the true sense of the word.

 

[dav242]

I'm a big Stonie fan and wish him luck in his new body. Supposedly people have sex change ops after a life of feeling like they're trapped in the wrong gender body, and they have to go through lots of therapy. You don't just decide to change sexes. Who knew. He must have been very unhappy all these years.

yeah, but he hasn't actually had a sex change yet - just the new boobies. he might be on estrogen supplements though -

i remember reading somewhere that - yeah - there's alot of therapy/counseling involved with undergoing sex changes.

i've certainly felt that my life would be easier if i were a woman - i'm not a big sports fan, i like being clean, i like grooming, i like romantic comedies/chick flicks, my closer friends are women - and, oh yeah, i like cock.

i think that alot of gay guys - whether they admit it or not - have, on some level at some point in their lives, thought that their lives might have been easier had they been women.

so i don't think these thoughts are uncommon among us, but what baffles me is that stonie seemed to "have it made" as a gay guy - he had all these features that gave him tremendous currency in the gay culture: bubble butt, cute face, great body, good legs, nice cock.

and yet, even with all the praise and affection he got from gay guys "pre-op" about his body, he STILL couldn't resolve his gender identity.

personally, i still struggle with my gender identity, and i'm pretty sure if i had been born a hetero woman, i would be getting a ton more action and dates thatn i am right now.

i definitely don't get as much attention from gay guys as stonie did. so i wonder if he realized how lucky he was to have his physical features as a gay guy. if he did, he probably would've been OK with staying stonie.

as a woman, his face looks OK, but his bubble butt and muscular legs stick out like sore thumbs.

as others have said before, as long as it makes him happy, then it's fine.

i agree, but it's hard for me not to shake off the thought, "what a waste of a hot gay guy."

 

[Issyvoo]

dav242, there's a big difference between thinking you might have it easier as a woman and knowing that your body is wrong. It doesn't matter how attractive others might find you in it, it doesn't matter how much praise you get, your body is the wrong one. I can't even imagine how hard it must be--every part of it, from living day to day with that undefined sense of wrongness, to figuring out why you feel that way, to having the courage to do something about it...let alone staying in the public eye through it all.

As I said before: good for her.

 

[dav242]

dav242, there's a big difference between thinking you might have it easier as a woman and knowing that your body is wrong. It doesn't matter how attractive others might find you in it, it doesn't matter how much praise you get, your body is the wrong one. I can't even imagine how hard it must be--every part of it, from living day to day with that undefined sense of wrongness, to figuring out why you feel that way, to having the courage to do something about it...let alone staying in the public eye through it all.

As I said before: good for her.

thanks for the reply, issyvoo.

i think the two things could go hand in hand, though - as in, my life would be easier as a woman BECAUSE i know that my body is wrong. i won't go into my own issues, but suffice it to say that my body hasn't felt right because there have been a number of times in my life when i've identified more with being female. and if i could correct that, things would be a little more "right" and certainly easier.

i'm sure a number of gay men feel the same way. i can't be the only one here.

so - yes, stonie was brave for doing what she did. i've always had tremendous respect for transgendered individuals - for their courage, for being honest and for not caring what anyone else might think of them.

and you're right - a change as extreme as that really involves something being completely wrong with themselves. so i appreciate you pointing that out to me.

i was just stating the fact that - to me - he had VALUE as a GAY man. and to me, he had value in WHO HE was and HOW he was made.

i liked him just the way he was made.

but - like you said, i guess it really doesn't matter how much value you're given for who you are. if you really feel like something's wrong, then you'll change it, even if you've been given alot of praise for what you already are. and guess that shows just how much she wanted the change.

i'm not at the point yet where i think i'll be able to make that physical change - i still question my gender and have done so since puberty. and maybe one day i'll have the courage to do the same thing.

but for now, i'll continue to work on making this gay male thing work for me and on embracing my homosexual identity for what it is-

and that's simply my decision - no better and no worse than stonie's

 

[CanadianGuy]

I feel that it is a waste of a cute guy but if he is happy that is what matters. I just hope he actually is happy.

 

[MercuryRed96]

I loved his hair - as short as it was - so this is probably a wig! Looks awful! There is a checkout boy at my local Supermarket who could be Stonie's identical twin same face, hair and butt - - so I still have him to ogle over, now that "Stonie's" dead!

 

[pmpinla]

thanks for the reply, issyvoo.

i think the two things could go hand in hand, though - as in, my life would be easier as a woman BECAUSE i know that my body is wrong. i won't go into my own issues, but suffice it to say that my body hasn't felt right because there have been a number of times in my life when i've identified more with being female. and if i could correct that, things would be a little more "right" and certainly easier.
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so - yes, stonie was brave for doing what she did. i've always had tremendous respect for transgendered individuals - for their courage, for being honest and for not caring what anyone else might think of them.
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i'm not at the point yet where i think i'll be able to make that physical change - i still question my gender and have done so since puberty. and maybe one day i'll have the courage to do the same thing.

Dav242, you're right, it takes a lot of courage to do what Stonie did. However, as I'm sure you're aware, the change is, from a scientific standpoint, only superficial, much like changing the cover of a book. Every cell in Stonie's new body (apart from the silicone or whatever other material was used to make the fake breasts) still contains an X and a Y chromosome. And if Stonie decides to have his dick inverted to become a vagina, all the cells in the new vagina will contain an X and a Y chromosome. So despite the superficial change, from a biological standpoint, Stonie was, is and always will be male. He still has his Adam's apple and all the other internal physical differences that separate a man from a woman. So if you ever decide to undergo "that physical change", as you put it, you should be mindful that you will never be able to change the biological fact that you were born a male and will die a male, regardless of what you look like on the outside.

Johns Hopkins University used to carry out transgender surgery until they discovered that the psychological problems which caused a person to undergo this procedure still persisted in a majority of cases after the surgery. They came to the conclusion that they were treating the symptoms and not the cause, so now they now refuse to perform this type of surgery. Without in any way meaning to be disrespectful, I would suggest that you consider professional counselling to enable you to deal with the fact that, as you state, "my body hasn't felt right because there have been a number of times in my life when i've identified more with being female". Transgender surgery should be an action of last resort after at least a couple of years of therapy to address serious psychological problems, not something to make you feel "comfortable". I wish you luck in sorting out the situation you find yourself in. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders and I'm sure you'll eventually be able to come to a satisfactory solution to your dilemma.

 

[evil_danger]

I believe that if he was unhappy then go for it, but in myself I wouldn't care if I was a hot guy or a hot girl just enjoy being hot!

He was well known in the gay porn world, cute smile, hot body, great peice of equipment, nice bubble butt, he could have done anything he wanted and had pretty much anyone he wanted too, why change that, I would give my right testicle to look like him! why throw that away.

I guess thats me being selfish, just sad to loose a hot porno guy.

 

[Críostóir]

I loved his hair - as short as it was - so this is probably a wig! Looks awful! There is a checkout boy at my local Supermarket who could be Stonie's identical twin same face, hair and butt - - so I still have him to ogle over, now that "Stonie's" dead!

*buys plane ticket to Cleveland*

 

[LAMBADA]

I notice this story is all over the net ..... and had to smile at the headline on one site:

"BORAT LOSES A SON - BUT GAINS A DAUGHTER"

 

[dav242]

Dav242, you're right, it takes a lot of courage to do what Stonie did. However, as I'm sure you're aware, the change is, from a scientific standpoint, only superficial, much like changing the cover of a book. Every cell in Stonie's new body (apart from the silicone or whatever other material was used to make the fake breasts) still contains an X and a Y chromosome. And if Stonie decides to have his dick inverted to become a vagina, all the cells in the new vagina will contain an X and a Y chromosome. So despite the superficial change, from a biological standpoint, Stonie was, is and always will be male. He still has his Adam's apple and all the other internal physical differences that separate a man from a woman. So if you ever decide to undergo "that physical change", as you put it, you should be mindful that you will never be able to change the biological fact that you were born a male and will die a male, regardless of what you look like on the outside.

Johns Hopkins University used to carry out transgender surgery until they discovered that the psychological problems which caused a person to undergo this procedure still persisted in a majority of cases after the surgery. They came to the conclusion that they were treating the symptoms and not the cause, so now they now refuse to perform this type of surgery. Without in any way meaning to be disrespectful, I would suggest that you consider professional counselling to enable you to deal with the fact that, as you state, "my body hasn't felt right because there have been a number of times in my life when i've identified more with being female". Transgender surgery should be an action of last resort after at least a couple of years of therapy to address serious psychological problems, not something to make you feel "comfortable". I wish you luck in sorting out the situation you find yourself in. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders and I'm sure you'll eventually be able to come to a satisfactory solution to your dilemma.

thanks - this was great.
i don't mean to hijack this thread with sex change or transgender issues, but i did want to clarify something -

i've thought about my "true" gender identity since i was - well, since i knew i was gay, which has been pretty much since i was like 5. but i've always understood the cumbersome nature of switching sexes - not just emotionally and in terms of social stigmas, but also on that basic cellular and anatomical level, as you referenced.

so - this has been a lifelong struggle to embrace who i am, as i am - and i didn't mean to make it seem as though i'm on the brink of considering surgery or that i take the issue of sex change lightly.

it's not just an issue of making myself feel more comfortable - it's an issue of finding a way to live with myself and to live comfortably AS myself.

i'm still male and still fighting the "gay fight," so to speak - and the sex switch certainly will be off the radar until i just can't find my life to be bearable any longer -

which is why i still wonder about the stonie sex change and the motivation behind it.

but, just as everyone else has said - if it makes him/her happy, then no one should judge her decision.

 

[iambrian]

He's so much better as a guy.

 

[sentirpromesas]

Dav242, you're right, it takes a lot of courage to do what Stonie did. However, as I'm sure you're aware, the change is, from a scientific standpoint, only superficial, much like changing the cover of a book. Every cell in Stonie's new body (apart from the silicone or whatever other material was used to make the fake breasts) still contains an X and a Y chromosome. And if Stonie decides to have his dick inverted to become a vagina, all the cells in the new vagina will contain an X and a Y chromosome. So despite the superficial change, from a biological standpoint, Stonie was, is and always will be male. He still has his Adam's apple and all the other internal physical differences that separate a man from a woman. So if you ever decide to undergo "that physical change", as you put it, you should be mindful that you will never be able to change the biological fact that you were born a male and will die a male, regardless of what you look like on the outside.

Johns Hopkins University used to carry out transgender surgery until they discovered that the psychological problems which caused a person to undergo this procedure still persisted in a majority of cases after the surgery. They came to the conclusion that they were treating the symptoms and not the cause, so now they now refuse to perform this type of surgery. Without in any way meaning to be disrespectful, I would suggest that you consider professional counselling to enable you to deal with the fact that, as you state, "my body hasn't felt right because there have been a number of times in my life when i've identified more with being female". Transgender surgery should be an action of last resort after at least a couple of years of therapy to address serious psychological problems, not something to make you feel "comfortable". I wish you luck in sorting out the situation you find yourself in. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders and I'm sure you'll eventually be able to come to a satisfactory solution to your dilemma.

i just want to point out that sometimes women are born with xy chromosomes. This occurs in cases of people with AIS who biologically were men (XY chromosomes), born with both genitalia, and raised and grew up as women. Its unfair to state that biology is all that drives our identities. As Gay men, we know we "always knew" but without a societal understanding of what we were inside, we could never really be "Gay." While SOME people do continue to have issues after their sexual reassignment, most of these issues stem not from how they feel about their bodies, but how they are treated by society. So instead of commenting how he had it all as a gay man, we should just accept her as she now is. Sometimes we just place a different value on things. I would much rather be happy with myself on the inside than have his ass.

 

[Red Camaro87]

Damn it Stonie - say it a'int so .....!!