str8 best friend blowjob???

[GospelofBrendan]

k so for the past few years i have been giving my str8 best friend blowjobs... he says he is completely str8 but he loves sex... now i know you all will say that he is gay or at least bi, but he always had to watch str8 porn to get it up... what does that tell me... anyway some input would be nice

 

[Ramindra]

Have you tried him on gay porn?

 

[HartfordGuy]

Yeah. Without telling him, slip in a "Bi" porn at least. Guy-Guy-Girl. Maybe when he sees the two guys having fun with eachother as well as the girl, he'll feel more comfortable with it. Then maybe you can get him to f*ck you.

 

[natedogg323]

He might really be straight but isn't tied down with a label. Some guys are cool with getting head from a guy just cause it feels good and they want to get off. Don't read too much into it. Especially if he's never ever touched you back. You could throw in a bi porn (mmf) just to see if he is turned on by it or not. If you pressure him too much or try to hard to get him to do stuff with you, you could lose what you got going on. If he's more than curious he'll let you know in time. However seeing how its been a couple of years, it seems like he might just be using you when ever he needs to get his rocks off.

 

[mredorange]

I agree with natedogg. He may just be comfortable with himself and with you. If you rock that boat, you will possibly loose whatever it is you have. However, if you are uncomfortable with your current situation it is up to you to speak up and let him know your stance.

 

[Orlandude]

I too agree with natedogg. I had a very similar experience that went on for almost 3 years!! It was never a relationship or anything like that. From time to time, usually about once a month or so, I would get together with a straight friend and he was CLEARLY straight. I never saw any evidence to the contrary and he never went to the gay bars. Yes, it was very one-sided, mostly about him getting his rocks off. He said his girlfriend at the time, would not do oral on him and when she did try, it was not very good. Whether or not that was the truth, I didn't care. The whole arrangement was fine with me, we had fun and eventually it ended because I moved away because of a job change. He used to bring straight porno with him to watch. I had a couple of Bi videos that he would watch but it never went beyond oral sex.

I think situations like this are fine as long as it doesn't bother you. In my case, I had no emotional attachment with him and didn't want one. It was all about sex and doing what we both enjoyed and it stayed very discrete. Last I heard, he was happily married (to a woman).

 

[GospelofBrendan]

thanks for the responses guys! i really appreciate it. I definitely dont think he is using me, but sometimes i do feel like an attachment. im just afraid to tell him that. when we talked about before though that sometimes when his girl is givin him head, he wishes is was me, i really dont know how to take that though. Also, we've done anal, he told me he loves sex and he doesnt get it from his girlfriend enough (she wont do that). i think its an infatuation tho, cause he has a great body and an even better dick. so i agree, i dont wanna weird him out and ruin a good thing... thanks again guys <3

 

[Josh06]

Well u got it going on with this guy, man if only I had one straight dude to do that with I would jump on it. So he likes anal but no gay porn? He is just interested in it (anal) with you? Well I envy your relationship to him.

I would be really confused if my straight friend said if he was gettin sucked by his gf wishing it was u... if that wasn't somewhat of a "I want you as a bf remark". IMO I would be asking him but thats me.

-Josh

 

[GospelofBrendan]

i know its weird, that he wants to fuck me, but he wont make out with me. i guess kissings a little more personal. i know he doesnt want me as his bf, but i think he thinks hes kinda stuck cause the fiancee and they just had a baby in feb. so i dont know its all too much to handle sometimes. thanks for the input tho

 

[BIMICHAEL4FUN]

I'd try to keep enjoying what you've got going on, but I'd also be trying to see if I could get him to go a little further each time you were together...IE, if he's never given you a blow job or hand job, I'd be trying to position myself close to a 69 position when sucking him. Seems to me if this guy likes sex (and you) enough to be going as far as he has with you, he may be willing to go a little farther to make sure that you are able to blow your load when you're together too. If nothing else, sit naked on the sofa with him while you're watchin the porn that he brings over and reach over to rub his chest and dick...maybe you'll get lucky and he'll return the favor...

Regardless of what happens, continue to enjoy yourself with him, and don't push things too hard or too fast...I don't think you want to lose him...

 

[GospelofBrendan]

just thought id bump the topic

 

[SuperPsyze]

I had a friend like that for a few months. We hit it off, and I started giving him handjobs and blowjobs. He wouldn't kiss me, though. It weirded him out.

Then I told him that I just got back from a date with some other guy (went to see Reno 911, yikes..). My friend got a bit jealous, rushed to my house, and gave me the biggest hug ever. Now he's my bf and we kiss regularly....

 

[natedogg323]

, but i think he thinks hes kinda stuck cause the fiancee and they just had a baby in feb.

OK Gospel....

I'm going to take back my prior suggestion. I have zero tollorence for cheaters. I know your not cheating but look at what you just typed. This guy has a fiancee and just brought a precious child into this world. And this FUCKING RETARD is going to cheat on his fiancee with a dude??? Stop what your doing with him before you break up a family before it even has started. Can't you find a dude that isn't about to get married and has a child??

 

[starlight70]

If he has not sucked your cock, more likely he was a straight guy who wanted sex bad enough to get it from a guy. And if you are enjoying it, then.. well, I am happy for you. : )

 

[KennyD]

I recently spoke to a young man who is exploring his sexual orientation . He enjoys receiving Hand Jobs and Blow Jobs from guys ... as well as his screwing them up the backside ... BUT ...he will not give them anything etc ... and he says that he believes himself to be str-8.
I told him that at the very least he is Bi-Sexual and in denial .... since he does not believe in my theory that we are all just sexual beings acting out are own indvidual sexual identies .... with NO LABELS NEEDED.

 

[Candyapple]

OK Gospel....

I'm going to take back my prior suggestion. I have zero tollorence for cheaters. I know your not cheating but look at what you just typed. This guy has a fiancee and just brought a precious child into this world. And this FUCKING RETARD is going to cheat on his fiancee with a dude??? Stop what your doing with him before you break up a family before it even has started. Can't you find a dude that isn't about to get married and has a child??

To the OP: you need to think VERY carefully about what you're doing. This isn't just a bit of harmless fun, the way you portrayed it in your first post. You don't seem to give a damn that this man has a young baby, except that it means he's 'stuck' with his gf and can't have a relationship with you. Sorry, but this attitude is despicable.

Think, really THINK, about what you're doing. Is this really the kind of man you want to be? A man who doesn't give a flying fuck about who he might hurt? A man who might play a role in breaking up a young family?

This 'str8' (ha!!!) guy has responsibilities, he's a father, he's made a commitment to another human being. He's not just a support system for a dick you want to suck.

And when he says he 'doesn't get sex from his girlfriend enough' do you think it might be because she, you know, GAVE BIRTH TO HIS CHILD recently?????

 

[Hearts]

Brendan, you are one LUCKY guy!

 

[Candyapple]

Brendan, you are one LUCKY guy!

Isn't he just??? Don't we all dream of being used by a lying, cheating cowardly fucktard?

 

[PaulRenegar]

i used to suck off the starting QB of my HS football team. I was his callboy lol. For about 6 months to a year he only wanted BJs, and then later he asked me if he could cum in my ass because he wondered what anal felt like, since he wasn't getting any of the girls to bend over that way. He didn't say any words to describe whether or not he liked it, but by his groaning I could tell he very much did.

I'm not sure if he is straight and just horny, or possibly bi?

 

[unclaimedblessing]

If you and he both enjoy your relationship "as is", go with the flow.
Self preservation must be considered also. He will probably not go any further than he does right now. So don't pass up the opportunity to meet Mr. Right (and a completely fulfilling relationship) for him.
You don't owe him loyalty, he certainly doesn't consider it when it comes to his child or gf.
I had a friend who devoted twenty years of his life to a similar arrangment. He spent birthdays, Christmases and all other occasions alone because the other guy had family obligations. The other guy eventually broke it off, with no explanation.
So again, enjoy it for what it is but don't plan a dedicated future on it.