Str8 Curios Gay Guy--Finally Tried Pussy

[Hot4Latinos]

lol...i am....i just meant i'm really skinny. I have a hyperthyroid which means I never gain weight.

 

[MissAnne]

lol...i am....i just meant i'm really skinny. I have a hyperthyroid which means I never gain weight.

I dont think that your size should be a problem. As long as you know what to do with your "equipment" you should be fine.

Side Note: Your real friends will respect you no matter what.

 

[cyberdolphnow]

Tain't a problem being bi.

Had one gay guy acquaintance (not sex partner) criticize me for "being on the fence" about my sexuality. Just choose or come out, and "get off the fence" type of stuff from him.

I told him "If I'm sitting on the fence then I like the fence post oh, so goooood and my gate swings both ways!" Needless to say that ended his prattle about that subject.

 

[MisterMajestic]

@ Hot4Latinos...I'm not surprised you enjoyed your first experience Eating pussy.....Although I think you should have gotten your First experience a different way VS that Dick you met up with...One thing you'll notice is Big Girls tend to give up their Pussy quicker than an average-size or Skinny Chick...Big Girls won't admit it but they have serious low-self esteem issues...2 of my Thick Female friends contsntly think about Dick & Food...

Whenever I Eat out a Chick the one thing that always turns me is the moaning and body movement...That's when you know you're doing it right and PRACTICE makes perfect.....Of course I'm a Life-Long Ass man when it comes to both Men & Women, so I Love how a Chick would never expect me to go from Sucking on her Pussy Lips and Eating her out to working my Tongue down to her ButtHole and Crack......I've never been with a Man or Woman that didnt want Tongue in their Crack & Hole....It's always a welcome surprise...Drives them WILD....

Everybody is not into Ass-Play and for the most part Chicks don't think you're gonna ask them to Eat your Ass nor do they think you're gonna Eat there's...When I was in my 20's I was afraid to ask a Chick to Eat my Ass so I let it go and got-off Licking hers...Now that I'm in my 30's I KNOW what satisfies me in the bedroom, but if I can't find a Chick that's into Eating Ass then I'll deff stick with a Dude that will Suck on my ButtHole every time we Fuck-around...

You mentioned early on in this thread about how hard it is to find a Chick to be be with...For me it's easier to find a Chick to date because there's soooooo many Single women out there...It's just a lot harder to find a Black woman that wants a Bisexual Boyfriend....Women want Men that will not CHEAT and they'll never believe a Bi-guy can be faithful...

I've never dated a Woman & a Man at the same time nor have I had sex with a Man and a Woman in the same week...Bi-Guys get a bad rap for being chronic cheaters and Pigs but a lot of us have a NORMAL dating Process like any Hetero or Gay person....

If the only thing I got going for me is a Sexual Relationship with another Bi or Gay Guy then I will enjoy it until it ends...Make no mistake about it I like stability Relationship wise & Career wise...If the Right woman comes along I will be committed 100%...I learned a long time ago that Women know what they want out of a relationship where as the average Bi or Gay Man will hold out on being in a committed relationship because they're looking for a particular type of Guy...Then when that Bi or Gay guy turns 50 he'll settle for ANYBODY because he realizes that Dream-Guy ain't coming....Every guy doesnt have a 13-inch Dick...You might have to settle for 6-inches...

Women don't operate like that...They'll over look the beer-belly and balding hair and even a Guys looks if the guy has other pluses...If a Guy is Nice, has a stable career, Loves his Mother then he's pretty much in the house...

 

[Kyanimal]

MissAnne

Just want to let you know how much your thoughts, and observations, are Greatly Appreciated!

Your participation has definitely expanded the scope of this discussion. When it's "Just Us Boys", threads can tend to be a 'bit' shallow/narrow, and even devolve into simple 'sword fights'.

I'm absolutely Thrilled to see You aboard! Looking forward to hearing much more from You!

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[Kyanimal]

gaydude

I wouldn't go as far as accusing H4L to have been 'faking it' all those years.

LIFE is not a Yes/No proposition. There is NOTHING set in stone! Hopefully, we all evolve as we continue to explore and discover. And, Real Friends will go along with you on that journey, no matter where it might lead.

All the more reason to ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[eggsel]

True, but real friendship doesn't mean you have to blindly embrace someone who's been deceiving you. Real friendship is based on honesty and genuineness, not bullshit and facades. Fact is he's a bisexual man who decided early to call himself gay since pussy was hard for him to obtain. Plus, he's gone out of his way to create this fake "super gay" identity with his friends that isn't a reflection of who he really is. If I were his friend, I probably wouldn't dump him, but I would be very annoyed that he's deceived me and have a difficult time trusting him. How would I know when he's being real and when he's being fake?

It's the equivalent of the "super straight" guy who works for Focus on the Family yet is secretly sucking dick on the side, just in reverse. Hard to respect someone like that.

Totally true!

 

[MissAnne]

True, but real friendship doesn't mean you have to blindly embrace someone who's been deceiving you. Real friendship is based on honesty and genuineness, not bullshit and facades. Fact is he's a bisexual man who decided early to call himself gay since pussy was hard for him to obtain. Plus, he's gone out of his way to create this fake "super gay" identity with his friends that isn't a reflection of who he really is. If I were his friend, I probably wouldn't dump him, but I would be very annoyed that he's deceived me and have a difficult time trusting him. How would I know when he's being real and when he's being fake?

It's the equivalent of the "super straight" guy who works for Focus on the Family yet is secretly sucking dick on the side, just in reverse. Hard to respect someone like that.

I would never get angry over a friend's change in sexuality. That's like getting angry if a friend comes out as gay. If his "friends" get angry over his business its a personal issue. Unless they are romantically involved with H4L it shouldn't matter. Some people feel like they would be loosing a member of their community or jealous of the fact that he can still be "mainstreamed" and they can't. Or they simply may not like bi-sexuals. He doesnt have a body buried in his basement, he just wants to play with girls.

 

[MissAnne]

MissAnne

Just want to let you know how much your thoughts, and observations, are Greatly Appreciated!

Your participation has definitely expanded the scope of this discussion. When it's "Just Us Boys", threads can tend to be a 'bit' shallow/narrow, and even devolve into simple 'sword fights'.

I'm absolutely Thrilled to see You aboard! Looking forward to hearing much more from You!

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

Thank you for saying that. I see your messages all over the forum and they always bring a smile to my face.

 

[MissAnne]

@ Hot4Latinos...I'm not surprised you enjoyed your first experience Eating pussy.....Although I think you should have gotten your First experience a different way VS that Dick you met up with...One thing you'll notice is Big Girls tend to give up their Pussy quicker than an average-size or Skinny Chick...Big Girls won't admit it but they have serious low-self esteem issues...2 of my Thick Female friends contsntly think about Dick & Food...

Whenever I Eat out a Chick the one thing that always turns me is the moaning and body movement...That's when you know you're doing it right and PRACTICE makes perfect.....Of course I'm a Life-Long Ass man when it comes to both Men & Women, so I Love how a Chick would never expect me to go from Sucking on her Pussy Lips and Eating her out to working my Tongue down to her ButtHole and Crack......I've never been with a Man or Woman that didnt want Tongue in their Crack & Hole....It's always a welcome surprise...Drives them WILD....

Everybody is not into Ass-Play and for the most part Chicks don't think you're gonna ask them to Eat your Ass nor do they think you're gonna Eat there's...When I was in my 20's I was afraid to ask a Chick to Eat my Ass so I let it go and got-off Licking hers...Now that I'm in my 30's I KNOW what satisfies me in the bedroom, but if I can't find a Chick that's into Eating Ass then I'll deff stick with a Dude that will Suck on my ButtHole every time we Fuck-around...

You mentioned early on in this thread about how hard it is to find a Chick to be be with...For me it's easier to find a Chick to date because there's soooooo many Single women out there...It's just a lot harder to find a Black woman that wants a Bisexual Boyfriend....Women want Men that will not CHEAT and they'll never believe a Bi-guy can be faithful...

I've never dated a Woman & a Man at the same time nor have I had sex with a Man and a Woman in the same week...Bi-Guys get a bad rap for being chronic cheaters and Pigs but a lot of us have a NORMAL dating Process like any Hetero or Gay person....

If the only thing I got going for me is a Sexual Relationship with another Bi or Gay Guy then I will enjoy it until it ends...Make no mistake about it I like stability Relationship wise & Career wise...If the Right woman comes along I will be committed 100%...I learned a long time ago that Women know what they want out of a relationship where as the average Bi or Gay Man will hold out on being in a committed relationship because they're looking for a particular type of Guy...Then when that Bi or Gay guy turns 50 he'll settle for ANYBODY because he realizes that Dream-Guy ain't coming....Every guy doesnt have a 13-inch Dick...You might have to settle for 6-inches...

Women don't operate like that...They'll over look the beer-belly and balding hair and even a Guys looks if the guy has other pluses...If a Guy is Nice, has a stable career, Loves his Mother then he's pretty much in the house...

You hit the nail right on the head !

 

[MissAnne]

That's not what I mean at all. You're missing the fact that he has told us he has gone out of his way to create a "militantly gay" image of himself to his friends that deep down inside he knows is not an accurate portrayal of who he really is. I'm not talking about somebody who has struggled with his sexuality. From the moment he joined this site, he's been the "gay guy who loves pussy." He hasn't "changed" his sexuality; he's just finally started being more honest about it.

Perhaps its because Im not a gay man, but I still dont see why this is producing such angry/hurt feelings on this thread. If I were a long time friend of H4L, I think that I would be more hurt if he didn't tell me because he thought that I would be angry with him. Im not even sure what "militantly gay" would look like. All that really matters is that he is militantly queer. Lets agree to disagree.

 

[Kyanimal]

That's not what I mean at all. You're missing the fact that he has told us he has gone out of his way to create a "militantly gay" image of himself to his friends that deep down inside he knows is not an accurate portrayal of who he really is. I'm not talking about somebody who has struggled with his sexuality. From the moment he joined this site, he's been the "gay guy who loves pussy." He hasn't "changed" his sexuality; he's just finally started being more honest about it.

H4L has said, admitted to, what you are siting. However, he is stating all that from his Current position of looking BACK on it all.

All of our lives go through stages/phases, and when we are in them, at the time, we may not be fully aware of what we're doing until we reach a point of being able to see it in a different perspective. I wouldn't say he was being deceitful, nor dishonest, THEN. He simply didn't realize until NOW. And, yes, that has lead him to being more honest about it.

By the way, my teens and twenties were the '60s and '70s. So, yeah!, I was a "flower child"!

 

[Hot4Latinos]

"If you are male and choose other than female you must take the responsibility of owning the key to freedom."
-Patti Smith, "Horses."

 

[Hot4Latinos]

"In Or Out"


guess there's something wrong with me
guess I don't fit in
no one wants to touch it
no one knows where to begin
I've got more than one membership
to more than one club
and I owe my life
to the people that I love

he looks me up and down
like he knows what time it is
like he's got my number
like he thinks it's his
he says,
call me, Miss DiFranco,
if there's anything I can do
I say,
It's Mr. DiFranco to you

somedays the line I walk
turns out to be straight
other days the line tends to
deviate
I've got no criteria for sex or race
I just want to hear your voice
I just want to see your face

She looks me up and down
like she thinks that I'll mature
like she's got my number
like it belongs to her
she says,
call me, Ms. DiFranco
if there's anything I can do
I say, I've got spots
I've got
stripes, too

their eyes are all asking
are you in, or are you out
and I think, oh man,
what is this about?
tonight you can't put me
up on any shelf
'cause I came here alone
I'm gonna leave by myself

I just want to show you
the way that I feel
and when I get tired
you can take the wheel
to me what's more important
is the person that I bring
not just getting to the same restaraunt
and eating the same thing

guess there's something wrong with me
guess I don't fit in
no one wants to touch it
no one knows where to begin
I've more than one membership
to more than one club
and I owe my life to the people that I love

 

[Hot4Latinos]

And I'm so over the "bisexuals can't be trusted. Bisexuals will cheat."

I'll say it again: I was in a 15 year same-sex realtionship in which I was COMPLETELY MONOGAMOUS THE ENTIRE TIME.
HE WANTED TO PLAY WITH OTHERS
NOT ME
GET OVER YOURSELVES

 

[Hot4Latinos]

Human beings of all orientations cheat.

AGAIN: I NEVER CHEATED.

The only thing anyone should assume about a bisexual person is that he or she is sexually attracted to both genders, period.

Thank you.

 

[Hot4Latinos]

^^Thank you.

 

[colo92]

Hot4Latinos-- I'm just a skinny twink boy ...
i just meant i'm really skinny

Oh darn, the fantasy is gone. Sorry H4L, that's my shallow side's initial reaction to your revelations.
I fantasized you as a husky/burly man with an amazing dick.
The amazing dick is still true though, yay!


It is interesting how skinny or twinky tends to be a common feature of many bisexual males. Hmmm.

 

[colo92]

MissAnne-- Side Note: Your real friends will respect you no matter what.

This statement is highly insulting and sadly misinformed.

You come from a perspective of heterosexual privilege. Expressing your interests in same-sex sexuality here on JUB doesn't negate this reality. H4L himself made it clear that he has ingratiated himself deeply into gay community and/or politics (i.e. militantly gay). If gay men and lesbians shared equally in all of society's laws, legal incidents, and privileges this entire thread wouldn't ever have been necessary. There are so many complexities involved in gay male bonding, kinship, friendship, romance, etcetera and it's not always consistent or present. Nevertheless, even H4L's "real" friends may have trouble accepting something that they don't have access to (i.e. heterosexual privilege) and/or that they don't even relate to--I mean after all this is a man who has proudly identified himself as gay and now proclaims to want women too. And I can assure you, some of these "real" friends who may have shared some special or intimate moments with H4L over the years that bonded them together with H4L as gay men will only hear the word "women" and not the word "too". Their reactions will be imminently reasonable. It will be up to H4L to accommodate them and their reactions, not the other way around. Just as when a gay man comes out to his parents, he may have to give them time to come to terms with it, and he may have to accept that his parents may never do so. That doesn't mean they were never his parents. And it also doesn't mean that if H4L's "real" friends never come to terms with his fully realized bisexuality they were never his real friends. It means both their realities have changed. And one can only hope that one day, when we no longer have discriminatory barriers, that we will no longer need to coexist in different realities.

 

[Hot4Latinos]

yep and its always the skinny who have the big dicks