Straight College Men...

[lahollywoodgirl]

Matt was married to a woman and they adopted a son? Or was his ex a man?

His ex was a wealthy older man that paid his way through USC. They had two adopted kids. The ex would take Matt to stuff like his HS reunion and Matt would write about feeling uncomfortable on his blog. They also advertised for a third in their relationship and had guys over for dinner 'interviews'. He used to have a whole site up that chronicled the entire relationship.

 

[CGHJ]

LOL I'm almost tempted to ask what the site was so I can look it up on the Way Back Archive but then I realized, I don't even care. I almost got a job there once, but when I went in for the interview I lost interest and just walked away.

I did get to see where the secret camera in the changing room was though, though, that was pretty cool.

 

[Ancientone]

I am just curious. Why doesn't Matt ever show his face in any of the videos? Well he did in one when he was giving Boston a HJ but it was blurred.

 

[seaninbama]

I've joined different paysites here and there for one month to see if there's anything interesting, always making sure to cancel my recurring billing almos immediately after joining (the recurring billing is almost always cheaper than one month full membership).

Here are my thoughts on Straight College Men (SCM):

- No matter how hot the guys may be, it's *never* hot if they can't get their dicks hard. It is painfully obvious in every scene of SCM these guys are not at all into anyhing having to do with gay sex. While it's hot to watch two straight guys getting it on, it's like throwing ice water on the whole scene to watch them doing everything with completely limp dicks. The only time they can get it up is after the camera cuts (probably for some major 'fluffing' to ensue), and they're eventually able to cum with a semi limp dick at best. NOT HOT!

- It would probaby be easier for these guys to get into it, if less time was spent on idiotic, ridiculous, annoying antics for nearly half the scene! I mean who really wants to watch two guys eating bananas out of some kiddie pool, or finger paint with their limp dicks for 20 minutes, or pop some balloons with a arrow taped to their dick? 1. It's stupid and boring to watch. 2. It has to get the guys out of the mood for anything sexual. 3. It simply wastes way too much bandwidth and computer time/resources to download the non-sexual, boring content that no one wants to see.

- Provide screen captures for the members to look at, and full still galleries so the members can decide if it's even a scene they want to download! All they offer are these annoying snippets of the scene in a streaming format, and they force you to download the entire scene in order to determine if it's even something you want to watch. The only choice they offer, is which format to download the scene as.

- Cut all the non-sexual stuff, and get right to the sex. I'm sorry but the extravagent trips to Hawaii and everywhere else, and the contests for who will win the toy and all that shit is simply boring and un-necessary. SCM is not some hit reality series, and even though it seems to be trying really hard to be some sort of reality show, it is pathetic to watch them try so hard to be cutting edge reality viewing when really all people want t see is hot sex between straight guys!

- If their dudes can't get rock hard and into the sex, replace them with guys who can. The hottest dudes are not hot to watch engaging in sexual content if they're limp and not at all into what they're doing.

- "Matt" needs to spend a LOT less time talking in the scenes, and a lot more time simply filming without talking, and figuring out ways to get the guys turned on and enjoying the sex.

- I completely agree with everyone who says it really bites on Amateur Straight Guys (ASG) when the site owners keep insisting on getting into the scenes. I do NOT want to see them or hear them in the scenes!!!! I find it especially irritating and annoying when the chubby gray haired guy with the gut always wants to turn his baseball cap backwards when he decides to start sucking one of the guy's cock (without being invited I might add...they're never invited). There's just something not right about that.

Sean

 

[orthoman62]

excellent points sean! i agree with everything you said, especially about cutting out all the unnecessary chatter and lame "tasks". i was a member for a month and found all the older downloads were a really poor quality. i have several of the dvds and they are all very crisp and clear but the downloads are very hard to see. and it really is a turn off when matt starts to berate these guys. i stopped ordering the dvds (and i never ordered from his site, too expensive!) when he switched to the las vegas studio. i am a much bigger fan of sites like Chaos Men, asg and Active Duty.

 

[seaninbama]

Yeah, I actually found the older scenes hotter on SCM. The guys actually got rock hard a lot of the time, I remember one scene in particular (I don't remember which one it was) where they were making out naked for like 5 minutes straight, and they were fully erect without touching their dicks and really seemed to be getting kissing each other naked, and the only thing that sucked was as you pointed out the video quality was horrendous in he older scenes. Really grainy and fuzzy, and the lighting was bad, everything had a real flourescent pinkish/orange hue to it. I wish they'd remaster some of the old scenes -- back when they used to be hot and the guys would have a boner right out of the gate without even touching their dick -- and re-think their way of producing their scenes.

I have a suggestion to anyone who is currently a member. Take the time to write to the site management by clicking the "contact" button at the bottom of the page.

I have written to SCM with suggestions for improvement, and explained my intent was not to complain as much as it was to provide feedback for improvement! Since I was a paying member who cancelled because of all the boring limp dicks and incredibly time consuming (and boring) non sexual content, I suggested that most people join to watch hot sex between guys...NOT to watch them dress up in a cowboy uniform and play cops and robbers for half an hour or jump in a balloon tent for half the scene. I also highly recommended that they remove all distractions that make the scene 'not hot', both for the viewers and the scene participants. I mean really, even if you were put in a situation where you had to finger paint with your dick for 45 minutes, wouldn't that get you completely out of the mood for any kind of sex that you would have to participate in next? And for crying out loud, I'd say that at least more than the members of the bi-sexual or even bi-curious male population has the ability to get turned on by gay sex once in awhile, why is it that SCM seems to have located 100% of that percentile who could never be turned on by doing 'not so straight things'? So either SCM has found the completely wrong guys to participate in their scenes, or they are doing things to make the guys completely turned off by participating in 'not so straight things'.

 

[innocentbychoice]

- It would probaby be easier for these guys to get into it, if less time was spent on idiotic, ridiculous, annoying antics for nearly half the scene! I mean who really wants to watch two guys eating bananas out of some kiddie pool, or finger paint with their limp dicks for 20 minutes, or pop some balloons with a arrow taped to their dick? 1. It's stupid and boring to watch. 2. It has to get the guys out of the mood for anything sexual. 3. It simply wastes way too much bandwidth and computer time/resources to download the non-sexual, boring content that no one wants to see.

- Cut all the non-sexual stuff, and get right to the sex. I'm sorry but the extravagent trips to Hawaii and everywhere else, and the contests for who will win the toy and all that shit is simply boring and un-necessary. SCM is not some hit reality series, and even though it seems to be trying really hard to be some sort of reality show, it is pathetic to watch them try so hard to be cutting edge reality viewing when really all people want t see is hot sex between straight guys!

I can't agree with this 2. If you take that away, SCM would be just like any other regular porno movie out there. Even though the games are silly and might drive us crazy waiting, it is very exciting to see how things go from A to sex.

I think it would be fine if he had semi erotic games to warm the guys up before doing the big stuff. I would hate it if they cut right to sex like you want them to, in that case I would just watch any free vid on xtube.

 

[lahollywoodgirl]

The childish tasks that the guys are given are done because they turn on Matt the owner who into little children. Kiddie pools, finger painting, playing cops and robbers in an adult situation are clear indicators that there is some sort of sexul enjoyment of children. The guys hated doing them.

 

[Críostóir]

The childish tasks that the guys are given are done because they turn on Matt the owner who into little children. Kiddie pools, finger painting, playing cops and robbers in an adult situation are clear indicators that there is some sort of sexul enjoyment of children. The guys hated doing them.

Do you actually have any evidence for these assertions, or are you just speculating? I perceived the tasks (some of which were just stupid--nothing particularly childish about popping balloons with a pin attached to your penis) as being designed to humiliate the guys, not render them children.

And naturally they hated doing them, but not as much (in most cases) as they hated sucking each other's dicks. That's kind of the point: they'll do anything for money, and the humiliating/disgusting tasks are there to show that they'll do them willingly for the right monetary incentive, but the sex stuff only reluctantly, even for more money.

 

[seaninbama]

Do you actually have any evidence for these assertions, or are you just speculating? I perceived the tasks (some of which were just stupid--nothing particularly childish about popping balloons with a pin attached to your penis) as being designed to humiliate the guys, not render them children.

And naturally they hated doing them, but not as much (in most cases) as they hated sucking each other's dicks. That's kind of the point: they'll do anything for money, and the humiliating/disgusting tasks are there to show that they'll do them willingly for the right monetary incentive, but the sex stuff only reluctantly, even for more money.

Who cares what the motivation is, it's boring and the opposite of hot. I'd rather watch straight dudes having sex for money when they actually enjoy it (even though they try to act like they don't) but their rock hard cocks suggest that they're still somewhat into the sex even though they're only getting their rocks off. 30 minutes of watching boring and ridiculous antics -- made even more annoying by Matt's shrill non-stop talking -- followed by totally limp dicked attempts at sex where they're just one heav away from throwing up off camera = NOT HOT.

I wish some of the better paysites which actually concentrate on hot sex and who update their sites more than once a month would snatch some of the hotter dudes up and sign them on...with the understanding that if they can't get their dicks hard, no deal.

 

[innocentbychoice]

The childish tasks that the guys are given are done because they turn on Matt the owner who into little children. Kiddie pools, finger painting, playing cops and robbers in an adult situation are clear indicators that there is some sort of sexul enjoyment of children. The guys hated doing them.

OK Sigmund Freud .

We get that you hate the guy, but this speculation is out of line.

 

[Críostóir]

Who cares what the motivation is, it's boring and the opposite of hot. I'd rather watch straight dudes having sex for money when they actually enjoy it (even though they try to act like they don't) but their rock hard cocks suggest that they're still somewhat into the sex even though they're only getting their rocks off. 30 minutes of watching boring and ridiculous antics -- made even more annoying by Matt's shrill non-stop talking -- followed by totally limp dicked attempts at sex where they're just one heav away from throwing up off camera = NOT HOT.

I wish some of the better paysites which actually concentrate on hot sex and who update their sites more than once a month would snatch some of the hotter dudes up and sign them on...with the understanding that if they can't get their dicks hard, no deal.

I don't entirely disagree, but much as you may dislike Matt, the assertion that he's a closet pedophile because he makes the straight guys do "childish" things is unfounded and unfair. There's plenty wrong with the site that IS true without making shit up.

 

[seaninbama]

I don't entirely disagree, but much as you may dislike Matt, the assertion that he's a closet pedophile because he makes the straight guys do "childish" things is unfounded and unfair. There's plenty wrong with the site that IS true without making shit up.

I'm not the one who said anything about the site owner being a pedophile, someone else did. I don't know the site owner personally, so I don't dislike him. True I'd rather he didn't talk in any of the scenes (at least we don't have to see him), and I wish he'd revamp his site and get rid of all the non-sexual B.S. before the attempts at non-sexual "sex" finally begin, but I don't feel one way or the other about him other than he's annoying to listen to.

I guess what bothers me as a former member of the site is that it could be really hot! A lot of the guys seem pretty cool, not to mention some of them are hot, it's just that the production and direction of the scenes makes them so boring to watch is all when they could be really hot! I mean we're supposed to be watching scenes featuring guys partaking in sexual acts but instead, we're watching something that could be on youtube (minus the limp dicked nudity), but even the sex itself seems weirdly non-sexual because the guys are so obviously not at all into it whatsoever. It would be hot if the guys were all about establishing that they're not gay or even bi curious, but still had rock hard cocks once in awhile.

Scene after scene feature one completely limp dick after another, you have to go back to the earliest scenes to see any guys who were rock hard at least part of the time, and other than the very poor and grainy quality of those videos, they're the hottest.

 

[Críostóir]

I'm not the one who said anything about the site owner being a pedophile, someone else did.

Right, and you were going off on me for scoffing at those accusations! Do you remember two posts back in the conversation?

Your criticisms are all legit. But when someone said something that wasn't, and I called them on it ("oh, come now, THAT'S going a little far"), you quoted me and went off.

I don't mind so much that you're not paying attention to what I said, but I really think it's not so much to ask that you remember what you said yourself.

 

[seaninbama]

Right, and you were going off on me for scoffing at those accusations! Do you remember two posts back in the conversation?

Your criticisms are all legit. But when someone said something that wasn't, and I called them on it ("oh, come now, THAT'S going a little far"), you quoted me and went off.

I don't mind so much that you're not paying attention to what I said, but I really think it's not so much to ask that you remember what you said yourself.

My apologies, I didn't intend to scoff at you. Sorry about that, guess I just got a bit wordy.

Sean

 

[Críostóir]

OK, no problem then!

 

[boxerdudeuk]

The childish tasks that the guys are given are done because they turn on Matt the owner who into little children. Kiddie pools, finger painting, playing cops and robbers in an adult situation are clear indicators that there is some sort of sexul enjoyment of children. The guys hated doing them.

the only clear indicator here is that you're retarded.

 

[koender]

the updates don't come very regurlary... it's to bad, because i still am a big fan!

 

[battle]

Anyone seen the 2scm video series from Hawaii? I was wondering if it was worth getting cuz they make it seem like Dean gets fucked again and I love watchin his ass get played with cuz its one of the hottest ive seen.

I just saw some out-takes. Hot yeah, worth it-hell yeah.

 

[SCMMatt]

This is Matt, the guy behind the camera here.

A lot of untruths have been told.

lahollywoodgirl thinks I did her wrong, but what she doesn't know is that I never even told Paul and Dianne (SCM employees) to tell her that she had to let the guys do their work at the booth. They told her that all on their own, so I was surprised when I heard her yelling at Paul at the AVN show and when I tried to intervene, she told me that I was going down while violently shaking and giving me the finger with both hands. I hadn't a clue that Paul and Dianne had even told her anything, so I was stumped as to the sheer hatred she was spewing at me. She then went on this mission to bring me down by writing all kinds of twisted, untrue crap about me. My ex didn't give me money to start SCM. The guys weren't treated like she said. And the crap about inappropriate conduct with kids. I've been flabbergasted and even contacted a lawyer but he said it wouldn't do any good to sue. Considering it's all because she thinks I wanted her to stay away from the guys... and I didn't even say that and that was years ago, I'm dumbfounded. If she remembers, I gave security and the maid each $100 because she and the guys tore up the hotel room. I took her to breakfast. I paid for lunch at CPK and gave the waitress there $100 tip after Caleb asked if he could cut off her panties and the table next to us left. If I didn't want her around, I wouldn't have needed to be friendly or buy breakfast and lunch on different days. I'd at least like to do something to get such a wrath of hatred.

The part Dean neglects to tell everyone is that he lied about going to become a sports bookie for months before I ultimately fired him because he wouldn't acknowledge the near $20,000 I had advanced him against work not yet done. Heck, he even took paid days off for interviews. Yet it was all a lie so he could start his own site. That was one thing, but then he tried to get all the models who he only knew through SCM to go with him. Lawyers were again involved, but I didn't feel like the drama.

Accuse me of having an annoying voice or setting up stupid scenarios for the guys, but don't make crap up.

When the whole Dean thing went down, I wrote it all out, exactly what happened, for the lawyer. I'll find that email and share some of it with you guys.

I've neglected saying anything until now because it just adds fuel to the fire, but I'm tired of the complete untruths.