Straight friend is making inquiry into gay sex with him?

[tommyj]

OK, tell him he has to leave her before you can mess around with him at the Riverfront Holiday Inn Express.

 

[D-Base]

Re: Straight friend is making inquiry into gay sex with him?

Oh I forgot to mention that he is always erect when we talk one on one, and his wife is 435lbs. He is 6' 2" 165lbs.

Umm, like 435 lbs is a lot, right? I suspect 435 lbs is way over 200 kilos. Is he cute? If he is what is the problem in sucking him off esp. if his wife wants it too, you aren't gonna break their marriage...

Although, sucking off a guy in front of a big woman like that would be kinda freaky... for me at least...

 

[darcey]

"Love look away, lonely though I may be". Run, don't walk away fm these two. Their relationship sounds toxic, & YOU must be damaged no matter what. Head for the hills!!!

 

[Christopher123]

And neither do we. You are the weakest link - goodbye!

Awwww, I was having fun watching him get thrashed about, lol.

Anyway, to the original question, maybe CGHJ has a point, that she knows the guy is gay (or bi-curious, whatever) and she wants him to engage into something like that so he can get his head straight and figure out what he really wants and needs. But he needs to do that with someone that isn't his best friend.

Know what I mean Vern?

 

[simon]

She just got out of the hospital 2 weeks ago, had surgury done on her knee caps. The weight can't support her legs. He is very cute, kinda reminds me of Sammy Case, in his looks, and he is hung loike him too? I've told them both NO!! He is dissapointed but I'm glad that I listened to you guys for your advise on this one? He told me that he loves her & can't hurt her. Gosh I'm soooo glad to be GAY!!! & OUt !!

 

[CGHJ]

Awwww, I was having fun watching him get thrashed about, lol.

Anyway, to the original question, maybe CGHJ has a point, that she knows the guy is gay (or bi-curious, whatever) and she wants him to engage into something like that so he can get his head straight and figure out what he really wants and needs. But he needs to do that with someone that isn't his best friend.

Know what I mean Vern?

LOL, I said that before we found out he wanted to sneak out of the house and do it behind her back, and that she might not be open-minded but in fact deeply suspicious. I agree with everyone else now...run run run run run run run run away. Or provide friendly coming out advice, with pants on only!

She definitely knows though. He needs to come out, and they need to deal with whatever that fallout is. If she makes an informed consent decision that she'd rather have a husband that smokes pole occasionally than live alone, then fine (as long as it's still with someone else...NOT with Simon, that's still a minefield and a half). But no sneaking around for sure.

I think maybe Simon and his friend both need to go out and find some rentboy. Different boys, at different times and different places though

 

[vulgar_newcomer]

This is just riduclous and whoever said it is getting more like a Jerry Springer show is right on.
Her legs can't support her weight?
It looks to me like she is headed for some radical surgery to stop her from eating and that may include wiring her big fat mouth shut making her unable to suck his cock so you will be doing him a favor by giving him a deep sexy kiss, slipping the tongue in and then see if you feel the spark.
Do not listen to these people this may be the man of your dreams. His ocean barge wife will soon be in Davie Jones locker anyway.

 

[PreTTy PeTe]

She just got out of the hospital 2 weeks ago, had surgury done on her knee caps. The weight can't support her legs.

and the biggest concern is him getting a blowjob????????

it is a jerry springer episode

steve where are you????

 

[Christopher123]

This is just riduclous and whoever said it is getting more like a Jerry Springer show is right on.
Her legs can't support her weight?
It looks to me like she is headed for some radical surgery to stop her from eating and that may include wiring her big fat mouth shut making her unable to suck his cock so you will be doing him a favor by giving him a deep sexy kiss, slipping the tongue in and then see if you feel the spark.
Do not listen to these people this may be the man of your dreams. His ocean barge wife will soon be in Davie Jones locker anyway.

Ummmm... this whole post is just gross.

And a little sad to boot.

 

[edwac1]

This married straight couple are both borrowing my gay porn DVD's. His wife asked me if I would suck him off in front of her? He's a real closet case. I mean that he is GAY not Bi either. But saying he is not? He married her right out of school. I'm not being stereotypical of him, but he calls me "honey" when we talk one on one and makes Mario Cantone look butch! Her parents always have suspected that he was gay too? I love them both and don't want to break up there married life.

lol omg, drama much???

 

[StlKj]

I'm not a betting man, but I would almost put money on this being a couple where the wife is a victim of sexual abuse as a child. Her extreme weight gain and her marriage to a closeted gay man are somewhat common signs that she has subconsciously protected herself from sexual intimacy by becoming "unattractive" to him. On some level she is okay with encouraging him to have sex with a male friend because it releases her from the burden of having sex with him. It also means, however, that she might not be able to handle it emotionally when she does finally see him with a man. Even asking you to do this with him sets her up to be a victim in a sexual situation after her husband "betrays" her by being what she's probably suspected he is all along.

If this is indeed what is going on here, there is so much potential for her to be emotionally devastated once it's all over with, even if she's orchestrating it.