Hot4Latinos
JUB Addict
I know how they feel. I have a HUGE crush on Yves 

Very eloquent! And totally agreed.
For me straight and gay are TOTALLY SEPARATE from (but related to) heterosexual and homosexual. I think orientation has more to do with a desire of the social prospect or entailment of the designation, and certainly a manifestation of our inner selves; sexuality has more to do with what tickles our pickles and what experiences we CHOOSE to engage in after weighing in our fears, insecurities, boundaries, and comforts.
I only say this because I've been with some guys who are really into the sex, but not so much the guy-guy romance. They've been totally okay with being naked with a man, getting down and dirty with a man, maybe even some mild cuddling, but not the emotional intimacy.
Conversely, I've also been in--and I use the term broadly--relationships with straight men who have what I've always thought is a peculiar crush / affection for me, but who aren't interested in me sexually in the least. To explain, they are delighted when I surprise them or exceed their expectations, and they have a tendency to try and impress me or make me smile--like a school boy trying to win my affections. Very curious. I'm still compiling this dossier, but I will note at present that this is latter is largely composed of men >1.4x my age. The former is usually more <1.23x my age. (Those in between are just missing out.)
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Very eloquent! And totally agreed.
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