Straight guys like to suck cock and take it in the ass

[Hot4Latinos]

Pleasure is pleasure...simple as that.

I'm a gay man who was a TOTAL TOP until 2 years.

Getting rimmed and fucked in the ass just feels good.....gay or str8

Fuck the labels....

I think the labels apply more to emotion rather than physical acts.

 

[mark08]

I am telling you guys this because I am seeing a great deal of denial in this thread. I don't want you guys to make the same mistakes that I made. As I said earlier, I was in denial longer than some of you have been alive. My regret is that I did not face my reality sooner. It is OK to experiment. Experimenting does not make you gay or straight. Just be true to yourself. I wish you all the best!

Pleasure is pleasure...simple as that.

I'm a gay man who was a TOTAL TOP until 2 years.

Getting rimmed and fucked in the ass just feels good.....gay or str8

Fuck the labels....

I think the labels apply more to emotion rather than physical acts.

As stated above, ANAL play feels good, it has nothing to do with being straight or gay. There's just a stigma attached to it. But, anal play isn't always an option for most straight guys (very rarely in fact, I've had the chance to try strapon play a bunch of times, was a lot of fun).

My guess is that the urge to try anal play for straight guys most be greater than the attraction (or lack of) towards men. Basicly they wanna try to get fucked, and that's more important than the sex of the person doing it.

As for the denial comment: are some people in denial? Yes. Are there as many straights in denial as this board claims? Hell no.

Also, if someone leads a life as a straight man for so many years, has kids, etc. and then 'becomes' gay, then wouldn't that make a strong case to claim that homosexuality is caused by nurture and not nature?

 

[apeboy45]

hay what a great day this is for me .

 

[easyroad]

Yeah, I do not get this thread or the people in it.

As it was said before, "straight guys that like to suck cock and take it in the ass" are quite a stretch. Sure, there are cases when the guy's paid for it or other things, but if it's just to scratch an itch...

Which leads me to my second point: anal stimulation alone is not a good enough excuse to go looking for guys when you're straight. Why not try it with a girl and a strap-on? What's the point of having sex with a person you're not sexually attracted to? That's ridiculously selfish.

 

[Curiosity69]

Yeah, I do not get this thread or the people in it.

As it was said before, "straight guys that like to suck cock and take it in the ass" are quite a stretch. Sure, there are cases when the guy's paid for it or other things, but if it's just to scratch an itch...

Which leads me to my second point: anal stimulation alone is not a good enough excuse to go looking for guys when you're straight. Why not try it with a girl and a strap-on? What's the point of having sex with a person you're not sexually attracted to? That's ridiculously selfish.

For the record, I don't actually do anything with guys at all. But how many girls actually want to just fuck a guy up the ass and leave without question? Next to none. I assume that's why a straight guy would look for a gay guy to do it for him

 

[CalmAndCreative]

in my opinion... if you attach a label to yourself do it because that's the label you want. will people judge you? sure. people will judge you regardless.

and as far as your actions go. do what you like with the people you want to do it with. anyone not in the room with you can go fuck themselves.

 

[Telstra]

I am guy who dates women and I at times let myself get fucked by gay men as a bottom. Most nights I am turned off but there are nights where I am partying and totally go for it. The majority of other straight guys I know, have admitted the same thing. I think any straight guy I am buddies with has done it atleast once, 60% of people I know have admitted it. So why the stigma, we are not gay but just fun.

The only question is why do we always want to be bottoms but not tops?

Agreed,
i don't think gay men mind playing with women's breasts.
They are so soft and nice to touch but just don't feel the urge thats all.

Yeah, i found they always want to be a bottom too.

 

[Willie Boy]

I am guy who dates women and I at times let myself get fucked by gay men as a bottom. Most nights I am turned off but there are nights where I am partying and totally go for it. The majority of other straight guys I know, have admitted the same thing. I think any straight guy I am buddies with has done it atleast once, 60% of people I know have admitted it. So why the stigma, we are not gay but just fun.

The only question is why do we always want to be bottoms but not tops?

I got news for y'alls. You ain't straight, you're bi. But there ain't anything wrong with that.

 

[Telstra]

I got news for y'alls. You ain't straight, you're bi. But there ain't anything wrong with that.

hey, maybe sometimes women are playing hard to get,
so some straight men (small %) may want to try something just for fun.

Don't you think it is a good excuse to try something new ?

 

[Curiosity69]

So it's fine if it's a strap on but it's gay/bi if it's a dick. If a guy uses a strap on on you instead of his dick is that then straight?

 

[JNewYork]

You are straight. Don't listen to anyone who says different. There are a lot of straight men who would engage in some homosexual activity. That doesn't make them gay and it doesn't make them Bi.

It's a tired argument where gay guys are tired of shouldering all the stigma and get resentful of guys like you. Don't waste breath answering them. Or time listening to them.

In answer to your question, yes, it's common. The bottom part is giving up the control that a straight dude normally has. That's the fantasy and that's why there's more wanting to bottom.

 

[mbamike]

Let's get a professional opinion. Flex is a JUB member and a medical doctor who has done lots of research on human sexuality. He has developed a test to help determine a person's sexuality. Click on the link below and then "take the test."

http://flexuality.wordpress.com/straight/

 

[easyroad]

So it's fine if it's a strap on but it's gay/bi if it's a dick. If a guy uses a strap on on you instead of his dick is that then straight?

That's a nice straw man you have there.

All I'm saying is that it's possible to have anal stimulation with a girl if she has a strap on or a dildo - and don't give me that "girls don't like using them on guys" crap, there are as many girls who would do that as there are straight guys who like taking it up the ass.

For a straight guy, wouldn't it be the best of both worlds? I just don't get why a straight man would look for another man to work on a single pleasure spot, that's all.

But if it's another BDSM fantasy, then I might as well stay out of this discussion, it's just something I don't relate to (or care about) at all.

 

[cocksucker4use]

For the record, I don't actually do anything with guys at all. But how many girls actually want to just fuck a guy up the ass and leave without question? Next to none. I assume that's why a straight guy would look for a gay guy to do it for him

Ok, that is so true. That's what the tranny thing is about for alot of straight guys. Having a gurl...with or without real tits, etc., but at least in female clothing, wig, makeup etc...passable gurls with DICKS, often BIG DICKS who fuck the straight dudes up the ass...have seen some really hot vids of this where the guys are hot.
Dunno, but thinkin that these bottom dudes would not let a MAN pork em and use em for a bitch....with the tranny its like sex with a gurl, and there's fuckin goin on.

 

[easyroad]

Oh wow, I didn't even think of transexuals! Lots of transexual porn is made for a straight male audience with a dick fixation. Interesting... that would be the best of both worlds! lol

I think I got it now. Carry on, fellas! As long as a straight guy doesn't ask me to have sex with him, everything's fine...

 

[weluvit]

For all the people saying that no one should try to attach labels, I would argue that the OP himself attached a label before anyone else did by defining himself as "straight"

Having said that, I agree completely that labels are overused. Growing up in a wild, sexually open town made me never even consider the terms "gay, straight" or especially "bi" until I was well into my 20's. I wasn't even aware of bisexuality as a concept until my 20's (this was pre-internet for all you kids, LOL)

I played around with boys and girls from as long ago as I can remember and the only label I ever attached to it all was "completely normal."

YMMV

 

[mbamike]

^Consider yourself blessed. Here in the south USA, just mentioning the word gay will get you some angry stares. Lord help you if you dare to dress out of the norm for a guy too.

 

[Singularity]

^Consider yourself blessed. Here in the south USA, just mentioning the word gay will get you some angry stares. Lord help you if you dare to dress out of the norm for a guy too.

Hence why most bisexual men claim to be straight (with the occasional itch) in order to escape that persecution.

Blame society for slapping labels onto us. By definition I would label myself as gay, I don't like it but that's how you would classify me since I have no sexual attraction towards women. So when a guy occasionally likes to suck cock or take one up the ass yet still claims to be straight (i.e. being only attracted to women), I feel my need to coming out is completely undermined just because I like that very same thing. He may not be romantically attracted to other men but he does feel some faint attraction towards men, their genitals and the homosexual act while primarily being attracted to women, which by definition is bisexuality to some extent.

I agree, it's a complete mindfuck, but I can't help to think but of the Kinsey scale - we all are bisexual to some degree. I can find a woman attractive but I will never seek to experiment or "scratch an itch", but when it's a straight guy (or girl for that matter) acting on it on several occasions, I get confused.

 

[Bastard25]

Guys just wanna have fun. I'm sure its safe to say all men experience some sort of identity crisis with their sexuality at some point in their lifetime. And we all know sex with women gets boring and played out after a while

 

[Yves Grey]

I say let people define themselves how they choose. We may think they're being disingenuous, but so what.

I think the op considers himself straight most likely because he doesn't form loving partnerships with other men. I'm speculating, but I think that's often the issue.

Technically, I would agree it is bisexual because of the little word "sex." I define myself as bisexual in part to avoid this particular criticism. However, in some aspects I could call myself straight.

I don't understand why some get so defensive about this. Maybe they worry it acts to discredit their lifestyle.

It's a fact that when guys have sex with each other it can be extremely pleasurable. I don't see why the majority of men should have to deny themselves this experience. What's good is good.

I didn't know that most bi and straight men end up as bottoms. I thought I was in the minority, and it would make more sense the other way around.

By the way, does getting fucked really feel that great? Does it feel the same for every guy?

I'm quite curious. It would be great to discover a whole new way to receive sexual pleasure. I guess it's another reason to love cock!

Very eloquent! And totally agreed.

For me straight and gay are TOTALLY SEPARATE from (but related to) heterosexual and homosexual. I think orientation has more to do with a desire of the social prospect or entailment of the designation, and certainly a manifestation of our inner selves; sexuality has more to do with what tickles our pickles and what experiences we CHOOSE to engage in after weighing in our fears, insecurities, boundaries, and comforts.

I only say this because I've been with some guys who are really into the sex, but not so much the guy-guy romance. They've been totally okay with being naked with a man, getting down and dirty with a man, maybe even some mild cuddling, but not the emotional intimacy.

Conversely, I've also been in--and I use the term broadly--relationships with straight men who have what I've always thought is a peculiar crush / affection for me, but who aren't interested in me sexually in the least. To explain, they are delighted when I surprise them or exceed their expectations, and they have a tendency to try and impress me or make me smile--like a school boy trying to win my affections. Very curious. I'm still compiling this dossier, but I will note at present that this is latter is largely composed of men >1.4x my age. The former is usually more <1.23x my age. (Those in between are just missing out. )