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Straight Lady for Gay Rights Who Often Has Questions

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Hi, guys. A few reasons I'm here:

1. I have a new, very dear gay male friend, and I am scared to death I'm going to screw it up with him because I have Asperger syndrome and am therefore constantly committing social faux pas. In fact, I'll be asking about a possible one in my next post.

2. Like straight males who like looking at lesbian stuff, I apparently like looking at male/male stuff. Unlike straight males who like lesbian stuff, I am more touched by it than turned on by it. Believe it or not. *shrugs* Also, when I look at the naked human form, I see it as a beautiful work of art, male or female. I enjoy pictures/movies that show loving encounters and/or natural poses where people appear relaxed and content, not trying to show off what they've got.

3. I write male/male slash fanfiction for Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Angel the Series, mostly involving Spike and Angel but occasionally including Riley Finn, as well. I am also (and I hate that I got influenced into doing this, as it is something I thought I'd never do, considering both are definitely straight) going to write a James Marsters/David Boreanaz real-person slash piece at some point, as the plot has come to me. It's only going to involve kissing, but...still. I just feel very naughty writing it, particularly because David has so adamantly refused signing any slash manipulations people have handed him in autograph sessions....

4. I hope I will be accepted here because I am 100% for gay rights...all the way. I feel you should be allowed to join the church of your choice, that you are not sinners, that you should be allowed to adopt and/or have custody of children without question, that you should be able to get married (what right does anyone have to keep you from declaring your love, for Pete's sake?), that you should have the right to all things married couples do such as one mortgage, one checking account, one health insurance policy (I understand some are already getting this--YAY!), etc.

I am straight, but I am most certainly not narrow, even though my father most certainly is (the bastard) and I live in an ultraconservative rural area where all minority orientations, religions, and even races are at risk of discrimination and harassment.

*love and hugs*
 
DFAS Giles,
Welcome to JUB. You will find there are plenty of straight women here. If only we could get the rest of the straight world to think like you!
 
Yeah, another female.

Welcome
 
WELCOME! As the lads have said we have several ladies posting on JUB including one who is a fantastic mod here. I hope you enjoy it and I hope you will post in our discussion forums. Have you checked out our Gay Stories Forum?:wave:
 
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wow what an intro! as already said we've got a number of gals here so that's so not a big deal here. i like angle and buffy and i'm a sci fi fan, but honestly i have no idea what a slash fanfiction is. i also didn't know what Asperger syndrome was, but i googled that at least so i know now. i don't know how to answer you on your #1. It seems like if he is your friend he knows you could let stuff slip in social situations...but he told you anyway. maybe...i don't know try super hard not to say something unless he's the only one present? maybe that's not even an realistic option, but i didn't read all that much about the syndrome thing.

anyway just want to say glad you joined us.

- mikey
 
Geez, I wish I had some condition that made me say things that put people's backs up.

Oh wait...


Welcome to JUB.
 
Welcome! :wave:


If your friend knows you have AS (and knows what it is, if course), then there shouldn't be a problem, I think. He'll know where your 'faux pas' comes from. (*8*)
 
@Mike_n_somewhere_in_California:

Slash fiction is basically homosexual fantasy type stuff with well known chacters. For example, if you decided you were going to right story about Captain Picard and Data (sorry, odd combo I know) it might be Captain Picard/Data, and that is literally where the slash comes from to mean gay fantasy fiction, often involving some sort of sci fi or fantasy characters.

Welcome aboard dfasgiles. I'm one of the girls here, and I have a great collection of gay porn and absolutely love watching it. It does test the limits of my bf at times but he is quite understanding. But I see it as porn - erotic and hot!

I had to google Asperger's Syndrome too. To be honest, even though my brain loves gay porn, I find that when I deal people on a day to day basis, their sexual orientation becomes irrelevant. Even the couple of guys who are out at work, I wouldn't introduce them to JUB. I guess I just try to treat everyone the same, as much as I can, otherwise things become awkward fast.

What I find challenging more than anything is how often my gaydar is going off around men who I guess are totally closetted. But that's another story.

Welcome to JUB and hope to see you posting!! :D :D If you have questions about the site, be sure to take a look at this forum here. :D
 
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