Straight Men Vs Gay Men as Tops

[d1919v]

So after much inquiry, and personal experience, I have to side with the belief that straight men are better tops. Anyone else have experience in both departments and can make a sound conclusion?

 

[Homothug]

Sorry to break it to you but if a guy is fucking you I dont think he is so straight

 

[Ulquiorra]

^ lol he's right you know. i think gay men are better tops cause i can! LOLZ but no seriously. i've never been fucked by a straight guy. namely cause straight guys don't fuck men unless it's out of curiosity.

 

[Storybook_Man]

Sorry to break it to you but if a guy is fucking you I dont think he is so straight

I can understand a straight guy having curious feelings for another guy in the sack. But to fuck him makes him at least bi in my books. Don't understand guys who say im straight but yet like to suck cock or fuck men.

Edit: So what im saying is, is that I agree with Homothug.

So this question is inconclusive .

 

[sb]

straight men do everything better...

 

[JNewYork]

straight men do everything better...

That's discouraging to see you say that. Maybe you just have not met the right gay or bi dudes?

Most men are straight, and most men are out of shape, not very masculine. There's this mythology out there that if somebody is straight that it means they are extremely masculine and good looking and more capable than gays.

Get out there and meet some men. I'm telling you that I have been with some very aggressive and masculine and capable (in all ways) men.

Sorry if I sound like I'm picking on you. It just is offensive to hear somebody say something like you said.

 

[slnattak]

I would say that men who have been with women (regardless of self-identification) are better lovers because women teach men to be in their bodies more. I can usually make gay men more aroused than the average gay man, because I've also been with girls. However, I am coming to terms with being gay myself. So your theory is, I can see how you'd say that. But it's not the whole truth just partially true.

Many gay men are porn addict idealists who do nothing but surf online all day and live in their heads. Of course, those type of gays are going to be god awful in bed.

Heterosexuality is never questioned in males. So therefore, straight men are going to be less ego-fussy over it, and just more naturally confident. However, some gay men are like this too. It's just not as common because american society as a whole still tolerates homophobia.

 

[jslvr05]

Sorry to break it to you but if a guy is fucking you I dont think he is so straight

Thank you! Agreed.

 

[JasunStrikesBack]

Depends on what turns you on. If you like being treated like a cum dumpster for a guy who's so horny he'll fuck anything and that anything is you.. I guess straight guys are better. And there's something to be said for being treated like an inanimate sex toy from time to time.

If you want a guy who is more into having sex with you... fucking you while making sure that you're having a good experience too... finding the things that you like and doing them.. kissing you, giving you the reach around, touching your chest, keeping eye contact... a guy who tells you how hot you are while he plows away... obviously, gay men are better.

Gay men also don't get all creepy afterwards and sometimes even get up to get you a beer.

 

[ibill1]

^ What Jasun said. And to the poster that said straight men do everything better, you need to get out more!

 

[willsboy84]

Sorry to break it to you but if a guy is fucking you I dont think he is so straight

more than likely not. but i DO think a str8 guy could get head from a guy and still consider himself str8. i've slept with girls(AGES AGO), but i know for sure that i'm gay as hell. couldn't enjoy head from a woman though

 

[wastingmymind]

From experience, straight guys are a bit awkward. Gay men could be worse in bed in a sense that they could be more aggressive, so pick your poison.

 

[WIZZARD101]

well lets see, i think it depends on the guy not if he is straight or gay. i have had some great sex with gay guys and lousy sex. I have only been topped by one guy who was straight or at least said he was, he was not as good becuase he had no idea on hit that prostate just right
or different positions so.....................

 

[johnstme]

According to a federal government survey (National Survey of Family Growth, 2002) there are a lot of straight guys who have experienced oral and/or anal sex with another male.

Overall, 6.2% of all males between the ages of 18 and 44 have done so -- 71.8% of those who reported their sexual orientation as homosexual, 54.2% of bisexuals, and 3.4% who reported that their sexual orientation was heterosexual. This means that 49.1% of all males who have had oral and/or anal sex with another male reported that their sexual orientation was heterosexual.

In terms of sexual attraction, 2.6% of males who were attracted only to females reported having had the experience, as were 27.0% percent of those who were attracted mostly to females, and 87.4% of those who were attracted to males. Again, to put it another way, 39.7% of males who had experienced oral and/or anal sex with another male reported that they were attracted only to females.

 

[Borenman]

Especialy bottoming...


BTW, do you know why straight men always cry the first time they take a cock up their ass? They realize what they were missing all that time...

Haha, so true!

 

[sb]

straight men do everything better...

ooops I forgot the emoticons to show I was joking.

 

[bankside]

According to a federal government survey (National Survey of Family Growth, 2002) there are a lot of straight guys who have experienced oral and/or anal sex with another male.

Overall, 6.2% of all males between the ages of 18 and 44 have done so -- 71.8% of those who reported their sexual orientation as homosexual, 54.2% of bisexuals, and 3.4% who reported that their sexual orientation was heterosexual. This means that 49.1% of all males who have had oral and/or anal sex with another male reported that their sexual orientation was heterosexual.

In terms of sexual attraction, 2.6% of males who were attracted only to females reported having had the experience, as were 27.0% percent of those who were attracted mostly to females, and 87.4% of those who were attracted to males. Again, to put it another way, 39.7% of males who had experienced oral and/or anal sex with another male reported that they were attracted only to females.

I don't care what a guy reports about himself. If he is happily straight and decides to try fucking a guy, he is now bi-curious. If his dick wilts halfway through because he is not into it, he can go back to being straight. No harm in trying. But if he enjoys it all the way through, congratulations, we have a bi winner!

 

[JNewYork]

sb, thanks for clarifying. You're alright!

 

[AlmondMilk]

I've been fucked by a couple of straight acting guys. Like you would never suspect they'd be interested in fucking a guy if you passed by them on the streets. Yeah, but they admit to being bi lol.