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I know .. I know.. it's not much -- [I'm not referring to my dick] but my small accomplishment. I am probably not a full-fledged flasher / exhibitionist -- at least not yet. So those men who have jerked off for and flashed strangers on the street have my admiration, but I cannot yet imitate. Although I have been experimenting with showing some cock using see-thru clothes and open zippers, I've never been able to expose a full limp or erect cock.
I don't really count 'innocent exposure" in the locker room, or a the beach (nude or not) to be hard-core
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exhibitionist. I mean - -if nudity is expected and even accepted, it could not really be true exhibitionism.
However, yesterday was a bit different for me and a first for me.

After months of walking the dog in the early morning with a partly open zipper (or in warmer weather in see-thru shorts/pants), I have had my eyes -- targeting my flash.. so to speak..- for a guy who rides his bicycle on his way to work every morning on my dog-walk route through the cemetery nearby.
Over a couple of times in the past months, I've 'surprised' him over a couple of times with me showing in some mesh shorts, then almost see-thru athletic pants, but yesterday, I had my zipper down enough to evidently attract his gaze.
I've seen him take a glance quite a few times, but he's very good at appearing to (or actually) ignoring me.
Yesterday, it seemed to me that I caught his gaze looking directly at my crotch.. I knew my efforts had finally succeeded.
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I had seen him coming and happily this time.. he was completely alone and just crossing busy street right in the center of the cemetery -- so he was distracted enough to not be ready when I approached with the dog.
I like taking my dog along -- not only because the dog needs and enjoys it, but it gives the 'voyeur' victim something to pretend to look at. They can short of glance ahead and down -- -pretending to look a the dog -- but all the while inspecting my crotch. So that is what I think happened yesterday morning.
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I could see him at least 150 ft before he reached me--so I had time to adjust my crotch for optimal (NOT maximum) exposure. I don't want him to take a new route or to call the police or get totally screwed up..
It would only appear to him that I had forgotten to properly shut zip my pants up -- it was NOT a blatant floppy or erect cock staring him in the face. Instead it was an rather innocent and seemingly accidental exposure of part of my flaccid penis.
But -- maybe we'll get there if he keeps showing some interest (or at least a distant fascination).
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The guy intrigues me because he wears exactly the same clothes every single day I have every seen him. It
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means that this is his 'uniform' or that he probably just wears them for such a short trip -- to bicycle to his work -- where he changes to his real work clothes -- a uniform. I imagine that he works at the local small airport, but I'm not quite the stalker that will follow him -- although I guess my targeting him so many times until I finally found a time to get more real exposure -- is something close to stalking. I am trying to entice him to look at my cock, but not shock or disgust him.

Has anybody been involved with semi-flashing like this? Maybe this is just one stage along toward something more daring and more exhibitionistic?

The photo shows what the pants should have looked like to my semi-flash target.


I was beginning to think I was the only person at this level of flashing -- not quite a newbie but not
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completely hanging out with a full hard-on for complete strangers. I guess for me -- it's the other guy's squelched feelings of attraction that really intrigue me. It turns me on to think that I am turning him on to his inner wishes - but again I could be totally wrong about my targeted guy. In your case, brettmarried (another user here), you seem to know positively that he is not only noticed but seemed to have a very strong interest in what he was seeing. For my guy, I can't really be sure.. he's rarely even turned his head back (actually there have only been a few times I've
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Maybe the challenge of it is kind of fun too.
I have also tried semi-see-through or mesh pants and shorts and have had a quick glance up and down reaction from him. But the incidents are spaced out weeks or even months apart.

Many times the private roadway through the park-like cemetery that he uses (and where I walk my dog) has other people riding and/or walking by. Also this IS a neighborhood where people would and could find me if I were to flash strangers.

I can't try the "oops, I forgot to zip up" tactic too often or he'll get wise.
I've thought next of taking a piss just off the main lane partly behind some trees and to carefully time it so that he has the chance to come up on his bike and sort of catch me with my cock out and pissing -- with a full view of my cock. Doing it that way still boarders on 'accidental' flashing.


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If there's enough participation (well in advance), we'll be hiring stripper, and
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clothed/costumed performers for parties / CMNM role-playing at a private residence. Some events are public or low cost, others required advance booking.


You can also keep up with updates on the CMNM Twitter:
http://twitter.com/cmnm
or read updates as they are posted/re-posted and tweeted at:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cmnm-party-at-steamworks-toronto-sat-july-29-tickets-33367421857


Hope you can 'show' up! But if not, then some day there may be a CMNM Event near you. )


Kelly, organizer
-- You can also read about this and more CMNM posts in my JUB blog or visit:
Guys Into CMNM http://guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com
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The spirit is willing but the flash is weak-- day and night.
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Loving to be with guys who are naked (or being naked with guys who aren't).... that's the core of what CMNM (clothed male / naked male) situations are all about.


Some (of us) are really in to it.. and seek out such situations whenever possible - of course, it's a gay thing for many of us.


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By the way, it is NOT ONLY about homosexual attraction. I could go on and on... but men need (and enjoy) using nudity between themselves and in groups of men (like sports teams, fraternity, army/military, clics and groups of buddies, while in temporary all male situations, such as camping, scouting, etc) and have done it since the beginning of societies... (I'm not talking physical desire or lust between men) to express friendship, belonging to a group, male affection and camaraderie, and dependence/interdependence, control/authority, loyal, leadership, bravura/machismo, and platonic or brotherly love.




I think almost every guy has some times (or even a lot) when he wants to see them
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naked or be seen naked by his buddies. It's part of identifying with being a man. We've had this discussion in bits and pieces many times on this forum before. When you absolutely 'need' to be naked or be the clothed guy around naked ones (for various reasons - different for every person) then you are said to be into CMNM or have it as a fetish (if you need it to get off).


I've gone forward (evolved?) in exploring CMNM in myself, and also socially. I have set up many online CmNm groups, and have been trying to organize off-line real CMNM events, meet-ups, parties, etc.


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I have a regular blog devoted to the subject: Guys Into CMNM at:


http://guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com


From the Guys Into CMNM blog, you can find your way to both local and international groups, and several online social networks devoted to CMNM activities and interests.


Find out more at in my JUB blog post just below or at the CMNM Party at Steamworks Toronto, July 29, 2017 from
7:00 pm - 11:00 pm
See details at:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/cmnm-party-at-steamworks-toronto-sat-july-29-tickets-33367421857
 
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Anybody traveling to P-town may see me walking down Commercial St or Bradford in my see-thru shorts or jogging pants. Give me a hoot..
Otherwise, see you 'au poil' on the beach.. from Pensacola to Montreal this summer.


Update: I had a great trip to Provincetown in August. I stayed for 4 nights at Dune's Edge Campground, a family oriented but gay-friendly place just off Highway 6A as you approach P-town. You can find it via Google. It is a 10-minute walk from Commercial St. During the winter, you probably cannot camp -- although you might also try Coastal Acres Campground. For stays during the winter, you could try some of the B&Bs or inns or look at Redweek.com or VRBO.com or a similar site to rent a timeshare or a vacation rental.
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I travelled by train from rainy Budapest but it was clear and sunny on the Croatian coast (here is a pic from Rijeka on Monday, Aug 29). It was drizzling in Zagreb that morning but clear by the time I got to Rijeka. So a cruise to some of the outer islands would have been fabulous (weather wise) if I had had more time.


I decided to return to Budapest where cruising for hot men was easier -- I also had a gorgeous day getting naked at Donau Island in Vienna on Aug 31.
So I think the weather is variable but there seems to be some likelihood for some good weather on the Croatian coast even when it is rainy inland - still locals should know better and take the advice to see local weather forecasts online.
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I could not stay as long as I would have liked so I will just have to go back.
I went by train from Budapest -- of course flying would be cheaper or is there a quicker way to get to the Croatian coast. I've heard the ferries from Italy are good.. Anybody got a better idea?


Next time I want to go the supposedly great nude sunbathing beaches on the Croatian coast..
I gave up on doing so this time from Rovinj because the buses seemed to be so infrequent..where is the best place to find out gay guys interested in sun/fun and hopefully sex on the beach?


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[Part of several responses on a gay travel discussion board　]
The following is a collection of separate entries that I've made on gay travel .


Warm places to visit during winter (in North America):
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South Texas or San Antonio, New Mexico, San Diego or Arizona would probably feel very warm compared to those bitterly cold (but sometimes sunny) days where most people in North America live. Looking for a great travel destination - -to get away from the winter cold and blahs?


I always recommend Hawaii (of course)-- take in at least two of the islands (Oahu and the Big Island). How about the Caribbean islands - -although I've never been. Mexico and points south could be great... I want to visit Belize, Costa Rica or Honduras. Brazil and Argentina also get high marks for warmth - both temperature and cultural and subcultural too. It does not get any 'gayer' than Rio or Sao Paulo during Carnival and Gay Carnival(s).


I think Australia would be great -- in time for Gay Carnival (maybe it has another name) -- not only


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Sydney but visit Cairns, or even Melbourne, Brisbane for their special features.
New Zealand is rated as one the best places to visit on the planet. There are also other great places in the South Pacific.


I'm dying to return to the Canary Islands - but it is not quite warm enough until March. However, South Africa would be a blast during our winter. Maybe West Africa -- Senegal or Ghana.




By the way, what about NOT traveling alone?
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You could try finding a travel partner or join an organized trip or tour. For example, sometimes your college or a university in your area or even across the country, sometimes offers organized study-tours that may fit your schedule, budget and choice of location as well as really getting you deeply into some aspect of the culture you visit.


They are generally set-up by the continuing education division and professional association and other types of groups/organization sometimes offer them too.
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Gay-oriented tours/trips


Have you (or has anyone else) had experience with joining an organized group trip as a single (gay) man? How was it? Would you recommend it?
Does anyone know of how / where to connect with some good gay (or all male) travel groups or organized trips?


I have a partial list here but hope other can add more:


Kalani (Gay men's retreat during certain weeks at this Big Island Hawaii resort (add dot com to find the web site).
You can also stay there without participating in a retreat or conference.


Gay.com has a gay travel section that may have organized trips to some place warm during the winter.


Travelocity and Orbtiz seem to have a special Gay and Lesbian travel section with some organized tours.
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There are Pride celebrations in warmer spots (some already mentioned).


You might find a travel buddy -- even here on Dudenudes.com or try one of the other such as Hardbuddies.com has a travelers and expanded invitation section so that you can try to hook up both BEFORE you go and also when you get there.


QTmagazine used to have ads for travel buddies, but I don't think it worked very well or was popular enough.


Is there another site that does these kinds of things to get travel partner together?


Craig's List lets you post ads -- but they may not be your cup of tea -- so to speak.


Specialized tours or adventure or sporting trips
Gaysports.com and gayoutdoors.com may have links to some possibilities.
Also, there are a couple of tour operators for gay cruises, guided tours and scuba diving or sail boat trips, such as, alysonadventures.com
and underseax.com. These latter types tend to be quite expensive.
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Trips to Provincetown and to Croatia

Provincetown, MA (Cape Cod)


There is plenty to do in Provincetown, MA. Herring Cove is THE hot spot -- it is a national/state (?) park but it's the mecca for most people who love the sun, sand and naked butts in Cape Cod and all kinds of people across the Northeast. It is easy to drive to Provincetown from Boston, or you can take a ferry or high-speed ferry during the summer months directly from South Boston (a 10 minute walk the train station). There are also a couple of flights available daily with Cape Cod Air.
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You can walk to Herring Cove from the town going down Commercial St, over to Bradford St, or ride a bike (NOT into the dunes, please) or drive a car (parking costs an entrance fee to the park), go left after the ranger station and park as far left as you can, then walk to the beach and to left about a half-mile or more - Provincetown is great in any season, but it's all the better with the hundreds of naked guys in the summer. The cruising in the dunes gets pretty hot too.





I'm not much into going to a gay bars, but there are some good ones in P-town; the streets are crowded and the restaurants are great -- the great one has long lines so plan accordingly. Renting a bike for a day and riding the National seashore park is fun. After 5 days you'll probably want to do something different -- if you have the time (and some $$ to burn), I recommend a day trip to Boston on the hydrofoil (or ferry). It's $55 round trip but you can basically walk (or take a subway) to downtown Boston and see a lot historical sights for free.
 
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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]I went in the cemetery and walk around - naked and stroking - of course - but he didn't come back by. You can see through the scattered line of trees along fence line where that pathway winds all along the eastern edge of the cemetery. So I'm looking forward to meeting up with a fellow flasher -- or maybe it was just a one-time full moon event. [/FONT][/FONT]
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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]For the first time in a very LONG time, I was actually FLASHED last night (July 21). I am so excited because this means I am NOT alone - -there is at least one other guy in my neighborhood area who into flashing/streaking. Great![/FONT][/FONT]





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[FONT=&quot]I usually walk my dog almost every morning between the hours of 6-8am and I hardly ever even get so much as a glance -- even when I am wearing my latest creation (see photo -- a pair of nylon athletic /jogging pants with the lining cut out -- just leaving a pair of very revealing mesh pants). [/FONT]​
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[FONT=&quot]So before you write me off as a true perv -- just realize that I don't think that I have actually been "seen" by anybody in my neighborhood. I am discreet and also chicken-hearted (no -- I did NOT say chickenshit). My flashing near or at nude beaches and at gay resorts, or in the French Quarter for Southern Decadence, does not really count at flashing - I mean most of the people there are doing it too or are out looking for those who are.​
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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]I found that you were more likely to just happen across a nude man or women or see people pull of their clothes to get into the water. A few couples were going at it .. like a woman giving a guy a handjob under his shorts, but it is mainly a family like atmosphere - -but with some nude people mixed in - typically as singles. the long thin island is where I walked and then sunbathed nude, although there were a lot of people on the opposite banks -- the river is quite wide so it was not easy to see what state of undress people were on the far banks. [/FONT][/FONT]


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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Much of the US tends to be so puritanical about nudity that people are likely to call the police on somebody who is just peeing, let alone actually sunbathing nude in a public park.[/FONT][/FONT]
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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Amstel River Cafe - I stopped in for lunch, mentioned to the waiter that I was from America, and the owner of the restaurant came over and spent 90 minutes telling me where I should go out in the gay community and places to really stay away.[/FONT][/FONT]
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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Angel Bar and Disco -- The most popular gay bars with a fun dance floor.[/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Action Bar - No name posted outside. Look for the red light shining on a letter A. As mentioned above, a card is given upon entry and all drinks are charged to be paid in full when leaving the bar. This is done to keep hustlers from hitting on guys, since you really need to buy alcohol to stay. [/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]An excellent guide is the Fodor's Prague and Budapest Guide.[/FONT][/FONT]
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[/FONT][FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]The kind of flashing that appeals to me is the sort of 'semi' innocent flashing where guys get naked when changing clothes. It is not as if they really are intending to shock somebody by masturbating and blowing your load right in front of people .. it's a kind of laid-back form of (almost) unintentional public nudity. Don't get me wrong -- I'd probably love being exhibitionistic more overtly in certain circumstances -- like the in a gay theatre or sex club -- I know I've enjoyed being watched in gay saunas -- but that is a kind of private sex life that I am not talking about here. [/FONT][/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]At least for now, the only kind of public flashing I can do is the accidental exposure - "you weren't supposed to set that" type. I have found that some parks (depends on the country and the city) are great for this type of spontaneous 'naturist' flashing and other are not. [/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]I have already written about how guys in Japan who are with their teams -- often change in public parks and just outside public ball fields -- you can sometimes get quite a show when they strip down to nothing or try to jump out of their athletic gear and into their street clothes. [/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]There are other places where I have experienced something a bit different. It seems that there is 'room' in society for a lot of male public nudity in Europe. [/FONT][/FONT]

 
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[/FONT][FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Travel Escapades: Budapest Part 2 -- mainly travel advice and recommendations[/FONT][/FONT][/FONT]


[NOTE: Sometimes what I write here is just a copy or re-write of something I have posted elsewhere -- on a discussion board or in an e-mail message]. However, those things get wiped away or lost so I use sometimes this blog to document (and preserve) what I have written specifically for some other reason or for some other audience. However, it may be useful info to JUB readers and it also saves me having to write it again.
Further, a blog is whatever the WRITER really wants it to be -- so it serves me as a kind of public diary and memory bank. ]

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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Trip to Budapest August from a decade ago (part of my first Eastern Europe journey) -- See my separate JUB blog entry about my first nude massage experience at Kiraly Baths, Budapest. [/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]I got back from a trip to Czech Republic, Poland, Hungary and Croatia.[/FONT][/FONT]
[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Budapest was the hottest party atmosphere -- a lot of tourists and hot Hungarian guys -especially on the weekends. I had fun at Action Club address is 42 Magyar (near Astoria Subway stop -- I think that is the address - -check cruisingforsex dot com to be sure ). It has a rainbow symbol on the door but does not open until 9pm. You have to buy a minimum of 1300 fts (a couple of drinks -- beer is 500 forents) and keep up with the tab since you pay on the way out (a guy at the exit has to check your tab to see if you have paid yet before he unlocks the door). However, there is a back room where it got hot and heavy. I also had a very good time cruising for sex in Kiraly Baths - -it only for men on Tuesday /Thursday/Sat 10am-8pm? -- 3 hour time limit and bathing suit required but that does not prevent sex in the pools, sauna and other areas. Rac and Rudas Baths are also supposedly good for male sex too but did not try. I heard there was nude sunbathing at Margit Island but could not find it -- the outdoor thermal baths was closed there that day. [/FONT][/FONT]
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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]I did stroll completely around Margit Island and looked for a place to get naked but it was pretty busy with locals and tourists alike. There was also a large movie crew at one section which they blocked off, filming a scene with the river in the background. [/FONT][/FONT]
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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]The traditional Turkish and Hungarian baths are worth at least one visit- just for the ambiance and architecture. Kiraly was supposedly a lot quieter than it had been (see Budapest Gayguide.net articles) -- I admit it WAS fairly tame - although I did get my cock sucked in the steam room and also again in a more secluded area. I had fun - -but there was much more overt action in the dark rooms at Action Club. (see above post).[/FONT][/FONT]
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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Hungarian men seemed not to hestitate to bareback so take precautions. [/FONT][/FONT]
[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]I found some other info at:[/FONT][/FONT]
[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]http://gayguide.net/Europe/Hungary/B...[/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Look for info here too[/FONT][/FONT]
[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]http://www.guidemag.com/travel/[/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]http://www.cruisingforsex.com also has specific listings for many cities/countries with comments from people who have been there. [/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Additional recommendations below by Teddski (dudesnude.com)[/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Rac Baths (Rac Furdo) - Built during the reign of King Zsignond in the early 15th century. Men only on Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday and only open from 6:30 am - 6 pm and are particularly popular with the gay community. But watch for hustlers. Almost everyone that spoke English was looking to rent.[/FONT][/FONT]

 
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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Another person responded with something I found quite amazing and so, I was doubtful, and responded his point that he'd actually videotaped at glory holes. [/FONT][/FONT]Growler: [FONT="times new roman"][FONT=&quot]I have videoed this and other types of voyeurism for years. Yes, it's amateur porn but then so is videoing someone flashing. When you stick your dick under a partition or through a hole you usually don't see what the other person is doing or who it even is. That's why it's anonymous sex. [/FONT][/FONT]​

[FONT="times new roman"][FONT=&quot][FONT="verdana"][FONT=&quot]What I was referring too what was requested in the ORIGINAL post (quoted above) written by neovirgin. He was looking for genuine candid video and pics of "guys' cocks that have been pushed through gloryholes in a public toilet" - where they don't know it. That's what I was saying - It is rather difficult to find them on the net -EXCEPT in some kind of amateur porn (uloaded to video/pic sharing sites). [/FONT][/FONT][/FONT][/FONT]
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[FONT="times new roman"][FONT=&quot]To Neovirign <

[FONT="times new roman"][FONT=&quot][FONT="verdana"][FONT=&quot]Flickr Group: Under Stall Action/Gloryhole[/FONT][/FONT][/FONT]
[FONT="times new roman"][FONT=&quot][FONT="verdana"][FONT=&quot]http://www.flickr.com/groups/45957610@N00/[/FONT][/FONT][/FONT][/FONT]
[FONT="times new roman"][FONT=&quot][FONT="verdana"][FONT=&quot]If it becomes a private group (leave a message and I'll send you an invitation).[/FONT][/FONT][/FONT][/FONT]
[FONT="times new roman"][FONT=&quot][FONT="verdana"][FONT=&quot]http://www.flickr.com/profile/sunbuns[/FONT][/FONT][/FONT][/FONT]
Note:[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot] You can a free Flickr account or just use a Yahoo id.[/FONT][/FONT]

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sexual behavior research whose writing a book on the subject..


From my own experience ---from both side of the glory hole - most times both guys know what/who (at least they know it's somebody they want to suck or be sucked by) and why they want their cocks through a glory hole.
If you don't take a least a peek to see who's there and if they're showing interest, you might just pull back with a bloody stub. ... we're talking public toilet glory holes - not backroom bars or gay sauna/baths were you CAN expect with 99% accuracy that your dick's going to be swallowed with appreciation and with great gusto.


I still have a hard time imaging that you take a video camera in the men's room at Home Depot or some state Hwy roadside restroom and shoot pics of stranger's dicks thru g-holes. Damn, it's even hard to find them these days.
I couldn't and wouldn't dare try to get away with using a cellphone cam/vid without the other person knowing or encouraging me first. Way too risky for me.. Most bathhouse and saunas now prohibit photography or cell phone. The one in Waikiki will NOT even allow bags or backpacks AT ALL., and San Jose's Water Garden checks all bags (for liquor and camers/vidcams). Somewhere I went had me check my cell phone with my other valuables - shutting it down first.


Not to cause a needless argument about this - NEOVIRGIN - don't bother looking for pics - go find yourself a busy glory hole and enjoy the view.

I would like to see a few of yours , Growler- and NOT just to prove your point.



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[/FONT][FONT="times new roman"][FONT=&quot]Great stuff.. You've got more guts (and probably bigger balls) than I do - taking those. Would love to hear some of your stories - about taking them. I am sorry there are cheats and liars (people who steal pics and videotapes) who republish - but if someone you know or you are in them, you DO have legal recourse (hardly worth unless he's making a bundle). [/FONT][/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="times new roman"][FONT=&quot]I guess I've only partly learned my lesson. But I never pass up a good glory hole - love to give and get it - from both ends (safeway.. (not BB) of course). I just hope some places don't have hidden micro-cameras - I'd have to be shown on 60 Minutes some day! LOL [/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="times new roman"][FONT=&quot]Some dickflashers and guys who like to frequent glory holes and who look for public m2m sex are NOT gay (meaning they don't see themselves as queer and don't want to identify with being a gay person or lifestyle. [/FONT][/FONT]
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[/FONT][FONT="times new roman"][FONT=&quot]-- I realize that -- but one perv can't call another a BIGGER perv -- unless...he IS small(er) and not many will admit that. LOL. [/FONT][/FONT][/FONT]




 
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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Adult bookstores are just the right palce to enjoy porn and blow job at glory hole. Gay bathhouses have glory holes for added pleasure.[/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Adult bookstores are just the right palce to enjoy porn and blow job at glory hole. Gay bathhouses have glory holes for added pleasure[/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Try craigslist.com in your town to find gloryholes and cruising spots. For another source: [/FONT]http://members.lycos.co.uk/rux/gh.html[/FONT]
[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Great for finding gloryholes: [/FONT][/FONT]
[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]http://www.squirt.org ![/FONT][/FONT]
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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]In a recent posting on another discussion board, the topic of glory holes came up. It's seem I am far from the only person who intrigued, fascinated and somewhat obsessed with the form of invasively impersonal (well - intimate is not quite the right word) and anonymous gay (male-male) sex. I add the m2m (male-to-male) because there are many men (and quite a few women) who don't identify with being gay, but who enjoy participating in glory hole, under stall, and public toilet cruising for sex with strangers. It's called 'cottaging' in Commonwealth English. [/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="times new roman"][FONT=&quot][FONT="impact"][FONT=&quot]Neovirgin wrote[/FONT]: Not too sure where to put this ..... have any of you ever taken candid pics of guys' cocks that have been pushed through gloryholes in a public toilet? In other words, pics of their cocks without their knowing it? If you have, I would love to see the pics! The closest I have seen is what appears to be a genuine candid video of one guy wanking another one under a toilet partition until he cums.[/FONT][/FONT][FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot] [/FONT][/FONT][/FONT]


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[FONT="georgia"][FONT=&quot]Funny, that's often the very thing that happens in real glory hole and under stall situations.[/FONT][FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot] [/FONT][/FONT][/FONT]
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[/FONT][FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Nordicboy (-- also a DickFlash member/poster) has collected some of those on his own blog from Xtube and elsewhere. [/FONT][/FONT][/FONT]
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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]He's posted the link on DF before, but there are definitely some vids there about anonymous dicks sticking thru glory holes (apparently real - not staged porn). [/FONT][/FONT]


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http://www.xtube.com
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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]It would be VERY hard (smile) to actually get away with videotaping such things.. most g-hole are too dark and not many people except sort of hard core flashers are going sit there and willing let a complete stranger video or photograph them erect and cumming thru a g-hole. -- so unless the other guy is aware of what you're doing, it's not actually REAL true flash -- it's just amateur porn, then. [/FONT][/FONT]
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A friend of mine put his cock thru' a glory hole waiting to get sucked and, instead, the door burst open and the guy flashed a police badge at him. So apart from diseases and unclean dudes, there's also the danger of getting sprung by the law. And what about the queer bashers? Nope, there are too many negatives in my book!!! (Lambada)


[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]It's pretty amazing how many guys have actually said that their first 'gay' sex was anonymous. Of course, many boys and men grow up experiencing some kind of sexual exploration with other boys - something that - maybe -most boys do, but that's not the purpose of this blog entry. Maybe another one later.[/FONT][/FONT]
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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Part of this blog entry is based on some forum discussion at JUB and other sites.[/FONT][FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot] [/FONT][/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]That was also my own first 'real' gay (M2M) sexual encounter:[/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="arial narrow"][FONT=&quot]First suck...first sex.. yeah, that was it for me, too. It wasn't a gloryhole but I sucked my first cock at 19 under a stall in the men's room of the university library. I never saw who it was - just his shoes. I was nervous but excited as hell. He sucked me first and then I did him -- he came so quickly but was polite enough to ask if I could take it .[/FONT][/FONT]



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[FONT="arial narrow"][FONT=&quot] I got a fetish (or at least fascinated with the idea of gloryholes). [/FONT][/FONT]
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[/FONT][FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot][FONT="arial narrow"][FONT=&quot]Anybody else? I've put some my pics on a Flickr group - it's way for to pool everybody's collection but still retain the pics as your 'own'. [/FONT][/FONT][/FONT][/FONT][/FONT]
[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot][FONT="arial narrow"][FONT=&quot]You may need to sign up for the group (and to Flickr, of course) to see them. [/FONT][/FONT][/FONT][/FONT]
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[FONT="arial black"][FONT=&quot]Are there any ways to find public glory holes in your area?[/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]You can also find possible gloryholes at [/FONT]http://www.cruisingforsex.com[/FONT]


[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Look in the LISTINGs section, search by location (city/country).[/FONT][/FONT]
[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]The info is not always up-to-date because such places have a tendency to come (cum) and go! I mean.. the situation and circumstances change -- sometimes overnight... but then a good hole is hard to find but also hard to lose.[/FONT][/FONT]
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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]In honor of the fact that I'm chicken to show my face here's another pic -- not only faceless but too headless from one my walking-the-dog hikes into the local cemetery. If I get any more 'invisible' - I might as well be dickless. Sometimes I think it will be good to be reborn as a dickless being (a female?) in my next life. [/FONT][/FONT]
[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]If I am not recognizable, may be my dog will be. [/FONT][/FONT]
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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]On the public profiles, I was referring to in my post above is located at Dlist -- a gay social networking site (I feel like a 'old' man among the 'twinkish' - hipster GQ types plastered all over the home page. But what the hell -- I like college age dudes - and sometimes they like a guy who's more mature and obviously well-endowed (I don't mean 'big' dicked) - financially well established (stable income sufficient to live well, not 'rich' but all things are comparative).[/FONT][/FONT]




[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]If you visit it, you can see a slide show of guys showing off in public. [/FONT][/FONT]
[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]Which means that ANYONE can see the photo and the profile - if someone is savvy enough they can probably find out my IP address from the uploaded pics or code. So -- it's not all just conspiracy. Someday I'll be knowledgeable enough to prove my thesis by showing you exactly how it might work. [/FONT][/FONT]

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[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]I collect such pics and thousands of others. I am turned on more by 'real' photos of real guys getting nude and being naked, male and happy about it, than the slick, hard-glossed superstuds and huge meaty cocks of the porno models. [/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot]I have them in Flickr and a few thousand saves in Yahoo Photos - only friends can see them - unlike Dlist and GW - my profiles and pics are password protected. I realize it is not much security (protecting one's identity from theft or blackmailing/blackballing) but usually like-minded people of the same persuasion join a gay or porno site. That's not the case with these two new entries, GW and Dlist. Even Yahoo 360, MySpace and Tribe.net don't allow just anyone to see a profile (or at least the parts you don't want made public). [/FONT][/FONT]

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But the whole trauma of the experience taught me some valuable lessons. For one, it made me realize how vindictive and self-righteous some people are -- including well-meaning and hardworking police officers -- most of whom I have a great deal of respect for the dedication.
But flashing on the net or letting your face get shown may have some risks that you cannot control or may not even realize until years later.


Thanks, Toras, for being encouraging without be condescending. I have lived in communities where a Causasian male (which I am ) is a rare minority , so it means I would have no trouble being picked out of a police line-up. Toronto has a very multi-ethnic community - there are about 800,000 people of Chinese origin alone live in great Toronto -- at least you can 'pass' for a local. I can't where I am living now - that's why I guess I went overboard last summer and was a little bit too careless while vacationing on Cape Cod. I thought I blended in as to be unrecognizable.


The other interesting phenomena and also could make flashing (exposing one's genitals and face) on the Internet somewhat riskier for people who define themselves as flashers, exhibitionists and exposers is

1) the tendency for the Christian right to categorize them as sex offenders -- the same as child rapists and baby killers, and


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2) the new Internet technologies for tagging pics, passing data including pics and tags through RSS feeds even further around the globe, and geotagging - ties/links an Internet object (user, picture, file) to a specific geographic spot.
I know this is off-topic , but it was my topic (Walking the Dog) in the first place so I doubt the moderator's will mind. I usually do a lot of thinking while I am 'walking the dog' which is both a methaphor for 'wagging the wiener', freeballing in the open air, airing out the family jewels. But it also is REALLLY what I am doing -- taking my pet dog for his daily walks. I also think about flashing both as my hobby and also about it repercussions and consequences too - while I'm enjoying the solitude and occasional chance to peek-flash some guy (see separate, earlier posts for the narratives)


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We know there is tracking of what you purchase and even what you're interested in (sites that you have visited leave cookies that search engines can pick up and then display ads that are related to the types of sites (products) you've been visiting. Google does that big time.
So it's not too big of a stretch to think that pics (or other data files or media objects), which you download or that you place on your website or public / private profile on some social network, or that you even look at briefly online, might leave discernible and followable traces.

I've got profiles all over the net and many pics with and without my face -- both under my real name and my various alias (sunbuns is not my 9-5 working world identity). Someday somebody is going to find a way (my conspiracy instinct says they already have) to collect these traces (tags) or at least connect them like dots. So they'll start selling the information (clandestinely of course) for ostensibly purposes of security and anti-criminal protection but the personal id info will most certainly also be used to defame and try to ruin the reputations of people (basically good upstanding citizens -- like me and you) for political gain, religious cleansing, or profit from blackmail or pay-offs.
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Sorry to take a sinister lapse into the dark side of the net...


Hey, it's my real birthday today. I'm 39 - yep! Well, at least 'sunbuns' thinks he is or at least won't admit to being any older than that - and he usually says he's younger). I remember a comment your once made in another posting -- most of the people on this site (who are interesting in or doing flashing) are in the 40s and 50s.

 




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On a morning walk in the cemetery a few days back, I pulled off my pants - always wear a loose fitting cargo pants and freeball. So it's easy to quickly do a bit of 'stealth flashing' -- I call it 'stealth' since I don't believe anybody is watching. It's just the fact that they might or could at any moment -- there are cars intermittently passing along a lane about 50 m behind me. I got excited and just secs later starting jerking off until I cum.


I guess you notice I'm not showing face. I have some comments (rather a long winded explanation) below:


Showing 'face' when your flashing or 'innocently' exposing yourself to strangers is actually less risky than doing so on the Internet. I mean there are only a limited number of people who actually see you and many don't really 'see' you at all. Even if they do, they don't want to act on it (confront your personally or even call the police and press charges) and then they don't have 'proof' - just their word against your. s

I was once arrested for lewd conduct charges (a felony in Mass). It happened while on vacation near Provincetown in 2005. It was a police who saw me -- although I was just 'pissing,' which I was, he claimed I was trying to flash him (I was wearing a skimpy see-thru pair of shorts but he could not have seen that from the distance he was when he first noticed me). I was not convicted -- of course --the case was dismissed because it was a case of false arrest/police brutality / insufficient evidence / unlawful seizure of evidence (my camera), I obtain the services of a local lawyer who had experience with theis particular police department. It seems they often made this kinds of arrest in order to discourage 'perverts' from coming into their community - -not Provincetown township but another one further down (south) the Cape.

 
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I have not been so pleasured -- both ways during such a short period of time in a long while. It was hot!

Anal orgasm in Maspalomas dunes - Apart from my scuba diving on two of the days at Playa del Ingles (actually we dive at El Cabron Bay nature preserve), I spent several days on the dunes at Maspalomas -- nude sunbathing and cruising for sex.




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One the most interesting times was after I had been kind of mentally 'edging' for 4-5 hours -- seeing guys nude and a lot of sucking/fucking going on the nooks and crannies around the dunes and in the shady brush lined areas. There was a guy who was interested in my ass while I seated on the huge leaning branch of a tree. My butt was spread out over the back edge and he came up and started to massage my sphincter.


Other guys came up around him and watched. He was not going to insert his dick, but instead, he put his fingers into my butthole and expertly applied a massage to my prostate gland.




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It was kinky sitting there with my cock bloated -- fully erect and having my asshole rammed with a hot digit. He knew exactly what to do to get me to explode and the lust in the others mens' eyes just made me want to put on a great show. I came without touching my dick -- something that had not happened for several weeks (when I was in San Diego).


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  • Sex on the beach - I got to cruise on several gay beaches and seaside cruising spots. Diamond Head beach was hot the very afternoon I arrived back there from a short trip. I met a horny bi guy who liked to show me his str8 porn mag -- I presume to help him get himself (and me too -
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    because he was talking dirty about fucking pussy). He then proceeded to wrap his lips around my engorged cock -- we were nestled away high above the beach but still there were other guys cruising who were trying to get a look at what we were doing.

    Later on another guy climbed up to meet me among the trees, he wanted to press his cock into the crack of my ass, but didn't want to insert. It was hot getting butt-rubbed - and just made me want the real thing that much more.
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One couple of the best anal fucks I have had in a long time was at Club 2200 on University Blvd in San Diego on March 7th.
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[/FONT]It was a weekday night but the place was pretty hot. I finally met up with a cute Afro-American guy who felt me up from behind while I was leaning over the back of a couch in the lounge area. He asked if I wanted to play so we went behind the seating in the video backroom, where he covered his 10 inch long, beautiful cock with a rubber and then fucked me crazy. It turned out that he was trying to give me an anal orgasm. He would pull back until the tip of his long hard meat was about to disengage from my anal lips and then we would ram it back in deep. He kept up a rapid plunging rhythm so that I finally screamed in delirium and came without touching my cock.[FONT="tahoma" , "calibri" , "verdana" , "geneva" , sans-serif][FONT=&quot] [/FONT][/FONT][/FONT]
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I know it's pretty stupid (fruitless is a better word LOL) -maybe useless to try to keep flashing this guy (if you can call it that). But the challenge just seems to be increasing my feelings of urgency. This time after he went by without so much as a smile or frown/scowl or side glance... I had to go deeper off the main road and beat off until I came.


Is this going to lead to me trying to go to greater lengths to get the guy to look?


I think the attraction is that I sort of 'feel' like I know him -- ridiculous idea (I know) but at least we recognize each other. Sometimes he almost can't help it if I suddenly meet him coming around a corner but it's risky to be 'showing' more than just wearing see-thru mesh - because mothers with school children, old ladies and men heading to their office job are equally likely to suddenly appear around the same corners.
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I know he does look my way at times .. but it's only when I'm 20-50 meters away. There is a large plaza (paved area) along the main road, where we sometimes cross paths at a much great distance. It is at times like that when I have my zipper down and my cock partly exposed. I notice then that he 'seems' to take a brief look .. but if I'm too close.. he averts his eyes or even turns his head.


What do you think? It's not much of a flashing experience - but it's the most 'real' flashing I've ever done (not counting nude beaches and CMNM with male strangers in hostels/campsites). He's got to know that I'm 'beating off' for him, but he's closed to the idea.


Any suggestions?
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