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I am not really into fundoshi (wearing them myself
-- freeballer here), but I certainly enjoy seeing
other men wear them. It's the traditional garment
(actually undergarment) worn by most Edo era men under
their kimono/yukata (before arrival of Perry's black
ships circa 1857). For nearly a century, it was still
used as underwear and the bathing suit for men, but
it's popularity as an everyday article of clothing
declined after the American Occupation introduced
Western-style underwear for men. It's now become
garment of choice for many 'masturi' - Japanese
traditional festivals - many of which celebrate the
coming of age of young men and involve some type of
virility or fertility ritual or ceremonial tasks. A
variation of it, the 'mawashi' is still worn today by
sumo wrestlers.
In 'matsuri', groups of men (old and young) don the
fundoshi (with or without happi coat) and parade the
streets and shrine grounds carrying the heavy wooden
floats (actually portable shrines, 'mikoshi'), heaving
it up and forward with their loud chants and
boisterous energy. Quite often when ONLY the fundoshi
is worn - with nothing else - the fesitval is
frequently referred to as a 'hadaka matsuri' or naked
festival.

It's true that some department stores in Japan got the
idea to 'rename' the fundoshi and market it as
'samurai pants' or something like that, but it's still
rather a special item that most men wouldn't own. For
example, how popular is the thong for underwear or a
bathing suit? Still there are a few men who wear
kimono on a daily basis (instead of Western
suits/pants) so I'm sure that you can find fundoshi at
department stores and speciality stores. Even if not
don one publically, some men might like the masculine
image of the fundoshi and may be wearing them under
their western attire - sort of like men who like to
wear a jockstrap instead of boxers or briefs. A lot
of men at the age of 20 (for both men and women)
celebrate Coming of Age Day (1st Monday in January)
and some of them wear traditional kimono (and may be
wearing a fundoshi underneath (although I have my
doubts). Summer festivals and firework display bring
out hordes of people, particularly young men and
women, in the traditional lighter cotton print
'yukata' (cheaper version of the often outrageously
expensive kimono). I bet a few men wear a fundoshi (or
like I do - nothing) underneath.

Some of my Net pics on Japanese male bonding,
including many with men in fundoshi:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/sunbuns/sets/72157600219588448/


Mr. Wada is photographer who specializes in Japanese
festivals and seems to capture men in fundoshi at
literally hundreds of festivals.
http://wadaphoto.jp/maturi/
An online store's ad for fundoshi:
http://www.wasuiya.com/english/index.htm

A blog by Japanese guy interested in naked and
semi-naked men:
http://blog.livedoor.jp/fundoshi/archives/cat_489179.html
(He has several categories, included the one for
matsuri and fundoshi above)

YouTube vid on how to put on (tie) a fundoshi:
(in Japanese - for modesty's sake, the model is
already wearing a fundoshi as the instructor
demonstrates how to put on (over the exisiting one).

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3GZE5SV1NBY

So you can imagine what it's like being where a lot
of men are getting dressed in fundoshi. He explains in
Japanese that most people can't get a fundoshi tied by
themselves (you need a third or fourth arm). So you
can see why I think male bonding is one of the
functions of Japanese festivals - you have to get
naked and up closer and personal with another guy and
then groups of men in order to wear a fundoshi and
participate.
Well, I was wrong about one thing - YOU can put on a
fundoshi by yourself. The same instructor completes
his training of the younger fundoshi wearer - and put
him to the test. A follow-up section of the earlier
video (see my last posting for the URL).

This time he starts out without anything on
underneath.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RYzcxUshh6E

 

[sunbuns99]

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Compared to the northern climates (esp US, Canada, Northern Europe) in February, even Portugal's winter will probably seem warm - although the ocean is still too cold for most people. Culturally and for sight-seeing, Portugal and Morocco will be your best bet. That being said, I'm a sucker (literally too) for the great sand dunes at Maspalomas on the southern end of the island of Gran Canaria (I've visited it the last 3 years in March - temps daytime from 18-24 degree celsius - generally toward the higher end) but clouds and rain (or Saharan winds bring yellow sand) are not completely uncommon. For a gay holiday, it's a fun place - although the men seem to be ranging toward the middle-age and older bracket. Younger guys (teens-20-30s) are abundant enough but they're usually travelling in groups and as couples so it's harder to 'meat'. I recommend staying in Playa del Ingles - since it's got everything and is closer to the Yumbo (main shopping center that also has most of the gay clubs, including several sex clubs/backroom bars.)

--> Photo (naked in the dunes of Maspalomas (southern Gran Canaria).

You have to plan a bit to get the right transportation routing to be able to visit all three places affordably and on a set schedule. There are not really many flights from Morocco to the Canary Islands . Since there are Spanish territory, you'll find more flights and better fares from Spain (or even London (Gatwick) and even Germany. BTW, there are thousands of older Northern European seniors who descend on Gran Canaria en masse - it's a bit like Florida in the winter. They come of the sun and cheap food - menus are in 7-8 languages (mostly North European).

Don't count out Spain as a connecting point between all your 3 destinations. Spanair (a Star Alliance member) has lots of flights to all 3 places and you can sometimes get good discounts - although they are more than just this airline serving them.
Seville - not far from the Spain-Portual border is a great sightseeing town and it's warmer there than Madrid or Lisbon. Also there are flights to Gran Canaria from Seville. You can also reach Morocco easily from Seville. Sample itinerary: Start at Lisbon (you can also end up there by doing the following in reverse)- It's lovely place for several grand days of sightseeing (city views, palaces, art and history, great dining), If you have time, try to go north to Fatima for a 'religion' touristic experience, which was the site of the mystic appearance of the Virgin Mary to 3 teenagers that reoccurred every year since 1923?). Sunday morning is the best time to visit Fatima - since that's when all the pilgrims / sufferers come to receive healing (walking on the knees) to mass.
Then travel south stopping perhaps at Evora or along the coast west of Lisbon, then go along the south coast (the Algarve) by train / bus to Spain (Seville).There are nice seaside resorts along the way (best in summer of course), or stop at the far west, Capo de St. Vincente. This is where Columbus studied at King Henry the Navigator's school) on the southern/eastern most tip of Europe. I also loved stopping at Tavira (quaint seaside town with a unofficial nude beach (probably still too cool for most beachgoers). There are bus and trains to Spain (Cadiz - where Columbus set sail is a nice side trip) - his first land fall was at Gran Canaria (where he always stopped (at least 4 times) to replenish suppliers. If you have time on Gran Canaria, you can visit the Columbus House (where he stayed during these stopovers and see the little museum and the Cathedral nearby).

This is a photo of a horse-drawn buggy for rent in the plaza just ouside the Cathedral of Seville.
By the way, Columbus' body is buried at the Cathedral in Seville - which is one of the most outstanding church building in the world (converted once to mosque during the Moorish occupation and then back to a cathedral )
Once you hit Spain and see Seville (worth at least two days), you can fly to Gran Canaria (or try a hydrofoil or passenger ferry from the south of there (near Gibraltar) to Tangiers in Morocco. (check out schedules because there may be seasonal limits). Tangiers give you just a taste of Morocco - hardly the best and even maybe a distaste - because you'll be swamped by self-declared 'tour guides' who just want to make bucks ( a lot - if they can rip you off) to walk with you in tow around town and then end up taking you to a relative's restaurant or carpet or souvenir shop to try to bargain down ridiculously over priced meals or items. Travelling in Morocco alone and without a clear head and definite plans can be a bit daunting - maybe things have changed since I visited there a decade ago.
If you fly into Casablana or another city with hotel reservations and a set timeframe, you'll probably be less likely to get lured into going along with some cute Moroccan young guy who's just flirtatious enough - with a smiling face to beguile you. I took the train from Tangiers to Fez and was fortunate enough to meet a school teacher who ended up inviting me to his home and having a meal with his family.

Hiking nude in the dunes at Maspalomas,
Gran Canaria (Canary Islands, Spain)


Follow up: hardfuck2
11 Oct 2007, 16:33 Wow! Sunbuns99. you travel along way just to visit GC. i think its great rthat you do. You obiviously enjoy yourself there. good News for you. there is a €400 million faceleft in the pipeline next year for Playa del Ingles and the Yumbo centre. should be interesting to see will everythinfg remain the same or will be try to drive out all the sex. they woud be mad if they did cause the gay people bring so much money into the area...
sunbuns99
U.S.A. : Follow up: sunbuns99*
12 Oct 2007, 11:40 I've been to GC three times around St. Patrick's Day .. I guess you might have been one of the Irish who was celebrating during one of those times.
There are lots of Irish pubs and the day brought out a parade and dancing in the streets.
That' s interesting about the facelift / renovation. Do you know when construction'will begin and be due for completion? I don't know if I'd enjoy visiting it while that is going on.

P.S. Have you been to any of the other Canary Islands? How's the gay / nudist scene of Tenerife, Lanzarote, etc.?

Gay Pride in Gran Carnaria : Follow up: hardfuck2
12 Oct 2007, 18:34 Nudity is allowed on all the islands but gran Canaria has the busiest gsay Scene. Tenerife is next and the lanzarote and Fuerteventura. If I were you I would take a ferry over one of the other islands for a couple of days to have a look. check out www.fredolsen.es. its in spanish but its easy to work your way around the site as parts of it does come up in english. not sure when work is going to begin. it just said next year sometime. i'm heading over to GC next week, I'll see if i can find out anything about it then and let you know, Keep in touch. this will be my 25th visit.. lol ...I go 2 or 3 times a year...x

Sunbuns - nude and cruising in the dude thicket of Maspalomas, March 2007 Follow up: 13 Oct 2007, 06:26

I saw your post on the travel forum about Gran Canaria. I'm going and don't know whether to stay at Tucanes Club Beach Boys or Villas Blancas. Any tips on those or other places?
From Sunbuns99 To: Midtown2
I haven't stayed at either place. For two reasons, I go to GC mainly because of the natural setting and also the dunes - being naked and cruising with dozens (if not hundreds) of men occupies my days - so I'm not spending time lounging around at the pool (probably clothing optional at those two gay hotels). I'm also alone when I travel - not a couple as you might be - so you might have a different 'purpose' for your trip - enjoying each other - so a nicer accommodation be best.
I love the natural settings /diving/ hiking/ but that's available lots of places so GC is about a gay (sex) vacation (at least in large part for me).. so I'm either out enjoying cruising the dunes and clubbing at night and doing the outdoor stuff during the days - I don't spend much time at the hotel.
Therefore, I prefer to stay at a cheaper place (preferably with a kitchenette) and then I can make more trips per year (to other places). Of course, it's easier to make friends at a cozier, gay hotel so that has it's advantages too. BTW, if you decided to look for different hotels, I have had pretty good luck with a UK site called, alpharooms.com
I recommend staying right in Playa del Igles so you can be within walking distance of the gay clubs and the beach and dunes. Otherwise, you'll have to take taxis or buses everywhere. The main airport is just south of Las Palmas (large port city on the north tip of the island), you can either take a taxi to your hotel (about 40 euro), but there is also a city bus (#60) leaving for south (Maspalomas-Playa del Igles) (Be careful there is also the same 60 north so don't get on the one going the wrong direction - I did that! ) for much cheaper 3-4 euro --- although need to know where to get off for your hotel.

When are you going? I've been the last 3 years in March but I'm not sure I will go again next year -- or try another time of year.
Kelly

REPLY from Midtown2

Thanks for the info. We are a couple who had been together for 18 years so we are out cruising for sex too. We aren't going until next August but I just booked the flight because you have to book on Delta as soon as the tickets become available to fly for free using miles. We are going to Sitges first. We go there every year and stay at the liberty hotel. We walk to Playa del Muerte every day which combines the cruising, hiking, and nudity into a day long adventure. for the second half of the trip we are going to GC which sounds kind of like Palm Springs on an island. Have you been to www.basementstudiosgc.co.uk?

Reply from Sunbuns99:
I guess you could call it that the PS of GC island. Like PS, it's also more popular in the winter than summer - but I don't think GC would have the same high summer temps.

Wow.. I didn't know about the Basement Studios - looks pretty wild - sex in and out of the room 24/7 and the staff will particpate if invited (see FAQ).
There are a couple of sex clubs in the Yumbo Centre (ground floor) - bars with dark, back rooms, harness slings, wall-to-wall rutting men (it was fun!) Since they cater to tourists, there isn't that strict a dress code at the bars (I guess some mirght and you do have to strip and leave all your clothes checked (in a bag) when you get in.
The strict dress (or undress code) at BS would cramp my style too much , but the prices - 2 persons 85-100 euro a night are not TOO bad. Still, I have usually stayed for around 30-40 euro / night, but I explained. You certainly get more action that the typical gay hotel - I just wonder how it is in August? Also did you read the additional posting on the Travel Forum (by hardfuck) - he mentioned some major construction (renovation) due to start next year - he's headed to GC next week and will try to find out how it might affect the Yumbo and other places.
Kelly
REPLY from Midtown2

Photo of some greenery among the vast sands of the Maspalomas dunes. Just barely visible are nude people hiking in the sand and seeking shade.

 

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Anyone who's a member of Flickr or MySpace or Xtube (and the alternatives) like the young man above probably knows that there seem to be thousands of people who like him (and me too) 'flash' their nude bodies and genitalia for strangers whom they have designated as 'friends'. By the way, he's got a LOT of genitalia worth showing off, too. In some case, they just make their nude and/or explicit photos open to the public (Flickr usually catches up with them and deletes their accounts). The same is true for video-sharing websites which seem to be proliferating so fast I can't keep up with them all (e.g. Xtube, etc)....
I'm not complaining -- I do the same thing myself.

[FONT=times new roman,times] Before some religious-right morality freak goes on an anti-flashing terrorist rampage and condemns real-live dickflashing, they should just take a look at all the 'flashing' happening virtually.
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We don't categorize them as exhibitionists just because they are putting up nude photos of themselves but what's the differences if they are putting them up just SO they can be viewed (via the Internet) instead of live. The other day I was commenting on a Flickr contact's pics coincidentally while he was uploading them. He wrote back.. "please write more comments because it gives me a big hard-on knowing that people are viewing my pics. " Of course, I did -- but is that what we've all come to - vicarious 'flashing'. I guess he should set up webcam.. the feedback would be a lot quicker.

All of this guy's pic are nudes

and all are open to the public. He's a Flickr contact - but perhaps he got other reasons that just showing himself - I think he's selling himself (not for sex) but as a future partner.

I realize defining what it really flashing and what is 'virtual flashing' is probably a matter of intent and also has something to do with the will of the audience/ viewer. A 'real' flasher (true exhibitionist fetish) seems to need to be seen by people (whether or not they want to see him). The most extreme fetishist needs to be "seen" doing sexual things (being naked or jerking) in order to get off. Just posting yourself in nude pics or even showing yourself aroused or engaged in masturbation or sexual intercourse in photographs might be exhibitionistic but it doesn't make them (us) a true flasher ... I suppose. Maybe I'm just self-talking (this post or my blog) to try to justify or rationale by own use of virtual flashing.

I guess I'm trying to say that there seem to be a lot of people with exhibitionist tendencies -- so many that I find that my own form of peekaboo flashing and 'accidental' exhibitionism (wearing skimpy or revealing clothes, or going to nudist beaches, being naked in hostels with clothed roommates, etc ) to be not that extreme.

Sexual preferences, fantasies and fetishes are unique and sometimes strangely so. But societies love-hate relationship with sexuality and sexual behavior - especially male-male sex -- is even weirder.

What's your take on it?
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The spirit is willing but the flash is week day and weekend!

 

[sunbuns99]

It amazes me that I can walk down the street on any morning of the week wearing a mesh athletic pants (liner removed) and never get a stare. I've been getting a little more daring but still most people are just oblivous. I know when I am out walking or going somewhere, my eyes are constantly on the 'crotch watch' and looking at guys' butts. I guess that's is part of what makes me (I'm surely not alone here) work differently. Well, I sort of got a look for a guy in a passing car. He was working in the cemetery so saw him a minute later but he was not alone. I chickened out of strolling by -- he was busy. It's getting cooler so the mesh pants won't work too much longer.
I have been asked where I got these pants. I know several online underwear/sportwear stores have them but those are more expensive and more see-thru than you might need. I found these at either Walmart or Kmart - but Sears or JCPenny, etc would have them - although more expensive. (US but I'm sure there are equivalent stores in the UK and Australia - I'm not sure about continental Europe, however, they are probably manufactured in China, so they're likely to be found anywhere. They are in men's athletic or sportswear section. Sometimes you can find a bargain price. Check the size of the mesh on the outer layer. Some have a very tiny mesh but these were a larger weave - allowing more visibility. If you can take out the lining only on the front of the pants - so that when heads turn the pants will look like ordinary ones. If you lucky enough to be noticed, then at least they can just wonder if they really saw your cock or just the illusion of it.

Being a closet flasher I enjoy wearing my mesh shorts or athletic pants (liner removed) outdoors. Amazingly however, I rarely get noticed -- even when I don't wear a long shirt that would cover up the fact that I'm freeballing and hanging loose. There are different sized mesh weaves so the amount of transparency varies on the garment and whether it's sunny or cloudy (amount of light) affects how see-thru they appear.
For the first time in a pretty long while, I actually did get noticed. I went out about 7 a.m. the other day wearing my long mesh pants to take a morning walk -- without my dog. Lately I've been taking the dog out and hour or so later than that. Along came someone on a bicycle who I've seen in the neighborhood before but haven't for a long time. He's a gardener / landscaper who works at a nursery nearby.
I remember him because he's used come early to pick up the company truck parked in a lot across from where I live. He would arrive on his bicycle and then proceed to stand sideways out in front the parked vehicle and take a long piss (just about every morning). I had noticed this habit - not because I was spying on him - but I'd see him when I came out to get the paper, looked out the window, He was apparently not deliberately exposing himself -- at least from my viewpoint. Yet I always wondered if he were sort of doing it on purpose. If he's coming to work by bicycle, his own place couldn't be that far away. For a year or so, his company uses a different parking lot for their vehicles so I've not seen him taking a morning piss. Well, that other morning, as he rode passed me on his bicycle his eyes centered in on my freeballing cock in these mesh pants which was just hanging partly below my shirt. He turned in from a side road and so his view of it was just a short glance, but he definitely reacted. Because he had earphones on, as was listening to music, he could not heard himself but I heard him mumbled just as he passed me 'goddamn! or something like that, doing a double take.
Somehow I don't think he was not as shocked as he was surprised - maybe even delighted -- that there was somebody in his neighborhood he would do what he's been thinking about so long (his pissing in public was just his way of innocent flashing). So I now I think he might have been getting his own thrills as he 'innocently' pissed in public ever morning.
I know there are many -- if not most freeballers - who do wear no underwear for a lot different reasons than the thrill of accident exposure. But I think there might at least be a element of thrill of being seen for a good many -- even showing a VPL (visible penis line) through your pants/short that are NOT mesh must be appealing to some freeballers. Wearing mesh and semi-transparent or see-thru or ripped clothes with holes while freeballing is more further step along in that direction.
By the way, beside mesh pants/short does anybody get off wearing ripped jeans? I've got some old ones I cut off as short but they are full of holes in the crotch so somebody can get a look at skin and maybe more when I wearing them while freeballing.

On a morning walk in the cemetery a few days back, I pulled off my pants - always wear a loose fitting cargo pants and freeball. So it's easy to quickly do a bit of 'stealth flashing' -- I call it 'stealth' since I don't believe anybody is watching. It's just the fact that they might or could at any moment -- there are cars intermittently passing along a lane about 50 m behind me. I got excited and just secs later starting jerking off until I cum.
Showing 'face' when your flashing or 'innocently' exposing yourself to strangers is actually less risky than doing so on the Internet. I mean there are only a limited number of people who actually see you and many don't really 'see' you at all. Even if they do, they don't want to act on it (confront your personally or even call the police and press charges) and then they don't have 'proof' - just their word against your.

I was once arrested for lewd conduct charges (a felony in Mass). It happened while on vacation near Provincetown in 2005. It was a police who saw me -- although I was just 'pissing,' which I was, he claimed I was trying to flash him (I was wearing a skimpy see-thru pair of shorts but he could not have seen that from the distance he was when he first noticed me). I was not convicted -- of course --the case was dismissed because it was a case of false arrest/police brutality / insufficient evidence / unlawful seizure of evidence (my camera), I obtain the services of a local lawyer who had experience with theis particular police department. It seems they often made this kinds of arrest in order to discourage 'perverts' from coming into their community - -not Provincetown township but another one further down (south) the Cape.
But the whole trauma of the experience taught me some valuable lessons. For one, it made me realize how vindictive and self-rightheous some people are -- including well-meaning and hardworking police officers -- most of whom I have a great deal of respect for the dedication. But flashing on the net or letting your face get shown may have some risks that you cannot control or may not even realize until years later. Thanks, Toras, for being encouraging without be condescending. I have lived in communities where a Causasian male (which I am ) is a rare minority , so it means I would have no trouble being picked out of a police line-up. Toronto has a very multi-ethnic community - there are about 800,000 people of Chinese origin alone live in great Toronto -- at least you can 'pass' for a local. I can't where I am living now - that's why I guess I went overboard last summer and was a little bit too careless while vacationing on Cape Cod.

I thought I blended in as to be unrecognizable. The other interesting phenomena and also could make flashing (exposing one's genitals and face) on the Internet somewhat riskier for people who define themselves as flashers, exhibitionists and exposers is 1) the tendency for the Christian right to categorize them as sex offenders -- the same as child rapists and baby killers, and 2) the new Internet technologies for tagging pics, passing data including pics and tags through RSS feeds even further around the globe, and geotagging - ties/links an Internet object (user, picture, file) to a specific geographic spot. I know this is off-topic , but it was my topic (Walking the Dog) in the first place so I doubt the moderator's will mind. I usually do a lot of thinking while I am 'walking the dog' which is both a methophor for 'wagging the wiener', freeballing in the open air, airing out the family jewels. But it also is REALLLY what I am doing -- taking my pet dog for his daily walks.
I also think about flashing both as my hobby and also about it repercussions and consequences too - while I'm enjoying the solitude and occasional chance to peek-flash some guy (see separate, earlier posts for the narratives) Back the thesis -- We know there is tracking of what you purchase and even what you're interested in (sites that you have visited leave cookies that search engines can pick up and then display ads that are related to the types of sites (products) you've been visiting. Google does that big time. So it's not too big of a stretch to think that pics (or other data files or media objects), which you download or that you place on your website or public / private profile on some social network, or that you even look at briefly online, might leave discernible and followable traces.
I've got profiles all over the net and many pics with and without my face -- both under my real name and my various alias (sunbuns is not my 9-5 working world identity). Someday somebody is going to find a way (my conspiracy instinct says they already have) to collect these traces (tags) or at least connect them like dots. So they'll start selling the information (klandestinely of course) for ostensibly purposes of security and anti-criminal protection but the personal id info will most certainly also be used to defame and try to ruin the reputations of people (basically good upstanding citizens -- like me and you) for political gain, religious cleansing, or profit from blackmail or pay-offs. Sorry to take a sinister lapse into the dark side of the net... Hey, it's my real birthday today.

I'm 39 - yep! Well, at least 'sunbuns' thinks he is or at least won't admit to being any older than that - and he usually says he's younger). I remember a comment your once made in another posting -- most of the people on this site (who are interesting in or doing flashing) are in the 40s and 50s. In honor of the fact that I'm chicken to show my face here's another pic -- not only faceless but too headless from one my walking-the-dog hikes into the local cemetery. If I get any more 'invisible' - I might as well be dickless. Sometimes I think it will be good to be reborn as a dickless being (a female?) in my next life. If I am not recognizable, may be my dog will be.
On the public profiles, I was referring to in my post above is located at Dlist -- a gay social networking site (I feel like a 'old' man among the 'twinkish' - hipster GQ types plastered all over the home page. But what the hell -- I like college age dudes - and sometimes they like a guy who's more mature and obviously well-endowed (I don't mean 'big' dicked). http://www.dlist.com/sunbuns

If you visit it, you can see a slide show of guys showing off in public. Which means that ANYONE can see the photo and the profile - if someone is savvy enough they can probably find out my IP address from the uploaded pics or code. So -- it's not all just conspiracy. Someday I'll be knowledgeable enough to prove my thesis by showing you exactly how it might work. I collect such pics and thousands of others. I am turned on more by 'real' photos of real guys getting nude and being naked, male and happy about it, than the slick, hard-glossed superstuds and huge meaty cocks of the porno models. I have them in Flickr and a few thousand save in Yahoo Photos - only friends can see them - unlike Dlist and GW - my profiles and pics are password protected. I realize it is not much security (protecting one's identity from theft or blackmailing/blackballing) but usually like-minded people of the same persuasion join a gay or porno site.
[NOTE about these photos of other people: The guy above (with the cut-out face) and below with the big cock are 'flashing' friends. NudeforaThrill was a 'nudebeach' buddy who let me take some photos of him on San Diego's Black's Beach, but recently he's seemed to disappear from 'view', meaning he's not active on certain sites and doesn't seem to want to talk. Matt below is the famous Nitroxflash. ]

That's not the case with these two new entries, GW and Dlist. Even Yahoo 360, MySpace and Tribe.net don't allow just anyone to see a profile (or at least the parts you don't want made public). I am pasting the link the Slide.com slideshow below and I'll try to embed the player here too (if HTML for the slide show doesn't work into this post, then you can see it at my dlist profile above or at the link below.
The ultimate expert on dickflashing is Matt - better known as Nitroxflash. He seems to be taking a hiatus from his blog on the subject but it has lots of useful past entries: Nitroxflash's blog.
Do white mesh shorts show off better than black? That's what I've heard -- but I don't have any light colored ones to test that out. Of course, it matters how much direct light (sunlight) there is and the width of the mesh opening, how reflective the material is too.
I just posted this video (it's from last year) at GayWatch.com, but I think you can view it here:
http://www.gaywatch.com/view_video.php?id=1305
It was a rare treat -- not only getting buck naked on a public beach -- but improvising a dildo out of a cucumber that I stopped and bought on the way to the beach. Wish you'd been there to view me -- it's a sometimes cruisy area where guys go out to sun themselves nude, but frequently there is sex play (mutual - not just alone like mine) in and among the brush and low dunes. Local fisherman often come up along the beach and stay for a long time. Tourists and people out enjoying the beach could have caught me dickflashing with the anal toy inserted. Keep me hard -- I saved cumming for a little later trip back closer to Waikiki (where more secretive nudity and male-to-male cruising goes on.

 

[sunbuns99]

This first slide show should relieve a little of that pre-Thanksgiving holiday boredom. It's a Slide.com slide show of some freeballers (well .. I'm almost sure they arenot wearing undies):
http://www.slide.com/r/GA4RK47pvj9E4K4f6cbPXBYCmE7rgPb2?previous_view=mscd_embedded_url&view=original
If you're really bored, try this one out: JustUsNakedGuys (slide show of just that!)
http://www.slide.com/r/UO54aKvo4D8B...previous_view=mscd_embedded_url&view=original
More of the same but REALLY more (guys getting down right nasty too):
http://www.slide.com/r/wyBbno2o6z_Ca8OVmFG0TNrGBSJbKLXd?previous_view=lt_embedded_url

 

[sunbuns99]

I find that it's sometimes easier to find out whether somebody's freeballing by what happens at the back of his pants - instead of the front. Not that the front is not a lot more interesting, but I guess I'm an ass man - at least in part (LOL). I certainly appreciate it when a hefty lump (VPL) shifts in a guy's crotch - during movement - walking, jumping, skating, or when he's partially aroused.
But there are probably more times I can recognize another freeballer by seeing him show some ass or his ass crack -which can be very hot, too!

Guys who like boardshorts, of course, (extreme sagger dude here), but you're more likely to notice them UP FRONT .. especially when you see well below the navel or when the pubes are showing.

and skaters sometimes seem to be more likely to be freeballers than just your average guy.

Someday I'm going to set up a booth on Waikiki Beach (or someplace like it) and ask guys, "Do you freeball?" (or what kind of underwear they like to take off lol) - and get them to let me take their photos.
Wouldn't that be a great summer job? -- Maybe as a advertising campaign for some men's products, etc....

Kelly (on Flickr: sunbuns )

Last edited by sunbuns on Thu Nov 15, 2007 4:45 pm;

deman

Location: Delaware
Posted: Sat Oct 27, 2007 2:44 am Post subject: Exhibtionist　I live in a conservative area, so cover up my crack and unzipped shorts with a shirt. I love wearing shorts and pants that show the outline of my cut cock.
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I love to wear jeans, shorts - anything low so that crack shows in back and they are obviously low in front. In the summer I love to wear an old pair of cut offs in the yard without a shirt. Depending on who's around, I let them go really low, exposing anywhere from 2" of crack to half my ass to OOPS, they just fell to my ankles.

I also love to see other guys who do the same.

sunbuns

Location: Pahoa, HI, Nashville, TN, Tokyo, Japan

Warm weather (esp tropcial climates) and the local mores bring out the best in young men (older ones too). Unfortunately the authorities have started banning sagging pants and showing underwear in some communities.
Hawaii always has more than fits air share of saggers - so it's not uncommon to get quite a few glimpses of 'sags' to this degree - front and back. I always think later -- "why don't I have my camera' - but then I think better of it.. I'd look like a tourist snapping away at these guys (surfers, sk8ers, college guys on vacation, etc). I need a good cover/excuse -- maybe I'll try a T-shirt and a proper -ooking badge that says: 'Official Flickr Photographer' or "VPL Staff Photographer". I wonder how many people on the street know what VPL stands for. [grin]
Here is the low sagging guy above seen from behind.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/sunbuns/412201206/

　　 sunbuns

Location: Pahoa, HI, Nashville, TN, Tokyo, Japan

Hey. here's a great way to make new friends or draw a crowd of admirers --At least one guy is freeballing and the rest are showing butt (freebutting) ). I wonder what brought on this 'ass inspection.'

If the image doesn't show click one of the links:

http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2310/1778137905_809169e290.jpg

http://hardtwoholed.blogspot.com/2007/06/flickr-addiction-part-1.html

sunbuns

Location: Pahoa, HI, Nashville, TN, Tokyo, Japan

Not shirtless but he's freeballing by all appearances.... and making it obvious. I wonder how many of his buddies are too.
Maybe it's an initiation rite into their Freeballer's Circle.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/sunbuns/607192708/
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sunbuns
Location: Pahoa, HI, Nashville, TN, Tokyo, Japan

Of course, there are times when you just have to be direct in your approach to find out whether a buddy or new acquaintance is freeballing.
If he's coy about it, just take matters into your own hands - you'll never know what might come UP!
This is one of my favorite photos:

http://www.flickr.com/photo_zoom.gne?id=384526857&size=m<a><img></a>

sunbuns
Location: Pahoa, HI, Nashville, TN, Tokyo, Japan

&#12288;And then there are the ones where there is never any doubt. Love to see guys wearing overalls and nothing else. That garment is so convenient, comfortable and makes everyTHING so accessible and often times visible.
Woooooffff!

http://www.flickr.com/photo_zoom.gne?id=380413905&size=m

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northernutahbidude
Location: Ogden, UT

Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 9:00 pm Post subject: Re: Making sure
I grew up showing my cock to anyone that wanted to look down my pants -- even as a teen, I freeballed.

sunbuns
Location: Pahoa, HI, Nashville, TN, Tokyo, Japan
Posted: Wed Nov 21, 2007 2:37 pm Post subject: Happy Thanks4Giving_It_Up Day&#12288;
There are plenty of US residents here. So Happy Turkey Day.. maybe there should also be an appreciation day for Giving Up (Wearing) Underwear.
These Czech guys certainly have a LOAD to be thankful for.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/sunbuns/1318139046

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sunbuns
Location: Pahoa, HI, Nashville, TN, Tokyo, Japan

Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 10:18 pm Post subject: Thanksgiving for (on) the beach!&#12288;

Nice decoration on this body.He's no turkey... it almost makes us forget he's freeballing.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/sunbuns/370362149/

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sunbuns
Location: Pahoa, HI, Nashville, TN, Tokyo, Japan
Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 4:34 pm Post subject:

&#12288;One of the dudes is freeballing.... wouldn't you know it! He happens to be the one with sex on his mind .. (notice his t-shirt). Just goes to show you... freeballing encourages horniness in those who DON'T use underwear.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/sunbuns/2060998412/

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sunbuns
Location: Pahoa, HI, Nashville, TN, Tokyo, Japan
Posted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 4:06 pm Post subject:
&#12288;Once you've taken that much stuff out of your shorts, then they ought not to sag THAT much... (LOL). Lucky us - nice view!

http://www.flickr.com/photos/sunbuns/756382502/

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deman
Location: Delaware
Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 5:36 pm Post subject: We can always count on sunbuns&#12288;Thanks...we can always count on you to give us something to jerk off to. The flickr link didn't work for me.
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sunbuns
Location: Pahoa, HI, Nashville, TN, Tokyo, Japan
Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 6:53 pm Post subject:

We can always count on sunbuns - well... not always!&#12288;It's not much fun when nobody else posts or replies. Thanks for the word of appreciation.

Yeah, the Flickr guest pass links don't work (I let them expire). If you want to see, you'll have to visit my photostream at the URL below and become a Flickr friend in order to see any photos with nudity or explicit scenes.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/sunbuns/

 

[sunbuns99]

I have been three times before and will go again to the island of Gran Canaria in the Canary Islands off the coast of Morocco in March of this year. I have written about it before, but the topic came up again on one of the gay travel-related discussion boards (actually Dudesnude dot com).

Gran Canaria is a fairly nice gay travel destination - there are excellent points but also some negative aspects.
This entry is mainly about the sex clubs and the dunes.
In the Yumbo Centre (the largest shopping and commercial complex in Playa del Ingles on the southern and resort/beach side of the islannd, there are a couple (or more) sex club/backroom bars on the ground (basement floor) - they don't even open to 10 or later. You check your clothes at the door and there is not a dry (cum free) body by the end of the night (4 am?)

However, I have heard that the Yumbo Centre is going to be renovated sometime this year.(Someone on this site told me many months ago so I'll have to look him up since he was due to travel there in Nov/Dec).
It may be closed when you (or I) want to go there.

The above bars/clube should not be confused with Basement Studios www.basementstudios.es
which is a gay hotel just across from the Yumbo that requires a dress code for staying guests (different 'costumes' each day - all nude, jeans, leather etc,) and the rooms are all opened at certain time for those willing guests to freely roam about and suck/fuck like rabbits (I think that you can also pay to enter as as temporary visitor to enjoy the sex fun). See the site for details. I choose to stay somewhere cheaper (see alpharooms.com for ideas). I'd be exhausted in no time fromdiving in the morning, sex in the dunes in the afternoon and wide abandon both all evening and all night (LOL).

Of course, the dunes will NOT be undergoing renovation - except just what nature provides (wind/sun/blowing sand) andwith nature taking its course (so to speak) - it's very cruisy - almost non-stop in the dunes. It is truly a nudist paradise - but it depends on what (and who) you expect to see walking the streets of heaven.

You should realize that - at least during the winter - Gran Canaria is the temporary home for thousands of retiree couples and also gay couples of all ages (who just want to get away from the snowy colder Northern European climes. There is a lot of camaraderie but typically couples are just hanging out and meeting their 'old' friends whom they met over several wintertime visits to Playa del Ingles / Maspalomas.

Nevertheless, there are hundreds of male (and sometimes female) nudists out sunning and also cruising the famous Maspalomas Dunes from morning to sunset. However, beggars can't be choosers - I'd have to say that the average age is at least 45 (probably older - more like 55 some days) but .. what the hey... who am I to turn done the advances of some middle-aged hottie. I am well into middle age myself. The clubs are different they attract a more virile and younger clientele.

The Canaries are NOT only about wild sex.. there is historical, cultural and natural environment that has a lot to offer - in fact, I go there as much for the diving and hiking and marine sports as for the gayness of its this varied resort attractions - it IS part of Spain after all.

I heard immediately (private message) from the DN member whon I spoke of in the post above. Good news - at least for those traveling to GC this winter/spring. He was there in Dec and has visited it many, many times.

"Hi, this is the guy that told you about The Yummbo Centre getting renovated. The Good news is that it is but won't be shutting down because of it. Nothing is going to get going till later on this year, so its free to party party party just like before."


I've never been to it The Basement Complex - but here is the web site:

basementstudios.es/web/

I'll be in Playa del Igles from March 11-17 so I might check it out (if the weather outdoors turns cloudy).

For some reason (not really strange), St. Patrick's Day is a pretty big affair in Playa del Ingles (Gran Canaria) -- probably because there are so many expats or visitors from Ireland (or with Irish origin).

A word of advice from HardfXXX, another discussion participant:

I didn't mention that I was actually in The Basement. They are open to Visitors everyday but they have a very strict dress code of Nude, leather etc...they dont allow guys to wear speedos boardies etc...sex goes on everywhere. It up to you if you want to rubber up. I was guys been Barebacked by numerous guys. I saw fisting session piss sessions you name, it all goes on. you really need to have an open mind going in. I wasn't shocked but have to say, it is sex 24/7 so if you stayed there, i reckon you would need another holiday when you leave. The Basement is a great place Guys go go go...They also have a sex party of a wednesday afternoon til late into the night.. thats a fucking horny one I tell you...Happy Holidays...


What seemed to be all too common (at least at gay sex clubs/backroom bars) on Gran Canaria (specifically at Yumbo) was the LACK of free condoms (or purchaseable ones).
So... take you own supply if you want to ensure 'playing safe' - evidently, Playa del Igles is a little too hedonistic or the word (or epidemic) has not reached the upper climes of Europe - most visitors there in March (I've been on or around St. Patrick's Day three different times) seemed to be just a bit too oblivious to the need to safe sex - strange since they come from such enlighted countries (Germany, Austria, Holland, Scandanavia, France, the UK and Ireland etc) The dunes of Maspalomas are somewhat a different 'territory' - everybody has to BYOE (bring you own everything) and guys are more likely to cruise between picnique 'lunches' than to be drinking heavily as they do on the bars. Less alcohol = safer sex practices.

Reply from HardXXX:

As for the condoms guys, its always a good idea to bring your own supply. Guys go around all the bars once or twice a week giving out free condoms and Lube to the bars for their customers. Unfortunately, some of the greedy guys get them all and leave none for others. Also, not sure if any of you are familiar with the kite symbol? its a little symbol on the back of Condoms saying that they have passed british standards, the condms in GC dont carry this. Also, I have a fairly large cock and I find the condoms over there are too tight, they stop the blood flow and so i loose my hard-on. I bring durex easy roll. they are great for getting on in the dark...lol

 

[sunbuns99]

Elegantism (member id) started off the discussion on hostel hotness like this:

Travelling through Europe, [ I stayed in hostels sometimes] 8 guys to a room I always thoughts something hot would go down.

I remember this one time in Italy where the room was tiny and there were 6 guys in it. all ended up sleeping naked on top of the sheets sweating and boning all night long.

Any more exciting stories?

<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sunbuns/384520144/" title="buddy_sleepingover02 by sunbuns, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/187/384520144_feca1bfa37_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="buddy_sleepingover02" /></a>
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Follow up: beachpuppy
I was staying in a hostel in Verona, Italy, in a beautiful converted villa. Some of the showers were communal, shower heads from a common pillar. When you took showers, it meant you were standing around the same pillar, sort of face to face. Got hooked up there taking showers together...


Follow up: nakedparis
It happened to me in Budapest; the hostel was an university residence and showers were in a big room; there were little walls between showers but no curtains, so it was easy to peer the guys in the fron shower's line or drying after the shower.
In Stockholm too, I found two hostels with showers not very private; there were curtains, but the undressing room was common, so before and after the shower, we could peer each other.
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<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sunbuns/384520051/" title="boys2 by sunbuns, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/187/384520051_62fc3a4383_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="boys2" /></a>

My response:

It's great to find others who are equally attracted to CMNM (clothed male / naked male) experiences at hostels. Sex is sometimes overrated and that's not just sour grapes because I can and do get a lot of it. But I find the male bonding / friendship/ buddy camaraderie / 'skinship' aspect of relationships with other men (not just sex) can be so much more easily experienced in an environment like a hostel and I find myself craving such experiences because I feel so isolated from knowing men fully. Sure I can fuck around with guys, but it find it hard to make friends or just be buddies with guys without sex at the same time releasing our typically mutual inhibitions toward deeper male friendships.

I have had some great times and also some highly homoerotic stays at several hostels... particularly at one hostel (presently unnamed) - which I have described here on a previous thread posting (now disappeared). I've written about these hostels and sought and given advice about travelling using hostels and the male bonding / male nudity that can happen here and on my blogs.
nakedparis (above) has a great idea but I think we need another site/venue to share these since DN is so limited and the posts eventually scroll up and disappear. Also, there is the issue of privacy - when we start actually naming places and giving out address, then it may get back to the hostel owners (indirectly) that their establishments is targeted by gays/bi-guys seeking sex in their hostels. Some of the hottest places to stay are not always to gay-friendly or diversity oriented.

In the meantime, I want to hear more from elegantism about his experiences...
Hey, don't any of you guys blog? One cool idea is to create a Group Blog (using Blogger and Flickr) with multiple account holders (blog members). It's easy to set up (I can do that) and then you can either post entries by going to the Blogger (there can be many blog members or you can blog an entry by sending an email (even with an attached photo).

What do you say? Anybody want to try that... the discussion can still go on here but a 'good / useful' entry could also easily be blogged too. It doesn't mean to have to share id or have common passwords either.

<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sunbuns/384519873/" title="2702 by sunbuns, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/156/384519873_676c8efa4c_m.jpg" width="240" height="167" alt="2702" /></a>
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
A few days later...... I added:

I created the CMNM blog and I can add you as a co-author.
Actually, you don't have to actually join blogger to do so - because even without being an (approved) blog author - it is now set up to allow posts to be sent by e-mail. That address is written in the first (trial) post at:

guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com/

The problem is how to handle explicit sexual photographs (I discuss in that post). Not having any solves that dilemma-- but there is still the matter of what constitutes 'sensual / sexy vs erotic or artistic nude vs blatant sexual behavior or obscenity as defined by the courts.

It won't be an issue-- of course -- if nobody ever posts or even reads it.
Look at it first and then tell me what you think about 'managing' the off-site blog..... Guys Into CMNM

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So now it is off and running more to follow later.....
Kelly (sunbuns99) Flickr (sunbuns)

 

[sunbuns99]

CMNM = Clothed Male Naked Male. What is it?

Basically the idea is that -- for some guys (I would argue that for most guys -- not just gay men), it is intimately arousing and often sexually hot to be the only naked guy in the room when everyone else is wearing clothes. That's the basic condition for CMNM -- which I can't really disagree with, of course)--- but for me -- CMNM has a lot more to it than just that.

First of all, it matters (or doesn't matter -- if you are versatile) whether you are the one naked or the one clothed. I like to be boths -- at times. But like most sexual pleasures, preferences, and personally erotic behaviors or scences, there are hundreds of variations on what turns people on and as many 'flavors' - vanilla to extremely spicy -- as there are shades of human personality.

It also matters - importantly - whether the CMNM situation is completely natural or voluntary or whether it's a contrived or mutually agreed to social convention - for example, one guy being made to strip (apparently 'against' his wishes ) - rather like a police arrest with full body check.. or more subtly as in the case of a doctor's physical examination. So the aspect of level of control vs freedom plays a role it CMNM for some men. Some only find it kinky or stimulating if one of them is 'bound' - either physically or often just psychologically... so the idea of service or subservient - even S & M -- may be a part of it for some people who seek these scenes. But it does NOT have to include that - at all.

Obviously, important too is the level of 'realness' or authenticity to the CMNM event or experience. So.. are they two guys just role-playing in and out of clothes -- as a kind of private (or public) game or is it a real daily life experience involved CMNM that suddenly turns on one or both of the participants.. like say.. when a young cute doctor gets a hard-on examining a hunky military dude or when a police officer rookie gets his jollies when stripping down and 'manhandling' a suspect - touch his genitals or rubbing his ass and legs... So the aspect of 'uniform' and everything that clothing or lack of it (nakedness) symbolized can also come into play in CMNM interactions.


Another very important aspect is the level of intimacy - sexual, psychological or emotional.. for some people these are completely separated or one or two may even be completely divorced from the CMNM interaction. For others, the CMNM expereince may be the only time that these three critical aspects of human intimacy CAN be fused together. So some CMNM may happen between completely or virtually anonymous people -- and for others, they can ONLY engage in CMNM behavior and actions exactly because they KNOW the other person very well or even romantically.

The final aspect is whether this is social ordained and accepted as part of larger group or even community situation... just as college fraternity hazing or the locker room antics that goes on among male sports teams... or in work situations when the 'younger' and newer males on the job have to undergo some type of 'induction' rituals for new recruits ... It may be partly (or mostly) fantasy in many cases.. but there is also a strong element or possibility that such kinds of CMNM interactions do happen for real and may either secretly or outright knowingly represent some kind of sexual or homosexual gratification for some men - regardless or not - whether they recognize them as overtly homoerotic, or gay or perhas as nothing more than 'just us boys' goofing around.


This post is excepted from my new blog: Guys into CMNM
Participants from JUB (and other gay social networking and discussion sites are welcome to read and also contribute articles, stories, and links etc.

Visit the blog at: Guys into CMNM
http://guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com

<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sunbuns/384558452/" title="doctorsexam2d9c9 by sunbuns, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/142/384558452_4147de2e3a_o.jpg" width="404" height="600" alt="doctorsexam2d9c9" /></a>

I think that many guys who visit (lurk) or participate in the forum on JustusBoys or DickFlash.com or Dudenudes are actually CMNM participants -- I seem that the need for sexual intimacy is NOT the only reason that males - especially so-called gay, bi, and curious men - like to congregate on such sites. I think we all have a basic need for naked intimacy and yet - we are also 'trapped' by the social mores and prohibitions of our modern 'human' socities which requires us to behave in rather repressed ways and to be completely clothed when doing that.

I would like to expand the definition of CMNM that I have given above:

In CMMN, everyone else does NOT have to completely dressed (there can be a mixture or dressed and nude people in the same situation. It can be a private one-to-one relationship or in a social group or even the public community (such as New Orlean's Mardi Gras or SF street fairs, Burning Man,etc). There can be more than one nude guy - it's just that there must be at least one clothed guy too. Often, guys can get CMNM thrills by being the dressed one or the naked one alternatively.

I know that it works this way for me. I'm not passing any critical judgement: some people are turned on by multiple form of sexual stimulation - some of us are bisexual (past / present and future) and some of us get off flashing or simply just being exposed (or getting to see those who do). A true (extreme) dickflasher seems to get off by showing an erect cock in places/situations where people don't expect it and are shocked to have the 'space' invaded by a hard dick.. at the extreme, it may be the only way he can get off (ejaculate). It seems that there are actually very few guys who fall into that category.

<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sunbuns/375290868/" title="specialinspection206 by sunbuns, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/163/375290868_a5ce1a01f0_m.jpg" width="240" height="160" alt="specialinspection206" /></a>
The CMNM (being exposed where clothed guys can view (and/or be visual stimuated) seems to find his (me being one of them) thrill in being naked in front of guys (dressed or in a state of dressing/undressing) where it's is more or less socially acceptable or at least tolerated (even glorified) - like a public street fair or a no-pants or strip night at a male-oriented bar, etc, or more 'innocently' in a locker room or frat party. But I know that in my case, I get a lot more social/psychological fulfillment / satisifaction (?) and some erotic/sexual pleasure from being in a CMNM situation - especially where I can establish a personal relationship with the clothed (or naked) guys. Recently, I find this often happens in a hostel or similar situation (campground, at the beach or gym showers, or clothing optional resort, etc, where you meet and befriend strangers who later get to see you naked or even aroused - almost by 'accident' not totally by design).


I collect a lot of CMNM photos and have them for 'friends only' on: http://www.flickr.com/people/sunbuns/

You have to join Flickr (free) and add me as friend to view the pics. Please STATE on your profile that you are 18 years old or OVER 18. This makes things legal and I'll get less flack from Flickr for pandering to minors.

There are also thousands of Flickr groups (little discussion but lots of photos) devoted to different aspects of this same idea: Frat parties, doctor's physical exams, being naked in public (not just flashing from a alley or window), sports locker rooms, etc. My own Net photos collections are categorized in sets as such. There are also scores of Net porn sites devoted to some particular 'flavor' or scene that is strongly related to CMNM. There are also a few private and public groups on Yahoo and Tribe.net devoted to CMNM.

<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/sunbuns/375290868/" title="specialinspection206 by sunbuns, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/163/375290868_a5ce1a01f0_m.jpg" width="240" height="160" alt="specialinspection206" /></a>

* You must be a Flickr member and my Flickr friend to view the private pics on my Flickr photostream.

Kelly (sunbuns99 on JUB) and sunbuns on Flickr

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This post is excepted from my new blog: Guys into CMNM
Participants from JUB (and other gay social networking and discussion sites are welcome to read and also contribute articles, stories, and links etc.

Visit the blog at: Guys into CMNM
http://guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com

 

[sunbuns99]

A recent posting (today or last night) was definitely a CMNM experience and not simply male-to-male flashing.

http://www.dickflash.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=23752

stephen wrote: I'm a VERY straight looking and acting Bi guy and LOVE getting seen naked by straight men. I really enjoy having Workmen, Truck Drivers etc see me in the buff. I keep it TOTALLY straight though.
I recently went for a bike ride on a hot day, and came accross a Truck Stop. There was a Truck Driver washing his truck. The area was kinda hidden from the main road. I asked the Driver if there were any taps around to cool off. He pointed one out next to his truck.
I stripped off and had a shower under the hose! He knew i was naked, and it was obvious he didn't care, nor was interested- PERFECT!
I then walked up to him starkers and started chatting while drying off.
I love this sort of thing, nothing sexual- just Blokey nudity!
Anyone else into the same?


Forgive me for crossing posting.... but this CNMN thread was far down the list (and probably NOT going to be read unless it has a 'new' posting)


The above story by Stephen is the kind of non self-gratifying erotic or intimate experience (no or little arousal or orgasmic climax - at least not then - maybe later) is exactly what I've been talking about (on this site and others and my new blog) - as the classic CMNM experience.

Sports team strips and shows off one of their members on a bus.



I think it comes from a basic need for most (gay or str8 ) males to express intimacy between themselves and other men - - it's not just sexual lust (although it certainly can be and - for some people -- it IS a large part of it - for other (perhaps like Stephen - it is not - it's more social and psychological- emotional) -
So. .CMNM is using 'nudity' to symbolize and actualize this intimacy. Think about it... what could be MORE intimate than bearing your nude body to another guy (clothed or not) - it's a kind of symbolic act - NOT SUBMISSIVE either -' although for some guys it could be )-- but it's like saying: "Hey, dude. I am me - see me as I am and accept me for what and who I am. I want to be your buddy and for you to be mine."
Often times, it is easier for guys to start to really communicate once one of them has 'bared' his soul and his body to his buddy (or even a new friend or stranger).....
We can see this theme repeated over and over again on the different posts on this board....

CMNM occurs when one male 'needs' to be nude - actually naked - and the other guy(s) are clothed - they are apparently NON-plussed by the fact of the nudity or just oblivious, unconcerned or feigning disinterest. For some the 'clothed' person becomes an object of desire IF he seems to be interested and excited by the sight of the nuditiy - other's seem to get their rocks off by the embarrassment that such causes to the clothed viewer.. all these are simply variations on the basic theme.

I know somebody is going to say I'm over intellectualizing - I can agree with that... but no matter how much I 'talk' / lecture - or NOT... it doesn't change the fact that male-to-male intimacy and the lack of it is at the core of what drives us to return to this site and these discussion and to tell our stories and experiences...

Stephen's experience is what I call what I call an 'authentic' CMNM experience
It's not really about flashing, which is a specific kind and more directed or focused sexual experience than the one that Stephen is describing above.

For more info see my blog (or contribute to it):
Guys into CMNM http://guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com

 

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These are the 'real' guys who really do it for me... like in this CMNM photo.


It's a classic (NON-sexual) situation - but for the 'trained' observer (and practitioner of CMNM(clothed male naked male) .. this is very hot. It's a photo that has story - a set of relationships - buddy-to-buddy and in a group..
It's about being naked (because of and for the benefit of others ) for uniquely for reasons that are different for each person in the room.
And it''s about having fun. They are dancing and naked with friends -- not so much ashamed as just shy or reluctant to brag or show off - but still just enough to want to... the hot young bodies make it the whole scene even more eye-catching and attractive...
The second photo (b & w) is another classic CMNM example. The guys are just being boys and doing 'what boys do' but so often it involved playful sexually-suggested aggressive behavior. Although he appears to be just all in fun, sometimes (I'd dare say a lot more than could ever be admitted by them (although eventually 'one' will grow up and confess otherwise).. there is a lot more sexual attraction and downright flirtation in these 'naked fights' than meets the eye.

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Popular Urban Legend: This was originally posted on JustusBoys.com by HazeMaster
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A naive young newbie on his first job is tricked by his buddies into thinking he is scheduled for an annual physical.

His pals send the rookie to an empty examination room after the Employees' Health staff has left for the afternoon.

A "doctor" arrives, tells the greenhorn to strip, and begins a routine physical.

The "doctor" tells the newbie to sit on the examination table doggie style while he administers a thorough and extensive anal probe. The newbie can't see what's going on behind him, and has no idea of the varied objects the "doctor" is inserting up his butt hole.

Meanwhile, a security camera is recording the exam, and the rookie's pals are cracking up watching the show on closed circuit TV. After the rectal work-up, the "doctor" milks the newbie's dick to get a smear of pre-cum for a slide (or 2 or 3). The "doctor" tells the greenhorn the pre-cum looks suspicious, and says he'll need a semen sample.

As he pumps the newbie's dick, the "doctor" asks the rookie extensive (and embarrassing) questions about his sex life: When did he first masturbate? How often does he masturbate nowadays? Has he ever masturbated with other guys? Ever have oral sex with guys? Ever have anal sex? Ever have sex with a woman? With a hooker? How did he lose his virginity?

The "doctor" keeps pumping away at the newbie's dick. But no matter how many times the greenhorn shoots, the "doctor" says the semen sample isn't adequate for lab tests. Finally, when the rookie is completely drained and exhausted, and has answered all the doctor's questions about his sex life, the "doctor" says he can get dressed and leave.

By this time, the guys watching the show on closed circuit TV have all jacked off, and got themselves a brand new video to play at stag parties.​

 

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I was staying in hospital recently for a condition that has also occurred before. There are lots of chances for CMNM experiences while in the hospital. This is the story of what happened - specifically the erotic experiences I encountered during that time.

I ended up on the same ward of the same hospital where I stayed before. Two of the attending doctor's are the same, but one is new: young, tall, and he has a deep voice and sexy hands. It gives me a thrill when he stops by to examine me on his am/pm rounds. There really is nothing to suspect he'd be interested in one of his patients sexually. But that hasn't stopped me from fantasizing and also trying to flash him from my hospital bed. There is something horny about being physically examined daily by men in white coats! LOL esp when the nature of the illness is rather mild -- by comparison with other patients who seem to suffer a lot more. The fact that I spent time reading porn stories ( some about this very thing - medical exams)
while lying hours on a hospital bed certainly enhanced the erotic mood.

Dr. M usually makes a point to stop by twice a day...so I've been greeting him with my robe open slightly at the crotch when he has stopped the last few days so that now I'm thinking he's got the idea I like him seeing me nude. Yesterday he made an unscheduled stop in the p.m. When he asked about my throat, I had just a peek of my crotch
showing, but then he wanted to see my ankle so I had to stretch out my leg and I am pretty sure he got a clear, but brief view of my semi erect cock when my robe opened up more. I couldn't really look down and confirm or I'd been obliged to cover my 'accidental' exposure. He stayed a
minute more, making small talk, but he was not cruising me -- at least not blatantly -- maybe he's not at all interested, but oddly enough he came back alone this a.m. after a group of doctors he was with stopped by earlier. I made a point of extending my leg to let him feel my ankle thus exposing my groin with my partly open robe. I couldn't gauge his reaction, however. There is another young doctor who is friendly too, but it's not clear whether my showing some glimpses of penis is having any effect on him either.



After that episode, I got so horny that I decided to go
outside while the sun was shining and to try to get partly naked.

Behind the hospital but still on its property is a small park area with benches. Trees, and an open area that adjoins the parking lot. That's where I headed mid afternoon wearing my robe and nothing else - actually a Japanese yukata - while that in itself is not unusual, most of the ones people might sleep in are normally white with a traditional printed pattern. Mine is for casual day wear so it is a tan and beige modern design.

The parking lot is near the back so there are not as many
visitors, but instead there are pharmaceutical company salesman who park their cars there and then wait between appointments. A few of them were parked (backed in) and sitting in the driver's seat. They could probably get a look in the rear view mirrors of what I was doing. I opened the front of my robe and then started pulling on my cock until it was fully hard -- although I can't be sure anyone's looking, they certainly have the opportunity and that thought kept my juices flowing all evening and half the night.

My hospital room is a group room -- one for male patients -- shared with three other beds - separated by curtains. Last night between 12-2am, I couldn't stifle the urge to beat off - but I made sure to make squishy jacking noises on my cock as I edged up and back from a final squirt when the
20-something guy in the corner bed seemed to be likely to be awake and listening ( turned over or got something to drink). Later in the week, I got increasingly horny and something got naked on my bed behind my curtained off area - but I always tried to leave the curtain open enough for my fellow room-mates to get a look if they wanted. Mine was the closest bed to the door and also the toilet - so the others had to pass my bed to get to those. On some nights (and even during the day) I would sleep in the nude and casually let the cover slip off or have my ass turned over and exposed.

I know this story may not mean much to anyone else, it 's not much I admit, but as I was confined to my hospital for more than a week , I found that environment incredibly sexual. With security cams everywhere I was not about to flash strangers on the elevator - neither was there much chance of klandestine sex from my fellow room-mates. I think what I was doing now was some form of CMNM
simulation.

 

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Today is the last of my week-long hospital stay. Young Dr.M, who I described in an earlier posting, had already visited me once,so I thought any chances of him seeing nude were unlikely. But - what do you know! - he came back to say he needed some photos to document how I had healed.

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What luck! I was wearing my gown with nothing underneath. Of course,I knew this was my flashing opportunity come true! So I disrobed while on the bed right in front of him. He was very professional, but my cock started swelling up. It took him a few minutes to get the photos - mostly close-ups. By this time, my cock was nearly erect and starting to leak. I was delighted he didn't just hurry away, but stayed a couple more minutes and chatted - all the while letting me show him my naked body, cock and balls. I think he somehow knew that this was a more intimate kind of bedside manner that this patient really needed and appeciated!

 

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Coach's Office By Roy (original story formerly available on Bad Puppy; photos were added separately by me)


The mid-afternoon sun was beating down on my back the duration of football practice, and I was in no mood for Coach Smith's continued yelling about my slacking off today. He finally crossed my last nerve and I told him I was doing the best I could. He stormed up to me and said that he was sure he could adjust my attitude. He ordered me to run 10 extra laps at the end of practice. By the time I finished the extra laps, the rest of the team had already left.




The locker room was empty. My shoes made a clicking sound on the tile floor as I crossed the locker room towards Coach Smith's office. I nervously knocked on the wooden door, the sound filled the locker room. From behind the door, I heard the power in Coach Smith's voice as he ordered me into his office. "It took you long enough to finish those laps", he barked. The anger in his voice caused me to fear this man for the first time. "I am sorry for the trouble I caused today, Sir", I meekly replied. " Oh, you will be sorry, young man", Coach Smith said in a low angry voice.

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He slowly opened the top left drawer of his disk. He removed a large clear Plexiglass paddle. As he swung the paddle back and forth, the air whistled through the holes that had been drilled in the paddle. With each swing, I began to sweat. He then removed a well worn leather batter's glove, he slowly put his large hand in the glove, adjusting the fit until the leather was like a second skin on his large hand. He slowly walked around his desk and went to the door and turned the lock. The sound of the lock filled the empty locker room and filled me with a feeling of anticipation.


Coach Smith stood behind me and placed his massive hands on my shoulders, "It's time we started with your attitude adjustment, young man", he said. He ordered me to stand with my hands on his desk, "You must be kidding" I asked. "Either do as I say or you're off the team" he barked back. I slowly stood He jerked back the wooden chair that I had been sitting on. I bent over, placing my hands on the desk. Coach Smith rubbed the Plexiglas paddle over the center of my ass. I heard the air whistle as Coach Smith took the paddle back, the anticipation of the blow filled me with strange sensations; both of tread and excitement. Coach Smith lingered with the return blow, he seemed to sense my anticipation. He said nothing as his powerful arm brought the paddle down against my upturned ass. Even with my practice pants on , the blow sent a pain through my body, my knees almost buckled. I heard the whistle as the paddle as he readied for the second blow. My body tensed as the blow was delivered. With each blow the pain increased, and so did the strange sensation of excitement. Coach Smith delivered ten hard blows to my backside.

As Coach Smith walked around his desk, I straightened and started to turn toward the door, " Where do you think you are going? We're not finished" he stated loudly. My heart almost stopped when Coach Smith ordered me to remove my practice pants. I started to refuse, but before I could, he informed me that the punishment would worsen the longer he had to wait. My hands trembled has I unlaced the front of my pants. I slowly removed my pants and placed them on the wooden chair. I stood before Coach Smith with just a jockstrap and a jersey on. Strangely my body began to tinkle with the anticipation of the pain that was surely to come. Coach Smith ordered me to return to my position over the desk. Coach Smith stepped behind me and slowly ran his hand over my burning backside. As his fingers touched my ass, I became strangely aroused. Coach Smith removed the wide leather belt from his pants, I heard a cracking sound as Coach Smith snapped the belt together. My body trembled and I started to feel a burning in my groin.



The first smack of the belt on my scarlet ass sent my body jerking forward. Coach Smith grabbed the back of my jersey and brought the belt down against my ass. With each of Coach Smith's powerful blows, the stinging pain of my ass brought my cock to stiffness. When Coach Smith finished, my swollen cock pressed against my jockstrap, Coach Smith jerked me upright. I hoped that he did not see my swollen cock. I noticed a strange grin on his face. "I see someone enjoyed our lesson. Maybe I need to continue" Coach Smith said through a grin. He pulled me towards the wooden chair and laid me over his knees. He positioned my swollen cock over his own manhood. He started to rub my burning ass. H then raised his gloved hand and brought it down on my waiting cheek. First the left cheek, then the right. With each slap of his hand, I felt his cock press against mine. He continued to rub my ass between each blow. After an additional 10 slaps on each cheek, his hands started to explore my scarlet and purple ass.



His fingers forced their way towards my asshole. This was the first time anyone had touched the inside of my ass. My body became aware of his probing fingers as he slowly pressed them into my hole. The pain of the spanking was soon replaced with the pleasure of Coach's probing fingers. "Breath deeply and relax", Coach Smith whispered in my ear, I took a deep breath as he pressed his fingers deeper into my body. I was soon aware that I enjoyed his probing and tried to open myself to him. I felt his hardened cock moving against mine. My body trembled. He removed his finger from deep inside my body. Sweat soaked my jersey. Coach Smith told me to stand. As I did so, I could see his cock pressing against his zipper. Coach Smith rose from the chair. His hand came up between my legs. He firmly squeezed my balls and cock. My body started to buckle, but Coach Smith held me tightly. "Ever had someone play with your cock before?" Coach Smith asked. "NO," I said through trembling lips, " Should I stop?" he asked. Again I answered no.

Coach Smith slowly raised my sweat soaked jersey, exposing my hairless chest to the cold air that filled the room. My nipples started to harden. Coach started to slowly lick my nipples. He removed my jersey and brought his mouth over my hard nipples, his teeth barely touching my tender nipples as his tongue rolled against the tips. My body started to tremble from this new sensation. I pressed his head harder against my heaving chest. He unbuckled his pants. The sound of his zipper couple with my increasing moans of pleasure filled the office. Coach then removed his shirt. I was overwhelmed by the site of his nearly naked body. His sweat glistened on his smooth muscled body, my trembling hand reached out to touch a man's chest for the first time. The touch of his bare chest, sent a feeling of total joy through my body. I looked into his icy blue eyes. I wanted this man. He pulled my head towards his, he pressed his lips against mine. I felt his tongue trying to part my lips. I willingly gave in. His tongue explored my mouth deeper then any girl's I had kissed before. My hands started to explore his chest, my fingers caressed his nipples. I wanted to taste the sweat on his chest. I kissed and licked the area around his nipples. My first taste of another man's sweat was more intoxicating then anything I had ever drank before.

Coach Smith pressed me against his desk, his hands slowly caressing my stomach. As he lowered his hands towards my swollen cock, my breathing started to become shallow. His hands played with the top of my jockstrap. He slowly pulled the sweaty straps way from my body. The chilled air touched my hard cock as the jockstrap dropped to the floor. Coach Smith's hands slowly made their way along my legs, his very touch sent electricity through my body. His hands stoped just inches away from my balls. I held my breath as his hand tenderly rolled over my balls. He caressed my cock. My knees buckled, Coach Smith caught me and layed me on his desk. His mouth slowly lowered over my cock. I felt the wetness of his mouth, his sharp teeth scraped the head of my cock as it entered his mouth. His lips pressed against my groin. The sensation of the suction of his mouth on my cock was like no other sensation I have felt before. I felt as though I would explode. Coach Smith continued to suck my cock and balls. His finger was again pressing against my waiting asshole. He stoped sucking my cock long enough to lick two of his fingers. He then returned his mouth to my cock and started to explore my ass with his finger. My asshole did not give way to his long finger. With gentle yet firm pressure, he inserted his finger into my hungry ass. Soon his single finger is replaced with both fingers. My moans intensify, I felt a sensation I have never felt before. Coach Smith sensed my pending explosion. He removed his mouth and fingers. He looked down at me and smiled. I watched as he removed his own jockstrap. I saw, for the first time, how large and hard his cock is. He started to stroke his cock, "It's time for you to lose your virginity" he said as he stroked his cock with force. He reached into his bottom drawer and took out a small tube of clear liquid and a condom.

I stared at his cock as he slowly rolled the condom over the plump head of his cock. The condom covered his cock with a tight fit. "This will help," he said as opened the clear liquid and smeard it over his cock. He then smeared the cool liquid on my asshole, and with his finger, inserted some inside me. He pulled me closer to the edge of the desk, raising my legs high in the air. I felt the juicy head of his cock press against my asshole. He grabed my hips and pulled them towards him as he pushed his hard cock against my ass. I felt a pain like no other as his head made its way up my asshole. I let out a small yell as he entered deeper in to my body. I was filled with a pressure as his body presses against my upturned ass. He stoped and told me to breath. I feel him begin to remove his cock. As the head of his cock began to leave my body, he forced it deep inside my waiting hole. My body arched with the force of the pressure. He began to move back and forth like a piston. He pressed his body against mine. Our mouths met one another. I could feel his blood engorged cock as he fucked me, he started to fuck me harder and faster. He removed his cock from my body. His warm cum shot over my belly. He spread it gently over my stomach and then took my cock in his mouth, sucking harder than before. I soon felt the pressure of my cum rising in my cock. I pushed his mouth away from my cock right as it shot a load all over his cheek. I was afraid he would be angry. He wiped my cum from his cheek and kissed me gently on the mouth."I am going to need another attitude adjustment again real soon," I informed him. Coach smiled as he gave my wet ass a hard smack.

 

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Some of the photos are of me and a few were even taken on this day by cellphone camera. But the others are just photos found on the Net. I obviously didn't get a photo the stranger who caught me naked and jerking -- although now I wish I had asked him to take a picture.​

I do a lot of travelling to Asia -- recently to Hong Kong and into southern China and have lived in Tokyo for long periods at a time. I want to tell about flashing a clothed Japanese guy in Tokyo a couple of summer .. actually, it was one of the first times to really flash a guy and get more than just a reaction. He seemed to really like seeing me nude and enjoyed watching me jerk off. It happended in a public park on Tokyo Bay and the young man was a complete stranger who was attracted by his noticing I was naked in a public park where other people where around. It caused hime to come closer and catch me masturbating and even to encourage me to ejaculate. It was one of the hottest experiences I've ever had with a stranger.

It was in early June and I had some time off so I went down to Odaiba -- which is a large man-made island in Tokyo Bay just across the Rainbow Bridge (I think that is name). There is a beach (not much good for swimming because the water is so dirty, but there are some windsurfers in the water). Out passed this sandy beach which is about 1000 m/yds longs, there is a walkway out to some old man-made islands (one is exactly square). These were built to appear to be fortifications and there were large fake cannons (highly phallic - if you ask me) that were supposed to scare off Admiral Perry and the American Navy way back in the mid 1800s. Anyway, this area is a public park now. So I headed out there one sunny Friday in June to check it out. I found one corner of the 'square' island where there were fewer people. It faced the long suspension bridge that spanned from Odaiba island over to main Tokyo.
The island has a embankment around the perimeter but the entire center is at a much lower level so you have to climb up stairs to reach the banks -- this means that many people don't actually see over perimeter as they walk around the island. There were some other people (partly clothed) sunning themselves further on down this side of the island so I decided to strip down to undies and catch some rays. One guy was wearing only a fundoshi - the wrap around loin cloth that used to be traditional Japanese underwear and now is typically only worn during festivals. Seeing him almost nude inspired me.


It wasn't long before I went further and took off all clothes. It was a grassy slope leading down the bank and I was sitting under a tree so it was not so clearly obvious to pedestrians who went up the stone stairs 30 ft behind me that I was nude. But if someone came off the walkway along the embankment and walked down the grassy slope, they get a good idea. So it was not a blatant act of flashing .. I was sunbathing nude, but that would only be clear to someone who was curious enough to approach me. There were boats that passed in the harbor which might have been able to see more if the driver or passengers were interested -- also pedestrians who walked along the bridge walkway could catch a glimpse of a nude form in the grass but they could not clearly identify me unless that had binoculars (or a zoom lens) since the bridge was far off. I stayed for nearly two hours -- not much happened.

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Another foreign guy (not Japanese -- I think he was European) came up and seemed interested. He sat down about 50 ft away and sometimes gave me a look. Later he got up and came over to ask a question about directions, I was pretty sure that he was not going to scream in panic and just wanted to get a closer look so I really didn't cover up. But he was pretty much on the level and didn't comment on my nudity or really show that much interest either. So he moved on after we chatted just a minute.



Well, I found that very stimulating to be sitting there nude in a public park in Tokyo -- admittedly it was rather isolated, but it was one of my first flashing experiences. I never consider being naked on nude beaches as flashing - -although I suppose if you are showing a hard cock in the dunes like you are baiting a cocksucker with a hook, line, and sinker -- that might count. I've done that.. but this was the first time to be completely naked in front of strangers (few and far between ) in a public park where most people would NOT expect nudity.

It was not too long afterward that I noticed a younger Japanese guy (maybe 20) walking along the embankment on my right. There was a concrete gulley (used to drain the central plain of the island) that was too wide to cross between us. He noticed me and then he sat down on a bench about 75 ft away but kept looking over at me, obviously intrigued. I lay back at one point so that he could get a real glimpse of cock and pubic hair so he could confirm I was really nude. That would either get his juices going or he'd just leave if he were not interested in seeing dick. Sure enough, he got up but with an obvious glint of real interest in his eyes. So he made his way back up the rigde and then proceeded down in the center of the island and disappeared. In a short time, he reappeared at the top again and looked around, seeming to decide if it was all right to approach me.

After all, I was this naked foreign (white) guy sititing in the grass on a warm summer's day not far from downtown Tokyo. I don't think it was something he had ever seen -- neither was it something I had ever done -- so blatantly. He kept his eyes on me -- wanting to get a look at my cock which had now stood up hard and erect - since his interest was so obvious. I was starting to drip pre-cum as he made his way down the slope and around the tree and then stopped in front of me - standing between me and the bridge in the distance.


He sat down on one of the poles that supported the single length of chain that roped off the edge of the bank, staring at my erection. He was definitely cute and I could see the lust in his eyes -- I was really excited and as he sat there I could not help but reach for my hard cock and stroke it. He moved up closer and stood over me as I stroked more. He braced my legs with his and pushed them wider so that he could get a better look at my ass crack too. He urged to me on -- asking in Japanese, ' Ii kimochi?' (Does that feel good?) I grunted in response and he asked me to go on beating, 'motto yatte'. (Do it more). I wanted him to reach down and touch me but he kept glancing to his left and right down either side of the embankment. Still he was encouraging me to keep stroking, 'ii nah".. "kimochi?". "Yatte." I could not keep quiet because it was SO hot to be watched by a complete stranger in a public park who was clearly enjoying the show. I was moaning too and responding to his taunts I pushed against his legs and raised up to reach for his cock through his loose athletic pants, but he pulled upright. Maybe he was straight or maybe he was too cautious to do anything himself, but he was certainly very interested in watching me jerk my cock which was copiously leaking clear pre-cum across my belly. It didn't take long at this point before I was ready to let my cum fly.


The guy watched more intently and bent over to get a closer look when my spunk started to splatter my stomach and chest. When I was done, he gave me a smile, checked around to see if we had been observed by anybody else. He adjusted his own erection in his pants to make it less obvious and then walked away. It took me a few minutes to get cleaned up but I decided not to press my luck so I got dressed and left shortly after that. It was my first public masturbation for a stranger -- it started me on my 'career' as a cock flasher, I guess. But so far, I've not had quite a similar experience. I have only one regret -- not asking him to take a picture of me jacking in front of him with my cell phone. I have some cell phone cam photos taken then but they don't show him.

 

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It probably stems a lot from what happened (or didn't ) in childhood / pre-teenage years and adolescence. Of course, it depends on what you mean when you stay 'start flashing.' But that's a whole other issue.

One of my first 'flashing' or exhibitionist experiences was in the 3rd grade - age 8. I had a school friend whose house was far from mine (we rode a school bus). Sometimes, in order for us to play, our parents would allow me to ride home with him, and then either mine or his mother would bring me home. He had a real wooden 'playhouse' in his backyard - complete with furniture, windows/curtains, and he also lots of toys and also clothes (his mother's mostly) for playing 'dress up.' We'd strip naked and put on the old clothes. I have an image of me running around his yard with a thin chiffon blouse with nothing else but a hard-on underneath. NO... I did not (and do not) get aroused by wearing female clothing - it was just the act of getting naked to dress up (only partially clothed) that excited me. I vaguely remember us comparing stiff dicks but I don't think we really did anything with them - although I kind of have a faint memory of us doinng something with granulated sugar and our woodies. My family moved every year during this period, so I didn't stay there long enough for things to develop further.

At about the age of 13 or so, - just about the time I discovered masturbation, I remember going out often after dark at 9-10 at night and then stripping off my clothes and sneaking around the neighborhood homes' backyards, garages, etc. One reason was the fact that I really did not have a place to jerk off. There were six people in the family and only one bathroom. While the basement was being turned into a third bedroom and family room, my brother and I had to sleep in the living room - just steps from my parents' room - so there was little privacy.
The basement floor of our house, whose back wall opened to the outside since the house was on a hill, so it was easy enough to go out without my parents knowing (and my brother was asleep). My mother was a nurse and often worked the 3-11 shift.

Once during one of these 'night walks', I was naked and my clothes were out of reach. I was sitting on a low rock wall behind my neighbor's house and was jacking on my cock in the moonlight. All of a sudden, a kid a year or so younger than me and whom I didn't know personally appeared out of the darkness. "What are you doing?" I was surprised and was so startled I lost my erection quickly. I guess because I knew he lived about 8 houses down on the next street - it got me scared that he tell someone or the word would get around. Actually - I realized later by the way he kept asking more questions about what I doing, he was probably curious about the jerking off.

He asked me if I lived next door, pointing to my house. But I denied it, saying I lived on another street. I got up and grabbed my shorts and shirts, put them on hastily and got out of there. Later when I got back to my bed, the fear lessened, and reasoning kicked in, and then I realized how much it had turned me on to be discovered like that - naked and jerking.
Later I wondered what he was doing out alone at night and further from his house than I ventured. Probably he would have joined me in getting naked and jerking if I'd handled it differently.


I guess that these events might account for my continuing habit of getting naked in public whenever I could. Later as a teenager, I used to take long rides on my bicycle and eventually find a place to get naked out in the country. Since it was broad daylight, I never really had the guts to risk getting caught - so I stayed pretty well sheltered from direct public view. But the excitement was always there because I could have been caught (or seen), and I never failed to cum quickly once I was completely naked.

One time a couple of summers ago, I got naked in a public park overlooking Tokyo Bay. I ended up being seen by a couple of curious male onlookers (casual strangers who were walking by and who seemed to 'know' that seeing sunbathers was common here). Of course, I think I was the only sunbather who was actually nude. Well. one of the curious onlookers was a young Japanese guy who eventually got closer and closer and finally came up to me with his passions obviously enflamed by my daring. I was lying naked in the grass, and standing over me (clothed), he encouraged me to beat off to ejaculation right in front of him. It was a very hot experience and one that has kept me trying to 'repeat' it for a couple of years of dickflashing experiences since then.

I wrote about this in my previous JUB blog entry and also on my Guys Into CMNM (Clothed Male / Naked Male) blog.

 

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For my part, I see CMNM scenes or naked male - clothed male interactions as something far broader than just humiliation vs power/control. As I think back over my 'development' as boy/teen/young adult/ mature male, I have a strong reason to believe that nudity (showing skin) is a fundamental and important form of male-male communication. While power/pecking order/rank/machismo are important aspects of the CMNM lifestyle (sexual preference/fetish - I hate to limit it to being JUST a sexual fetish). There certainly are CMNM experiences in which domination / control and power are essential elements. But that's also true for relationships (even non-sexual ones), so I'm not denying that. What I am trying to explain is that CMNM experiences do not occur exclusively with a power/ control factor involved.
I think it is just how and where such kinds of experiences actually occur (for what purpose do the men are doing the CMNM 'acts/behaviors' ) that determines more whether the 'sexual eroticism' of the CMNM involves a power exchange or not. Oddly enough, we've been having a similar (but limited because of text lenght) discussion on the CMNM Xtube group (that I started recently).
I think there are three (or four) broad categories for how and where CMNM occurs. And you can probably take that to mean its 'purpose' - it's not always has to do with just sex (getting off). When we start to view men's sexual and erotic behaviors as more than just SEX, then it both complicates and liberates the discussion/analysis.


1) planned events, pre-meditated experiences, or traditions that require the 'initiates' to be naked, or some commercial situations where both parties involved, the clothed man (males) and naked ones are participating willingly and in predetermined locations (such as a bar, Pride event, male strip club, male lap-dancing, or private group sex parties. Some examples are nude nights at some gay bars, or stripping contests, or amateur strip nights, or hiring a nude escort or sex 'massage' escort (not to be confused with a real licensed masseur or massage therapist). Some are these 'planned' CMNM events are a part of a larger men's gathering or nude or sexual retreat - CMEN, Burning Man, or Street Festival (Southern Decadance in New Orleans or Dore Alley Fair in Cisco).
There are certainly some traditional events or repeated celebrations or ceremonies (like hazing or sport team initiations, military or naval hidden rituals (less now I presume ) or assigned roles where some men are the 'victims' and some are the warriors / winners / masters who remain the masters of their apparently 'naked' slaves where humiliation and power/control is a very important part of the event. Some of these are lifestyle choices - such as SM bars or clubs, other are just part of the price of membership - such as a fraternity hazing ritual.

2) random, semi-random or semi-accidental, spontaneous or simply one-way CMNM (this is a very gray area - so it's not clearly definable).

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I don' t think that BOTH the nude and clothed male have to both be willing participants for it to count as a CMNM situation. For one of them, it may seem completely 'natural' or accidental. In these types of CMMN situations, only ONE of the two manipulates (or at least it appears that one side is cognizant and the other side is ignorant (or innocent) of 'planning' or 'willingly' participant in sexually stimulating their counterpart. A typical such scene is where the patient is asked to get naked (or partly) for a doctor's examination. It may be the doctor who's turned on (probably less likely) or the man being examined may get a thrill out of being seen naked or having his boyd physically examined. Whether or not the genitals are explicitly exposed or whether there is an outward erection is purely semantic - because it's how psycho-sexually stimulated the person (people) feels that matters.
So the exact environment or conditions are very important but also very unique and specific to the situation (like bad (or good - as the case may be) timing while visiting your Uncle's home - you open the door when he's dressing or using the toilet), etc) so that one male can either be nude or be the clothed one who enjoys seeing the nude male in a place where nudity may or may not be expected. Perhaps 'flashing' (showing your body/gentitals/nudity) to another male (clothed or not) may be a subset of this category ... or not.. I'm not quite sure.


As has been pointed out, one essential factor is whether power/control is involved and whether the sexual arousal is experienced by both (Clothed or Nude) participants. I think that the degree to which the CMNM event or act may or may not be related to whether or not it is a voluntary act or coerced or forced on the other party (by force, persuasion or manipulation that physical or psychological or social pressure or even some combinations of all three. is also important. Another important point is whether the power/submission is part of the social construct (police office / arrestee or suspect, teacher or coach / student or athlete or officer -military 'grunt' (lower rank), priest - altar boy, etc) or simply an interpersonal construct... kind of like role-playing like the father -son (daddy - boy) relationships that some gay men prefer.





3) accidental or unintended CMNM experiences (like when someone opens a toilet stall door and exposes a naked (or masturbating/erect guy), or getting locked out (pushed out) of a hotel room by college buddies, etc... ). There are all kinds of variables that come into play and the huge extremes in the level of conscious and unconscious sexual turns-on with all of these variations. the subtleties or the directness (blatantness) are different for every purpose and every person.

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Certainly, one aspect of CMNM involves flashing. Flashing is a form of exhibitionism - from mild to wild to extreme - exposing one's body, specifically the genitals and/or buttocks (or breasts in women) to another person or group of people (who may or may not be clothed). Mild forms of it are 'accidental exposure' or peekaboo flashing -which are so very common among some social groups and situations -- so much so that it is absolutely NOTeven regarded as any form of 'sexual' behavior at all - especially in some circles or subcultures.




Peekaboo flashing often takes the form of nudity at college boy dorm and social events or frat parties, nudity at sporting events, rock concerts and public events where young and often drunk people gather to 'have fun'. But it also exists on a more personalized basis .. such as between college dorm roommates or when regular handymen or deliverymen come to a person's house (sometimes repeatedly) and some accidental exposure to (male) nudity occurs.


There are legions of stories -- many probably urban legend -- about the voyeuristic adventures of pizza delivery boys, UPS truck drivers, and newspaper delivery boys - some of which they have documented (in blogs, Youtube, porno, etc) but more they themselves often are actually the targeted brunt of someone else's desire for getting-naked-for-the-pizza-guy prank. I have a strong feeling that many times such 'jokes' actually have latent homoerotic desires or subcurrents underlying the 'urge' to strip or to have someone stripped. Why then would getting the guys naked or panstied or teabagged be the NUMBER ONE hazing or college party pranks for seemingly millions of boyish breeder-types (twinks and young college or NON-college men up to age 30 or so). Spend some time searching YouTube or similar sites (or more blatantly risque or explicit video-sharing sites) to get a better idea of what I am talking about.
So this is an important form of CMNM experience that I don't really address in the above and that's because it's not easily categorized: flashing. Perhaps it's only related or could be considered a fourth sub-category or type of CMNM.

Showing one's naked body and/or genitals (without or without an erect state) seems to transcend almost all the above categories. It may be accidental or at least spontaneous, it is definitely a conscious act (though I guess a nude 'sleepwalker' doesn't plan his actions), and it may or may not occur in socially accepted circumstances... can you call show your cock (semi-erect) to another guy on a nude beach 'flashing'? Maybe it has more to do with the reality of erotic or sensual communication (body language, etc) than mere act of being naked in front of a clothed male.

 

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Getting naked for the sake of some higher or noble purpose seems to be modern society's rather quirky response toward liberating today's new sexual mores and to bolster the moral consciousness of our so-called degenerate tribe(s) of humanity.

It would be cool to actually participate , fo'sure!. It's a great 'safe' way to participate in CMNM and also promote an environmental cause. But unfortunately, not many people are ready for prime time nudity where I live.


We've been trying to get a World Naked Bike Ride started here (Tokyo) and elsewhere in Asia, but it really doesn't seem to go over that well for a variety of reason.
I notice too that even some major urban areas has some trouble this year. In some case, the authorities refused to allow 'full monty' nudity - although I didn't seem to stop the true nudist enthusiasts or believers in the cause of 'No more exposure' to automobile exhaust. It's clear that the United States is decidedly more 'conversative' that other areas of the world - Chicago, the 3rd largest city, held its WNBR at night.

For one thing, there seems to be a deluge of political apathy. People don't seem to care about making a strong political statement by public protest. Perhaps they have seen the futility of such protests (esp. public ones) over the generations. Secondly, people do not like to take personal responsiblity for their actions and decisions. Getting naked (partly or fully) is certainly a personal decision -- although it might seem to suit the 'group' mentality that seems apparent in many Asian countries. The fact is getting naked is very individual and very personal act.

Finally, the sense of indignant indecency or an attitude of righteous morality that comes from doing something so brazen just does not have the same meaning in Asian countries. Nudity is just a fact of life. It does not make the same huge societal statement because nudity itself is not regarded as morally corrupt or wrong as it is in Christianity and otehr monotheistic religion-dominated cultures.

The main reason I wanted to write about this was the thousands of great CMNM photos that appear during this season of the WNBR. Particularly appealing are the photos of naked men in the midst of clothed ones. For more posts on CMNM, see my Guys into CMNM blog: http:guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com

(Password for Glowfoto album is: naked )

 

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This post is partly to see if I can put Glowfoto pics (a mini-gallery below) here on JUB. The album password is: otoko (which means 'man' in Japanese). My JUB gallery has more photos of Japanese men. Recently, my Flickr account was deleted.

I'm not exactly or specifically a 'rice queen' - the old gay camp lingo to describe a queer guy who only likes Asian men. Being from a North American WASP (white Anglo-Saxon Protestant) background in a rural community, I didn't have much chance to meet, befriend or interact with other ethnicities in the decade I was growing up. That changed dramatically when I left the US to live first in Europe and now in Asia - mostly in Japan. Instead of rarely seeing Asians -as was the case when I grew up - nowadays, I rarely see a caucasian (European-type) person. So I guess I've grown accustomed to enjoying the looks and builds of Japanese men. I also intrigued by the paradoxes of Japan's masculine 'culture' - it is part of the social fabric and pervades a lot of what makes Japan the society and culture it is today. The camaraderie between Japanese men is something that rather fascinates me - in particular when the guys fool around with each other - mostly just in fun, but somehow nudity and exposing butts and coyly covering up the genitals (required by Japanese law) is almost more seductive and stimulating than full blown pornography.