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22. Bought something from an adult store?


Porn and Fetish Gear, I guess.



23. Do you own any sex toys?


No! I don't like toys, I want the real thing.



24. Does anyone have naughty pics of you or are you on film?


Probably, I'm sure there's footage of the time I tried out for Mr Gay UK, floating around on the internet somewhere. Also there's photo's of my cock and ass on more than a few guy's mobile phones.



25. Have you ever had sex with someone and called them the wrong name?


Well, when you don't know a person's name, it's freakishly easy to call out the wrong name during sex. I would also have to factor in the times, the guy fucking me lied about his name. Along with the times, that I was having sex with somebody else - in my head. On these occassions, I probably called out Ben Cohen or Brad Pitt's name.



26. Do you think oral sex constitutes as a form of intercourse?


Oral is only foreplay, even when I do it.



27. What's your favorite sexual position?


On my back, with the top holding my legs apart and fucking me senseless. I love to see a top's face, when he cums in my ass.



28. What's your favorite sex act?


Anal, without doubt!



29. Have you ever had sex with more than one person at a time?


Yes! A couple of threesome and the occasional GangBang. I wish, Mark was still available to pimp my ass out. I miss being fucked and bred by multiple guys.

 

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11. Has anyone ever gone beyond your personal line of respect sexually?


Yes, any guy who has hurt me while fucking me and failed to stop until I get used to his cock. That shows a total lack of respect. Monster cock is an exception, because it was glaringly obvious that he was going to hurt me.



12. Where is the most romantic place you have had sex?


Outside, in the pouring rain. It was with Christian and we were in Scotland together. The combination of the rain and the rugged landscape made it very romantic. But the fact that I was genuinely in love with Christian, played a part.



13. Where is the weirdest place you have had sex?


In a church, it was just a blowjob and it wasn't with the priest. But still!




14. Have you ever been caught having sex?


Twice, toilets in Gr8 Vicky St station and also at Gaint's Ring. Although the time I was caught at Giant's Ring, the guy was a fellow cruiser and wanted to join in.



15. Ever been to a bar just to get sex?


Is that not what your supposed to do at the weekend? I guess the answer is yes then!



16. Ever been picked up in a bar?


Yes, I can't even think of a smart ass comment for this one.



17. Have you ever kissed or had sex with someone of the same sex?


This question is retarded. I'm gay, I only kiss and have sex with people of the same sex.



18. Had sex in a movie theater?


Remarkably, No! Must work on that one.



20. Had sex in a bathroom?


Yes. I feel so dirty!



21. Have you ever had sex at work?


No. This is something else I must rectify.

 

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1. Is there anyone of your friends that you would ever consider having sex with?

I have a few friends who I'd consider having sex with, equally I have a few friend who I've fooled around with and at least two friends who I've actually had sex with.


My friend Stephanie, is married to one of the most gorgeous men I've ever seen. Dylan, he's a skinhead with an amazing body. He also has green eyes and cheek bones, I'm a sucker for green eyes and cheek bones. The added bonus is that he is hairy. I'd definitely consider having sex with him, but I'm sure it's not going to happen. I've had sex with my friend Melinda's fiancee, Richard, who's pretty hot. He's a Lifeguard and fills out his speedo nicely, the story is in the blog somewhere. I've also had sex with my friend Owen, another story that's in the blog somewhere. Finally, about a year ago, my friend Damien was having a house party. At 3 in the morning, most people were unconscious. With the exception of myself, Damien and our friend Gerard. None of us was tired, so we were playing the PS2. Damien is a total geek and naturally good at vid games, so Gerard asked me to distract him. I started to tickle Damien. Eventually I progressed to a point where I had my hands in Damien's and Gerard's shorts, they were both fully erect and packing some heat. Both of them have 6 or 7" cocks. That was a good night!



2. Sex in the morning, afternoon or night?


Generally in the afternoon or at night. I don't have anything against sex in the morning, I'm just rarely in a position where I can have sex in the morning. Although it's awesome, when a top slides his Morning Glory up your ass and fucks you senseless.



3. What side of the bed do you sleep on?


The right, always!



4. Have you ever taken your clothes off for money?


Does having sex for money count? I've decided it does, so Yes. Although, I tried out for Mr Gay UK, the heats were held in the Kremlin and I got a few bills of various denominations stuck in my briefs.



5. Have you ever had sex in the shower or the bath?


Bath = No. Shower = Yes, he was a very good-looking older, married guy and he managed to make it very hot.



6. Do you watch/read pornography?


Of course. I follow a lot of blogs, which are made up entirely of pornographic material. Don't know if Inches (Wank Mag, featuring guys with 8" plus) qualifies as reading material. As for watching porn, big fan of TIM, HDK and ThreshHold Media, also love amateur and vintage porn.



7.Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed?


Aggressive guys seem to be able to keep up with me, I am quite aggressive for a bottom and I don't think you can be a passive top. It's a ridiculous concept. However, you do get guys who are lazy tops. I wonder if they might be passive.



8. Do you love someone on your blogroll?


No! There are a few guys that I'd like to be proper friends with possibly and I'm in lust with Dan from Matt and Dan's Sexual Adventures. Well that is, I'm in lust with Dan's cock. But I'm not in love with any of them.



9. Would you choose love or money?


I'm a hopeless romantic. I know nobody, who reads the blog will believe that, but it's true. I would choose love. Money is easy to get hold of. Love is a lot hard to obtain and just as difficult to hold on to.



10. Your top three favorite kinks in bed?


Bareback, (Hello, is anyone reading this blog).
Underwear and Wrestling Gear.
Dirty Talk.

 

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Another foreign guy (not Japanese -- I think he was European) came up and seemed interested. He sat down about 50 ft away and sometimes gave me a look. Later he got up and came over to ask a question about directions, I was pretty sure that he was not going to scream in panic and just wanted to get a closer look so I really didn't cover up. But he was pretty much on the level and didn't comment on my nudity or really show that much interest either. So he moved on after we chatted just a minute.

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Well, I found that very stimulating to be sitting there nude in a public park in Tokyo -- admittedly it was rather isolated, but it was one of my first flashing experiences. I never consider being naked on nude beaches as flashing - -although I suppose if you are showing a hard cock in the dunes like you are baiting a cocksucker with a hook, line, and sinker -- that might count. I've done that.. but this was the first time to be completely naked in front of strangers (few and far between ) in a public park where most people would NOT expect nudity.

It was not too long afterward that I noticed a younger Japanese guy (maybe 20) walking along the embankment on my right. There was a concrete gulley (used to drain the central plain of the island) that was too wide to cross between us. He noticed me and then he sat down on a bench about 75 ft away but kept looking over at me, obviously intrigued. I lay back at one point so that he could get a real glimpse of cock and pubic hair so he could confirm I was really nude. That would either get his juices going or he'd just leave if he were not interested in seeing dick. Sure enough, he got up but with an obvious glint of real interest in his eyes. So he made his way back up the ridge, and then proceeded down in the center of the island and disappeared. In a short time, he reappeared at the top again and looked around, seeming to decide if it was all right to approach me.

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After all, I was this naked foreign (white) guy sititing in the grass on a warm summer's day not far from downtown Tokyo. I don't think it was something he had ever seen -- neither was it something I had ever done -- so blatantly. He kept his eyes on me -- wanting to get a look at my cock which had now stood up hard and erect - since his interest was so obvious. I was starting to drip pre-cum as he made his way down the slope and around the tree and then stopped in front of me - standing between me and the bridge in the distance.

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He sat down on one of the poles that supported the single length of chain that roped off the edge of the bank, staring at my erection. He was definitely cute and I could see the lust in his eyes -- I was really excited and as he sat there I could not help but reach for my hard cock and stroke it. He moved up closer and stood over me as I stroked more. He braced my legs with his and pushed them wider so that he could get a better look at my ass crack too. He urged to me on -- asking in Japanese, ' Ii kimochi?' (Does that feel good?) I grunted in response and he asked me to go on beating, 'motto yatte'. (Do it more). I wanted him to reach down and touch me but he kept glancing to his left and right down either side of the embankment. Still he was encouraging me to keep stroking, 'ii nah".. "kimochi?". "Yatte." I could not keep quiet because it was SO hot to be watched by a complete stranger in a public park who was clearly enjoying the show. I was moaning too and responding to his taunts I pushed against his legs and raised up to reach for his cock through his loose athletic pants, but he pulled upright. Maybe he was straight or maybe he was too cautious to do anything himself, but he was certainly very interested in watching me jerk my cock which was copiously leaking clear pre-cum across my belly. It didn't take long at this point before I was ready to let my cum fly.

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The guy watched more intently and bent over to get a closer look when my spunk started to splatter my stomach and chest. When I was done, he gave me a smile, checked around to see if we had been observed by anybody else. He adjusted his own erection in his pants to make it less obvious and then walked away. It took me a few minutes to get cleaned up but I decided not to press my luck so I got dressed and left shortly after that. It was my first public masturbation for a stranger -- it started me on my 'career' as a cock flasher, I guess. But so far, I've not had quite a similar experience. I have only one regret -- not asking him to take a picture of me jacking in front of him with my cell phone. I have some cell phone cam photos taken then but they don't show him.

 

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An original story first published on my JUB blog


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Some of the photos are of me and a few were even taken on this day by cellphone camera. But the others are just photos found on the Net. I obviously didn't get a photo the stranger who caught me naked and jerking -- although now I wish I had asked him to take a picture.
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I do a lot of travelling to Asia -- recently to Hong Kong and into southern China and have lived in Tokyo for long periods at a time. I want to tell about flashing a clothed Japanese guy in Tokyo a couple of summer .. actually, it was one of the first times to really flash a guy and get more than just a reaction. He seemed to really like seeing me nude and enjoyed watching me jerk off. It happened in a public park on Tokyo Bay and the young man was a complete stranger who was attracted by his noticing I was naked in a public park where other people where around. It caused hime to come closer and catch me masturbating and even to encourage me to ejaculate. It was one of the hottest experiences I've ever had with a stranger.

It was in early June and I had some time off so I went down to Odaiba -- which is a large man-made island in Tokyo Bay just across the Rainbow Bridge (I think that is name). There is a beach (not much good for swimming because the water is so dirty, but there are some windsurfers in the water). Out passed this sandy beach which is about 1000 m/yds longs, there is a walkway out to some old man-made islands (one is exactly square). ​

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These were built to appear to be fortifications and there were large fake cannons (highly phallic - if you ask me) that were supposed to scare off Admiral Perry and the American Navy way back in the mid 1800s. Anyway, this area is a public park now. So I headed out there one sunny Friday in June to check it out. I found one corner of the 'square' island where there were fewer people. It faced the long suspension bridge that spanned from Odaiba island over to main Tokyo.

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The island has a embankment around the perimeter but the entire center is at a much lower level so you have to climb up stairs to reach the banks -- this means that many people don't actually see over perimeter as they walk around the island. There were some other people (partly clothed) sunning themselves further on down this side of the island so I decided to strip down to undies and catch some rays.

One guy was wearing only a fundoshi - the wrap around loin cloth that used to be traditional Japanese underwear and now is typically only worn during festivals. Seeing him almost nude inspired me.
It wasn't long before I went further and took off all clothes. It was a grassy slope leading down the bank and I was sitting under a tree so it was not so clearly obvious to pedestrians who went up the stone stairs 30 ft behind me that I was nude. But if someone came off the walkway along the embankment and walked down the grassy slope, they get a good idea. So it was not a blatant act of flashing .. I was sunbathing nude, but that would only be clear to someone who was curious enough to approach me. There were boats that passed in the harbor which might have been able to see more if the driver or passengers were interested -- also pedestrians who walked along the bridge walkway could catch a glimpse of a nude form in the grass but they could not clearly identify me unless that had binoculars (or a zoom lens) since the bridge was far off. I stayed for nearly two hours -- not much happened.

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I can't say that it's all attributable to our being nude together as a family but I think it was a contributing factor or at least just one in a long series of ways of thinking and ways of treating people and being nude that helped them to be open and honest about sexual issues, and not be morally uptight or self-righteous about gender, nudity and human sexual behavior.

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They are both heterosexual and over 21-year-old male adults. I am talking about our being nude when they were infants, young boys and into the teenage years. We don't have as much occasion to get naked together these days.


Well... they do mean something.... what more can I say. I'll try.
I was TRYING to support you in the idea that being nude with your sons (or any kids) can be (even should be) something that's very natural and not a cause for alarm. (like some of the hyper-moralistic gay men are suggesting).

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BUT .. it does depend on the situation (where you take them and what you 'show' them both physically and your own mental messages to the boys. And it also depends a lot on the boys' (children) own self-understanding and self-acceptance.
Hey, I'm not perfect. The 'idea' of a father and son being sexually involved is a secret fantasy. I enjoy reading Handjobs
http://www.hjmag.com/handjobs/ But it IS just fantasy material - I find I am not attracted at all to my own offspring. However, the thought has crossed my mind often enough about other fathers and their sons.

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I think that all boys have at least one time or another (or maybe more than that) had to come to grips with the thought of their father as a sexual being or even an object of some kind of sexual emotions or physical intimacy. But they usually grow out (of it) and grow up (more interested in other things or girls (or guys) their own age before any attraction toward their dad is acted upon. Close to 90% of boys have experience with sexual 'play' with other boys - it's about being a male of the human species.

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Fathers are likely to have experienced these same fleeting feelings (and then usually they passed ) and the realization about their sons growing up sexually. I noticed that the discussion has since about stopped. There was one point that had many people curious. You avoided answering the question about your son's ages. In today's climate of "anti-child predator" and all the media hype about child sexual abuse, and Internet child/teen sex / chat rooms etc, I realize you probably don't want to admit much of anything, but you could have said just that it's private or that it's not important to the gist of the discussion. By the way, I would not fault you if you did admit you enjoy being admired by your sons (I don't care what age they are).



Hope you can get what I meant.
Kelly

 

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It may be that those who don't have children (of either sex) might possibly 'project' what might be their own doubts (or fears or sexual inclinations) when they consider how gay or bisexual fathers could be perfectly comfortable being naked with their children (especially sons), or even want to make sure that they DO get the opportunity to learn / experience being comfortable naked with their dads and other men.

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I don't ever recall having the slightest urge to 'know' my own sons biblically (i.e. in a

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less than wholesome way) and never gave the first thought to being sexually attracted to them. I'd be less than honest to say that this was not always true about some of their high school friends and soccer teammates. However, I never ever acted on these thoughts - although I wouldn't morally condemn some man who did - that's not what the issue or the original question on this thread is about.

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I'm not rejecting the possibility that some fathers could have more than an affectionate or fatherly interest in their sons, but I'd bet that most do not.


In my own case, there was no willful desire, ulterior motive or sinistre plan to let the boys see me (and my wife) naked. It was just a natural family thing. We did not raise them in Judeo-Christian religion-influenced America so that probably had a lot to do with reasons why it just seemed natural. We bathed together, went to public baths and hot springs resorts, and a few sometime visited nude beaches (or clothing-optional spots, in other countries - such as Greece and Munich's Englischergarten). Conversations sometimes included references to what they saw or were experiencing and there were the inevitable questions. But it was appropriate and in context - so it was a good way and good time to answer their questions: about sex or sexual attraction or feelings and behavior.

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I think my sons today have a healthy respect for the human body and an amazing tolerance for diversity - including my own bisexuality, which evidently was even clear to them long before we actually told them.

 

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You can make out much cheaper by buying each piece separately: flights (on a discounted carrier), hotel or apartment accommodation with a kitchen, then cook yourselves and eat out cheaply). There is ample bus transportation around the island and back and forth to the airport (LPA) - without getting one of the very pricey tour packages that includes so-called 4-5 star accommodations and a full board meal plan.
Such price restrictions also put a limit on what you can do while you are on the island since meal service is planned for certain limited times. The Yumbo Centre only gets really going for gay night life until after 10pm at night. Thus making breakfast from 7:30-9am a bummer for most gay singles and couples who visit the island.

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I just posted a long piece about Nudism in Spain (see another topic here under Travel forum).
You can also see my former post about gay travel and gay resorts at:


http://www.justusboys.com/forum/blogs/sunbuns99/

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Just to be brief, my list of favorite gay destinations is:


Gran Canaria (in Spain's Canary Islands) - famou
London (you can do a lot of gay stuff indoors and also have the world's best travel destination as your playground too).
Provincetown (in the summer)

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San Francisco, CA
Near SF, including Russian River Valley (and / or Napa Valley) for wineries
Amsterdam (and gay beaches on the coast)
Palm Springs, CA
San Diego, CA (La Jolla and Torrey Pines State Park with adjacent nudist beach)
Fort Lauderdale (or Key West), Florida
Paris
Southern France (from Nice to Montpellier to Carcasonne - offers quite a lot in the way both gay travel, nudism, and natural, cultural and historical sights).
Spain: Madrid, Barcelona/ Sitges, and Southern Spain
Basque Country (Bilbao - less gay but amazing scenery and sightseeing)
Czech Republic
Munich or Berlin (both are great)
Bali, Indonesia (some great sites, and cultural adventures, active gay bars)
Tokyo, Japan


This post was created following a post by person on a different discussion board from Atlanta, who wanted to get some travel advice about taking an 'exciting gay vacation." But I had to remind him that Atlanta itself has some very nice gay places: Swinging Richard's, and Flex Atlanta to name two of them. Sometimes, we miss the best of what we should find in our own back yard. (smile).
and the list goes on.....

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If you have some travel advice, then you can contribute it on the appropriate tribe or include it in a comment to this Tribe blog post.
Also from time to time, I will repost with these new added content and also include more than just one photo at:

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http://www.justusboys.com/forum/blogs/49298-sunbuns99
May the sun mostly shine at your next destination,

Kelly

 

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Advice for the Adventurous LBGT Traveler Series (Nudist Travel in Spain, Part II)

Nudism on beaches in Spain is very much alive and well, and hardly confined to the recreational pursuits of gay men. There is a wide audience across the nation for naturism (FKK) beaches.




Of course, where you find a nude beach, you may also find men who are out and about cruising for anonymous sex. It's simply what comes with the territory -- so to speak.




Like has been mentioned above, there are clothing optional beaches all over Spain. Sometimes, they are just outside (a kilometer or 2 beyond) the famous textile (bathing suits required) beaches.

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For example, near Gandia, south of Valencia, is a pristine white sand beach. But just up coast about 800 m is the clothing optional section (a bit further and behind that is the so-called 'gay beach'). I suspect that a similar layout falls many of the seaside beaches throughout Spain and it is also more or less similar in many other European nations, particularly where the beautiful sea is bathed in warm sunshine, such as Portugal, Italy, Southern France, Croatia, etc (and in some cooler climates as well, The Netherlands and Northern Germany, Norway and Sweden, too.) Even Austria and Czech Republic have their 'baden' where men and women bath and lie out naked to sun themselves at communal baths (although very far from any ocean).

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My personal favorite one is Spain is Maspolamas and Playa del Ingles on the southern end of Gran Canaria (one of the Canary Islands). It's also a popular gay resort destination too (in the cooler months of the year Nov- April). In the summer, Gran Canaria is a (fairly) cheap beach vacation for many middle-class families from Europe so there are few gay vacations at that time. I say 'fairly cheap' because I spent far less to travel there and stay than many of the UK/Northern Europe visitors seemed to do. After leaving GC, I visited London. I couldn't believe the prices in British pounds that were being asked for a full travel package to GC (or other Canary Island resorts).

 

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​ There is a old theater in downtown Guerneville that hosts a repetoire of classic and kooky favorities plays and shows, such as The Rocky Horror Show, (or at least it had been doing so.) There are also a couple of jazz and rock music festivals and other events, like a airshow that happen throughout the year. For those who enjoy camping, you can camp out at Highland Resort, or at Johnson's a RV and tent campground riverside right in town. I recommend driving back from Guerneville to San Francisco via the Sonoma Coast (at least part of the way) and stopping along the road at Bodega Bay, which was a location of the Hitchcock film, The Birds. However, it's pristine coastline views are gorgeous (when the fog has lifted). That fog is what flows up the Russian River and adds to the makeup of flavors in the Russian River pinot noir grapes.

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​ The Russian River resort and recreation area, is located about 70 miles from San Francisco, California; it has changed somewhat since I used to visit there regularly. Then there was the flood of 2006. Some establishments were just wiped off the map - so to speak. Others would recuperate after the expense of repairs and loss of business and have come back with gusto. Others decided to go 'straight' and clean up their act. However, the area is thriving both as a wine producing area that - to some degree - rivals its high profile neighbor, Napa Valley, and as a summer resort / recreation area which has a long tradition of attracting gay and lesbians day-trippers and vacationers. The main 'town' is Guerneville, CA - but there are a sprinkling of little hamlets nestled along the banks of the meandering Russian River as flows quietly to the Pacific Ocean or scattered through Sonoma County. Russian River remains a great destination for San Francisco residents to escape the urban din or anyone visiting the state or city who wants a more laid-back and pastoral travel experience. It offers a lot: canoeing or rafting on the gentle Russian River, vineyard visits and wine-tasting tours, outdoor recreation like hiking and horseback riding, and all with a hour or so from other great sites, such as San Francisco's Golden Gate Park, Fisherman's Wharf, The Castro, and the Sonoma Coast Beach Parks along with Bodega Bay. See more info at: http://www.gayrussianriver.com/ Although I have been there recently since I did go for the Russian River Winegrower's ​ Association Grape to Glass Wine Festival last year Aug 13-15, 2009, I stayed at Highlands Resort. It will be held again this year from August 20 - 22, 2010. You can find the details at: http://www.rrvw.org/grape-to-glass/ I just love that Russian River Pinot Noir! It's light red with a delightful bouquet of tastes given to it by the fog along the banks of the Russian River. It was actually my first time to try it, and I have been a big fan of it ever since. I've already mentioned Highland Resort allows nudity around pool and also at the jacuzzi. It is sometimes hard to book a room/cabin at either so make up you mind soon. Last year, I greatly enjoyed the Grape To Glass (Russian River Winegrowers Annual ​ Festival). You can take part in three days of fine wine, food, music, art and recreation in the vineyards and neighborhoods of the Russian River Valley: Unique In Depth Tours • Virtual Photo Contest • Live Concert • Cycling & Kayaking • Hog in The Fog BBQ • Live & Silent Auctions • Sparkling Brunch I didn't attend all the events at Grape to Glass last year, but the private vintner tours and wine-tasting were very nice, especially if you get to meet the winemaker (and all the staff who help grow it). The Saturday massive wine-tasting party and barbeque, called Hog in The Fog BBQ, was quite nice as well. As far as I know, the only clothing-optional resorts are Highland Resort and The Woods. ​ Highlands Resort http://www.highlandsresort.com/ Nudity is allowed at the pool and and in the hot tub. The Woods http://rrwoods.com/ The Woods resort allows nudity around and in the pool. There are other places listed here: http://www.gayrussianriver.com/ Fife's has changed hands, now known as Fern Grove Cottages is a gay-friendly resort. It seems the new owners wanted it to be a 'classy' place so they put an end to the camping (I used to try to be nude whenever possible), and also to the cruising ​ (anonymous outdoor sex) that used to go on on its grounds. Too bad! However, things like that have a way of restarting - but I cannot vouch for that. RRR (Russian River Resort) is another popular gay accommodation right in Guerneville. RRR used to allow nudity in its enclosed hot tub area, but not at their pool, and it may still do so. You can probably still buy a day-pass to get in and use the pool. RRR was remodeled in 2006 after the flood. They have a new saline pool, hot tub, poolside bar/BBQ, indoor bar and piano bar. The resort also has the wonderful Triple R Bar & Grill restaurant. We are a host resort for many wonderful annual events as well as providing live weekly entertainment. ​ See their website at: http://www.russianriverresort.com/ There is also a nude beach (of sorts) out on the river, but I have never been able to get ​ anyone to explain exactly how to get to it, so I have never been there myself. It's not close to town evidently and takes a good while to walk (or drive). Horseback riding in the redwood forest (nearby) and winery (wine-tasting) visits, plus floating down the Russian River make for a great week (or weekend of fun). Armstrong Woods Trail Rides http://www.redwoodhorses.com/ See other activities links at: http://www.gayrussianriver.com/activities.html Sometime there are events at the gay bars that bring in more people, but it was mostly just a few people whenever I was there in the off weekend.

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[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]2) There are dozens (if not more) nude beaches around Spain (from Barcelona to Cadiz).[/FONT]


[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]Very often you can expect to see a gay men’s cruising area close by and therefore, sometimes you can view sexual acts by people (supposedly gay men) who either don’t know or who don’t care. I can give the names and locations for anyone who asks (politely). Smile![/FONT]


[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]3) Sometimes the parking lots at large beachside resorts become a sexual playground for a few adventure-some couples. Normally, only male-femalecouples can actually get away with it. But it does happen between men when there are the right circumstances - such as a full moon (April 18 is the next one) or when there is a nude beach nearby.[/FONT]


[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]I watched a mixed race couple (M/F) fuck in the parking lot to Black’s Beach (along with quite a few other people) across from UCSD campus. It was really hot watching a big dick-clubbed black dude butt-pounded from behind a white woman with her bikini rolled down her legs, whom he either had just picked up on the nude beach, or with whom he had been ‘overstimulated’ by spending an afternoon out on the nude beach (mixed sexes).[/FONT]

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[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]P.S. Due to greater police and ranger patrols, this seems to becoming rarer.[/FONT]


[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]A few such clothing optional beaches in the US that USED to have some public sex going on (either hidden or safely discreet) were:[/FONT]


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[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]A few such clothing optional beaches in the US that USED to have some public sex going on (either hidden or safely discreet). [/FONT]


[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]At least, I had the pleasure of getting lucky with one or more male sexual partners at each of the following public beaches: [/FONT]

• a) Herring Cove State Beach, Provincetown, Cape Cod, Mass. (new patrols make it difficult to even be naked, and the rangers also patrol the dunes looking for illicit behavior to arrest guys)
• b) Black’s Beach, La Jolla, between UCSD and Torrey Pines State Preserve (Park)
• c) Baker’s Beach, San Francisco, near Golden Gate Bridge Land’s End Park, near The Presidio - not far from Seal Rock
• d) San Onofre Beach Park, (no longer legally a nudist beach)
• e) Williamette River, Eugene, Oregon - near Lane Community College, also near a concrete plant - a river side swimming area used to be a gay cruising zone, and was a place that hippies and college kids could get naked and fuck in peace.

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[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]Some very large metropolitan parks in major world cities have an unspoken tradition of clandestine public sex. Englischer Garten in Munich’s central park, New York’s Central Park, San Francisco’s Golden Gate Park, and Tokyo’s Yoyogi Park are all places where (sometimes) and if you only know where to look you can see people (straight and gay couples) having sex. In Tokyo, a few years back, there was a kind of club of guys who made it their hobby to spy on couples making out or fucking or otherwise petting/masturbating each other and attempts to take photos (or at least use night vision binoculars).[/FONT]


[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]Some large public fairs, street events and demonstrations sometimes have episodes of public sex: Southern Decadence (gay event at Labor Day in New Orleans), Mardi Gras, (at various locations), Folsom Street Fair, and Dorey Alley Parade, etc… I am inclined to think it might happen at WNBR but I have no evidence to prove it (maybe just wishful thinking).[/FONT]

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[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif][Note: A Follow up of a discussion on Dudenudes.com ][/FONT]
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[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]This topic is a frequent one of interest to both gay and bi-curious men, of which the latter are married or involved in relationship with women and thus need some 'male-oriented' sexual release. I have blogged / talked about this many times but as the warmer weather approaches (in the northern hemisphere), thoughts of furtive sexual hunting games and orgiastic and erotic encounters in public places again captures my full attention and brings my (and maybe yours too) to full erection in anticipation of public outdoor sex with anonymous hunks and in reality, most times with regular blokes. [/FONT]


[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]Where do you find the male cruising areas? [/FONT]


[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]The list is not extensive or complete. I am sure many of you can recommend your own favorite gay beach or public cruising area. [/FONT]
[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]Please add any you have enjoyed or know about in a comment below . [/FONT]


[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]Well, it's partly gaydar.. or rather the basic hunting instinct of the male of the species. The place just seems right or you can feel the vibe of the cruisers mentality as you walk down a certain street or alley, enter a public park or seek out a less crowded corner of a local recreation area or beach. Public restrooms figure prominently in these zones of the sexual hunter. Perhaps not simply because they do offer a vehicle for 'semi-public' exposure of one's sexual and, obviously, excretory organs. [/FONT]
[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]But it may be the associations, and the fact that men have just handled or are about to touch their own privates which may heighten their sexual awareness of others - particularly the men that are experiencing similar sensuous emotions - even when they can be put in actual words or envisioned in their minds as any kind of defined sexual act. [/FONT]
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[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]The ambiance of the gay cruise area may residence in such factors as: location, convenience, proximity to other male or gay-oriented spots (Home Depot's tool department, garden shop and its restrooms may be notorious in this respect), whether or not the [FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]male body can be exposed asnormally accepted behavior, such as a public or university gymnasium lockroom, or public swimming pool, or whether there is some chance of seeing the naked male body or at least parts of it (such as a beach, or sunbathers on grassy lawn in a big city park, or where even more explicit male (and/or female) nudity occurs, such as a stripclub, or nude beach or clothing optional resortor camp, or at some public large-group events where nudity may be involved, such as Mardi Gras and Carnival, etc. [/FONT][/FONT]




[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]Here are some of my recommendations for places to find male-4-male sex (and gay, homoerotic or sexual [FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]stimulation or gratification in public places: [/FONT][/FONT]
[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]Some very large metropolitan parks in major world cities have an unspoken tradition of clandestine public sex. Englischer Garten in Munich’s central park, New York’s Central Park, San Francisco’s Golden Gate Park, and Tokyo’s Yoyogi Park are all places where (sometimes) and if you only know where to look you can see people (straight and gay couples) having sex. In Tokyo, a few years back, there was a kind of club of guys who made it their hobby to spy on couples making out or fucking or otherwise petting/masturbating each other and attempts to take photos (or at least use night vision binoculars). [/FONT]


[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]Some large public fairs, street events and demonstrations sometimes have episodes of public sex: Southern Decadence (gay event at Labor Day in New Orleans), Mardi Gras, (at various locations), Folsom Street Fair, and Dore Alley Parade, etc… I am inclined to think it might happen at WNBR but I have no evidence to prove it (maybe just wishful thinking). [/FONT]


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[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]The list is not extensive or complete. I am sure many of you can recommend your own favorite gay beach or public cruising area.[/FONT]


[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]Please add any you have enjoyed or know about in a comment below . [/FONT]


[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]If you have several you can also add them to a database of Cruising Spots and Places to Get Naked at [/FONT]
[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]Wufoo CMNM Places (online entry form): [/FONT]
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[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]The dunes of Maspalomas, near Playa del Ingles, Gran Canaria, Spain. The Canary Islands are Spanish territories off the coast of Morocco. Tons of gay semi-public and sometimes heterosexual sex going on in the dunes just behind the large nude beach (FKK) area.[/FONT]

 

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These are guys not 'gay' at all (or at least visibly), and these are basically like the old public bathhouses prevalent from feudal times until the mid-60s and 70s where the owner sat at the entrance to take the few yen, and could watch both the men and the women as they undressed and put their clothes in the lockers.

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Nowadays, Japanese men and women might go as a family and then separate into the two side of the onsen building. Sometimes you can hear the women talking and laughing on the other side, but I have found that men who use these onsen type ofuro (baths) in the city usually come alone, and therefore don't converse easily with strangers. In the case of onsens in resort areas, urban dwellers usually go in groups of 2 - 15 men on a excursion with friends or a company retreat, so there is much more camaraderie, boisterous conversation, and sometimes a little sexy antics - especially if alcohol has been consumed for their entering the bath.


The exception at the urban onsen might be the wet steam sauna. Although it was quite big and could hold 30-40 bodies, and there were more people in it than in the rest of the baths at any one point, most people sat on the tile slabs nude and just relaxed. It was fun to get a nice view of several nude Japanese men in repose together

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Maybe this says that (some) Japanese men at the bath were simply wanting to loose weight in the sauna, but it also might means that there is more of the naked body visible others when everyone is not sitting immersed in hot water, so that why more men had gathered there.


I could go on about the gay baths and saunas, but as you expect, those are pretty much similar to the ones in any country (I assume - since I haven't been to ones everywhere), but I have seen quite a lot.


Dare to stay bare for those who care,


Kelly

 

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Note: Has anyone worked out where QueerClick get all these 'onsen' pictures from? I bet there's a forum or group somewhere, where the original photographs posts hundred of these pictures? The above question is being asked on the Yahoo Group [YMNA2] - Young Men's Nudist Association. So I have offered my own answer.
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It's an interesting 'research' question, and one that is particular relevant to me since I live in Japan and visit onsen from time to time, and an all-male gay sauna pretty regularly. I have also posted these pics from Queerclick (giving them full credit) on my Gay Asian Man porn blog
http://otoko-gay.blogspot.com


(David (atitlan) can remove the link to this blog if it's not allowed. But I do not have any commercial advertising on any of my blogs, and always give the source of where the photo came from EVEN when all I know is what site or group has distributed them.)

Therefore, since I do visit 'onsen', I wonder when my own naked self in a Japanese hot springs bath/resort may appear somewhere on the Net - without my permission. P.S. I have dozens and dozens of photos depicting my own nudity that I've uploaded myself to various sites over the years, but those were given out with my recognition of the risks.
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There is also a few other possible explanations for where these originated.


One of the large gay porn sites and gay porno producers may be selling off these kinds of photos as their commericial material. They could be actually stills or videos collected from video surveillance cameras located in the onsen resort and then leaked or sold to a porn company. The men in the photos (participants) don't appear to even know that their photos are being taken. Japanese act very differently when they are being

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photographed (nude or not). I have hundreds of candid photos of Japanese guys clowning around and attempting to cover themselves all the while putting on sometime outlandish stunts and gags while undressed partly or fully in the company of their male peers. I find it keenly interesting to observe and have written and shared photos and blog anecdotes about this homoerotic behavior many times (elsewhere).

So ... someone could be a subscribing member of one of those sites or is making still digital photos from the video footage or taking them from a subscription only website inside Japan. Photos depicting clearly visible photos for male and female (frontal) genitalia are illegal in Japan in any form or any media. That's the reason there are 'mosaic' coverings over the penises.


Another possibility is that anyone can make a contribution for photos to Queerclick through its Sticky section of their website. In fact, they ask for submissions and give out an email where viewers can send them.
In Sticky there are some regular contributors - one of whom may actually living in Japan and taking the photos himself (covertly). I couldn't pass as Japanese (being a middle-aged caucasian male) so taking photos of nude guys in the onsen or public baths or saunas would most likely be frowned on and a cause for being banned.

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Many of this series of photos appears to be taken from the same location. (Note: the photo in the upper left seems like a genuine private photo (or at least NOT intended for gay male porn sites). Often, hot spring resorts and mineral baths have outdoors pools (and sometimes ornate Japanese gardens), therefore, it could possibly be easier to someone to hide behind a huge rock or tree in the garden and get these shots without being seen.

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While it doen't have any direct connection, I learned something about onsen and how public baths have evolved in the Japan during the last 10 years.


Lastly, I just learned recently that there are actually 58 location in central Tokyo alone where you can bath in hot mineral spring bath (although the water may be piped or trucked in for some of them, it's still natural spring mineral water, without being added artificially (or so they claim). The chief mineral in most all of them is salt. Some of them have equal or greater salinity than sea water.


I went to one of them the other night about 9:00pm since the price is greatly reduced for night time visits (open from 9am to midnight), and I was impressed by the relative spacious facilities (huge vaulted ceiling), various types of baths and temperatures, and a nice outdoor rock bath (rotenburo). No.. I did NOT bring my camera or cellphone. But there were some nice looking men - ages ranging from college kids to 30s salarymen, and nice-looking men in their 40s or so. It's pretty stimulating when a 20-something comes and lies down naked next to you in the reclining bath.

 

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[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]I just got back home from an extended vacation/business/family visit. I was able to visit several cool places and [FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]some gay saunas & bath houses, too. [/FONT][/FONT]


[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]Most recently was Flex Atlanta. Abe (above) reports that the one is Phoenix was too dark for his tastes; however, Flex Atlanta was quite different. Actually, it was one of the more exciting ones I've been to in a while - although it was just a Tuesday night in Atlanta. [/FONT]
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[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]I was impressed most by the size and layout of the place. For me, being able to sunbathe nude and erect, or to have sex outdoors is a big turn on. [/FONT]


[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]Flex Atlanta is a little known enclave that can boast an outdoors lawn with chaise lounges just next to a busy expressway (I-75) and almost in the shadow for the Olympic Torch Monument and several skyscrapers. I did wonder a bit if the people in the high rises could (or would) actually be looking down on Flex's sexual garden. The staff was helpful and friendly; there was free Internet access (although I don't think free wifi), and both a gym and pool (although the water condition was excellent it was nice to swim in later March, and sunbathe naked in the afternoon. The place didn't get hopping but it had free parking and also in-out privileges, twice in the 8-hour that your entrance fee pays for. There's an Arby's at the corner so you can get food before entering or take a break to go for take out. [/FONT]


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[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]more economical ones, too). There is a large glory hole section, a lounge and exercise gym, but not much secluded open space to watch the 3-4 porn videos constantly playing except in the hallways. The showers, steam and dry saunas are adequate but a bit old and most people wore sandals because I suspect that athlete's foot fungus abounds. There are many places to sit either except inside the saunas or outside, although there is a small semi-secluded smoking area near the entrance. [/FONT]
[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]It's really worth a try if you are in the Atlanta area. I am wondering now if they will rent out the facility or at least parts of it for a private gatherings, like an club orgy or maybe a CMNM sexual role-play event - just a thought. [/FONT]


[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]However, what makes it a must-return sexual rendezvous for me was the fact that I could stay the night and also use one of my two out privileges (leaving the place without giving up the room) and visit Swinging Richard's all-male strip bar about 15 minutes away by car. Tuesdays is also reduced entry to Swinging Richard's and you'll more then enjoy the hot beefy hunks, chocolate skinned thugs, manly dudes and cute twinks who dance until very late (3 am?) and eager offer to give you public lap dances at your table, semi-private and also very private lap dances. [/FONT]





[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]I have to say that I really appreciate the dance naked Tucker. He wasn't all that young but he seemed so totally genuine and liked what he was doing unlike several of the male dancers. Tucker has an unbelievable smile and charm about him that have kept up his popularity even while his body is showing the signs of advancing[/FONT]

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[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]gradually to his middle years. More importantly, he has a good personality and seems to know how to please men without being condescending or pretentious. I wasn't drunk at all so I'm NOT raving about Tucker from the effects of a drunk stupor. There were also quite a few men of color: Black, Hispanic and maybe even Middle Eastern (or Greek). Tucker is blond, VGL, and white, but I don't hold that against him (smile). The two young 18+ twinks were really hot, but once I had tasted Tucker's manly desires (no I didn't go for the private lap dance ($140 minimum for 15 minutes), I simply could not even look at the other boys, except, of course, when they were on stage in various stages of undress until full nudity (some of the dancers did not go for the Full Monty). I hope Tucker hears about this and reads my review. Contact me if you do. I'd love to take a raincheck on a separate date with you, Tucker. [/FONT]


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[FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]Read more reviews elsewhere about Swinging Richard's. I thoroughly enjoyed being rubbed and fondled by a [/FONT][FONT=Tahoma, Calibri, Verdana, Geneva, sans-serif]naked hunky man in the VIP lounge. Yes, it's all about cash.. but I admit that it was incredibly fun spending it in this way. I was certainly heated up by the time I returned for a late-night fuck-a-thon back again at Flex. Not surprisingly, there was plenty of sexually unsatisfied men who had hung around until 8am so that I had plenty of reason to get up and get more action from 6am-8am the day I left Atlanta fully satisfied with many blowjobs (given and gotten) and plenty of ass too (yes, both ways). The guy who brought me off early Wed morning wanted to get fucked through a glory hole. I'm glad he did because I had done the same thing with a stocky Mexican dude in the outdoor garden 8 hours earlier. [/FONT][/FONT]

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See-thru freeballing - Perv'd or Fashion Passion?

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Having spent the hottest part of the summer in the US mainland, I wasn't prepared for the excruciatingly torrid temps and scorching sun when I returned to Japan - and that was after it had 'cooled off'. Actually, the heat isn't the problem -- it's the humidity that makes it too muggy to wear underwear during the summers in Tokyo.


Weather and climate aside, I find that once I've been out the country, I get the urge to exhibit myself rather unobtrusively- sort of strut my stuff - so to speak by freeballing in mesh shorts, torn jeans, very tight and /or translucent board shorts, and even 'jinbei' ( a short summer casual men's kimono-like mesh garment). I mentioned this before on this board - but the urge overcomes my good sense sometimes. So until

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the fall rains and cooler weather rolls in, I tend to be about half naked whenever I'm outside (not at work obviously), and then I also spend many lazy late summer-like afternoons being naked outdoors - discretely sunbathing nude at the local river (a wide recreation area long both sides of a shallow but wide river in Tokyo). The area is frequented by cyclists, families and people walking their pets, but it seems I'm just far enough out of sight to be cause for alarm or simply believe cannot even imagine what they eyes would or should otherwise report: there a naked white guy over there.

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It's probably worth exploring the WHY of why I do this. But I think it has a great deal to do with three things: 1) it's an ultimate statement of freedom. Being an American who is living in a socialistic nation where individual wishes, rights and personal ambitions are so repressed by the strict edicts of Japanese social fabric means that I absolutely am constantly starved for personal liberty. 2) I am an extreme racial minority in this country. I don't just stick out like a sore thumb; I AM the SORE THUMB, penis, ass, and every other part of the body. (Sorry too much to explain in a blog post), and finally 3) I am gay living as supressed and hidden life, pretending to be a completely straight, and upstanding non-citizen but one who has loved being close to nature - especially being naked in the sunshine, wind and sea - since he was a child.


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Typepad blog (below). The mesh shorts not ones I would wear on the street, (well, at least not in Japan - although I have done so at night in Hawaii), but my other 'see-thru' freeballing shorts are also pretty revealing). By the way, those are people in the background to the left of and below my elbow.


Someday I'm going to ask someone to take a photo of me from over there so that I can get a sense of what people could actually see. Of course, I have other photos that show nudity, but that's just TOO ludicrous to be exposing myself to you all on the Freeballing.com site (Tongue-in-cheeks - (mouth, not my sunkissed butt, Ha Ha!)




I guess I have to be honest to stay that my cock swells a bit when I think (or know) that another guy is watching or even just glancing at my crotch. My 'former' target for such 'sightings' was a 25-ish blue collar worker who passed by me many mornings on the way to his work. Perhaps because of the economy, he no longer does. So I've taken a different tact and am now wearing an assortment of the above clothes to see which one draws more attention (i.e. straying eyes that shoot straight to my crotch), and also to see who seems to actually notice or who can't help himself from 'repeatedly' noticing. So far there aren't many onlookers; however, one guy seems to have realized that he's

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likely going to be tempted to look and he obviously thinks that's embarrassing. So if I see him coming now on his bicycle, I find that he manages to look the other way or to feign fidgeting with something in his basket (no, the one on the front of his bicycle) Smirk!


Pervert, am I. Probably, yes. But it's fun trying to mildly shock the Japanese men. I actually pay little attention to whether the women give me a glance or not.


So.. why is it that men are so 'visually' stimulated? I'm sure there is an evolutionary and also psycho-sexual explanation. But what the hell, it's fun being 'mean' (and Kermit used to say - Oh, that was 'green'). Well, it was probably Cookie Monster who thought that, anyway.


Sayonara,


Kelly

 

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Japanese love bathing in groups so much that many hotels in urban areas have 'ofuro' which they call 'onsen' (hot mineral springs) - although the water is usually piped in or the minerals are added on

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You can get the feel of what a traditional hot springs bath is like without having to go so far afield. In a few cases, there are 'onsen' in urban areas, and also at ski resorts or recreation areas where you might be going to visit anyway.

Actually, a few public baths still operate in major cities (and smaller towns) where you can can get nearly the same experience for under $5. Take your own towel, and toiletries.​

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Finally, if you're interested in having or seeing gay sex. You might consider visiting one of the all-male saunas in either Tokyo or Osaka (there may be some in smaller cities as well). In Tokyo, 24-Kaikan is the most famous, and the one is Shinjuku 3 (san)-chome is clean and active. It's also a hotel so you could even stay the night - although there are shared bunk bed rooms which your $24 locker (12 hour stay) will allow you to rest. There is a large Japanese style bath in most all the sauna, but also showers stalls with glory holes. The largest one in Osaka is called Hokuokan, and could be said to be bigger than Tokyo's 24 Kaikan gay bathhouse.


I have written about the baths, saunas, onsen (hot springs), and collected what others have said here　before (because it disappears) on one of my blogs. You can find links to those two gay saunas mentioned, and more detailed information by going to blog:
http://sunbuns.blogspot.com

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To find that entry and others about Japan in my blog, type 'key words' in the top left-hand search box, such as, Tokyo, Japan, sauna, onsen, etc .
There are actually several different entries. One explains about the gay scene in Tokyo.


The photo here isn't mine, but represents how Japanese men, especially young and frisky ones, like to play around in the onsen spa resorts. You can often find groups of friends, college students, or company employees in the onsen; they make the trip to build up group cohesion and camaraderie - which can be a highly homoerotic situation (at least from a gay's man perspective).


Enjoy your visit...


Kelly

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This blog entry was created in response to the posting (just below) on a gay message board. I often get inspired to write a long article once I've taken on the task of responding to someone's request for information (Photo: In Wolverine's latest X-men movie, there are many scenes of a hot springs bath in Japan.)

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13 Jan 2015, 06:44 I am planning a trip to Japan for 8 days. Thinking about getting the unlimited rail ticket to see more than just Tokyo. Has anyone done it before, or do you have some suggestions?


13 Jan 2015, 15:13 The Japan Rail pass is an excellent value. There are so many places worth seeing. At this time of year (winter), the hot springs are great value.
There are lots to choose from, but if you like an outdoor bath surrounded by snow, head north from Tokyo to the Tohoku area. I once went to a hot spring with a geyser just a couple of meters from the outdoor bath and snow all around. I think it was in Miyagi prefecture, but I can't remember the name of it right now. If you hate the cold, head to Kyushu: Nagasaki and Kagoshima and Kunisaki peninsula. For culture and history, check out Kyoto and Nara, only a fairly short train ride apart, and not so far from Osaka and Kobe.

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A lot of the Japanese hot springs are in hotels, so they're for the hotel guests, but they often have day visitor rates for people not staying at the hotel who just want to use the hot springs. Of course, there are some baths run by local city or town administrations. These don't usually have much of a rest area, just a space for changing.


But there's a big variety in style and cost, so look around. Ask a information offices (at railway stations etc). Last time I was in Japan back in autumn, there were a lot of flyers offering inexpensive packages at hot spring hotels. It's worth checking each place out a bit before committing yourself.

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I just tried searching for "japan hot spring guide" on amazon.com, and it looks as though they have some useful options.

23 Jan 2015, 10:01
If you visit Nikko (Toshogun Shrine, Chuzenji Lake and falls), or Hakone, a lake near the foot of Mt. Fuji, both of which are just a couple of hours by train from Tokyo, you can still have time to squeeze in a quick visit to a hot springs. Some of the onsen resorts nationwide have outdoor hot spring baths, called 'rotenburo,' which gives you the thrill of being naked outside, relaxing in the hot water, and getting to see nude Japanese men (most often draping the ubiquitous long hand towel in front).

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Actually, a few public baths still operate in major cities (and smaller towns) where you can can get nearly the same experience for under $5. Take your own towel, and toiletries.​

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Often times, it is easier for guys to start to really communicate once one of them has 'bared' his

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soul and his body to his buddy (or even a new friend or stranger)..... We can see this theme repeated over and over again on the different posts on this board.... CMNM occurs when one male 'needs' to be nude - actually naked - and the other guy(s) are clothed - they are apparently NON-plussed by the fact of the nudity or just oblivious, unconcerned or feigning disinterest. For some the 'clothed' person becomes an object of desire IF he seems to be interested and excited by the sight of the nudity - other's seem to get their rocks off by the embarrassment that such causes to the clothed viewer.. all these are simply variations on the basic theme.

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I know somebody is going to say I'm over intellectualizing - I can agree with that... but no matter how much I 'talk' / lecture - or NOT... it doesn't change the fact that male-to-male intimacy and the lack of it is at the core of what drives us to return to this site and these discussion and to tell our stories and experiences...​

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Stephen's experience is what I call what I call an 'authentic' CMNM experience
It's not really about flashing, which is a specific kind and more directed or focused sexual experience than the one that Stephen is describing above.

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For more info see my blog (or contribute to it):
Guys into CMNM (on Blogger)

http://guysn2cmnm.blogspot.com

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