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Talk about your relationship with your dad

yeah, well the shrink is impartial to me, and he doesn't outright say "you're wrong for being gay"

in fact, he once said he could give a fuck if I had sex with dogs. but still, I have some serious questions to ask him next time I talk to him.
 
well, he said it with the message being "i dont pass judgment"
 
dkonfrost said:
Run. Far far away. Ahorita.
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No kidding!

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My dad ws never really a part of my life until recently. We used to fight a lot when I was younger, but we are starting to get closer.
 
DarkNeko said:
My dad ws never really a part of my life until recently. We used to fight a lot when I was younger, but we are starting to get closer.
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I think that's awesome.

I so wanted a good relationship with my dad, but he just couldn't look past his hard freakin skull enough for that to happen.
 
man, I am in shock about this. I should never have trusted any shrink my mom set me up with.

she is such a bitch.
 
chobbs said:
And Soilwork, my shrink is not an idiot. I also don't believe he knows everything, because I am not an idiot either.
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I'm sorry, but yes.. he is.

if he's trying to espouse beliefs that were dispensed with before you were born, he's an idiot, and you need your hed examined for listening to him.. just get it examined by someone who isn't an idiot.
 
chobbs said:
yeah, well the shrink is impartial to me, and he doesn't outright say "you're wrong for being gay"

in fact, he once said he could give a fuck if I had sex with dogs. but still, I have some serious questions to ask him next time I talk to him.
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So... he thinks being gay is curable and comapres gay men to dog fuckers.

Is his name Rick Santorum?
 
I don't believe that poor father son relationships lead to them becoming gay.

I did have a strained relationship with my father when I was younger. When I was 17 we finally started getting along better. Today in my early 30's my father and I get along better then ever. He knows I'm gay but we don't talk about it. I have been living with my partner for almost 10 years. My dads visits us and talks to partner like he is part of the family.
 
Oh dear just read about your shrink, looks like he might be Catholic as well, same as my Dad was. I found them to have inflexible attitudes and would always try and manouver you onto what they regarded as the straight and narrow. The emphasis was always on curing rather than acceptance. But for a cure you have to first assume a curable dissease. This rules out genetics, which I note in the articles, he does too. Don't pay him! If you need any advice it has to be impartial.

My Dad was actually a very kind man, much respected by all but he really had very little to do dragging us up, but my 2 younger brothers are straight.

He once passed me while out walking and we wished each other good afternoon, it felt a bit strange. Later I bumped into him in the pub and bought him a pint and he thanked me politely. I then asked after my mother and he did a double take and realised who I was. When I asked him about meeting on the path he admitted that he had wondered who the polite young man was.

I don't feel for one moment that he had anything to do with me being Gay. I suspect there is a lot of genetics in there. There is quite a history of maiden Aunts in the family from an era when it was the norm to get married.
 
And in Australia, top Catholic Archbishop of Sydney Dr. George Pell has
given his blessing to a current national tour by a U.S. psychologist who
believes effeminate boys can be "prevented" from growing up to be gay. Peter
Rudegeair came to Australia at Pell's invitation and his appearances --
supported by Church funds -- include a private address to Sydney's Catholic
clergy. The tour was arranged in part by Courage, a group supporting
celibacy among Catholic gays and lesbians. Australian psychologists as well
as gay and lesbian activists have condemned Rudegeair's approach as likely to
be harmful.
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From
http://www.qrd.org/qrd/media/radio/thiswayout/summary/newswrap/2003/N775-02.03.2003

This is the one advising him :eek:
 
I think that if you want to see a psychologist, that you should go find a real one that does not have so many screwed up personal views.

I had a very good relationship with my father. I don't think that I could of asked for a better one. My father always put his family first. I had kind of an idealistic childhood. You could not call him a failure in any sense of the word unless you consider getting cancer being a failure. But that really does not make any sense to me. When I was 16, he did get cancer and he died when I was 18. I do still miss him.
 
I despised my father. He taught me to hate women and refered to them as worthless cunts. He'd go on rants about women at the dinner table -- in front of my mother. It wasn't unitl I was in my twenties that I realized not all women were bitches. All of the other gays that i know also had a terrible relationship with their fathers too. Before anybody goes crazy, I am convinced that I was born gay, but I do see a pattern of poor relationships with fathers. There's a recent thread around here about fathers and in it theire are a lot of sad stories.
 
I have always had a perfect relationship with my dad. When I was growing up he was my hero. We'd go to soccer games together and stuff. He was a soccer player himself. Then when I was teenaging and realized I am a bit different from other guys I'd be embarrassed to talk about it with him. But eventually I told him I'm gay and that I like guys instead of girls. He was quite surprised but he took it quite okay and he even said he understands this is how I am and that it will probably not change. My mom is the one who's taking this more seriously as she wants grandkids lol. And my brother, although straight and older doesn't have any too.
 
Soilwork said:
Your shink is an idiot, and you need to stop seeing anyone who tells you that you're gay because of something that happened after you were born.

If having a father that didn't give a damn or wasn't perfect made you gay, there would be about 8 straight men in America.

What you need is to stop worrying about why you're gay and just... be.
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You are saddly mistaken in making a statement such as that, and most mis=leading in stating it has you have. I would sure like to see your sources for making such a statement in the manner in which you have stated your "opinion" - which i think it would be far to say IS NOT A FACT.[-X [-X [-X

I suggest you do some serious research into the field of Psyciatriy as related to the area of homosexuals and the "origins" of their homosexuality.


Genetics "may be a factor, come the conclusion of the Geonome Project" but environmental, social, and emotional factors contribute also to the development of who becomes a homosexual - and if you dismiss the years of childhood in the equation you have missed one of the most important parts of the equation.

eM.:(
 
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Correction to the above posting: the word should be spelt Psychiatry

Sorry.

eM.:(
 
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