On Topic Discussion Taralen's 2018 Random Musings About Life...

[Taralen]

Re: Why is it hard for gay men to network?

My first job I worked with quite a few flamers and they weren't treated any differently, and this was in the hella religious uber-homophobic south. *shrugs*

What fucking job was it?

 

[Taralen]

Re: Do you believe race/culture plays a factor in your gay lifestyle?

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[belamyi]

Re: Do you believe race/culture plays a factor in your gay lifestyle?

Gay, lifestyle? what gay and what lifestyle?

I am as severed from the right-here-right-now as it is possible to be without actually being so.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

Just because you're in a big city rather in Podunkville doesn't mean you can't do the same thing, and work on making yourself ready for a relationship. Or you can just wait for the right guy to come along to "make you whole". I know which is more likely to lead to a longer, healthier relationship, though.

Lex

How long do I have to wait? What if I'm waiting for a train that's never going to come at the station?

 

[Taralen]

Re: Do you believe race/culture plays a factor in your gay lifestyle?

Gay, lifestyle? what gay and what lifestyle?

I am as severed from the right-here-right-now as it is possible to be without actually being so.

There is a gay community and agenda going on. They get money for all the gay pride events, gay cruises, promote gay bars promote gay adult industry, promote gay magazines, etc. All that shit.

 

[G-Lexington]

Re: Why is the gay community so promiscious and sex crazed?

No the fuck it's not. Now if you want to have an open relationship, I'm fine with that. That's okay.

No, you're not. No matter how many times you say "I'm fine with that. That's okay". You're not fine with it. If you were, we wouldn't have all these threads.

But I want a boyfriend that loves me, and I don't want to fuck random guys who I don't even fucking know.

And you're not the only one. And nobody is stopping you from doing so. But you've decided that the gay mafia has decreed that everybody has to fuck around, and that either everybody feels pressured into doing so, or else the temptation is so great that they succumb to it and join the worldwide orgy. Which means you don't get your white, beefy, straight-acting boyfriend all to yourself.

I'm also a "side", (ugh I hate that word. Ugh. Is there some other word I can use? Ugh). I don't like anal sex, and won't do it, so maybe I should have said taht shit from jumpstreet. If that makes any motherfucking difference at all.

Sorry. Which means you don't get your white, beefy, straight-acting, oral-and-manual-only boyfriend all to yourself.

...anybody else remember birddog? Whatever happened to him?

Lex

 

[Taralen]

Re: Why is the gay community so promiscious and sex crazed?

No, you're not. No matter how many times you say "I'm fine with that. That's okay". You're not fine with it. If you were, we wouldn't have all these threads.

They are all on different issues and topics.

And you're not the only one. And nobody is stopping you from doing so. But you've decided that the gay mafia has decreed that everybody has to fuck around, and that either everybody feels pressured into doing so, or else the temptation is so great that they succumb to it and join the worldwide orgy. Which means you don't get your white, beefy, straight-acting boyfriend all to yourself.

Wow. Smh.

Sorry. Which means you don't get your white, beefy, straight-acting, oral-and-manual-only boyfriend all to yourself.

...anybody else remember birddog? Whatever happened to him?

Lex

Why does he have to be white? "straight acting" and "beefy" are also being kinda condescending. I can't help what I like. Shit. That's coincidental and also incidental. How fucking dare you? Smh.

 

[belamyi]

Re: Do you believe race/culture plays a factor in your gay lifestyle?

There is a gay community and agenda going on. They get money for all the gay pride events, gay cruises, promote gay bars promote gay adult industry, promote gay magazines, etc. All that shit.

Yeah, I know: the "gay" in all that is as irrelevant as "straight" or whatever else you want to put in its place. That's not "gay". That's just "agenda", "events", "cruises", "promotion", "shit"... the usual "crusty and creamy" world that takes itself too seriously... and too much for granted.
That world you are referring to there is just a later addition, a new ring to the old circus.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Do you believe race/culture plays a factor in your gay lifestyle?

Yeah, I know: the "gay" in all that is as irrelevant as "straight" or whatever else you want to put in its place. That's not "gay". That's just "agenda", "events", "cruises", "promotion", "shit"... the usual "crusty and creamy" world that takes itself too seriously... and too much for granted.
That world you are referring to there is just a later addition, a new ring to the old circus.

It's not irrelevant. It's an entirely different culture and rules and system.

 

[G-Lexington]

Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

The best thing about working on myself is that I liked myself far more at the end of the journey than I did at the start. So even if I never did find a boyfriend, I would have still been in a much better spot than when I started out.

Lex

 

[Taralen]

Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

The best thing about working on myself is that I liked myself far more at the end of the journey than I did at the start. So even if I never did find a boyfriend, I would have still been in a much better spot than when I started out.

Lex

That makes no sense at all. I don't want to be alone. It sucks.

 

[belamyi]

Re: Do you believe race/culture plays a factor in your gay lifestyle?

It's not irrelevant. It's an entirely different culture and rules and system.

Like one circus ring to the other. And we are not even talking about the central ring here.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Do you believe race/culture plays a factor in your gay lifestyle?

Like one circus ring to the other. And we are not even talking about the central ring here.

We are on the same page.

 

[belamyi]

Re: Do you believe race/culture plays a factor in your gay lifestyle?

We are on the same page.

Just different lines in different paragraphs... from separate chapters of the same story. It's all about layout.

 

[Sebazz]

Re: Why is it hard for gay men to network?

"Why don't you fucking answer? Do I have to ask the same fucking question tomorrow? Why aren't you all bumping my 574 threads constantly? Do I have to do it all by myself? UGHHH I hate this community so much!"

 

[G-Lexington]

Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

Some people make their dungeons so comfortable they're scared to leave them.

Lex

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Re: Why is it hard for gay men to network?

What job was it?

If anything, I've had bad relationships with other queer men. Because I was black and different, they wanted me gone, and tried everything they could do get rid of me.

This was a at resort I was working at and got fired from.

Why am I not surprised that everybody's out to get you? My first job was a movie theater. Flamers aplenty and none of them were treated any differently and most of our staff was 18-24 year old ruggish thuggish types that you'd expect would be all "Aw hell naw get that faggot outta here."

Now go ahead and find your loophole where they really hated the fags with a fiery passion and wanted to murder them but only held back because they didn't wanna lose their job.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Do you believe race/culture plays a factor in your gay lifestyle?

Just different lines in different paragraphs... from separate chapters of the same story. It's all about layout.

No we aren't. We are talking about the same damn issue.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

Some people make their dungeons so comfortable they're scared to leave them.

Lex

I'm not comfortable in this "dungeon." It's more like I'm in a living prison and an endless dream. Where nothing is right. I can't befriend gay or straight men, or whatever. Whatever I do is fail.

You don't know what it's like to want to go somewhere and do something and fucking can't.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Why is it hard for gay men to network?

Why am I not surprised that everybody's out to get you? My first job was a movie theater. Flamers aplenty and none of them were treated any differently and most of our staff was 18-24 year old ruggish thuggish types that you'd expect would be all "Aw hell naw get that faggot outta here."

Now go ahead and find your loophole where they really hated the fags with a fiery passion and wanted to murder them but only held back because they didn't wanna lose their job.

The fact you mentioned you have to assimilate with mack thug types only proves my point.

If it wasn't an issue, why did you mention it?

So thanks for proving my point.