On Topic Discussion Taralen's 2018 Random Musings About Life...

[fabulouslyghetto]

Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

Ok, well then I want a boyfriend. That would help me tremendously.

You'd suck the life out of him within minutes. If he doesn't leave you he'll end up cheating relentlessly. Wait just a little while longer you're still cookie dough.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Should queer people be open at their workplace?

You are the strongest weakest person I've ever encountered. Quite the paradox.

How is it weak to remove myself from a damaging situation?

 

[Taralen]

Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

You'd suck the life out of him within minutes. If he doesn't leave you he'll end up cheating relentlessly. Wait just a little while longer you're still cookie dough.

Why do you say that? I'm not cookie dough, you don't know how long I've been waiting. Forever. I can't wait anymore.

What's wrong with being cookie dough, I happen to like cookie dough and cookie dough ice cream.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Re: Why is it hard for gay men to network?

I'm also saying I've had different experiences. The fact you mentioned it shows you are aware of the problem.

I'm happy things went well for you though.

Problem? Sure, but not nearly as bad as things were 20, even 10 years ago. The point we're all trying to make is things can go well for you, but until they do you're going to make yourself sick always being so down-trodden, it's not healthy physically emotionally or spiritually. If none of us have the answers, if every single one of us is wrong, that still leaves you to figure it out because sorrow will eat you alive and have you looking 50 before you hit your 30s. You don't get do re-do life and I'm sure no one on their death bed has ever said "Gosh I wish I had spent more time wallowing in misery and shutting down every attempt to rescue me from despair." You're still young, you think time is forever and you have 10 lifetimes to figure this out. Good luck with that.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Why is it hard for gay men to network?

Problem? Sure, but not nearly as bad as things were 20, even 10 years ago. The point we're all trying to make is things can go well for you, but until they do you're going to make yourself sick always being so down-trodden, it's not healthy physically emotionally or spiritually. If none of us have the answers, if every single one of us is wrong, that still leaves you to figure it out because sorrow will eat you alive and have you looking 50 before you hit your 30s. You don't get do re-do life and I'm sure no one on their death bed has ever said "Gosh I wish I had spent more time wallowing in misery and shutting down every attempt to rescue me from despair." You're still young, you think time is forever and you have 10 lifetimes to figure this out. Good luck with that.

I'm not young, I'm a grown ass man and my life has been shit and I'm impatient. I wan't love, and if I can't get it now, fuck it I'm done. I'm very serious.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Re: Should queer people be open at their workplace?

How is it weak to remove myself from a damaging situation?

Allowing it to damage you is the weakness. But kudos for sticking to your guns and knowing what you will/won't tolerate. That might be the one quality that saves your love life from becoming as tragic as Mary J Blige's.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

Why do you say that? I'm not cookie dough, you don't know how long I've been waiting. Forever. I can't wait anymore.

What's wrong with being cookie dough, I happen to like cookie dough and cookie dough ice cream.

Cookie dough is super but I spoke to your future boyfriend and he told me he prefers baked cookies. I told him give you maybe 5, 10 more minutes and then we can take you out of the oven.

 

[Elwood]

Re: Why is the gay community so promiscious and sex crazed?

It's not the same at all.

Tinder is also not the same as Grindr. Tinder is a relationship app, Grindr, (at least based on the advertisements and reputation it has) is a random sex app.

But going back to female escorts and call girls.

A straight man doesn't look at it the same way in the gay culture.

A man calls that girl to take her out to eat and drink and so he can have female companionship.

If they happen to have sex or whatever, so be it, but it's not the same. He usually calls her to keep him company, and mild sex might play in the factor.

With gay men, it's strictly wild hot random anonymous sex, and it's basically prostitution and calling a guy to have sex with.

For example, gay male escorts are not there to be your friend, boyfriend, buddy. He doesn't have time for that.

You call him for dick, and once you get your dick, he's gone.

I know sex is okay, but to me sex should mean something.

I don't want to have sex with Joe Schmoe off Grindr, and after we have sex, I never see him again.

I want to have sex with the man that I love, and he loves me.

Ya ok if it makes you feel better to believe that!? ������

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

Baked Oreo halves will get the cream filling they so desperately crave.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Why are straight people not interested in your personal life being gay?

Cookie dough is super but I spoke to your future boyfriend and he told me he prefers baked cookies. I told him give you maybe 5, 10 more minutes and then we can take you out of the oven.

Why did you say that. Why can't I have my cookie now, I tend to like more soft cookies though. Hard cookies are okay too, but I really like the softer kind.

Why are you comparing that to cookies?

Ugh.

 

[JohnnyAnger]

Re: Why is the gay community so promiscious and sex crazed?

Define hooking up in the straight world though.

It's not nearly as wild as it is in the gay world.

At least a fucking straight guy will send her flowers and shit.

Gay men, his ass is there today, gone tomorrow and shit.

That's gay hooking up, and it's more wild. Like you don't even know his name.

At least in the straight world, they in some stages are considered lovers at that point or at that stage.

In the gay world it's more extreme and crazy.

Straight people hook up and never talk again. It happens all the time. Sure its not quite at the industry level we take it to some times,but straight people can do the whole fucking with no romance.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Why is the gay community so promiscious and sex crazed?

Ya ok if it makes you feel better to believe that!? ������

It doesn't make me feel better it's the truth.

 

[eastofeden]

Re: Why is the gay community so promiscious and sex crazed?

Gay people are more honest about it.....

 

[Taralen]

Re: Why is the gay community so promiscious and sex crazed?

Straight people hook up and never talk again. It happens all the time. Sure its not quite at the industry level we take it to some times,but straight people can do the whole fucking with no romance.

It's not the same though.

There aren't that many gay men out here for us to do that shit.

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Gay people are more honest about it.....

They are.

 

[Taralen]

Re: Should queer people be open at their workplace?

Allowing it to damage you is the weakness. But kudos for sticking to your guns and knowing what you will/won't tolerate. That might be the one quality that saves your love life from becoming as tragic as Mary J Blige's.

Well you can't always win. So.

 

[Taralen]

Re: What kind of music do you like?

This song is so lovely.

 

[72-Jay]

Re: Why is the gay community not accepting of alternative lifestyles/personalities?

Only to gay men. It hurts us the worst.

Well...that I do have to agree with.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Re: Should queer people be open at their workplace?

Well you can't always win. So.

You can't.

 

[roadtripboy]

Re: Do you believe there is tension between masculine and feminine gay guys?

^I'm a fem gay and it's okay.

Yes it is. You're fine just the way you are. Please always remember that.

 

[Latimer]

Re: Why is the gay community so promiscious and sex crazed?

But I get the impression from some of the guys who post here that they rarely have sex. Others haven't had sex in years. And still others have never had sex ever.

I bet a lot of gay men are similar to straight men in that they have a great deal of sex when they're younger, and then later settle down in one fashion or another. I think the biggest difference is that gay men are more open to open relationships. Gay men settle down while they continue to play around.