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On Topic Discussion Taralen's 2018 Random Musings About Life...

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Re: Should queer people be open at their workplace?

You can't.

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So removing yourself from a toxic situation doesn't mean you lose.
 
Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

DELETE....

I had an angry response...but I thought about your whining and I think it would throw me over the edge.

Better left unsaid what I had to say.
 
Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

I want a fucking boyfriend and I'm just picturing all the guys I'm attracted to both straight and gay that don't like me back and didn't work out.

They probably got wind of all your bannings.
 
Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

You said in posting #25 that you want a fucking boyfriend. Would you settle for a boyfriend without the fucking, at least at first? The fucking may eventually happen if rapport develops between you and the boyfriend. Maybe that is part of the reason you don't find any boyfriend, because you demand the fucking right from the beginning.

Think about it. What do you want more, the fucking or the boyfriend?
 
Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

Isn't all porn actors are getting paid?

Porn is a fantasy, you watch it get off and move on with life.
 
Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

Porn, any porn, is fantasy. It creates unrealistic standards of sexual satisfaction within the realm of personal relationships. Even porn stars don't fuck their lovers the way they fuck on cameras. It's all fantasy.
 
Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

Porn, any porn, is fantasy. It creates unrealistic standards of sexual satisfaction within the realm of personal relationships. Even porn stars don't fuck their lovers the way they fuck on cameras. It's all fantasy.

It's not. Because if it weren't for porn I'll kill myself. I guess I shouldn't say porn, more like solo masturbation videos or shit like that. Just looked at some Hoboman/Workingmen porn this morning. I want a fucking man like that. So fuck that. It is a big deal.
 
Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

^When it gets to the stage where you threaten suicide if it was not for porn.

Then again go on about wanting a man, then in your case i believe that porn is damaging you.

Perhaps it is time the mods seriously consider the way this thread has developed.
 
Re: Why is the gay community so promiscious and sex crazed?

Then27 year old virgins like myself get punished. Lovely.

Everything I said in the past I lied. I have had close male friends yes, but I've never had a sex with a man, and I've never hooked up with a guy. None of that shit.

I chickened out going to a bathhouse twice. I can't do that shit, I got to the front door and said fuck this shit. That's not love, and that's not how to go about it.

I just feel I don't know what to do.

Lying about what?

Dude are you high?! You just fucking admitted to lying in the last post. Or was that a lie?
 
Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

We are having a discussion.

I also think this thread has veered so far off the original premise. Like every one of the other threads in this series, it always returns to " I want a boyfriend".

There is not even a pretense about gay for pay porn being damaging and you have contradicted yourself repeatedly with sloppy arguments in order to be in constant opposition to other posters.

Probably time for the mods to roll this thread up with all the other 'It's all about me wanting a boyfriend'.
 
Re: Why is the gay community so promiscious and sex crazed?

Dude are you high?! You just fucking admitted to lying in the last post. Or was that a lie?

I never went inside. I went to the fucking door and walked away. Fuck.

Now I have lied in posts from years ago, when I was young and stupid to fit in being black and gay. I wanted to be liked. The staff already know and cleared all that shit up. That was the fucking past, not now. I quit lying.

I am a virgin, and I've never had a boyfriend or had sex and I'm 27 years old.
 
Re: Is gay for pay porn damaging to the gay/queer male community?

I also think this thread has veered so far off the original premise. Like every one of the other threads in this series, it always returns to " I want a boyfriend".

There is not even a pretense about gay for pay porn being damaging and you have contradicted yourself repeatedly with sloppy arguments in order to be in constant opposition to other posters.

Probably time for the mods to roll this thread up with all the other 'It's all about me wanting a boyfriend'.

It's still the same discussion. On how gay porn gives you this depressing, "I want that man but I can't have him. His dick is just pixels on the screen." etc. Shit.

Stop twisting the subject.
 
Re: Is there racism/discrimination in the gay male community?

This is also self damaging as well. Because this in turn causes I think many queer people to convert themselves. Real talk no bullshit.

I mean I don't know, I've thought about it myself?
 
Re: Do you believe race/culture plays a factor in your gay lifestyle?

I find it interesting how despite being gay, your culture can also change that.
 
Re: Why is it hard for gay men to network?

Being that it's more difficult to network as well, it's just more tough.
 
Re: Is having a racial/body/personality preference preference okay?

I think the type of porn and guys you usually crush on also play a factor on this.
 
Re: Do you believe there is tension between masculine and feminine gay guys?

I hardly ever see it as much on the flip side, but I'm not saying it doesn't' happen, to me I see more masculine men having an issue.
 
Re: Can gay and straight men be friends?

But anyways, going back on topic, yeah I just think there are a lot of issues that make it seem difficult.
 
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