justaguy
Unplugged ....
Same. Unless there's some serious ethical issue involved I don't know why you'd withhold stuff but bother to mention you "know things."
Oh sorry. I don't know extra things that would shed any more light on the situation. I can't even remember half of what I was typing in now. Jubbers who know me from years ago might remember that if there is a topic I get into, I had a habit of making maybe 6 or 7 posts in a row without really saying much at all. Thats why it would have gone to 40 pages.
Really, most of my points would be based around the fact that I'd prefer to read the mundane story of one real jubber, than the exciting and interesting story of a fake one (unless its in the story forum, which I like). I am really, really passionate about that. I came to the Jub forums at a time when I needed to connect and Jub became very important in my life, helping me through a rocky patch. When Andreus confessed to being HIV+ on here, I thought that was really amazing. That is why I said in that thread :
Andreus,
I have just read your thread from start to finish. It took me an hour or so, but it was one of the most rewarding hours I have ever spent. I don't personally know anyone who is HIV+ (perhaps that is a fault of my own making), but now I feel I do.
Thankyou for sharing and all the best to you. From what I have read, you have all the mental armoury required to fight it. And I believe you will succeed.
Justaguy.
So I spent an hour of my life reading something that I could have done something else more constructive and worthy of my time. There still might be an Andreus, but I very much doubt his story. Unless there is something else that comes to light that swings things around. So, it's been an unpleasant, in many ways, thread, yet fascinating. But at the same time, if someone can see the possible consequences of their actions before embarking on a similar pathway, perhaps some good will come out of it.
That's basically my thoughts in a nutshell.

