Thank you from Us

[metta]

Really pleased to hear that things are going well.
I hesitate, but I'll just put something out there for consideration. Perhaps we have to be mindful of privacy. Is it possible that some of Andreus' loved ones might not know he is a member of this site ? And therefore a card or flowers or whatever from JUB might not be appropriate. Just something to consider.

Well, the second organization on his living will that he put his father charge of is a gay organization. So his family probably knows that he is gay. Of course, I don't think that we should send him anything tacky. That would be obvious...at least to me.

 

[Mitri T]

Our father is not aware that Fenway is gay. It would be difficult if he know this. I do not know the Dreu way of thinking on this so it will be what he want until I get answer from him. Jeremiah will collect card and send them on if that is what is feel the best.

All good wish of all kind is what will make the Dreu feel good I know.

thank you for this ideas.

 

[dkonfrost]

Our father is not aware that Fenway is gay. It would be difficult if he know this. I do not know the Dreu way of thinking on this so it will be what he want until I get answer from him. Jeremiah will collect card and send them on if that is what is feel the best.

All good wish of all kind is what will make the Dreu feel good I know.

thank you for this ideas.

Good to know, thank you Mitri (those hugs are for you and your brother)

 

[Mitri T]

Good to know, thank you Mitri (those hugs are for you and your brother)

Thank you. So hard for me to wait in between visit. I want him to be home to take care for him. I do not want to be tell not to see him for two hour. Much wait and wait. I want to just sit in room. Why is this not allow?

 

[Sausy]

This is what is now I know.

The part of hart that was bad was two part not one. hart is strong but two small part doc say no bigger than two mm has too much electricity and cause sudden death syndrome. This he say not uncommon in athlete with similar sickness yet once it found it cured. Hart use strength against itself. Machine in chest will make sure if other damage missed he will live this through.

I was scare this morening. As the Dreu go to surgery he whisper word in my ear as I kiss him. masha allah. In his religion words of this. Will of god. I think that he mean he ready to die. I now think he mean he ready to live. Maybe both. Much of his thinking I still have hard time to see. As I live with him he confuse me more and more.

Our father is angry as doctor keet him awake for part of surgery. I do not see this need but doctor say this the way it is done.

Our father has living will of Andreus and it ask for donation to Oxfam of Boston Iraq war orphan fund and Fenway community health build fund if sick. Card of support for Jeremiah to decide.

I see him half hour ago and color back in lips. he let me hold his hand. Nurse say he swing at other who touch so he know who I am. They laugh at his fighting and say very good sign.

If no lump in blood for next few day then it will be good surgery.

Thank you for this kindness.

So good to hear Dreu make such positive improvement after the surgery.It's amazing that he survived,but not really surprising...his toughness,strength and resilience is incredible and and surely saved him,as did his faith.My hopes for continued swift and steady progress,and I'm certain this will contribute to Dreu embracing and loving the preciousness of life and friends and family and love even more.Thanks for the update,Mitri.

 

[neruda]

Good for us all eh Dmitri???!!
Thanks for your posts ....you kept us all updated while going through hell yourself

 

[dkonfrost]

Thank you. So hard for me to wait in between visit. I want him to be home to take care for him. I do not want to be tell not to see him for two hour. Much wait and wait. I want to just sit in room. Why is this not allow?

I totally understand. It sucks to have to wait. I assume Dreu is in the Intensive Care Unit (the ICU), right? You have to wait outside of his room in the ICU because they're closely monitoring him and watching every little thing going on with his vital signs and progress. Also, because he just went through a procedure, they're making sure he gets enough rest between visits so that his body can heal faster.

While you are waiting for him to come home, you can find out from the hospital staff about what you can do to help care for him when he gets home. The person would usually be the Discharge Planner, as well as any of the nurses/doctors who are part of the team that worked on him. I'll find some resources for you in the mean time, i'll PM them to you too.

 

[gmoney]

Thank you Mitri, for being so thoughtful to keep us informed while dealing with such a personal crisis. I've been hoping and praying all day for Dreu's recovery. It's nice to come home and find this thread. Now, go and take care of yourself. I'm sure you must be exhausted! I will continue to pray for Dreu, you, and your family.

 

[White Eagle]

This is so good to hear. Still praying for further recuperation.

 

[Mitri T]

Thank you Mitri, for being so thoughtful to keep us informed while dealing with such a personal crisis. I've been hoping and praying all day for Dreu's recovery. It's nice to come home and find this thread. Now, go and take care of yourself. I'm sure you must be exhausted! I will continue to pray for Dreu, you, and your family.

This help me not worry. I have few american friend and without the Dreu I am scare and alone. My father talk little to me for be gay and tell him last year. He has many reason to respect the Dreu. They are same religion. I am not. Our father has no love for me. I am not know what to do without my brother. Very scare. I cry in bathroom here if think as much of this. I am just to wait and wait and wait. So I read these kind thing wrote here and it make it better to not cry.

Sorry if I am not strong as he want me to be. I want to be so much as him. I want him to wake up and see me and know this. I give all for this.

 

[herenthere]

This help me not worry. I have few american friend and without the Dreu I am scare and alone. My father talk little to me for be gay and tell him last year. He has many reason to respect the Dreu. They are same religion. I am not. Our father has no love for me. I am not know what to do without my brother. Very scare. I cry in bathroom here if think as much of this. I am just to wait and wait and wait. So I read these kind thing wrote here and it make it better to not cry.

Sorry if I am not strong as he want me to be. I want to be so much as him. I want him to wake up and see me and know this. I give all for this.

Please stay strong....I know you are going thru a really rough period right now...I wish there was more support there with you.

Try to avoid letting your mind wonder, and put all your thoughts in willing Dreu to get well....
It sounds like you are really suffering, but remember and keep reading these posts, so you know there a lot of us there with you in spirit...

Think positive...I can tell from your writing you're an awesome person...

 

[Scrub]

Excellant news about Dreu

He's been on my mind all day

Mitri, as G-Money said, please take care of yourself.

 

[dkonfrost]

This help me not worry. I have few american friend and without the Dreu I am scare and alone. My father talk little to me for be gay and tell him last year. He has many reason to respect the Dreu. They are same religion. I am not. Our father has no love for me. I am not know what to do without my brother. Very scare. I cry in bathroom here if think as much of this. I am just to wait and wait and wait. So I read these kind thing wrote here and it make it better to not cry.

Sorry if I am not strong as he want me to be. I want to be so much as him. I want him to wake up and see me and know this. I give all for this.

it's ok to be scared. you have been through a LOT of ups and downs and anxieties over the last 2 days. that's what we're all here for, we're your support! you know that you can talk to any of us anytime.

 

[Christopher123]

it's ok to be scared. you have been through a LOT of ups and downs and anxieties over the last 2 days. that's what we're all here for, we're your support! you know that you can talk to any of us anytime.

I'll second this.

Thank you, Mitri, for the update. Dreu's been on my mind since yesterday, as he's been on all of ours, and it was a major relief to learn this news.

You're not going through this alone

Chris

 

[RicanDAB]

Mitri,

God is watching over all of you .. and all of us here are really pulling for Andreus to recover completely. Have faith buddy!

 

[Riverrick]

Mitri, you're such a wonderful man. Look how well you have handled this. You have been the one in charge, calling the Police and calling your father and making sure Dreu got to the hospital and was given good care. He is lucky to have you.

I'm sorry that your relationship with your father. That must be painful. You are a very special man. We can see that clearly.

Thank you for keeping us updated and please keep writing. We want to be your friends and help you.

 

[1gayguy]

Bless you for keeping us informed. The news coming in so far sounds very good.
Go get some rest.
And again, bless you and your family!

 

[Raybee]

Mitri you are the best brother anyone could have.
If you were my brother I would be so proud of you.
You are not alone!

 

[Mitri T]

I am take nap between visit when quiet here. It is enough rest. I am wait with you till I can sit with him. Then I will not be here. I am sorry if that insults. I am just want my brother back.

 

[lyconthrope]

not insulting in the least, we all want you to be with him as much as you can, you have been braver through this than anyone else I know could have been including myself.

you are a true blessing

he will be home with you very soon i am sure