In light of our little chat, I see that my personal reaction to the original thesis (that the gay agenda has taken a conservative turn) was cloudy. I had originally thought that it had become more conservative because of the addition of the "couples" issue, and perhaps it has because of a change in the relative emphasis accorded to it by activists. However, most of the planks of the gay agenda are still there; they haven't been accomplished, and their underpinnings in liberal aspirations are fundamentally unchanged as far as I can see.
Perhaps -- except the change has been from "We're here, we're queer!", in-your-face, we're not like you and get used to it, to wanting to just settle into society pretty much like anyone else. That's a serious change, if not in aspirations then in attitude.
So, while the agenda has become more conservative, the change has been quantitatively rather small.
I'm not sure about "quantitative", but the qualitative change verges on the astounding. In both, though, it occur to me, after skimming back over the thread, that something's going on other than the entire gay population becoming somehow more conservative: thirty or forty years ago, demographically it was a different sector of the gay population that was visible -- and they were radical. Along the way, more and more gays have come out, not punching people in the face (so to speak) or kicking in doors, but quietly making themselves visible as very ordinary, regular people, not some strange subculture with its wild 'agenda', but Americans like everyone else -- and with aspirations like everyone else. That makes the shift toward a more conservative flavor to the gay community not one of ideological or philosophical change, but a demographic one, with more gays visible who aren't radical, but just want to be accepted as part of the whole American population -- which is inherently conservative.
That leaves us with the issue of whether gay conservatives have to moderate, modulate, or compromise their economic conservatism (and economic conservatism is what creates the most impressive and disagreeable disagreement) in order to work effectively toward achieving the goals of the gay agenda. My answer to that question need not be affected by the clarification of my prior response. I answer, "No. They need not moderate, modulate, or compromise their conservatism in order to work effectively toward achieving the goals of the gay agenda." Then I went on to explain why. The answer is that there is a significant constituency for their particular combination of views. I even pointed out where it lay, i.e. mostly among blue dog Democrats.
Again, that's not the topic. The topic is the WHOLE gay community being more conservative. If you want to look at pieces of the community, it's more relevant to ask how the old-guard radicals are going to fit in now that the whole visible community is far more conservative -- or, rather, now that the whole "gay agenda" is more conservative.
So you see, I have indeed responded to the original thesis. I even went beyond that to answer a few questions that I believed would immediately arise once I articulated my response (however cloudy the expression of that response). I think I was right about the worry-point. Rather quickly the thread took off into an extended discussion of economic policies, whether those policies where liberal or conservative, which presidents more effectively addressed economic problems, and which party advocated the most "conservative" economic policies. Presumably these issues have some connection to which party gay conservatives do or should gravitate toward.
Yeah, and through all that I kept pointing out that it had nothing to do with the original topic, which was about the entire gay community, not pieces of it. As far as economics go, the entire community would be considered more conservative if personal/household rates of savings had increased and use of credit decreased, evidencing more careful spending and budgeting. Interesting though that might be, and probably relevant, I don't have any idea where to look for such information.
I suppose politics is marginally relevant, though I'm no longer convinced that the basic conservative virtues have much correlation with political party these days -- the shenanigans in which the Republicans indulge lately aren't conservative in any meaningful sense of the word; fascist, though far off, is closer to being accurate; reactionary is definitely the case.
In fact, given that the gay community has become more conservative, it can be used as a measure of how conservative a party is: with gays embracing the basic conservative virtues of marriage, family, service to country, etc., a truly conservative party would welcome them.
I am not ignoring the importance of economic policy. In fact, my emphasis on the importance of the blue dogs relates directly to the problem gay conservatives face--the feeling of being marginalized by both the gay community and the Republican Party. However, my response is also aimed at bridging the rift which is apparent between gay conservatives and their more liberal peers who would often like to shut them up or banish them to re-education camps. I think that would in fact benefit us all--the whole gay community--not just one faction.
I don't see that economic policy is relevant except as above.
Interestingly, that reaction from those liberal peers makes them immensely like the Republicans, majoring precisely in those things which are not at all conservative, but reactionary (and fascist).