The Anal Compulsion.

[Cormac135]

Do you enjoy getting fucked or being fucked ?

Or perhaps as i was reading you don't do either, seems a lot of gays aren't really into anal, what the hell else do you do ?

 

[Alistair]

I won't say no, but I prefer giving and receiving blow jobs

 

[LeicsDom]

Anal holds no real pleasure for me
Mostly it is way too much trouble getting in and then there is no real sensation so I gave up trying a long time ago

 

[Cormac135]

I prefer fucking someone, or getting fucked, blow-jobs just seem like foreplay.

 

[NotHardUp1]

From lots of evidence, the actual range of gay sex is a lot different than those who define our world as tops and bottoms. And that's a good thing.

It's obvious from some posts on JUB that intimacy isn't what everyone wants. It's obvious from others that intimacy with many is what others want. Still others want just one, and finally, some want none.

And, the rise of condoms has surely taken its toll on the number who want sex with one.

 

[peeonme]

In my young(er) days I enjoyed both, oral seemed like foreplay to me as well. Most of my fantasies over the years have me in a posistion of receiving.

 

[Briacon429]

I prefer fucking someone, or getting fucked, blow-jobs just seem like foreplay.

Agreed. I love blowjobs, don’t get me wrong. But to me, anal is the ultimate in gay sex.

 

[PipeDream]

My boyfriend and I are both versatile and our relationship is very new so we fuck quite a lot. Unfortunately, my health issues mean that bottoming is almost always impossible for me. I eagerly await the day that the stars align and he can fuck me back, but we're both content with the way things are currently. I'm sure the sex will change over time in various different ways, but trust that both of us will feel comfortable with open conversation if it's causing any problems.

Honestly though, for as long as he lets me fuck his face I am happy. I could subsist on oral alone, both giving and receiving.

And, the rise of condoms has surely taken its toll on the number who want sex with one.

This might be an indication that many people were more motivated more by fear of disease than a genuine desire for monogamy. I'd say it's a win overall if people are less restricted in pursuing what makes them happy, even if it might make things slightly more difficult for the monogamous among us who aren't comfortable with open relationships.

 

[mikey3000]

Its not at the top of my list all the time, but every blue moon i'm up for it. Tonight it felt especially good .

 

[rareboy]

Totally versatile in my long term relationship.

But truth be known...I really do prefer to get railed hard and often.

 

[tarallucci]

getting fucked or being fucked

Isn't it the same thing?

I am definitely a "top".

 

[peeonme]

Isn't it the same thing?

I am definitely a "top".

You really have to be anal to spot that

 

[Charon]

I'm a total bottom.

 

[eastofeden]

If you don't like anal sex...top or bottom...your choice...we aren't having sex....

I prefer top though.....

I don't do oral at all..giving or receiving...yawns.....

 

[Zeno Lorea]

Kissing is foreplay. Oral is foreplay. Fucking is the real thing.

 

[sweet_taboo]

Do you enjoy getting fucked or being fucked ?

Yes and yes. Both.

 

[desertboi]

I prefer fucking someone, or getting fucked, blow-jobs just seem like foreplay.

Same here. Nothing against guys who only prefer oral, but to me it's just the "lead up" to anal.

 

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[MakeDigitalLove]

A lot of oral for foreplay? Damn

 

[Cormac135]