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The Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2014

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Some doctors just drive me nuts!!! So arrogant! Like their time is all that counts. To be the second appointment of the day and be kept waiting over an hour is inexcusable. Then to be so condescending when asked questions!! Doctor! It's my body! I have the right to ask questions about the meds you prescribe. And if I need clarification about things, then I'm saying that you don't explain things good. Don't get hostile with me you friggin twerp!!! Just do your job and do it right!!! And why don't you validate parking anymore? Bastard! Your snooty condescension first thing on a Monday morning cost me $15 in parking. Fucker!!!!
 
^ (*8*) Hugs. Trust me, I'm so right there with you on doctors.

Dallas-Fort Worth - for a city that's literally 2/3rds the population of NYC, and just as physically large in size, why aren't there more servicesthat do nights and weekends?

I've been trying to get in to several doctors, all of which work banker's hours. Must be nice.

Yesterday in counselling, my therapist told me she has more business than she can handle directly because she sees people primarily on weekends. She's not hurting for clients and won't be anytime soon
 
^ (*8*) Hugs. Trust me, I'm so right there with you on doctors.

Dallas-Fort Worth - for a city that's literally 2/3rds the population of NYC, and just as physically large in size, why aren't there more servicesthat do nights and weekends?

I've been trying to get in to several doctors, all of which work banker's hours. Must be nice.

Yesterday in counselling, my therapist told me she has more business than she can handle directly because she sees people primarily on weekends. She's not hurting for clients and won't be anytime soon

Pretty much this. If you really want to get business, you should work on the weekends. To compensate for working on weekends, you can take a couple of week days off. I keep thinking "isn't that obvious?" and "why don't more doctors just open on the weekends?"....but then I realize the all work and no play thing sounds pretty shitty to me too. Can't win them all.
 
My ex cousin-in-law is a dentist. He only works 3-4 days a week... cause he can, and likes his play time.
 
Pretty much this. If you really want to get business, you should work on the weekends. To compensate for working on weekends, you can take a couple of week days off. I keep thinking "isn't that obvious?" and "why don't more doctors just open on the weekends?"....but then I realize the all work and no play thing sounds pretty shitty to me too. Can't win them all.

Or, for those with the ability to write their own schedule - like Borg's ex-cousin-in-law dentist - simply work every other weekend. That's actually my schedule at my store job - Tuesday Night to Tuesday Night with the following Wednesday Night through Monday Night off. I work every other weekend, but I'm also guaranteed the opposite weekends off. It's a ridiculously good schedule. I work, yes, but I also get to have a life outside my job, too.

These last 12 years, I've worked and made a living in an industry where the ability to work nights, weekends and even holidays is pretty much required. So, to be completely fair, I will admit here to a somewhat unsympathetic bias against people who work bankers' hours jobs. Again, must be nice.

But even when I work holidays (like Christmas), I know that what I do actually is providing a much-needed, invaluable service that helps people. I remember, a few weeks ago, when I worked Christmas Eve Night into Christmas Day Morning, I had one woman came up and told me that her 10-year old son was at home with the flu, running a 102º fever, and just sick as a dog. One of those unplanned for emergencies where just shit happens. She was so grateful that we were open on Christmas Eve in the middle of the night, when everything else - even Wally World - was closed. She flat told me that, because of the situation with her child needing flu meds, her choices were either us or take him down to the nearest hospital ER in the middle of the night on Christmas Eve. I've gotta tell ya' - it's the best feeling in the world to know that you're actually helping someone out like that.

And she was dead-on right - where was she going to go? It's Christmas Eve. Everybody's closed. Everybody. But we were open. And a kid got the meds he needed to feel better because of it.

We were there, filling a void, filling a need. And don't get me wrong - I'm not saying that everyone should be absolutely forced to work weekends. But there really is a genuine need out there for those who work in a professional service job (doctor/healthcare worker, lawyer, banker, etc.) to be open for business on Saturdays and Sundays. And that need is not being met - not by a longshot.
 
First world problems, I know, but what is it about a neighborhood street that is so empty...

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...But when you come along, and decide that you need to cross said street...

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Quite the annoyance in my neighborhood. Especially those of us whose only means to get around is either on foot or by public transit (which thanks to our wonderfully reliable public bus and train service, means mostly on foot.)

:grrr: :soapbox:
 
Like many practices in Scotland, we still do home-visits, we stay open late, for those who are working during the day. Plus you can have access to a Dr 24/7 all year round, thanks to NHS24.
Many practices here in Scotland also hold a saturday morning surgery.

I posted in this very thread, not that long ago about the amount of paper-work which we now have to undertake, a lot of this came about after Dr Death (Harold Shipman).
I also had a rant about the ten minute appt system, totally useless. Many patients need a lot longer than that, this is why some appts
do over-run when it comes to scheduling.

I totally understand peoples frustration, we too suffer from it. It is not unusual for a GP to see as many as 20-25 patients in a day, and not all are one-fix wonders.
I am thankful that here we do have an NHS, this does give more choice to the patient
It is all well and good having a "pop" at Dr's, though please remember that most, here anyway do try their hardest.
 
^ (*8*) Totally understood. Thank you all for all that you do.

Here in the states, there are a few places - primarily in your major cities, where you can seek medical treatment at a doctor's office on the weekend. But especially out in the country, in rural areas, if you get sick between 5pm Friday and 9am Monday, your only choice is the county hospital ER, which you'll pay out the ass for, even with insurance.

There is a huge void in healthcare here for medical care to be accessible on weekends, when the situation merits attention, but doesn't justify a full blown trip to the ER (the flu, a bad toothache, etc.)
 
Medic, would you mind telling us how doctor's salaries under national health compare to American doctors of similar practice?
 
The past few days, my life as been one giant video game fetch quest, and it's pissing me off.

My college emailed me Friday that my tuition was due yesterday, and that I needed to accept my financial aid. So, I do that online ..

I go down to my college. On the way there my bus almost had a right-front to right-front collision head-on with a garbage truck. Both the trash truck and my public transit bus tried to make wide left turns at the same time.

So that was that. I made it in one piece to my college. Because of my financial aid, the amount of tuition I owe is less than their standard payment plan. So I have to go see a cashier advisor at the main office to pay.

Trouble is, they won't even let you pay for classes without a picture ID. I don't have mine, as I lost my wallet the Sunday before Christmas, and then after the holidays were over last week, I've been slammed busy with work.

So now, this is happening. Even though my tuition is late I'm praying they'll still want the money, and not drop me from my classes. I've got to go get an ID.

Trouble is, the DMV office wants a bank statement and a utility bill to prove residence lawfully.

And it must be between 30 and 90 days old.

When I come back, will I have to stand on my head, and clap 3 times.

Now I have to go back home, get my documents in order, go back to the DMV, pray they don't give me anymore run around. Get my ID,,go to my college and pay on my tuition.

All before I have to be at my store this afternoon at 3pm for work.

I'm tired of having to balance a ball on the end of my nose just to get what I need..

And BTW, doctors won't take you without an ID either. Found that out yesterday, when I tried to get into a GP to refer me t9 a psychiatrist.

Not a happy camper, right now.
 
^THIS, and the rest of your post.

Therehave been times when it has been otherwise, but that's been the exception. I'm old enough to remember more times than most people will remember.

Pre-recorded radio music was EXTREMELY homogenized until about 1956. When rock and roll took off - a good part of it coming from "low budget" recording artists and record companies - the upstart companies piled on and, by 1958, the competition was fierce and, because of so much non-formula rock and roll coming to the forefront, I consider that probably the best "pre-Beatles" year for radio. Elvis Presley was probably the biggest influence bringing rock and roll to nearly every corner of the United States and Canada, but he couldn't have pulled the entire load alone without Bo Diddley, Chuck Berry, etc. (Actually 1957 was probably the very best of all rock and roll years ever, but it took radio a year to catch up...)

By 1959, big money was getting into rock and roll...and the really fast and hard stuff was somewhat pushed back. Big-money interests have always tended to be conservative (going back much farther than my lifetime), and it showed in the music that was trending. By the end of 1960, ballads and slower stuff were back to near-dominance, though the traditional adult pop standards, often with big band overtones, no longer dominated. But, often, the most popular songs became ballads or, sometimes, lush pop instrumentals. (think "Theme From a Summer Place" the #1 song of 1960.) Even with radio music again somewhat homogenized, other rock and roll and independent stuff wasn't kept entirely at bay, because hard-and-fast "formatting" still barely existed. The homogenous music period on radio didn't involve much more than 1960 and parts of 1959, because new styles were coming out at a lightning pace once 1961 arrived, and some juggernauts (such as Phil Spector, "The Twist," and Motown) were soon to break wide open, or already had. Rock and roll had a very bright and lively feeling to it, with the teenage ballads, the girl groups, the first soul music, oodles of rockin' instrumentals slongside the juggernauts. Generally the music was all about having fun...

Then came The Beatles.

Independent music had a good chance being heard on the radio around 1958 and first-half of 1959, then a lot more independent stuff started showing up around 1961 (after that "valley" in 1960), and the period 1964 to 1968 was just "crazy" with it. (A good indicator is that there were more songs that reached the Billboard Hot 100 in 1966, than in any other year ever. More successful titles = more churn.) Music started to homogenize again bvy 1969 and 1970, and stayed thus for a decade, though the last half of that was a change in the dominant music when disco became huge.

The last time I'm aware of when alternate types of music had a chance on the radio was around 1981 to 1983, when New Wave and other alternative forms became successful. But, now, it is thirty years since I've noticed much independent music on the radio. Of course it's hard to know when, nowadays, it seems that absolutely no current song ever played on any American radio station will ever be announced or identified.

I have not enjoyed radio in thirty years, because of that.

My favorite times in a musical genre's lifespan is the early days. Because the rules haven't been "set" yet. So bands, and labels, and the media don't know what they're doing...so they try it all. Which is why the early post-punk/new wave music was so wonderfully diverse. I was explaining to somebody about how fucking WEIRD "Cars" by Gary Numan is. The lyrics are bizarre and paranoid, there are three tambourine solos (and you thought it was all about the keyboards), and the song goes instrumental for the last half. But it was number one in the UK, and Top Ten in the US where it shared the chart with Captain and Tennille. Gary freely admits he didn't know what the hell he was doing - he was following his 19-year-old muse. The label shrugged and put it out, and radio said "fuck - why not" and put it on. But as time went on, the "rules" started falling into place. The bands looked like this, sounded like that, and wrote this type of song. It was still different from what came before, and there were still pleasures to be had there, but the true link to "doing something really different" was gone.

But I've seen it happen again. When Nirvana broke, alternative rock was born. (I'd argue that the ascendence of bands like REM and the Cure helped set the scene, though.) And again, the stuff from the first wave was wonderfully diverse. Lots of stylistic dead-ends, but it was fun watching them get explored. But in a few years, the rules were set, and Live and Bush were on top. Not that they couldn't be enjoyed, but again, the sense of discovery had waned a lot.

Who's to blame? Ultimately, us. It's not like new, different, unusual music is never available. Just recently, I've begun digging on line for the "off-number" records put out by major labels in the 20s thru the 50s. These were catalog numbers assigned to specialized markets - Celtic, Scottish, West Indies, blues, Hawaiian. And now, of course, it's easy. There are thousands of places online (and even on-air) you can check out new, different and diverse music. It does mean effort on your part, which is why limp music often sells - they're selling it to the lazy people who won't bother finding something superior.

Lex
 
You know, every now and then I'm reminded why I don't really like to go out of my way to make friends with people. You can't force it. People are selfish, ungrateful, and awkward about people getting 'too close' sometimes.
I don't always need people to give me 100 percent of what I give them...but if I go the extra mile for you, it's nice to at least be met with something that resembles appreciation or notice. Maybe some people are just weird about showing affection and feelings for others? I dunno...I just don't do the half-assed friend thing very well (online or otherwise).
 
Today I'm kind of having sad- vent. 3 of my fishes had died because of nasty bug called ich-
it's a common aquarium parasite. I'm an expert in maintaining fish keeping and water quality, make sure my water is properly cycled and clean. But how come my pet fish still could get it? I think the culprit was when I introduced my new fish altogether with water from pet store. BIG MISTAKE to dumped the water inside my cycled/clean aquarium. New fish tend to stressed out at first -making it a perfect host for ich bug to spread over.

It's heart breaking..what use of a perfect aquarium like this?

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with perfect setup and everything but you can only see "death" in the water :cry:
 
Never say die!!! :soapbox:

On the public transit bus to the DMV office at half past 6 in the morning so that I can be first in line at the front door.

In the immortal words of Bugs Bunny, "Of course you realize, This means war!!!!!"

#bound #determined
 
Today I'm kind of having sad- vent. 3 of my fishes had died.

Im sorry that your fish died, its never easy to loose a pet. (*8*)

You know, every now and then I'm reminded why I don't really like to go out of my way to make friends with people. You can't force it. People are selfish, ungrateful, and awkward about people getting 'too close' sometimes.
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I can understand that. Ive encountered people that just dont want to or dont know how to let you in. I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve and can be a very open person. I have no problem doing things for people or expressing my 'like' for folks. Some people are too busy trying to look aloof and cool (most likely afraid of getting hurt) that they just can't go there with you.

I had to stop trying with some people. I feel like Im a good person and I think that its smart to hold on to good people because there are so many jerks out there.

What's funny about some of these folks is that when you stop trying, that is usually the moment in which they begin to reach out.... because they miss you.

Its kind of sad.

Some of my best friendships just fell into place so easily, that is how it should be.
 
ugh, first paycheck of the new year... time to have lower take-home pay for the next 3 months :grrr:

insurance costs increase at the start of the new calendar year, but raises don't go into effect until after yearly reviews in the spring... so I'll be making about $25 less each paycheck until then.
 
Winner winner, chicken dinner!

My persistence has paid off with me walking out of the DMV office with a temporary ID.

My permanent one will be in the mail within the next 2 weeks, and I'm now a registered voter in the county I live in, as well.

Mission accomplished. Next item on the rundown - to get in to a GP for my medical issues. Now, that I have an ID, they can't refuse me.
 
ugh, first paycheck of the new year... time to have lower take-home pay for the next 3 months :grrr:

insurance costs increase at the start of the new calendar year, but raises don't go into effect until after yearly reviews in the spring... so I'll be making about $25 less each paycheck until then.

I know what you mean. I'll see my first paycheck on Friday. From what my open enrollment told me online, I think I'll take home about $90 bucks less per check. But it's for what's supposed to be Cadillac insurance. I intend to make this no-deductible insurance worth it.
 
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