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The Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2014

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Gentleheart said:
I can't for the life of me understand how a gay person (closeted or otherwise) could be so dead set on seeing fellow gays miserable and unhappy.
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I'm with you on this-- and for people in general. Like seriously, we're all in this world together. Why bother with hate?!
 
Gentleheart said:
I can't for the life of me understand how a gay person (closeted or otherwise) could be so dead set on seeing fellow gays miserable and unhappy.
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A couple of reasons:

1) Because they're so full of self loathing they don't want anyone else happy.
2) Political gain.
 
CowboyBob said:
A couple of reasons:

1) Because they're so full of self loathing they don't want anyone else happy.
2) Political gain.
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A third would be the same behavior we see in lots of groups, not just closeted gay men: the shoring up of one's position or safety or establishing one's group as "insiders" or even earning mainstream acceptance by participating with the mainstream in its discrimination against some other group low on the social totem. In a way closeted gay men are building up their illusion of safety by making it known in no uncertain terms how much they're against gay people.
 
I went to a contemporary art show tonight. I went by myself because no one I knew was interested. It was free, so I guess that I should not ask for much. I just dont get how some people can call certain things art. Some of this stuff had $100 price tags on it. I just dont get it.


Anyway......



xbuzzerx said:
In a way closeted gay men are building up their illusion of safety by making it known in no uncertain terms how much they're against gay people.
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Yes! Ive known people like this.
 
Oh my fuckin' Jesus god almighty holy mother-fuckin' hell, I'm so glad my therapist appointment is in 50 minutes ...

My current mood - Bernadette...

 
what happened!? :lol:


my gripe for the moment: this cold ass WEATHER. I just can't! :dead:

Spring and Summer...where are you!? Please come bacccck.
 
Gentleheart said:
what happened!? :lol:
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Check your private comments. ..|

That, and I'm somewhat relieved that after my therapist visit, I now know what's wrong with me - classic PTSD. PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) can happen to anyone, but is by far most common in 1) people who have been in the military, and 2) victims of some sort of serious abuse in their life (whether physical, mental/psychological, emotional, sexual or whatever). I fall into the latter classification. I need to schedule a visit with a full-blown psychiatrist, preferably later this week. My therapist recommended I get on Wellbutrin - a non-addictive anti-depressant. She point blank flat told me to avoid Xanax as if my life depended on it.
 
jdcnow Im sorry that you're having a hard time. Ill keep you in my thoughts/prayers. Im happy that you are seeing someone. I think that we all could probably benefit from some therapy.






On a superficial note....I never really liked how Waiting to Exhale made some of us (Black women) look.........but that nightgown though. ..| How beautiful is Ms Bassett.

 
^ I lurvs her in this season of American Horror Story. She still looks ridiculously un-aged.
 
lol anyways...


I've fallen into that "other people's lives look more glamorous than mine" place for the past week or so. wtf is wrong with me? I gotta get it together. :dead:
 
Gentleheart said:
lol anyways...


I've fallen into that "other people's lives look more glamorous than mine" place for the past week or so. wtf is wrong with me? I gotta get it together. :dead:
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You know, someone on Facebook posted that Huffpost article that said 11 reasons to quit Facebook in 2014. One of the reasons was the fact that Facebook seems to depress folks when they begin to compare their lives to everyone else's.


I have that feeling alot.
 
Thanks to all who wrote me in my private comments and here on the forum. (*8*)

MissAnne said:
On a superficial note....I never really liked how Waiting to Exhale made some of us (Black women) look.........but that nightgown though. ..| How beautiful is Ms Bassett.

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I know, and I agree with you. But I've often discovered that because I do keep my mouth shut about a lot of stuff, perhaps more than I should, no one really gets my level of inner anger until I show them this clip. Then, they're like, "Daaaayyyyuuuummmmm!!!! Who set you off like that?!"
 
jdcnow said:
I know, and I agree with you. But I've often discovered that because I do keep my mouth shut about a lot of stuff, perhaps more than I should, no one really gets my level of inner anger until I show them this clip. Then, they're like, "Daaaayyyyuuuummmmm!!!! Who set you off like that?!"
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I hope that you didn't think that I was judging you for the clip. Its understood. (*8*)

Plus as much as I talk about WTE, I have enjoyed the film.
 
^ Not at all. (*8*) No harm, no foul.

But I just want some goddamned peace in my life. And I'm not getting it. Not by a longshot. Hence my own internal Bernadine.
 
MissAnne said:
On a superficial note....I never really liked how Waiting to Exhale made some of us (Black women) look.........but that nightgown though. ..| How beautiful is Ms Bassett.

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IMO "Precious" has the worst potrayal of black woman/black community in general. And wow! Im glad I watched that clip. I used to have a gif of her-- wonder, hmm..she's fierce, where is she coming from? ^^
 
And..yea, having a bad day today..lemme sleep it over, tomorrow.. hopefully sunshine greets me over my window :rolleyes:
 
Just, rules upon rules, regulations upon regulations. Paper-work upon paper-work, just when are you supposed to make the time available, to try to help someone.
10 minute appt's are bloody useless. End of rant.
 
Just, rules upon rules, regulations upon regulations. Paper-work upon paper-work, just when are you supposed to make the time available, to try to help someone.
10 minute appt's are bloody useless. End of rant.

OOPS.....!oops!
 
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