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I just need a few more days to recuperate from the shock. Totally unbelievable, and how it got dumped on me to handle too. This is what happens when you're the only male in the family, immediate and extended, who didn't fly the coup. Oh man!! if I could only have a do over in life...
My heart goes out to you...We are all adults here in JUB. Hot Topics isn't a cocoon or a baby nursery (though I hear there's special forum for the 'bicurious').
There are people who post here almost exclusively to bait reactions out of others
. . .
Contrary to the belief that these personalities keep the place interesting, they're a fucking bore. They result in the same few topics/arguments coming up in multiple threads, and worse, they result in many interesting/valuable members of the forums either taking extended breaks or just leaving entirely.
Is it my imgagination or has the traffic in HT slowed down a lot in the last couple of months? Sometimes it comes to a complete halt. Last weekend I noticed several long gaps, one of them over five hours, between posts. I know the whole of North America is in bed between about 8 and 12 am UK time, but that still leaves all of Europe, Australasia and South Africa. It's as if people are losing heart. Or like I said, am I imagining it?

Last Friday i buried my estranged great aunt. At her funeral i met her Trustee, who has been 'looking after her' for the past six years. It was supposed to be a trustee from the charity whom was her sole beneficiary, but she was scammed by an individual who had nothing to do with the charity. And the worst part is, i know the scammer. I don't know what to do.![]()

Because I don't feel like starting another thread.
Recently I download Grindr and I'm shocked to discover my ex-university lecturer on it.
Technically, he's not really my lecturer because he never taught me. But he's from the teaching faculty where I studied.
And I recognises his face.

That is hiding your head in the sand. Anders was dead on.
What incentive is there to start other threads if they end up the same? The same trolls show up, derail the topic, inject the same dead horses they have beaten all over Hot Topics.
The trolls are a real problem. Several of the regular posters have echoed Anders' observation. I concur.

My facebook feed is blowing up with baseball-related stuff, and I have no idea wtf I'm reading nor did I know people get this "extra" about it.
WTF is a Royal?![]()
At least you get hit on. Some people go out of their way to avoid eye contact with me.I think I have to say the weirdest place to get hit on is at the gas station. Or it'd be right up there.![]()
Some people go out of their way to avoid eye contact with me.
Thanks, man.That's not what it seems in the amateur forum. You're a regular head turner.![]()
Sometimes, my self-confidence just needs a boost. It has been thoroughly crushed these past few months.