The Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2015

[Vannie]

Evaporated milk is delicious in a fresh cup of strong coffee.

 

[jbrown329]

Evaporated milk is delicious in a fresh cup of strong coffee.

Can milk is nasty.

 

[72-Jay]

Sorry that didn't help. That's how I installed flash (Firefox).

I think that's probably the normal way you'd do it LOL
In my case 'adobe' is firewalled out on my network to block the built-in spyware in flash (and all the adobe-advertising/tracking/etc stuff on websites, some of which doesn't even need flash to display/track)

 

[medic1]

Evaporated milk is delicious in a fresh cup of strong coffee.

Yes it is Vannie, i am drinking one just now.

 

[DonQuixote]

Adam and Vannie - we might use canned milk in baking, but Good, Strong, BLACK coffee is good.
Diluting it with creamers, unless you're making Coffee Ice Cream, not so much.

Then again, I like a good French Roast, or Fingerlakes Coffee Roasters Bolivian and their Jamaican me Crazy, which is actually a medium roast with hints of Rum, Cinnamon, and Hazel Nut - or something like that.

72-Jay,
I just got treated to a full blown update from Microsoft on Windows 10 - so far, knock on wood, my Adobe issues seem to have resolved.

 

[refujiunderground]

I know that it's hard standing on your own two as a gay man in a homophobic world where I can understand why it's important to have some groundwork and support but I wonder why there's this weird notion that it's wrong or a bad thing if you are a gay man that is willing to stand on your own two, doing what you want to do or being who you want to be and take whatever other people throw at you.

Like I've learn a long time ago that you can't please everybody. Some people will love you regardless of what you do and some will not. You just gotta be you. The only exception when somebody should step in is if someone's behavior is harming them or other people. Such as drug addiction, violent behavior and etc.

 

[rareboy]

I don't think most people think it is a wrong or bad thing to be a homo standing on your own two feet doing what you want, behaving like you want or be willing to take what people throw at you. I'd say that the vast majority admire this quality.

 

[refujiunderground]

I don't think most people think it is a wrong or bad thing to be a homo standing on your own two feet doing what you want, behaving like you want or be willing to take what people throw at you. I'd say that the vast majority admire this quality.

I disagree with that especially considering how the male side of the gay universe tends to be very cliquish and very focused on being popular and receiving validation from other gay men. It's like being in high school all over again. The internet is usually where it's the worst and often, guys use that as a vehicle to do the same thing in real life.

I often see these same guys ready to try to make the same people who usually stand on their own two, are of a certain background, skin color and whatever characteristic or are the guys who aren't invested in the same shit they are ready to make those people feel shitty, bully them, talk down on them and etc. Its bad, man. Personally, I sense that type of mentality going on in a lot of social settings as it is regardless of whatever social circle and very heavily in the gay male universe and I don't wanna be involved in that shit. Like we are grown men. Why are adults still worried about being popular, validation, competing, and etc? It's like dudes basically enter the gay community to do the same thing to other gay people like what straight people have done to them. Like I'm not here to clown somebody else or to basically be embraced or love or hated by someone else. I just wanna be myself in peace.

 

[medic1]

^Apart from all your "venting", i only see a very unhappy gay man who is looking for some validation, as to why they feel the way they do.

 

[Vannie]

Can milk is nasty.

Oh yea! Step outside!

Yes it is Vannie, i am drinking one just now.

Adam and Vannie - we might use canned milk in baking, but Good, Strong, BLACK coffee is good.
Diluting it with creamers, unless you're making Coffee Ice Cream, not so much.

Then again, I like a good French Roast, or Fingerlakes Coffee Roasters Bolivian and their Jamaican me Crazy, which is actually a medium roast with hints of Rum, Cinnamon, and Hazel Nut - or something like that.

I disagree with you about coffee and cream.I think they are wonderful together,but I understand being a purest. As a boy I can remember my Mom having wonderful get togethers with her lady friends.They would put out homemade butter cookies,lemon bars,date and nut breads as well as fine chocolates and candies.After brewing strong coffee,they would serve warmed whole milk and room temperature evaporated milk with the coffee.I do love a bit of Cinnamon as well.Really good.Now I need to buy Coffee Ice Cream for a rich coffee ice cream shake. Thank you guys,and Happy Holidays....

 

[GreyUnderscore]

A friend of mine is moving back home this week. How quickly a year passes by

 

[refujiunderground]

^Apart from all your "venting", i only see a very unhappy gay man who is looking for some validation, as to why they feel the way they do.

We are in a venting thread. Stop being judgmental towards people for expressing their feelings and being human. It's funny how gay people do the same things to each other that they basically get on straight people for doing. Maybe if we weren't putting so much pressure on each other where we are competing and having to meet standards that we can't reach and obtain then we wouldn't be so stressed out or having so much issues. A lot of issues that gay men have come from their own creation.

Funny because when I'm around my straight peers, folks aren't afraid to admit certain things that would get them ridiculed. Gay guys on the other hand are like... you admit one thing or simply aren't kissing ass like some robot then it's a problem. I'm not interested in being another typical gay man showing out for people.

 

[mikemizanin729]

We are in a venting thread. Stop being judgmental towards people for expressing their feelings

It doesn't matter if it's a venting thread or not. If we are to vent about the stuff you do then it's only natural that someone will ask what your problem is, especially with all the gay men bashing and race stuff.

There are some people on here who have a right to challenge some of the stuff you post here or ask questions as to what the heck you're actually on about half the time. I mean there's nothing wrong with expressing your feeling BUT some of the race stuff you go on about seems to be nothing more than looking for a reaction.

 

[Alistair]

I've got a headache venting

 

[Taz]

I used to think hypersesitive black guys were just a joke.

Refuji in real life:

 

[medic1]

^Apart from all your "venting", i only see a very unhappy gay man who is looking for some validation, as to why they feel the way they do.

We are in a venting thread. Stop being judgmental towards people for expressing their feelings and being human. It's funny how gay people do the same things to each other that they basically get on straight people for doing. Maybe if we weren't putting so much pressure on each other where we are competing and having to meet standards that we can't reach and obtain then we wouldn't be so stressed out or having so much issues. A lot of issues that gay men have come from their own creation.

Funny because when I'm around my straight peers, folks aren't afraid to admit certain things that would get them ridiculed. Gay guys on the other hand are like... you admit one thing or simply aren't kissing ass like some robot then it's a problem. I'm not interested in being another typical gay man showing out for people.

Nope, not working. I stand by my original post.

 

[72-Jay]

72-Jay,
I just got treated to a full blown update from Microsoft on Windows 10 - so far, knock on wood, my Adobe issues seem to have resolved.

Hopefully it will continue to work then too

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I was able to download flash today (did it at work) even that adobe didn't make easy, their stupid get.adobe.com website kept wanting to download a 1-megabyte 'installer'... google'ing found me the proper link for the full 18-meg download though.

Installed & seems to be working.

I've decided to keep that computer as Win 7 even though I could get a free 'upgrade' to 10...

 

[refujiunderground]

Nope, not working. I stand by my original post.

That's great because I don't care. Think whatever you want.

I'm just going to do what I feel like doing and nobodies going to stop me. I rather keep it real and be alone than to pretend, be phony, and etc just to have people who don't give a fuck about me or have ulterior motives in my corner where I have to kiss the asses of because they have insecurities and ego issues. I have enough issues dealing with myself. I can't please everybody. I learned that a long time ago. Bending back and smiling, trying to make people happy and they still have something negative to say. So you can feel however you want to feel. You don't know my situation or me enough to tell me what's wrong or right with me.

I damn sure are not tripping or crying about being lonely or whatever. I know I'm not alone but choose to isolate myself to get a peace of mind. I'm still alive and things that I never thought would happen are happening so my life is not as fucked up as you wish it would be. Thanks.

 

[medic1]

^Paranoia much?

Just where and when have i wished for your life to be fucked up?

I doubt you need any help in that direction.

 

[refujiunderground]

I used to think hypersesitive black guys were just a joke.

Refuji in real life:

You don't know how i am in real life.

And would rather preferred you to use this if you're gonna make fun of me.. at least be funny.