The Just Venting, Airing Out, Talking Shit, Personal Beefs, Problems, Anger Management, and etc Thread for 2016

[mikey3000]

That's an aweful lot of money to funnel into such a short-lived fashion statement. That said, putting together the 'perfect look' for a thing can get addicting. Perhaps buy a sketchbook and draw the fashionable looks you'd like to create?

Great idea, but the problem is, i know this will probably be one of the last dresses I buy for my baby before she goes off to college, and I'm not quite ready to let het go.

 

[luckynumbah7]

Great idea, but the problem is, i know this will probably be one of the last dresses I buy for my baby before she goes off to college, and I'm not quite ready to let het go.

Whatycha wanna bet that's the heart of the issue? Instead of spending oodles on extra dresses, ask if she'd like to do a family trip during (only part) of her spring break. Then you can spend time and money on something you'll both enjoy together *and* you'll have something to look forward to.

 

[mikey3000]

I am starting to realise this fact now.

 

[refujiunderground]

Sometimes I wonder what some gay guys are implying about homosexuality, themselves and other gay men when they mention things like monogamy and etc being heternomative. What exactly are they implying? I don't think that some people realize that they are actually cosigning some of the homophobes with the negative stereotypes concerning being gay such as being sexually compulsive and etc to the point where it gets to the point where it affects their ability to maintain a relationship or at risk behaviors. Sometimes, I wonder because some gay men really believe that being gay is all about having sex with a number of guys, basically downplaying love and all this other shit that basically leads to a life of loneliness and whatever.

 

[JPGhost]

I bought PC gaming from Ebay few weeks ago. The quality of transaction and that pc itself is "excruciating" at best. Not only the pc arrived dead, broken..but the seller also tried to fooled me once with the price list and when I emailed him my problem, he does his best though.
He showed great assistance, assisting me manually to troubleshoot my problem (not turning on) until the last try. The pc indeed broken in shipping process, not anyone's fault. However, during my email exchange- he told me that he's so stressed out because his mom in hospital right now, Idk how's that related to his faulty pc?
But when I console him, asking whether his mom ok or not? He didn't reply.

Ok???

I think what he said about his mom is bogus, he added emotional 'plea' story to make me sympathize with his seller rating.
Lie no.2! If he honest, he would finish his story, otherwise why he put that unrelated news in business mail?
Or he's a passive aggressive person who often say something he didn't mean to, then later he swallow his tongue? Idk..

Later on today, he replied me (disregard of my question for his mom) whether I already ship my broken pc or not..I reply
"It's flooding here in my place, I waiting rain to calm down so I can ship your pc"
Not really, I just being lazy..

 

[sixthson]

Sometimes I wonder what some gay guys are implying about homosexuality, themselves and other gay men when they mention things like monogamy and etc being heternomative. What exactly are they implying? I don't think that some people realize that they are actually cosigning some of the homophobes with the negative stereotypes concerning being gay such as being sexually compulsive and etc to the point where it gets to the point where it affects their ability to maintain a relationship or at risk behaviors. Sometimes, I wonder because some gay men really believe that being gay is all about having sex with a number of guys, basically downplaying love and all this other shit that basically leads to a life of loneliness and whatever.

I think they are saying that men are by nature promiscuous and that monogamy is a straight concept, kind of like family being a straight concept. Does sex trump love for lots of gay men? It appears so, many times.
That is not you, however. I do believe there are many gay men who want more than casual sex and it isn't just after years of hookups, either. Maybe it's more difficult to find them online because the internet is seen as basically a hookup site.
Hang in there, love will come to you. In the meantime, work on making yourself the best, most positive person you can be.

 

[tarallucci]

I was thinking that there are a lot of beautiful things in life... but as a pessimist I believe that the bad ones outnumber them or will inevitably ruin them.

Last night I watched a program on tv about people who have disappeared, and I can't help but realize that the absence of God is real. It's not just because I watched this "negative" program that I'm saying this, I've been saying this to myself before, even during happy moments.

I don't know if the news has been broadcasted abroad but there was this old fashioned female teacher who fell in love with a former student of her, and for one reason or the other she was naive enough to hand him 187,000 euros. The teacher has been strangled and thrown in a lake half alive.

Now, there have been worse happenings than this and yes it was stupid of her to give all that money to the guy but... she was innocent and didn't deserve to be killed.

Her old mom said he could have kept the money and leave her daughter alone.
Her dad had no words, he said the 22 year old boy was often going to their place and he was a nice guy.
Needless to say they are distraught. Even her cat, now goes outside the door every day at the time the teacher was coming home, and waits for her.

I apply this thought to wars and other injustices, if a God was there he couldn't be standing there hands in hands assisting this horror show. And it doesn't make sense when they say he loves us and respects our will, because you cannot respect someone beheading a newborn child. Because life is now, and the pain won't go away in case there will be a so called redemption.

It's a wild reality and there is no room for honest people. What divine gift is this?

Also, all this stories highlight some hidden macabre details and second personalities about those who are now murderers, that we can't see from the facade. So... think how many details we don't know, that the investigators (in this case) will not find out, with which we live unaware. Or we ignore to go on anyway.

 

[rareboy]

^

 

[refujiunderground]

I think they are saying that men are by nature promiscuous and that monogamy is a straight concept, kind of like family being a straight concept. Does sex trump love for lots of gay men? It appears so, many times.
That is not you, however. I do believe there are many gay men who want more than casual sex and it isn't just after years of hookups, either. Maybe it's more difficult to find them online because the internet is seen as basically a hookup site.
Hang in there, love will come to you. In the meantime, work on making yourself the best, most positive person you can be.

Just because monogamy historically has been tied to straight people doesn't necessary mean that it is concept only got straight people. It's that homosexuality never had the chance to basically fit into societal norms where it could socially evolve into something being seen as only be associated with sex. If it was always acceptable, I doubt that it would be expected for us gay men to be married after a certain age, be dating in our teens and etc. It's that we are late. The societal issues basically has prevented that. Quite sure things will change in a different direction 100 years from now. I think that many gay men grow to accept certain norms because they don't have a guide on how to live a gay life and wanting to be accepted By others

 

[kallipolis]

I was thinking that there are a lot of beautiful things in life... but as a pessimist I believe that the bad ones outnumber them or will inevitably ruin them.

The media has a well established habit of printing, or televising bad news. Most altruistic actions carried out by human beings are invisible to most of us, and for this reason ones perceptions can skew the fact that despite wars, famines, disasters, greed, crime of all description there is a concealed force for good that works ceaselessly day, and night to serve the common good.

There's lots of work in the fields helping those in need, for those who wish to do more than complain that there are more than a few selfish human beings out there, abusing other human beings.

Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself. ¬Leo Tolstoy

 

[zoltanspawn]

The media has a well established habit of printing, or televising bad news. Most altruistic actions carried out by human beings are invisible to most of us, and for this reason ones perceptions can skew the fact that despite wars, famines, disasters, greed, crime of all description there is a concealed force for good that works ceaselessly day, and night to serve the common good.

There's lots of work in the fields helping those in need, for those who wish to do more than complain that there are more than a few selfish human beings out there, abusing other human beings.

I think a lot of altruism may be motivated by either a strong sense of the bad news, or the good.

 

[luckynumbah7]

I'm borrrrred. So damnably bored.

 

[jbrown329]

I'm borrrrred. So damnably bored.

This should take your mind off that.

 

[luckynumbah7]

Lord, I haven't heard that one in ~years~.

Try this one

 

[mikemizanin729]

Lord, I haven't heard that one in ~years~.

Try this one

What about this one? It's a future classic and ALL the group can sing, dance AND they are just pure talent.

 

[luckynumbah7]

^^^Huh. Not to encourage you, but it's oddly catchy.

 

[mikemizanin729]

^^^Huh. Not to encourage you, but it's oddly catchy.

I know right? What an absolute catchy classic. They remind me of a younger Pussycat Dolls with all the same talent and so good music.

 

[kallipolis]

I think a lot of altruism may be motivated by either a strong sense of the bad news, or the good.

The motivation hearing, or reading bad news may well be one factor contributing to the altruistic impetus that pushes not a few people to serve the common good....on this we can agree.

 

[Charon]

I just found out that I missed a chance to see Terrorizer LA play live here in Tijuana two months ago . I'm going to the place where they performed to see if any other good bands are going to play there soon.

 

[refujiunderground]

Self respect and respect are very important especially self respect. If you have none for yourself, then it shows in how you treat and view yourself and those around you. You can't expect people around you to respect you if constantly you disrespect yourself. This especially goes with slurs and etc. There's no such thing as flipping a word used to insult you and turning it into a term of endearment. You can't change the history of a word. That's basically ignoring the past. You treat people how you would like to be treated or how you would treat yourself. I would not expect someone who doesn't have no respect or know how to be respectful towards themselves to be able to do the same for the next person.

I often wonder why or who someone is trying to convince with their shit especially when you see them basically self destructing. Just because you are part of a disadvantaged group in society means you gotta be all for you and your peoples downfall. Self hate is real.