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The love of my life is getting married...

I said it was not a tragedy... God, apparently one can not be a little down and share it here in JUB.

Anyways, such is life...
 
come and hide here in australia, both of you!!! ... im such a romantic...
 
lugus15 said:
^ Well, he has made it clear that he will only leave her and this fucked up marriage for me... but I just can not come out of the closet, I just can not... And I feel guilty ](*,)
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it's ok stay in the closet.

four peoples lives messed up.

not just you and your "friend" but the 2 girls you're both going to marry. but never going to happy with.

don't you owe them more then a lie.
 
PreTTy PeTe said:
it's ok stay in the closet.

four peoples lives messed up.

not just you and your "friend" but the 2 girls you're both going to marry. but never going to happy with.

don't you owe them more then a lie.
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Fully agree!!!

I don't know why people feel like it is ok to treat people that way. I would understand better if they did not know that they were gay. But if they know, they really should not do that.
 
Anyone else getting extreme "Brokeback" vibes from this situation?
 
^ Umm, cause even thou I really do love him to death, I´m not IN love with him, at least not now... :confused:

Besides right now I have another boo... So I was just a little cast down, that´s all...
 
Sorry but I can't agree to this. Neither of your are happy and you're going to marry too women and bring unhappiness onto them. I'm sorry but that's selfish. Don't marry someone you don't love to cover up your own insecruities
 
Have I missed the wedding? Just where is this "Country?'" Is it permitted there to stand up during the ceremony, drop trow, turn, bend and harmonize your objections?
 
Got married in 1980,divorced in 1988 my son was 5 at the time i continued to raise him mostly by myself .I would advise anyone in this situtation against screwing up other peoples lives including your own you must really think long and hard about what you are doing , I could go on but I"ll tell this sad story at a later time!
 
lugus15 said:
^ Umm, cause even thou I really do love him to death, I´m not IN love with him, at least not now... :confused:

Besides right now I have another boo... So I was just a little cast down, that´s all...
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You are not in love with him - you just love him to death.

They you say you have another boo - i assume you mean someone else you are involved with - male or female you do not say. I am assuming male - and how serious is this "relationship?" How does it compare to the guy you love but are not in love with???

I am beginning to wonder or question all of the comments you have made so far as nothing seems to fit together - it is like you have given us a bunch of separate pieces from a puzzle that may be entirely about something else.

Maybe if you put this all together in an extended posting and EXPLAINED all the details and facts, some of us might get some idea of what is really going on with you and offer some reasonable advice and or suggestions.

Right now it seems as if you say something in one or two sentences - that often seem incomplete in their thought - then someone goes and comments upon what they think you have said - then you go and post some more information which does not quite seem to fit with the other information - and someone else goes and comments and then you make further postings and the same thing keeps happening over and over so that in the final analysis i am beginning to wonder who really knows what is going on - including yourself?

i am not trying to be hurtful and or offensive - but a total full picture of everything seems to be missing and all that is happening is more :confused: :confused: if yo find this posting offensive or distasteful in any way please have the mods remove it. report it and they will take it away and no one will be the wiser.

but then again what do i know?](*,)

eM.:( ​
 
Lugus, you guys are pitiful. You lie to yourselves, to one another, to the poor women you're marrying, to your families, your friends and probably even your pets. Oh boo hoo, we wouldn't understand whay it is like in your country or culture. There are many guys with balls that have made a stand and abandoned the homophobic culture and family life that threatened to turn them into what you're becoming. In some cases they moved to other countries to live a free life, giving up all the security and in many cases material comfort.

These guys are the heroes.

Think about the wedding realllllllly hard on Saturday. Cry your eyes out, but not because the guy you love is gatting married to a woman.
 
I'm sorry for your pain, Lugus... no matter what we think of the circumstances, your pain is your own and only you can feel it.

If it makes you feel any better, you can reflect on the bride's pain... here she is thinking she's found the love of her life, that he's totally into her, that it's going to be happily-ever-after from here on out; but in truth she's just a decoy, her life and happiness being used for social camouflage. And in your culture, divorcees aren't looked upon too kindly, either, so her one chance at marital happiness is being taken away from her. In a couple of years he'll come to hate her, and she'll have no idea why... and when she does find out why (they always do), her pain will be huge and unresolveable.

Instead of trying to forget your pain, why don't you devote that energy to getting yourself out of that particular trap before you end up ruining your life as well as another person's life? Hundreds of thousands of gays before you - and hell, millions of straights - have said goodbye to their families and their homes in order to be free. All it takes is the courage to make that first step out the door... after that, it's a clear path... not an easy path, but a good one. And the pain you're feeling right now can give yout that courage.

I'm rooting for you! (*8*)
 
Pffft! It's 2007, dude, wake up and feel the global warming on your closeted ass.

I knew I would lose friends and family when they found out I loved a guy. Did it hurt? Hell, yes! Would I make the same choice again? In a heartbeat. Somethings are just worth the great price you have to pay for them.

Never settle for less than the best, unless you want to spend your life being bitter, angry and without true love. Not for me, thanks.
 
As a woman, Stacy has every right to offer some perspective on this, because there will be two women involved in this charade as well. I know that I'd be royally pissed if I was being used by cowards this way.

Frankly, I didn't think her post was rude or disrespectful in the least.
 
^ How easy it is to judge others when one doesn´t know the circunstances of their lives. Besides jerk, and FYI he is not using this woman. As a matter of fact, this poor woman (as you put it) is a mega bitch who is only marrying him because his family has major money, she doesn´t love him and makes his life a misery...

And for me, FYI I´m a bisexual guy, so maybe I do fall in love with some women in the future.

Besides life is full of deception and tough shit, so who cares :mad:
 
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