The love of my life is getting married...

[rareboy]

One can only hope you'll all get what you richly deserve then.

 

[Croynan]

^ How easy it is to judge others when one doesn´t know the circunstances of their lives. Besides jerk, and FYI he is not using this woman. As a matter of fact, this poor woman (as you put it) is a mega bitch who is only marrying him because his family has major money, she doesn´t love him and makes his life a misery...

And for me, FYI I´m a bisexual guy, so maybe I do fall in love with some women in the future.

Besides life is full of deception and tough shit, so who cares ​

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Well with those given perspectives that changes the story again - so what it really comes down to is why should any of us be concerned about what happens - as it appears YOU in reality may not be concerned about all of this any way.​

All of this is beginning to sound like a bit of narcism on your part and some thrown in with it. I am beginning to get the sense that you really don't care or are concerned about anyone involved in this matter - including apparently yourself.​

eM. ​

 

[Piquechampion]

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Well with those given perspectives that changes the story again - so what it really comes down to is why should any of us be concerned about what happens - as it appears YOU in reality may not be concerned about all of this any way.​

All of this is beginning to sound like a bit of narcism on your part and some thrown in with it. I am beginning to get the sense that you really don't care or are concerned about anyone involved in this matter - including apparently yourself.​

eM. ​

Well I´ve had months to come to terms with this shit. Besides what do you expect me to do, get a plane, travel half world, and then just in time he is about to say ¨Yes, I do¨ disrupt the ceremony and throw myself into his arms. And, as love conquers all, everybody will clap and be happy about it. Well, FYI, life doesn´t work that way.

 

[Croynan]

Well I´ve had months to come to terms with this shit. Besides what do you expect me to do, get a plane, travel half world, and then just in time he is about to say ¨Yes, I do¨ disrupt the ceremony and throw myself into his arms. And, as love conquers all, everybody will clap and be happy about it. Well, FYI, life doesn´t work that way.

Well having said all that and all the other postings in this thread of yours - maybe you can answer a key question for all of us mere mortals - what was the purpose of this thread to begin with, if what you have been posting tells this sad tail?. (sorry about the bad pun) I mean if you are NOT IN LOVE WITH THis GUY what is all of this for - him or YOU??​

FYI ​

eM.

 

[gwhilakers]

^ Umm, cause even thou I really do love him to death, I´m not IN love with him, at least not now...

Besides right now I have another boo... So I was just a little cast down, that´s all...

Umm....I believe you are the one who called him the "love of my life". What are we supposed to think? Sounds more like you're into drama than the poor guy who's willing to give up his marriage for you. Hopefully his wife will show him more respect.

 

[trawler69]

Nothing to say. Croynan has said it all, I've just wasted my time reading this thread.

 

[rareboy]

Perhaps in future, Lugus, you might wish to post in the Bisexual forum.

Besides life is full of deception and tough shit, so who cares

One suspects that your philosophy will be much more appreciated in that forum and you might find more sympathy for your plight.

I think that's why that sandbox was created in the first place so that that you could play together.

 

[Piquechampion]

Well having said all that and all the other postings in this thread of yours - maybe you can answer a key question for all of us mere mortals - what was the purpose of this thread to begin with, if what you have been posting tells this sad tail?. (sorry about the bad pun) I mean if you are NOT IN LOVE WITH THis GUY what is all of this for - him or YOU??​

FYI ​

eM.

Well, I dunno... I mean I really do care for him, but we just don´t get along like at all. Besides, I know that I will be fine... So all this, as you put it, is for him mostly. I mean he is just ruining his life and that of his future family (He´s gay ya know). But I know I can not live his life or tell him how to do it... but it´s just that sometimes I´m very possessive and bossy

What really upsets me is that why he wants it this way? Why can´t he give me some time, to let me sort things out? Why he has to rush into this fucked up marriage if I don´t accept him right away? We are only 24 you know... And worse I will have to hear all the lies and tragedies of his life, and seeing that I do care for him a lot, it WILL cause me pain.

*sigh*

 

[sixthson]

He's the love of your life, but you are not in love with him.
You care about him, but you can't ever get along.
He's making a major mistake by marrying this woman, but
you expect to do the same thing yourself one day.
You're possessive and bossy...NO KIDDING?

Why can't he wait for you to get all of this figured out and your life in order? Why the hell should he...you're a mess.

 

[FREDDIE187]

I have just read this whole thread and my thoughts are.............................You guys certainly take NO shit!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[snoopydog]

I made a long post, and deleted it because I can take all of those words and they all say this:

Talk to him. Respectfully.

As for you:

Lugus, it's your life, and you have to live it. You can take the credit for every good thing in your life, but you have to take responsibility for all of the bad things as well.

Think long, hard, and clear about what you do. Your future happiness, and the happiness of others, may depend on it.

~hugz~

 

[josher]

Lugus, what gets people upset is when someone opens a thread with a post like yours which evokes their sympathy and then they find out it's all drama. They thought someone you were in love with dumped you to get married. Then later you add: "Well I wasn't in love with him" and "I have another [boyfriend] now." If you'd started with "Someone I care about is making a terrible mistake" and then explained why he shouldn't get married, everything would have been fine. People felt like you were toying with their emotions, just so you could get some attention.

 

[rareboy]

And worse I will have to hear all the lies and tragedies of his life, and seeing that I do care for him a lot, it WILL cause me pain.

Besides life is full of deception and tough shit, so who cares

Your words, not mine

 

[irydion]

... this weekend... And he´s ruining his life

I'm kind of in the same situation, a week ago I was invited to the wedding. But he's marrying a pleasant girl, so I'm happy for him. He is straight, so I never thought I'd be with him anyway. What I'm unhappy about is that he's moving, and, having family, he's going to be even busier, so I'm not going to see him very often, or perhaps at all.