The Starbuck's Guy

[mabby7]

It really depends on the situations and the guys you are involved with. With some guys, you can sit back, relax...and let them make the moves. But then there will be other guys who are sort of shy and would never make the first move...so you have to initiate things. I know...it's a crazy system...but someone has to make the first move, or no one would get anywhere.

And having a little gumption to let a guy know you're into him is a very admirable trait.

I wish I never make the first move, but some guys are just so

It's like a high school dance. Not one in the movies, but one in real life, where everyone is standing on the side of the dance floor waiting for someone else to make the first move. And the music keeps playing...and nobody's dancing...

Love this quote

I think its the fear of rejection or homophobia that sets me back....

REJECTION ... that's what most or if not all people hate ... I guess we just have to learn with it ... there's plenty of fish in the sea ...

At some point, everybody learns (or needs to) that life is what you make of it. Rarely do things just fall into your lap. They may not turn out the way you intended and certain things cannot simply be made to happen (like finding Mr. Right). However, spending effort in the right way to make yourself into the person you want to be has a way of paying off eventually.

In this life ... you have to make things happen ... unless something happens to you ... lols ...

I wish I can meet Mr Right ...

 

[TechPepsi]

what I like to know is what to do to get their attention... if I want them to come to me, I like to know that

 

[boy0boy]

Hmm well other than just becoming a totally new person I guess I'm defective. Never have I been blatantly hit on.... well actually this one guy yelled a cat call from his car once....

 

[theFallenGod]

I too am a Starbucks partner... and I will tell you I am a shameless flirt...

My partners hate me because I flirt with everyone... it brings in better tips and helps create the "3rd place"

All my customers love me and you won't believe how many phone numbers I have been passed....

 

[boy0boy]

wow i feel worse.. ha

 

[mabby7]

I must go to starbucks ... hehe

 

[boy0boy]

oo creepy hunt.. that was your "666"th post

well maybe not this* one... but i just noticed your on that one

 

[maxpowr9]

I think Sunday I'm gonna venture off to Starbucks with a book in hand.Maybe if im lucky, I can flirt with a cute barrista.

 

[grubvilleguy]

I've honestly never been in a Starbucks.

I do rather enjoy the Frappacino in the bottle, that I get at the gas station from time to time.


But I did see a MAJOR Hottie at Red Lobster last week. He was our waiter.

 

[mabby7]

May I come along?

Of course you can ... lol ...

 

[maxpowr9]

we should just have one big gay party at a starbucks.

 

[boy0boy]

Boo damn. I was suppose to go to the club on tuesday (the bomb night) and I didnt' get to..

So few updates. Went back to my Starbucks and sat for a long while.. unfortunately he wasn't working. Some cute girls were working.. gaddangit.

BUT starbucks update. Went to my sis's Starbucks the one she practically lives in, and in the parking lot we pulled up to two guys in a jeep just sitting there.. although i didnt hear it she says she hear them say "i'm nervous about the first time" haha


i was green with envy

 

[pecker]

Sorry to bump but I'm in a similar situation with a cute openly gay worker at my local Starbucks who I see once a month or so but totally remembers me and is starting to show an interest.

I don't know when I will see him next but when I do should I just ask him if he's interested in going out on the spot or is it better to start off casual with small talk even though I'm a bad conversationalist?

 

[TX-Beau]

Well, do you want some practical advice, or do you want to spend two pages angsting about it?

In case you want practical advice - what works for someone else isn't going to work for you. Everyone is different. The only way to figure out what's going to work for you is to man up and start asking guys out.

 

[Padr49904]

I just had my first talk with another guy after coming out last night and I was really nervous, but after a little while of talking it just sort of felt natural. The hardest part is starting the conversation and night was fun though ended up with me squished into a car sitting on his lap. We have been texting since then. Just give it some time, work up the nerve a little bit at a time and eventually you will get there.