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To be or not to be........ faithful!

I have a zero tolerance policy on cheating. Do it once and you're out, no matter what.
 
Love conquers all, so they say. So if both are committed, both can conquer the temptation of a third person. I don't condemn or condone open relationships, but I have started to appreciate the beauty and meaning of faithfullness in a true and loving relationship. Now, all I have to do, is find my other half who would think the way I do! #-o
 
bradford1965 said:
Is it available for hire - I broke mine.
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I'm sorry, "Reggie" (which is actually a wooden Rounder's bat) has been with me since i was 13 and stole him from a church-camp - we're inseperable.

However, i'd gladdy bat someone for you! My only fee's are a crate of lager and my bus fare home! ..|
 
In a relationship I personally prefer to be faithful and expect my man to be the same. However, if I just have a fuck-buddy he can do whatever he wants, but if I'm making the effort of being with someone, it won't work unless he wants the same. I don't condemn those that choose to be in an open relationship, I think they can work well if that's what both parties want - but for me, especially in later years, I don't want to share someone I've got a special bond with. Also, to me, cheating isn't a big deal. Go ahead and do it, but don't expect me to welcome you back with open arms. That's all ;)
 
I don't have a bf. Open relationships can work, theoretically. However, I do think that it weakens a relationship. Over time, it normally destroys (or contributes to destroying) the relationship. The same goes for straight couples as well. But I'm being overly generalistic here. I'm sure that it works for some people, but not for most.
 
i'm 100% faithful to my boyfriend and expect him to be faithful to me. i'm not sure i could handle an open relationship, maybe threesomes that involve both of us but seeing other people seperately, i'd be too paranoid, especially if it became more than sex.
 
I think if your in a solid relationship, with mutual respect and love, cheating never enters your mind.

Just enjoy the "eye candy" and stay faithfull to your mate.
 
If it works for both people to be in an open relationship, that it works for both of them...now if it is a half-open one...I think that is called cheating. I have no opinion on it...I plead the fifth...
 
I am monogamous and would expect my boyfriend to be the same.
 
To me, being in a relationship means that you are making a commitment to that person.

I am simply too selfish to want to share my man with anyone else.

I love to flirt, and those around here that know me, know that! But it's simple flirting. There's nothing to it other than to be friendly. When I go to bed at night, I am next to the same man I've loved for almost 11 years. When I reach over to make love, it's Dave whose arms I fall into. Neither one of us has ever strayed in all that time. He's been as loyal to me as I am to him.

To me, that's what works and they way it should be...
 
My boyfriend and I dont really understand the open relationship thing. We both have friends who kind of do it, and they just dont seem happy. They are always wondering who the other is with, what could come of that etc. I feel like you lose the stability in a relationship when its open.

I cant share, and neither can my boyfriend. We just want each other and that works for us :-)
 
in the 'old' days no gay man was expected to remain 'faithful' to his bf.
with the advent of AIDS things have changed.
However, the two of you need to define what is and isn't acceptable within your relationship.
Don't let others tell you what is right or wrong, that is your decision.
Some men would be fine with some stepping out as long as it was safe and you always came home. Love and sex a two very different things and most mature men understand that.
 
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