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Unable to clear my bowel completedly
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Essex Boy
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Re: Question about pooping
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You took the very worms out of my mouth. Germs on your hands will get everywhere, so that's the area to keep as clean as possible. I'm not obsessively clean but I scrub up thoroughly after a shit, and on leaving a public lavvy I pull my hand up into my sleeve so I don't touch the door handle. Also I try to remember not to touch my face until after I've washed my hands.
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You took the very worms out of my mouth. Germs on your hands will get everywhere, so that's the area to keep as clean as possible. I'm not obsessively clean but I scrub up thoroughly after a shit, and on leaving a public lavvy I pull my hand up into my sleeve so I don't touch the door handle. Also I try to remember not to touch my face until after I've washed my hands.
LeicsDom
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Re: Question about pooping
Unless I am ill I only shit before getting in the shower
It wouldn't matter if my hands got contaminated, but it doesn't
If i were away from home I would wash my hands afterwards. Tbh I can't remember the last time I had to shit away from home
Unless I am ill I only shit before getting in the shower
It wouldn't matter if my hands got contaminated, but it doesn't
If i were away from home I would wash my hands afterwards. Tbh I can't remember the last time I had to shit away from home
NotHardUp1
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Re: Question about pooping
Hi, Travis. I hope you succeed in finding some coping strategies for your OCD. Also, I hope it's possible for you to get therapy, and if not, to read up on coping strategies others have used.
As for wiping, why not try this? Wipe your behind with just the one hand, whichever you use, and pull up your underwear and pants with your other hand. Therefore, you have a "clean" hand to open the stall door, turn on the water, etc.
Your underwear is inherently unclean by it's location, so just don't think about that. Be glad that we live in the modern era and are afforded as much freedom from sewage as we do.
Best to you.
Hi, Travis. I hope you succeed in finding some coping strategies for your OCD. Also, I hope it's possible for you to get therapy, and if not, to read up on coping strategies others have used.
As for wiping, why not try this? Wipe your behind with just the one hand, whichever you use, and pull up your underwear and pants with your other hand. Therefore, you have a "clean" hand to open the stall door, turn on the water, etc.
Your underwear is inherently unclean by it's location, so just don't think about that. Be glad that we live in the modern era and are afforded as much freedom from sewage as we do.
Best to you.
Re: Question about pooping
Thanks for all the advices.
Normally, I poop at home just before I take a shower. Then I use the shower head to clean and wash my ass after pooping.
So my hands,pants and underwear won't accidentally get contaminated with feces, feces germs after I wipe my ass with toilet paper after pooping?
Thanks for all the advices.
Normally, I poop at home just before I take a shower. Then I use the shower head to clean and wash my ass after pooping.
So my hands,pants and underwear won't accidentally get contaminated with feces, feces germs after I wipe my ass with toilet paper after pooping?
NotHardUp1
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Re: Question about pooping
Your life will be less stressful if you learn some additional methods for coping that don't reinforce your irrational fear. These things have a way of catching up with you and causing grief or embarrassment. Better to deal with it that come to grief. You deserve some peace about it.
Your life will be less stressful if you learn some additional methods for coping that don't reinforce your irrational fear. These things have a way of catching up with you and causing grief or embarrassment. Better to deal with it that come to grief. You deserve some peace about it.
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Re: Question about pooping
Well, you do have to learn to keep your thumb back when you're holding the paper, but sure.
Just one steamy little fart, though, and you're right back to square one, square two, maybe even square three and square four.
Well, you do have to learn to keep your thumb back when you're holding the paper, but sure.
Just one steamy little fart, though, and you're right back to square one, square two, maybe even square three and square four.
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Re: Question about pooping
Another word of advice.
Time to start dealing with this at home in order to prepare you for the real world out there.
While I find it absolutely impossible to believe that you didn't use toilet paper to clean your ass when you were much younger as a child...let's let that slide for a moment. We'll start with your current pattern which appears to have become a developed habit of being able to hold a bowel movement until just before you are going to shower (daily?).
Time for you to start wiping with toilet paper instead of just getting in the shower and rinsing the leftover smears down the drain. This will give you the opportunity to practice your technique and learn how to use the minimum amount of paper to get the job done most effectively. That way, you will develop a level of confidence and comfort so that when you are out of your own home, you will be able to have a shit and not have a panic attack. You can also practice with using a wet wipe to finish the clean-up. Don't be freaked out if you don't get it right the first time. Just leep practising.
Another word of advice.
Time to start dealing with this at home in order to prepare you for the real world out there.
While I find it absolutely impossible to believe that you didn't use toilet paper to clean your ass when you were much younger as a child...let's let that slide for a moment. We'll start with your current pattern which appears to have become a developed habit of being able to hold a bowel movement until just before you are going to shower (daily?).
Time for you to start wiping with toilet paper instead of just getting in the shower and rinsing the leftover smears down the drain. This will give you the opportunity to practice your technique and learn how to use the minimum amount of paper to get the job done most effectively. That way, you will develop a level of confidence and comfort so that when you are out of your own home, you will be able to have a shit and not have a panic attack. You can also practice with using a wet wipe to finish the clean-up. Don't be freaked out if you don't get it right the first time. Just leep practising.
LeicsDom
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Re: Question about pooping
I invariably shit before I shower. This is not a case of holding it until I am going to shower but more that anticipating my shower spurs my bowel movement. I don't find this to be any sort of OCD but rather a Pavlovian reflex and very convenient, if I am honest
I invariably shit before I shower. This is not a case of holding it until I am going to shower but more that anticipating my shower spurs my bowel movement. I don't find this to be any sort of OCD but rather a Pavlovian reflex and very convenient, if I am honest
Essex Boy
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Re: Question about pooping
I posted both of these videos only a short while ago, but they are relevant, so here they are again.
With practice you too will be able to wipe your bum while looking fabulous.
I posted both of these videos only a short while ago, but they are relevant, so here they are again.
With practice you too will be able to wipe your bum while looking fabulous.
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Re: Question about pooping
I can manage most BM's with about 6 squares of tp and be shit free. Folding is definitely the key.
We are on a septic bed...so clogging it up with paper is not the best idea.
I can manage most BM's with about 6 squares of tp and be shit free. Folding is definitely the key.
We are on a septic bed...so clogging it up with paper is not the best idea.
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Re: Question about pooping
Imposter!
Is that really you? 
*pokes screen with stick*
I come back once maybe twice a year and this is what I get.
Imposter!
Is that really you? *pokes screen with stick*
nycguydowntown
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Re: Question about pooping
hope this doesn't turn into a scat thread by page 2.
hope this doesn't turn into a scat thread by page 2.
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peeonme
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Re: Question about pooping
To get back on topic, I would advise you to read about the digestive tract, get antiquated with it. Find out what is going on 'down there'. Learning is confronting, you need to integrate this process in to your comfort zone.
I at one time had to check locks, ovens, car lights and other items a number of times. I found myself counting as I would turn door knobs. The fear that I exhibited was due to an anxiety that began soon after my dad died when I was young. My carefulness to avoid another devastating event was made manifest by a hyperventilate obsession to be in control. I had to learn that I could never be in complete control and could never avoid all disasters. I was burning up my life hours by double, triple, quadruple checking lights, ovens, locks etc. I told myself that I had to think about the worst case scenario if the house were to burn down. I had insurance, life would go on. I had to learn the reality that even with all of my carefulness, a wire could short out... some things were beyond my control.
Life is a dangerous experience, we get in to a car, plane or train without considering every variable about what could go wrong. We drink water and trust that it is clean. So, my friend, learn about your bowels, don't run from them. Find out what the worst case scenario could possibly be if you touch your poop. You won't die, put your fears to rest.
To get back on topic, I would advise you to read about the digestive tract, get antiquated with it. Find out what is going on 'down there'. Learning is confronting, you need to integrate this process in to your comfort zone.
I at one time had to check locks, ovens, car lights and other items a number of times. I found myself counting as I would turn door knobs. The fear that I exhibited was due to an anxiety that began soon after my dad died when I was young. My carefulness to avoid another devastating event was made manifest by a hyperventilate obsession to be in control. I had to learn that I could never be in complete control and could never avoid all disasters. I was burning up my life hours by double, triple, quadruple checking lights, ovens, locks etc. I told myself that I had to think about the worst case scenario if the house were to burn down. I had insurance, life would go on. I had to learn the reality that even with all of my carefulness, a wire could short out... some things were beyond my control.
Life is a dangerous experience, we get in to a car, plane or train without considering every variable about what could go wrong. We drink water and trust that it is clean. So, my friend, learn about your bowels, don't run from them. Find out what the worst case scenario could possibly be if you touch your poop. You won't die, put your fears to rest.
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Re: Question about pooping
I think this is the key.
The OP already knows that he can wash away any poop in the shower. It will run down your legs, get rinsed off and down the drain.
OP....I am supposing that you have never lubed up his index finger and stuck it up his ass while masturbating. This might help overcome the fear of coming into contact with fecal matter. It also feels incredible while you are orgasming.
You need to get beyond the fears that you have about your body and bodily functions and enjoy the idea that you are human. Hard for someone with OCD...but it is all about training yourself.
I think this is the key.
The OP already knows that he can wash away any poop in the shower. It will run down your legs, get rinsed off and down the drain.
OP....I am supposing that you have never lubed up his index finger and stuck it up his ass while masturbating. This might help overcome the fear of coming into contact with fecal matter. It also feels incredible while you are orgasming.
You need to get beyond the fears that you have about your body and bodily functions and enjoy the idea that you are human. Hard for someone with OCD...but it is all about training yourself.