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Weirdest thing someone said to you when you told them you were gay.

nws2002 said:
Don't know if this counts as coming out or not, but recently I had a passenger ask me if I was gay. I told him yes. Then he says, "Is that why you became a flight attendant?" Yes, it was my destiny! My god, some people are dense.
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Keep in mind that some peoples view of homosexuality is solely based on what they've seen on the Jerry Springer show and and episode of Will and Grace.
 
robertac said:
"One of my closest friends called me a DAMN FUCKING fag and hasn't talked to me since then!"

I read many people received this kind of reaction but it's still unblievable to me.
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I've heard a few of the standards:

I thought so.
Yeah, tell me something I didn't know.
and the like.

My mother said she thought I was sleeping with Bobby. I had to break the news to her that the guy she thought was my lover was straight.
 
A female acquaintance in my 3rd year of university asked me, "So...I've been meaning to ask you...ummm how do gay guys have sex? Like what do you do?"
 
robertac said:
One of my closest friends called me a DAMN FUCKING fag and hasn't talked to me since then!
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That's terrible. I had a similar reaction in high school from my best friend. That's why it's taken me almost 7 years to come out again. This time it went so much better though, one of those "I thought so" ones. He was so proud that he was right. It was quite funny actually :D
 
MindBlast said:
A female acquaintance in my 3rd year of university asked me, "So...I've been meaning to ask you...ummm how do gay guys have sex? Like what do you do?"
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Reminds me of the time a good friend of mine (religious and now in seminary) was living in an all girls college dorm when an innocent, sheltered Freshmen girl asked her "wait, how do gay men have sex?" At that point, my friend realized she wasn't as sheltered as she thought!
 
My former best friend (a girl) said to me "What? You mean my mom was right?"

Apparently her mom thought I was gay since I never made a pass at her... and my friend defended me to her and said I wasn't.... she was shocked lol
 
austexfeet said:
"oh, so sad. What's it like being alone for the holidays?" - woman from my mother's church.
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You know that made me laugh even though it's really sad that someone, especially from church, would have that much hatred as to assume that just by being gay you'd be alone for the holidays.

I was telling one of my best friends and was so afraid of how he would take it that I couldn't get the words out. He finally said, "what, are you gay? That's cool, you know I don't care". We were in the car and just kept driving along in silence for a few seconds then he got all excited and said, "Oh my God!!! Do you know what this means??? You can totally say "fag" and people won't be pissed at you!!!"

I so loved him for that.

Another friend took it upon herself to out me to all our friends, which was fine because I had already begun the process, but she told a common friend of ours that I had come out and he looked at me and said, "were you ever in???"

And finally, at the age of 36 I finally had the coming out talk with my mom. She said she already knew and so I asked her how she figured it out. She looked around my apartment, at the mannequin named Palmoa that I've had for over 10 years, my Tom of Finland poster, my shrine to Tiffany's (complete with Breakfast at Tiffany's collectors edition Barbiedoll that I swear to God was given to me by a close friend), and then finally... after a pause... she looked back at me and said, "I don't need a brick wall to fall on me".
 
the day after i told my mom, we were at the movies and she called me a cheap fag in front of everyone because i wouldn't buy my movie ticket. :) that was her demented way of telling me she was proud.
 
trampstamp said:
Hmmm... Well I got two that I found pretty funny...

1. I was at work and I asked Dan if he thought I was gay and he said "i didn't want to say anything but, at first I thought you were straight, but when you opened your mouth... flames shot .
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So what exactlty does that "flames" mean?
 
"Fabulous, do we get to shop for shoes together now?" --He was joking, he is a really straight laced guy. :badgrin:

"Does this mean you'll suck me off?" --Another joke, I hope. ](*,)

"No shit, sherlock." -- My sister, apparently she had me figured out. She thought it was sooo cool having a gay brother. :badgrin:

And lastly, this one was a shocker: "Really? So is my boyfriend." :eek:
 
bcwang said:
It amazes me ! Where on earth does that "natural" hatred and extreme narrowmindedness come from?
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Hatred isn't natural. Humans are not born with the ability to hate. It's a learned behavior. Babies look at you with love in their eyes. They have to be taught to not trust people for their very survival in this world. Then, if they are so taught, they will hate people who are different then them. It's up to the adult to decide if they want to keep that behavior or give it up. I was taught to hate those different than me, but because I was different than everyone around me I couldn't justify it. So I chose not to. It's up to each of us to make those decisions.
 
ive had two funny ones,

I told my one and only ex girlfriend (from years ago as a teenage boy) that I needed to tell her something and asked to meet for coffee. When I got there she looked really anxious or nervous after I told her she said
 
oz_doc said:
ive had two funny ones,

I told my one and only ex girlfriend (from years ago as a teenage boy) that I needed to tell her something and asked to meet for coffee. When I got there she looked really anxious or nervous after I told her she said
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Well???? What did she say. You're keeping us all in suspense!!! ](*,)
 
I've never really told anyone I was gay bnut I have told people I am bisexual - my wife knew I had boyfriends at college when she married me and my best love was an usher at our wedding, and my two daughters know I had 'experiences' different from the usual hetero state - I also told my younger daughter's current boyfriend because he is to die for and I wanted to make sure that everything was clear between us - so I hear from my daughter 'what did you want to tell Joe your were bisexual for?' and now she jokes that when she's away at college we can look after each other, though at the moment I have too much respect and love for all concerned to overstep the mark. When my Mum challanged me after she found some incriminating evidence (me aged 12 and the guy who pulled me off in bed a bnit older) I just said not to worry I'll grow out of it (sometime........)
Merry;)
 
I've had a few:

my best (girl) friend: YAy!!! I always wanted a gay best friend!

My other girl friend: Really?!?!? Now I can tell you, I had experiences too =)

My best (guy) friend: Hmmm I knew you wanted me! (haha he was kidding...but till this day people think that we are fucking because we are so close.)

My dad after telling him for like the 5th time: "So how is your girlfriend doing?"
Me: "ummm HE is ok."
My dad: "well, tell her I said Hi."

Mom: "Good! now I have someone to take care of me when I am old" haha she thinks that gay sons are the best because they never leave their parents =) which of course I wont.

My other girl friend: "So do you take it up the ass?" haha
 
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