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Attention What are you doing at the moment? 2024-25

rareboy said:
Enjoying the soc media tributes to my 100 year+ old aunt who died this week.

She was so fucking amazing and my sister and I and our families were so lucky to have been as close to her as her own children and families.

We even had this thing where we would ask ourselves in difficult situations...'What would she do' and then be guided by that.

We are now truly orphaned from my paternal side of the family...she was my father's only sibling.

And, I suspect the only link between us and so many of our cousins because she was the reason for all of our family gatherins.
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My commiserations. That's an incredible age and I'm sure she'll leave a big hole in your family.
 
unloadonme said:
My commiserations. That's an incredible age and I'm sure she'll leave a big hole in your family.
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Unbeleivable hole, She died 20 years after my Dad and we have been part of her close family circle since then.

We would make tons of soups in order to bring her frozen bags to make it easier for her to get really nutritious home cooked meals, sent her crazy extravagant flower arrangements...loved her to the end.

She was really the most incredibly accepting, adaptable, loving person and we are bereft, both intellectually and emotionally..at our age.
 
Alistair said:
I’m going against everyone else. You don’t need to do anything you don’t want to or you feel will negatively affect you. You don’t owe anyone anything, including your family.

Call your sister and see what he wanted, he probably told her, and go from there.
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I'm leaning towards just ignoring him. He has some old slide carousels that I would have enjoyed seeing again. However he only knows me as the passive little brother from the first part of my life. We really don't have any major issues, he has always projected a "I can do everything better in life" kinda attitude.

I don't really know him. He doesn't know me. And I just don't think it's worth it to try and start now.

I'm no longer that passive guy anymore so I can't see any conversations we might have going very well. Other then ending in go fuck yourself.

I have enjoyed the oblivion when it comes to him. I have non blood friends who I love dearly. I don't feel any emotion or connection with him. Not any kind of hate just neutrality really.
 
^ I kinda share that sort of non-feeling about my younger brother. He was always a bundle of crime, ignorance, and a bad parent to his kids and worse husband to his wife. The fact that he seems to be doing better in a rehab program is good news for him and them, but not particularly for me. I don't wish him ill, but I don't really care about him any more than I ever did. He's been a thief, a doper, and avoided work when it kept this four children in poverty.

I've been more or less thrown in with him at holiday gatherings of siblings, and even loaned him money when he asked a month ago, but have no interest in gaining a brother at this age. The rehab program is also an evangelical cult-like organization, so I have no love for that, either.

Returning to the topic of the thread, I've been cooking som treats to take to work tomorrow, and just watched Sinnner trounce Alcaraz on the Center Court. He ain't a pretty man like Alcaraz, but he beat him justly, so kudos to him for the big win. Maybe Alcaraz will fix his game now.

The fans wer so fired up. Italy vs. Spain, in London. There will be some crazy partying tonight over there.

And Her Royal Highness, Princess Kate wowwed them in the awards.
 
Drinking Warsteiner 0,0 and thinking about the life of guys I had sex with. Apart from Jack I don't know any that died yet, but they must have, as I've had sex with guys as old as 78.

Turned the teevee off.
 
I just got back from lunch/brunch with some cousins. There were 8 of us. We used to do this regularly, but since our last aunt died we haven't met up in probably over a year. I have noticed that many local restaurants nowadays are open for breakfast and lunch, but not supper anymore.
 
I was just looking at the website for a restaurant that is owned by some extended family. I'm a bit sad at the thought that realistically I'll never get a chance to eat there. It's an interesting restaurant that I'd have loved going to if it were local to be back when I still went to restaurants (and when I was less careful with my diet). However, it's questionable if I'll ever make it to that part of the country again. If I did make it back, I doubt I'll have the $$$$ for that restaurant. At one point, a relative was going to it regularly, so I could probably have conned him into taking me to lunch there, but he's no longer with us. And I'm probably not the sort of customer they want wandering in, extended family or not. I don't have the class or polish I'm guessing their clientele has. Then, apart from all this, it could be torture going there, given how careful I am with my diet these days. I'll give them real credit that they do have choices that will work for a huge range of people--much better menu than bigger and older restaurants I personally went to in the past--but the sad thing is the interesting sounding offerings don't mach with my current dietary goals.
 
I NEED to go return library books and buy paper products.

I AM browsing online and looking at golf's Open Championship from Royal Portrush in Northern Ireland.

I think the library and discount store are open late...
 
me203 said:
I'm probably not the sort of customer they want wandering in, extended family or not. I don't have the class or polish I'm guessing their clientele has.
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FUCK that attitude. For real. Big fucking deal if you drive a shit box beater car and not a Mercedes or Jaguar. You bathe and don't stink? Haircut is not too shaggy aka hippy white trash? Dress "office casual" aka polo or button up shirt and dockers?

If you can afford it, GO. Because ya know what? The so-called classy and polished folks you think are looking down their noses at you sit to shit on the same kind of toilet you use. They also have hair growing out of their noses and ears, too.

In other words, they ain't no better than you. They might have more money but that does not make them "better".

I read your posts. You seem smart. You do not come across as any sort of dummy. So, get a bit of "fuck you" attitude when someone is acting an asshole to you.

Hey. IT took me a few years to figure out. Are you paying me? No? Fuck you, I don't have to take your bullshit.

Yeah. You hit a nerve..... :)
 
The diet thing? Yeah, it might not be good for me but getting a Storm's double meat double cheese with fries on the side is some real good eating. Once in a while.

I mean, eat what you want. What tastes good. What you are hungry for. Your body knows.

That's not to say you should eat a giant bag of nacho cheese Doritos every day..... that stuff is almost poison.... unless that cranks your chain.
 
A day of constant meetings. And interactions. And then at the end of it, I am left exhausted and wondering why I am doing all of this when I literally have no time and no people available to to help us with activitities of daily living like housekeeping, gardening etc. etc.

I think I am just about done.

I don't want to die with my boots on.
 
I may have had to go to the library that stays open late on Thursdays. But I did return my books. And I got my paper products.

So I'm enjoying my new bedroom air conditioner and getting ready to watch the Master Chef episode I taped this week.
 
rareboy said:
A day of constant meetings. And interactions. And then at the end of it, I am left exhausted and wondering why I am doing all of this when I literally have no time and no people available to to help us with activitities of daily living like housekeeping, gardening etc. etc.

I think I am just about done.

I don't want to die with my boots on.
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Why aren't those people available for you?
 
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