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What Do Women REALLY Think About Bisexual Men?

ahotjock71 said:
YOU get over it. Post relevant to the topic & quit hijacking my thread for your own personal fufillment.

This IS NOT a rehash of bisexuality & what YOU think of it. Grow up.
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Yes, I was hijacking it seeing as I wasn't posting meaningful replies to a topic related to the one at hand. Oops, nevermind, I wasn't. And yes, I get great personal enjoyment from doing this. *rolls eyes*

And no, it's not a rehash, which is why there are compleetly different repleis and opinions being voiced here. And I think most people would tell YOU to grow up rather than me seeing as you're the one going around telling people they don't know their own sexuality and telling people that they have no self respect if they choose to look past somebody's sexuality. To me, that is being more childish than anythnig I have ever posted on this forum.
 
What? Because I have character & an opinion & I don't mind sharing it? Those are qualities of a real man, and maybe in time you will learn that. Age & experience counts for alot more that what you think, bud.

It IS a rehash, has degraded into just another Bi is righ/bi is wrong thread, completely off topic READ=What Do Women REALLY Think About Bisexual Men?.

I have accused no one of anything, have told no one they do not know their sexuality & have thrown no stone at anyone for being who they are.

The sign of immaturity comes from you reading that into my posts of asking questions & seeking some enlightenment.

Thanks, have a nice day.
 
Ok, it appears as if you didn't read my post. I never said you didn't have "manly" qualities, I merely told you more people would think your bahvior childish than mine. I posted an opinion and you get on my case about hijacking. After posting many good, well thought out replies I get attacked for sharing my opinion (<-- which is a manly thing to do in your opinion (oh wait, only if it comes from you I guess since you attacked me for doing the same)). So please, continue to delude yourself by all means.
 
scrub22 said:
If one goes into the realationship with the expectation of monogomy, how would that be compromising values. As far as competition, if one chose to compete, what is the big difference?
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My sincerest apologies, scrub22.

Very good points...compromising values would be settling for less than what would be good for you. I just don't think a bi man can be good for a woman in the long run, considering the track record of the bi men I've known/known of. I know not all of them are like that, though.

I do see where you are coming from on the competition tip...but the differences do make for an unusual situation when it comes to attraction. There are things you can offer....then there are things he can offer...which one will make the bi man happier would be my concern.
 
ahotjock71 said:
My sincerest apologies, scrub22.

Very good points...compromising values would be settling for less than what would be good for you. I just don't think a bi man can be good for a woman in the long run, considering the track record of the bi men I've known/known of. I know not all of them are like that, though.

I do see where you are coming from on the competition tip...but the differences do make for an unusual situation when it comes to attraction. There are things you can offer....then there are things he can offer...which one will make the bi man happier would be my concern.
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I understand your point. Your assumption appears to be all men who are bi are like that. I would like to think that each person is treated as an individual and given a chance. I would personally give them a chance.

I would hope that if a guy who is bi chooses to be with women at that point in time, that is what makes him happy. If he later changes that view then the relationship ends. Relationships end for many reasons this just being another.
 
IF I were a woman (hell even as a man) wouldn't settle down or marry someone who is Bi. I've dated one, it's just someting that was fun, he didn't take it serious 'cause I was a guy. There's already enough temptations as there when there's one sex, add another that bi people are probably more attracted to, shit, nothing will come of that.

I know it's wrong, coming from a gay man, I don't really understastand nor support the "Bi" lifestyle. You know it's a mind fuck kinda thing when someone can go, well I'm 22% gay and 88% straight. I find most "Bi" men are straight, with a curious mind, or horny dick. I know that alot on this board alone, say they fuck guys and date girls. C'mon, can you get any straigter? Add a six pack of beer, and a "Don't tell anybody about this." You're a spitting image of the entire football team from my HS!

Not to piss anyone off, it's just smething that doesn't make any sense to me.

Like I see some girls, and go, "Oh she's pretty."... does that make me bi? lol Is that how that "lifestyle" goes? haha
 
ahotjock71 said:
I would not date a bi guy, because as I stated above, it is my belief that one person, and one sex, should be enough to satify someone. That is my belief, and I am entitled to it.

If a bi man is in a monogamous relationship with a woman...guess what, he's not bi! To be bisexual you have to ACT on the urges....otherwise you are just "curious" or "open minded."
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Are you just pulling these definitions out of your ass?
 
GayBoyKellyCfan said:
But if he was in a committed relashioship with a woman wouldn't he be STRAIGHT? Ha, think about that one for a moment!
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I've already thought about it and answered that and other questions multiple times in tons of posts since the beginning of this thread. Read it from the beginning and I'm sure you'll see...
 
Wow, it was a joke, since it was the same question, basically. Reason I added the "think about that for a moment" part.

You know it's a bad joke when you gotta explain it. haha
 
GayBoyKellyCfan said:
Wow, it was a joke, since it was the same question, basically. Reason I added the "think about that for a moment" part.

You know it's a bad joke when you gotta explain it. haha
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Haha! Nice and sorry, lol. I guess after the way this thread went I've lost faith in the way some members really DO think and wasn't able to tell it was a joke when it was in this particular thread, lol! ^_^
 
First of all AHJ and namestaken need to get a room. Jeez the sexual tension!

Srt8 girl here. In reading this thread I really wanted to respond intelligently but AHJ's comments baffled me. I don't know if he wanted to know how women feel or if he was hurt somehow by a man that was bi. I personally don't care what a man is as long as he is faithful. It hurts when someone leaves you whether it is for a man or a woman. Being with a man that was attracted to men would make my gay porn watching much more fun, but at the end of the day we just want to be loved.

I sometimes wish that I was bi because the dating pool would be so much bigger.

BTW, I have not had sex in 6 years, does that mean I am not str8? I can appriciate a beautiful woman just as much as anyone else.
Mac
 
Out of interest: to any passing mods - can we get a site demographic or census posted somewhere?

I'd be quite interested to know how many guys vs girls are on the site, and how many straight vs bi vs gay of each. I know not everyone registers all their details always, but is there a way of pulling out the stats easily enough to post for us? Actually, a country and/or continent breakdown would be interesting as well...

All purely for shits and giggles, of course.

-d-
 
downontheupside said:
i'm bi and i don't tell girls that i've done guys, cuz don't like that or don't wanna know.
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That's not true for ALL girls. If my bf/husband had had sex with men before, I'd want to know. But it wouldn't bother me at all. As HCODiver said, some women are OK with it, some aren't. I am.
 
I would prefer the man be upfront with it so we could discuss it. Keeping it a secret would be dishonest.

Kyndal, sorry the girls have dropped you. Not all woman are so shallow.
 
downontheupside said:
I haven't told a girl about it and that worked for me.
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Whatever works for you, but in an LTR, I think it's best to be honest about your bisexuality. Would you want a woman to love you for who you really are, or for what she thinks you are? And if you haven't told any girls, how do you they'd react negatively?

Just sayin'. It's up to you, obviously. But my reaction and the reactions of other women on the thread prove that not all of us would dump you because you're bi. Personally, if I found out and my bf hadn't told me, I'd dump him for being so dishonest and for hiding such a big part of himself from me....
 
HCODiver said:
Asking if women like or don't like bisexual men, is like asking if gay men like big penises. Some do some don't. I've had girls who thought I was the hottest thing they've seen, but once they get to know me they like me more because they realize I'm not an ass hole, but then completely drop me because I'm bisexual. I've lost many girlfriends/friends that way. I've also been in great relationships wherethe girl knows as well. I've only dated three guys though, and out of the three, two of them said you can't have a relationship with a bisexual male because they'll eventually want the other sex... It just so happens that both of them cheated on me, but hey what ever.

Kyndal
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I am gay, but that little story I think must be so tipical of a "Bi's" experience in life.

I think it must be terrible to think you are bi. I always use to say bi's are just gays with one foot in the closet.

I know I should not say this but I can't resist it. How a cute guy like nametaken can think he is bi and he has not had sex with a man.......please. You are so deep in the closet, I doubt you will ever manage to get out. Sorry!!
 
^Such a pity HCODiver/AEDiver is banned. He seems like he has a good head on his shoulders.

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