What do you get from your ex boyfriend (s)?

[Latimer]

Great memories. We'd still be together if I hadn't been too young, inexperienced and unformed to fully realize what a fine and exceptional man he is, and how very good our relationship was and would have continued to be. (I was supremely lucky to have found another great guy soon after I moved on.) Although we now live in different cities, we still see each other once or twice a year, and find the time and place to have sex again, sometimes with his partner. On a few occasions I've just been with his partner, who is actually more my "type" (Avi Dar without the juice) than either my ex- or my current. So you could say that one of the things I get from my ex- is hot fucking from my ideal man.

 

[Scealle]

Does flings count? Well that's probably the nearest thing I will ever get as to being in a relationship. I learned not to believe everything he said. Even if he is willing to hold your hand and or hug/kiss you in public. Gosh I was so naive. I actually believed him when he said he loves me. Well I haven't that from anyone before. And I was 18 so.......Sigh he acted like he didn't know me a week later sighs.

 

[dublindude]

Boyfriend #1 - taught me that a leopard never changes his spots, the pain of betrayal and that I'd rather be hurt a million times over than be the indirect cause of someone else being hurt through my own stupidity/naiveté.

Boyfriend #2 - opened my eyes to a different world. Though I've now lost him for good, he changed me for the better.