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What do you require privacy for?

I actually objected when my BF read my mail. I used to get letters from an anonymous admirer, which I had not solicited, and when he found one of them, he got mad and took it the wrong way. I never knew who the person was, but I liked the idea of the mystery, even though I was never going to act upon it. I never cheated on my BF, and so I don't see why my receiving mail should be a threat to him. I would never read anyone else's mail either - I respect the confidentiality of private communications. You don't have to know everything about someone - that removes all mystery.
 
Basically, if the bathroom door is closed - it means I'd like privacy.
 
kennyworth said:
, had a boyfriend and a half...
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^ Hmm... ^ :confused:


Anyway, yeah, 'the bathroom stuff' I need privacy for...

Plus of course, reading tea leaves, casting pig bones, hob knobbing with my spirit guide and communicating with the dead in general is best done in private.
 
haven't been in LTR with a guy... but here are the rules for girls

1. No, I am not gonna give you my email password
2. Yes, btw the same about my cellphone unlock password
3. That girl/guy that smiled to me today and said hello.. Don't ask me. If want I'd tell you. If i am officially in an LTR I don't cheat. I have pride and dignity.
4. Don't play jalousie with me, that is going be the beginning of the End.
5. No matter how funny it seems to you, or how many times you have sucked my dick or sow my cum coming out of there there is no way I am gonna let you see how I pee.
6. I know you cum two -three times every time we fuck, but PLEASE for gods sake don't tell about that to all your girl-friends or even more in presence of any of my friends. I mean sex is private really private I am not telling my friends how great it felt when I was tit-fucking you and came all over your face lips and chin, or how good it feels when your pussy contracts when you cum or how can I throatfuck you for a minute and you won't even gag...
 
I've got nothing to hide. My life is an open book, basically. Although, taking a dump is private time.

newboy12 said:
Well if you are in a relationship, why would you masturbate?
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I still jerk off when I'm in a relationship. They can't be around 24 hours a day. It isn't so much that I *need* privacy when I do it, it just so happens the other guy isn't present.
 
newboy12 said:
Well if you are in a relationship, why would you masturbate?
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I'm not in a relationship right now.

Even when I was, I still did it and I have yet to meet the first person that's in a relationship that doesn't do it.
 
nsguy2 said:
Basically, if the bathroom door is closed - it means I'd like privacy.
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Yeah, there's a reason why there's only ONE toilet in there; for me, that is about the only thing in wich privacy is essential. Oh, ...also when I'm drawing, privacy isn't really essential, but I do prefer to be left alone at times.
 
Sure you can masturbate in a relationship but why would you need privacy for that.


And who are thinking about while you jerk off?


If your man is in bed, why would you sneak away in the bathroom and jerk off instead of waking him.


Yes you are not together 24 hours in a day but if you are not with him then why do you have to hide the fact that you are jerking off from him?


The question was
In your relationship...what do you require privacy for?
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if anything you would masturbate together, or if you dont live together you call him up and have phone sex but something is wrong if you feel you have to hide or feel the need to jerk off in private.



Its like that Sex and the city episode where Charlotte caught Trey jacking off to a magazine while she was in bed after he couldnt get it up to have sex.
 
>>>If your man is in bed, why would you sneak away in the bathroom and jerk off instead of waking him.

Well, I wouldn't run to the bathroom. I'd just jerk off there. But I wouldn't wake him up. Why ruin his sleep just because I want to get my nut off?

I personally don't feel the need to hide my masturbation from my partner, but I can understand if it might make him feel a bit...uncomfortable. Like, "Um, am I supposed to help out?" He may simply not be in the mood. Which is totally cool - I'll just do it in the other room, y'know?

Lex
 
newboy12 said:
Sure you can masturbate in a relationship but why would you need privacy for that.
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Because I personally feel that it's something private that I don't want an audience for. Just like some people that are on the toilet want privacy when they're on it. Everybody has their quirks....and masturbating in private is mine.

newboy12 said:
And who are thinking about while you jerk off?
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I'm a woman, so I don't jerk off.

If I'm in a relationship, I think of the guy I'm in the relationship with. If I'm single, I think of other people, both real and made up guys....fantasy guys, if you will.

newboy12 said:
If your man is in bed, why would you sneak away in the bathroom and jerk off instead of waking him.
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There were times that when in bed with my ex-boyfriend, I did wake him up in the middle of the night to have sex or fool around. But if I knew he was tired, I didn't want to bother him, so if I felt the need to masturbate, I got up and took it to another room so I didn't disturb him.

newboy12 said:
Yes you are not together 24 hours in a day but if you are not with him then why do you have to hide the fact that you are jerking off from him?
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I never hid the fact that I masturbated from my boyfriend, and neither did he. But I never expressed interest in wanting to witness him masturbating and neither did he. We both considered it to be a private thing. *shrugs shoulders*

newboy12 said:
if anything you would masturbate together, or if you dont live together you call him up and have phone sex but something is wrong if you feel you have to hide or feel the need to jerk off in private.
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Again, I never hid the fact that I was doing it from my boyfriend. And as for it being wrong to do it in private? Well, that's your opinion, and I don't agree with you that it's wrong. It's my personal preference and I'm entitled to have it.
 
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