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OK, so I was on MH the other day and I got a wink from this guy. So I replied that his pics were nice and whatever. We ended up exchanging like 100 MH messages over the course of an hour and a half about just basic crap. Then we exchanged numbers and texted since. He made it clear that he was after a relationship. I am open to whatever.
So yesterday I asked what he was doing later that night. He said nothing. I said well we should meet up somewhere. He said that would be cool. I got a text an hour later that he was going to his parents and would be back later the next day. He said we could meet then. I was kinda ticked, but I let it go. We texted all night and it kinda got sexual. He talking what he wanted to get done to him and I was just as into it as he was. He fell asleep in the middle of a text conversation and then he wished me a good morning when he woke up. I wished him one back and then asked if we were still meeting. He said yes.
So I hadn't heard from him in a few hours so I sent a text saying I was waiting to hear from him, I was done with what I had to do. He said he was still at his parents. Then a few hours later I get a text he will be later than expected and that his friend will be staying at his house for a few days and we;d have to wait until after then to meet up. I was kinda mad because I had turned down plans for this evening because I expected to be spending it with him.
I told him that it seemed like he was putting me off, and explained everything above to him. He said he understands but it isn't the case. I then asked when we'd meet up and he said middle of next week. I asked if he promises and he said yes. And he was like something seems like you are mad. I told him about how I turned down plans for tonight. He then sent me a message that said:
ok, fine. then since i fucked up your plans I won't expect to meet you."
Now I feel bad for telling him about doing something else tonight. I apologized, but he won't answer.
I really like this guy. We have so much in common. He's 28, I'm 20. He's a really sweet guy though and I know even though we met on MH he isn't just after sex. I would like to try a relationship with a guy.
OK, now the question:What do I do? Do I let it go? Do I try and work it out?
So yesterday I asked what he was doing later that night. He said nothing. I said well we should meet up somewhere. He said that would be cool. I got a text an hour later that he was going to his parents and would be back later the next day. He said we could meet then. I was kinda ticked, but I let it go. We texted all night and it kinda got sexual. He talking what he wanted to get done to him and I was just as into it as he was. He fell asleep in the middle of a text conversation and then he wished me a good morning when he woke up. I wished him one back and then asked if we were still meeting. He said yes.
So I hadn't heard from him in a few hours so I sent a text saying I was waiting to hear from him, I was done with what I had to do. He said he was still at his parents. Then a few hours later I get a text he will be later than expected and that his friend will be staying at his house for a few days and we;d have to wait until after then to meet up. I was kinda mad because I had turned down plans for this evening because I expected to be spending it with him.
I told him that it seemed like he was putting me off, and explained everything above to him. He said he understands but it isn't the case. I then asked when we'd meet up and he said middle of next week. I asked if he promises and he said yes. And he was like something seems like you are mad. I told him about how I turned down plans for tonight. He then sent me a message that said:
ok, fine. then since i fucked up your plans I won't expect to meet you."
Now I feel bad for telling him about doing something else tonight. I apologized, but he won't answer.
I really like this guy. We have so much in common. He's 28, I'm 20. He's a really sweet guy though and I know even though we met on MH he isn't just after sex. I would like to try a relationship with a guy.
OK, now the question:What do I do? Do I let it go? Do I try and work it out?
He may have been telling the truth, he may not have, but you'll have an easier time dating if you start judging people according to their actions and not what they say.
