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On Topic Discussion What Sexual and Gender Labels Do You Identify As?

I consider myself a female technosexual that prefers my technology to be exclusively male.
 
I'm a gay man but I do feel that I don't have to do everything according to the book in terms of being gay and being a man. Sometimes, I like girly things or I might jerk off to a woman or find a woman attractive. However, I know who I am which allows me to feel comfortable enough to venture outside the label sometimes. I've never slept with a woman though but honestly, I can't say that I wouldn't try it though even though I have no interest in getting with a woman.

I feel that there is me and then all these things that are a part of me that I identify as or put a label on because it fits. However that doesn't mean that I should compromise who I am as a person in order to fit into a certain label. For example, I love rap and there's homophobic lyrics in half of the songs I listen to. Yet I understand that what they say is in ignorance and forgive them. You can't control everybody and just have to learn to live with them.
 
I'm male, and as far as sexuality, that depends.....
For me-to myself only: I know I'm bi, probably more towards the gay end...but also something the line of demi/a-sexual.
For anyone else: some things are best kept secret .. though in some cases I might admit to 'somewhat asexual'
 
I am a man.

I am Gay.

WTF is up with all these feel good gotta be different to justify your existence "labels"?

Man/Woman/Gay/Bi/Straight...it ain't that hard. If you wanna change on of those, by all means do what is in your heart and soul but for fuck's sake stop making shit up to create something that makes YOU more comfortable to justify your humanity.

It is like one of those damn Coke Freestyle machines with 5600 different combination options and you gotta play 20 questions on the screen to get a fucking cola!

...sorry, a bit over all this PC bullshit. Rant over.
 
SC6201 said:
I am a man.

I am Gay.

WTF is up with all these feel good gotta be different to justify your existence "labels"?

Man/Woman/Gay/Bi/Straight...it ain't that hard. If you wanna change on of those, by all means do what is in your heart and soul but for fuck's sake stop making shit up to create something that makes YOU more comfortable to justify your humanity.

It is like one of those damn Coke Freestyle machines with 5600 different combination options and you gotta play 20 questions on the screen to get a fucking cola!

...sorry, a bit over all this PC bullshit. Rant over.
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And this is why I prefer to avoid this kind of discussion.
 
SC6201 said:
I am a man.

I am Gay.

WTF is up with all these feel good gotta be different to justify your existence "labels"?

Man/Woman/Gay/Bi/Straight...it ain't that hard. If you wanna change on of those, by all means do what is in your heart and soul but for fuck's sake stop making shit up to create something that makes YOU more comfortable to justify your humanity.

It is like one of those damn Coke Freestyle machines with 5600 different combination options and you gotta play 20 questions on the screen to get a fucking cola!

...sorry, a bit over all this PC bullshit. Rant over.
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Shhhhhhhhh!!!!!!....

I got in trouble at one gay website for saying something like this....

...apparently we need to be educated.....

I can't say anything else...it is on my short list of things I am not gonna talk about anymore on the internet....
 
^The absurdity is in believing that self labeling easily identifies who we are, for those totally uninterested in who we are.

The XYZ of it all is summed up in the thought, that our adopted labels are proof of who we believe, we are.

I am, who I am.
 
I am a male homosexual. ie; I have a cock and I am sexually attracted to men.

sixthson said:
Gay, but it's certainly not the most important part of my identity.
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Same here. My sexuality is probably one of my least important 'defining' characteristics.
 
SC6201 said:
I am a man.

I am Gay.

WTF is up with all these feel good gotta be different to justify your existence "labels"?

Man/Woman/Gay/Bi/Straight...it ain't that hard. If you wanna change on of those, by all means do what is in your heart and soul but for fuck's sake stop making shit up to create something that makes YOU more comfortable to justify your humanity.

It is like one of those damn Coke Freestyle machines with 5600 different combination options and you gotta play 20 questions on the screen to get a fucking cola!

...sorry, a bit over all this PC bullshit. Rant over.
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And this is what an idiot looks like. Quick to write off someone else's experience because it's not personally relatable or understandable to themself.
 
TheLoveableLoner said:
Quick to write off someone else's experience .
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Its not an "experience"...it is gender and sexuality which have definitions regardless of whatever iterations once wants to create outta thin air to justify their existence. Qualifying as just an "experience" is as demoralizing as saying gay is a choice.

Being an idiot is attacking someone personally for which you disagree as opposed to a thoughtful response with substance...I am rallying against the concept, not any of the individuals. Idiocracy comes from making misguided assumptions that a subject is not relatable or understandable.

Descriptors of the definitions are not the issue, creating new definitions for one's own self fulfillment is.
 
Check your privilege shitlord! I am multikin mayonnaise gender demisexual and my pronouns are fsr/rergj/soigjeroigj and I am perpetually offended!

:p
 
Whateva you need to rationalize your existence and acceptance of yourself.
 
SC6201 said:
Its not an "experience"...it is gender and sexuality which have definitions regardless of whatever iterations once wants to create outta thin air to justify their existence. Qualifying as just an "experience" is as demoralizing as saying gay is a choice.

Being an idiot is attacking someone personally for which you disagree as opposed to a thoughtful response with substance...I am rallying against the concept, not any of the individuals. Idiocracy comes from making misguided assumptions that a subject is not relatable or understandable.

Descriptors of the definitions are not the issue, creating new definitions for one's own self fulfillment is.
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Then let's get rid of 'gay' - after all, sex is just intimate bodily relations. No need to cut the definition of sex ever finer by making it all about you.

We can do the same thing with the multiple and varied definitions of gender and sex identity.

Except that would exclude yourself and the categories you identify as, yourself who I'm sure you in no way consider a 'special snowflake' for having a label that describes your experiences.

Pull the other one, it's got bells on.
 
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