Whats an advantage in being gay ...

[justaguy]

... apart from having no choice in the matter? Being in tune with the feelings of your partner perhaps? Not having to remember to put the toilet seat down? For some reason reason the disadvantage list seems longer ...

 

[zombiekiller]

Not having to deal with BS's and drama that women like to stir up. I speak as someone that used to date women.

 

[Vannie]

Not having to deal with BS's and drama that women like to stir up. I speak as someone that used to date women.

This^ Gay men are drama free

 

[HunterM]

I think this is what you meant to say Vannie...

Banjo playing Gay men are drama free

 

[bankside]

It's a lot easier to free yourself from the sexism so common in heterosexual relationships. Though I have noticed how many gay men seem really eager to recreate it.

 

[justaguy]

I think I will pencil in No Periods into the advantage column ...

 

[Harke the Boeotarch]

Gay couples as double breadwinners used to make a lot more money.

 

[bort138]

Sex without the risk of an unplanned pregnancy.

 

[aaggii]

Sex without the risk of an unplanned pregnancy.

Agree, though unprotective sex with strangers has its downsides.

As a general rule, I´d say having sex. It´s easier (once you´re in lol) and there are less taboos about it.

 

[unloadonme]

No fanjita.

 

[justaguy]

I'm thinking men in a relationship don't analyse as much.

Example :

Guy : Honey, I've made Lasagne for dinner tonight
Woman partner : Why did you do that?

as opposed to

Guy : Honey, I've made Lasagne for dinner tonight
Guy partner : Great. Thanks!

 

[mikey3000]

Never having to be asked to run out and buy pads for the hubby.

 

[zombiekiller]

This^ Gay men are drama free

Well, yes I agree that gay men can be dramatic. The longest time span I've been single in the last 5 years is 2 weeks. Went through 7 guys in 5 years. So, I'd like to think I know something about guys by now.

But here's the difference between gay men drama and women drama. I've found that gay guys will like to do whatever you suggest. Yes, I'm more of a dominant type. I usually take the lead. And the guys I've dated always went along with what I wanted.

The women I've dated were always picky with what we'd do for the weekend. And they seem to be proud that they are picky with what they eat. They can twist any of your words into telling them they're fat. And it takes them forever to get ready to go anywhere.

I've been with the same guy for 2 years. We've been living together for a year. So far, there's been no major drama.

Iunno, it just feels a lot better nowadays living with a guy than back when I lived with a girl.

 

[pat grimshaw]

... I've found that gay guys will like to do whatever you suggest. Yes, I'm more of a dominant type. ..

So are your guys more of a submissive type? Fair enough.

 

[nycguydowntown]

I don't think it is natural for men and woman to be together---at least from all the complaints I hear from woman--the two sexes are not really compatible as they think so differently and from different sections of their brains---straight men seem to like to hang with their buddies and woman like their girlfriends---they meet for sex that's about it. So gay guys and girls have the advantage of being with the gender they enjoy and understand as people---sex aside. Eventually in the future everyone will be bi.

 

[zombiekiller]

So are your guys more of a submissive type? Fair enough.

Submissive is such a dirty word. I'd like to call it more empathetic to what I want

 

[pat grimshaw]

^
Fair enough

 

[Beachguyj]

Sex is much easier to get. Men don't bogart the pussy like women do. Men like to play, women like to play games.

 

[backagain]

You get to get laid a lot.

 

[Vitamin]

The downside of better realtionships is being able to find one in the first place. It's harder than a lot of people seem to think.