Whats the limit on sex with guys....?

[mabby7]

Where do you find them, you ask? So many men to "sleep" with?

Personally, I don't "sleep" with anybody. I don't take them home. But here's my story: I spend a few days a week in the Antwerp suburb where my dad lives, and can go to one downtown sauna by tram, another suburban sauna by bus (taking buses is a decent, middle class thing here, thank you) and the saunas in Brussels and Gent (a college town! full of horny students) by train (and trains are very clean, safe and comfortable).

I spend the rest of the week in Brugge (pronounced Bruges), one of the most beautiful provincial cities in Europe, where my family owns a hotel. From there, I can go by train to the sauna in Gent (that college town) and Oostende (a college town and beach resort, also full of youngsters year round). Since Belgium is a midget state, nothing in Gent and Brussels is more than an hour from Antwerp, it is less than an hour from Brugge to Gent, and 15 minutes by train to Oostende.

I also have an eye for radaring sexy gay men before they start eying me, so I get to fuck lots of tourists from my family's hotel. Most youngish visitors are North Americans, Asians and Spaniards.

Finally, in the sauna, I go to the steambath. If you are young, built like a swimmer (and I do swim an hour every day either in the hotel or the sauna or a municipal swimming pool) and with a very round bubble butt, you find a lot of tops eager to fuck you on the spot. And I top as well, a lot in fact, and when you're young and cute and like well-built bottoms from their teens into their thirties, you don't need a big dick to be popular. Mine is average length but very thick.

So far in saunas I am used to getting what I want 95% of the time. Last friday in Antwerp, that was half a dozen bottoms and two dozen tops in about ten hours time. A typical perfect day for me.

man .. i need to go Europe ... maybe to where you live even ...
there's nothing where i live ... on top of that ... guys are choosy too ... :-(

 

[cocktales]

I don't think one's past should be used against them!

Also, I think having experience is an asset NOT a deficiency....

The only problem one might have if either one is "slutty", is that of being in a Mono relationship (if that's a requirment of your relationship), and I'm sure talking it out would help make a difference and cause trust to be instilled in the relationship.

I think "most" people will agree that it's much easier to be in a relationship with someone with experience vs a virgin!

I know, I know that is a "strong" analogy to make; but if you look at the facts, you would see and agree upon why I say that!

Being a virgin causes one to be the teacher and one to be the student....

........and, I've seen in very many cases where the once virgin gay man, who has NO experience in gay relationships will NOT stay in the relationship or NOT remain a one-man-MAN! lol

So, if you want to be happy the rest of your life, make a slutty man your husband!!!!

 

[sweet_taboo]

Being that I have been with more than a few guys myself, I think it would be rather hypocritical of me to discriminate against other experienced guys...

I had sex with twenty guys today... If a guy is goodlooking and has a big dick, I will bottom...

Getting fucked by 20 goodlooking guys with big dicks...now THAT is a dream come true...

 

[XLeatherX]

I had sex with twenty guys today (and I only count the ones that I fucked or who fucked me). My weekly total has probably not been under fifty more than two or three weeks of the past fifteen months. I guess I've fucked with about 1,500 total strangers since my 18th birthday (and many hundreds more in the four years before that). BUT I look normal, and so do all the guys I fuck.

If a guy is goodlooking and has a great ass, I will fuck him. If a guy is goodlooking and has a big dick, I will bottom. Nothing else matters.

You're probably poz and don't deserve compassion, respect, or sympathy for being nothing but a sick PLAGUEr who spreads this horrible disease to others.

Your attitude is sick and if you have such a cavaleir attitude I don't think that you deserve to take away medical attention, support, compassion, and resources from poz people who need them.

 

[Underdog]

For me personally, I think having several partners pretty much teaches all you need to know to be successful, then leave something not known to discover as your life goes forward. So I don't understand the need for sluthood. That goes for men or women.

You don't need a sledgehammer to pound in a tack (no pun intended at all) meaning you don't need to sleep with someone who's been around the block, like several hundred times, to have a good time.

In the back of my mind would be, "am I just another notch on the bedpost for this guy? Will he remember me, say, by the end of next month? If I called him to go to Starbucks, would I get "who are you??" YIKES !

 

[Ninja108]

As long as he was mongomous and willing to get tested, his past is irreveant

 

[drhladnjak]

In the back of my mind would be, "am I just another notch on the bedpost for this guy? Will he remember me, say, by the end of next month? If I called him to go to Starbucks, would I get "who are you??" YIKES !

It's important to remember that slutiness is quite often a two way street. For a lot of sexual encounters, both guys are just looking to get off. Perhaps they're both looking for another notch on their bed post. They're not looking for names or coffee dates in that case. For you, it's obviously different in that you're looking for something different. There's nothing really wrong with either, at least in and of itself (assuming everybody is being safe and the possibility of sexual compulsion aside). They're just different.