I agree with you, Corny, but I have seen threads where a person strays from the topic and gets trounced while others take threads on an entirely different tangent and keep it there, and nothing is said.
I mean, in one thread I read this morning, a comment was made about 'panties in a wad' and a comment was made on that and the thread was 'hijacked' and warnings made?
In another recent thread, a single thread was literally commandeered by two people over several pages and nothing was mentioned.
There is no consistancy.
exactly
and I know just how many complaints were made about that one little battle that went on for days, because I posted my disaproval in the thread and got a flood of ME TOO Pms and comments. people obviously had been screaming for days and nothing had been done.
Mods are human and they individually are more likely to consider a thread serious if they like it, and are less likely to intervene if the offender is a friend. People simply assume the best in regards to their friends and the worst in regards to those they disaprove of.
I am not criticizing, just stating an obvious human trait. If the diverse group of moderators are on the ball and agree to a certain method of intervention then all would be well, but in reality that just isn't the case. It would seem that few mods even care about hijacks much less want to make a big deal about it. I have noticed that some of them simply delete the offending posts without comment or commotion. Spring will make a comment like " gentlemen, on topic" and leave the thread. Others split a hijack off from a thread making a new one about often silly topics that embarrass the hijackers.
This whole thing leaves most of us out in the dark and confused due to the lack of consistency.
We are talking about a complaint thread, for gods sake, not a coming out thread or a serious advice thread, that was hijacked, and it was with three or four posts by three people. hardly a serious thread and hardly a serious hijack. The point was made by the threadstarter and we all see the problem, but honestly, we all know by now that you can't make people spell well. Next to goodbye threads, they are groaners... causing such a ruckus over this seems out of kilter and I simply believe as others do, that something else is going on that we are not privy to, or are trying our best to assume is not true because it hints at darker motives.
I know that last comment may ruffle some feathers, but its important at this point to just say it and be done with the dancing around the edges.
the pianist, hoody, lube and I would never hijack a thread where someone was expressing their innermost feelings or seeking advice on a difficult issue.
I think people know us all well enough to know that.
we try to alleviate tension with levity. We try to have fun at JUb. That may be something some folks disaprove of, but it sure beats the hell out of yelling back and forth in a thread at each other.
the point has been made by a few mods on this topic now and I'm sure that behaviors will be changed. I cant help believe though, that the overall enjoyment of the boards will suffer as a result of this little dust up for a few days.