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What's the worst thing about being GAY?

What the worst thing about being gay?

  • Homophobia by the general public

    Votes: 30 41.7%
  • Rejection from family, co-workers or friends

    Votes: 18 25.0%
  • Internal self-acceptance issues

    Votes: 16 22.2%
  • other

    Votes: 8 11.1%

  • Total voters
    72
Do you or do you not agree?

I disagree. I find it hard to believe that a person can be "ok" with their sexuality and say...
I choose not to force my lifestyle down anyone's throats.

We're human first and foremost and that includes our sex. Even asexuals are being defined by their sex (or rather lack of it).

I also find it hard to believe that a person can be "ok" with their sexuality and purposefully hide it from friends and family. Yeah, the shit may hit the fan when your bigoted uncle finds out you like the cock. But to hide away from it is an admission that you believe they are correct.

You're finding it hard to believe that outside homophobic forces are in the lead? That's because the people who voted that are probably truly "ok" with their sexuality.

How many people in this thread think the worst thing is trying to find someone else to fuck or date? The only closet they're fixating on is the one of the guy they find attractive...

But of course this is just my opinions, feel free to think I'm an idiot.
 
Please note everyone is entitled to their own opinions . Please don't start a slugfest on this thread...|
 
i think the worst part is that people equate the word gay with sex. just because i'm a gay guy doesn't mean i'm constantly having anal sex. yet gay people are identified by who they sleep with. ex: he's a brilliant whatever and/but he's gay.
as soon as someone is tagged as gay that becomes the focus.#-o
 
Sure it's been covered one way or another, but worst thing for me is other gays. The judging and high expectations to be cover-model-hot otherwise you're not getting anywhere, etc.
 
i think the worst part is that people equate the word gay with sex. just because i'm a gay guy doesn't mean i'm constantly having anal sex. yet gay people are identified by who they sleep with. ex: he's a brilliant whatever and/but he's gay.
as soon as someone is tagged as gay that becomes the focus.#-o

But is that a problem from being gay? Or is that a problem with the people who do this?
 
Sure it's been covered one way or another, but worst thing for me is other gays. The judging and high expectations to be cover-model-hot otherwise you're not getting anywhere, etc.

Well, you're info says you're in an open relationship. Are you having sex with numerous people? They must like you well enough...
 
At feta.......this is not a debate thread......what bothers people is what bothers people

Please stop trying to debate with everyone.

You, feta, are entitled to your own opinion and everyone else is entitled to theirs.
 
Well, you're info says you're in an open relationship. Are you having sex with numerous people? They must like you well enough...

True, but even if I don't pay much attention to the grander influences or brush off the peer expectations, is still doesn't mean it's not there.
 
At feta.......this is not a debate thread......what bothers people is what bothers people

Please stop trying to debate with everyone.

You, feta, are entitled to your own opinion and everyone else is entitled to theirs.

:lol: But I like "slugging it out".

The way I see it, is if you've got the balls to type it out, you should have the balls to defend it. People don't come to their opinions on whims. And if you have, why cling to them?

I think it's laughable that any questioning of an opinion here is being equated with "being mean" or "creating a slugfest". But hey, misery loves company so I'll leave you guys to it.
 
I find it funnier that someone here is playing police when there are already polices who are eyes on the sky and decided the carcrashes are okay indeed. :lol: :popcorn:

Btw, I'm not really out yet, so I can't answer this yet. The only thing I'm irritated as a gay man this far are Christians associating gay men with free hitchhike to hell :rolleyes:
 
this goes for the straight who wrote the stupidity that homosexuals can't have children on our own.first of all,homosexuals do not have the same life style than heterosexuals do,we have a different order,sort of like a parental cooperation seen in many bird species,homosexuals can either pay for a surrogate,or adopt or some of them even reproduced by pairs,a pair of female with a pair of males.So there is no such a thing as a homosexual not being able to reproduce,since for us,we are naturally programed to see ours partners as cofathers or comothers of our biological children.Just like a heterosexual man reproduce with a female,we do it too,only that you have to buy them a house,feed the bitch's stomach,fulfill all her whims,etc etc etc.we reproduce by pairs IDEALLY.Therefore do not compare homosexual couples of father and cofather and mother and comother with heterosexual ones.plaeeeeese!

Relax I meant no harm with my comment. Unless I missed something no homosexual man or woman goes with her same sex partner to bed and make his or her partner pregnant. If homosexual person wants reproduce life he/she will always need the opposite sex and do acts he/she sometimes shudder
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male on male sex = no pregnancy (projected sex only need to combat sexually transmitted disease)
female on female sex= no pregnancy (projected sex only need to combat sexually transmitted disease)
male on female sex =pregnancy (projected sex need to combat both sexually transmitted disease and unwanted pregnancy)

You see there pros and cons with both hetrosex and homosex. Now you decide which problem you rather have.

I don't know how homosexual pepole see there partners but If I were homosexual and I and my partner decide we want have child ,I assume most homosexual pars eventually decide this, I would then love to take my partner to bed make love to him and make him pregnant. Nope the nature don't work that way, although it does want you to love your own gender sometimes and I find that upsetting for homosexuals, as I would be the first man to congratulate homosexual par that would be come pregnant form there own sexual activity.

So alternative routine of getting the child is can be painful proses whether it's to go into the sexual act with opposite sex* or adopt.

*I'm manly thinking of homosexual going on his/her own into sex with opposite gender (if they enjoy then they are bi) but I would think that the pair scenario is more tolerable and probably more enjoyable.

For the adopt thing, that process can be painful I was listening to my local radio recently and the topic was adopt for homosexuals and some of the stories they telling were just heartbreaking long wait on replays and approval from govermental administrations if adopt is green lighted or not.

But when the child has finally come into play for the par whether it is hetro or homo both par should show love and support to there child as every mother and father supposed or too whether it is mother mother, father father or mother father.

So It is only a minor problem to solve how to get the child whether it is natural or by other means and I think one of the causes for homophobia are the none natural factors of getting child but as I pointed at hetro par that cant make child on there own shouldn't homophobia pepole also hate those hetro couples too? But I hope that nothing in my post suggest that im homophobic as thats fair from truth as I do find the reproductive problem that comes with homosexuality (I have done my best explain how I feel about it) only a minor problem that's often blown up and sadly used to discriminate homosexuals for who they are amongst other things that are also used that I don't plan to address here. I know few homosexual peoples personally and I have same respect for them as other peoples I do know.
 
amongst other things that are also used that I don't plan to address here.

Well why not? This is the "worst things about being gay" thread afterall....

:)
 
I said nuthin's about racism....you're the one thinking/implying it. But I'm not going to deny that is a part of my problem with white men and the men who love them.

Um.....what? That apears to be a broad sweeping statement implying that all white guys are racist.
 
Relax I meant no harm with my comment. Unless I missed something no homosexual man or woman goes with her same sex partner to bed and make his or her partner pregnant. If homosexual person wants reproduce life he/she will always need the opposite sex and do acts he/she sometimes shudder

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So It is only a minor problem to solve how to get the child whether it is natural or by other means and I think one of the causes for homophobia are the none natural factors of getting child but as I pointed at hetro par that cant make child on there own shouldn't homophobia pepole also hate those hetro couples too? But I hope that nothing in my post suggest that im homophobic as thats fair from truth as I do find the reproductive problem that comes with homosexuality (I have done my best explain how I feel about it) only a minor problem that's often blown up and sadly used to discriminate homosexuals for who they are amongst other things that are also used that I don't plan to address here. I know few homosexual peoples personally and I have same respect for them as other peoples I do know.

It won't be far down the road until homosexual couples can also have their own biological children (ScienceDaily). Perhaps this is old news for many, but I think it's worth your time to read it.
 
The worst thing, in my opinion, is when we fall for a guy at school or work, the next step is not telling them our feelings, but to find out (through other ways) if they're GAY, bi or straight, before we can move on. It's annoying.

It would be a perfect world if the Kinsley scale is really true - everyone is a bit bisexual.
 
The worst thing, in my opinion, is when we fall for a guy at school or work, the next step is not telling them our feelings, but to find out (through other ways) if they're GAY, bi or straight, before we can move on. It's annoying.

It would be a perfect world if the Kinsley scale is really true - everyone is a bit bisexual.


was gon reply above but

anyway as always threads internet of cultures digested confused porridge amazin read

is thankyou
 
I said nuthin's about racism....you're the one thinking/implying it. But I'm not going to deny that is a part of my problem with white men and the men who love them.

What do you mean "you're the one thinking/implying it." You said you have a problem with an entire ethnic group, and those that associate with them. That's flat out racist, no matter what your motivation, moron.
 
Being over 30. I really do not care what someone here may say, but in Los Angeles, beauty and youth are worshiped.

This has been much harder on me than dealing with family and homophobia.

The truly sad thing is that to many women, I am quite attractive. But I'm not good enough for the Gay crowd.

Such is life.
 
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