When is it too late to never have been in a relationship?

[refujiunderground]

I agree with everyone else that said it's never too late. A woman in my home town got married for the first time when she was 93. My mother said to me, "Do you remember Laura Graham?" And I was like, "Oh, did she die?" because that's where my mother's 'do you remember' questions usually go. But it turned out she met a well-off Texan and was seriously happy for the rest of her life. So it does happen.

I'm 40 and haven't been in a long term relationship yet. I do worry sometimes that I'm so used to being by myself that if I do meet someone I won't be able to adapt to it.

oh shit? you're 40? you don't even look it.