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Which Are Some Good Sites to Meet Guys?

FunFunk

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I was wondering which websites you guys like to visit to meet (in person) other gay and bi guys, either for "quickies" or friends or long-term oriented relationships. All sorts of websites. Please share.
 
FunFunk said:
I was wondering which websites you guys like to visit to meet (in person) other gay and bi guys, either for "quickies" or friends or long-term oriented relationships. All sorts of websites. Please share.
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I'm a fairly new member of adam4adam.

I highly recommend this site.

An App like Grindr (and others along that line) didn't work so well for me.

Craigslist is great for everything except meeting men.
 
NineOfClubs said:
I'm a fairly new member of adam4adam.

I highly recommend this site.

An App like Grindr (and others along that line) didn't work so well for me.

Craigslist is great for everything except meeting men.
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Thanks. I'll have to try adam4adam and even Grindr. I've been using Craigslist and it seems the one thing it's truly good at is filling up my mailbox with spam.

(BTW, for LTR, I found match.com didn't really work for me.)

Anyway, just trying to broaden my options here. :)
 
Craigslist is great for many things, bought my bike, bamboo plants, patio furniture, found three part time jobs, etc..

But the Personals on that site are full of fake profiles and chock-a-block with picture collectors.
 
We both used Out Personals & we have been together for 6 years.
 
I've met several great men through Manhunt, but I'm very particular about who I actually meet on there. I don't really visit it for hookups, more for friendships or dating. I'd say about half the men I met wanted more than that, and the other half usually flake out. However most of the men on the site just want to know your stats and when you're available.

More recently I've been using OkCupid. It's just about the opposite of Manhunt. Manhunt is largely men with cock-pic profiles and stats, whom I always avoided. OkC is nice because you get to learn much more about people and how compatible you are. It works for me because I'm looking at getting to know a person, not just a hookup, but not necessarily a long-term relationship.

I've also tried Gay.com and Dlist in the past, neither of which I found useful.
 
So many sites out there these days. Nice to know there are a lot of options to meet people with specific purposes. Nice to know you don't *have* to go out to a bar or club to maybe meet guys (or maybe not). :cool:
 
It's funny I know a guy who is like the online "dating" expert and I asked him earlier today which sites he recommends that are free for guys not looking to hook-up. The 3 he gave me were:

www.plentyoffish.com
www.okcupid.com
www.findfred.com

Although as disclaimer I should mention that depending on where you live some sites will be more popular with guys in your area than others. So you might not find that many guys in your area using these sites, but the good thing is they're free so you can create an account and browse to see how many guys use it and delete it if you don't think it will work out.
 
I use A4A and Manhunt. I met my current fuck buddy turned boyfriend on A4A. We have been together for five months now.
 
adam4adam

I used manhunt and gay.com before i found a4a....they suck
 
loki81 said:
lately I've been thinking about dating sites as a means to have a good dinner or two before hooking up and getting blown off, as opposed to hookup sites where it's just hooking up and getting blown off.

not that I'm bitter :P
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lol. I think I see what you're getting at. My experience with dating sites has often worked like this: I go to sites that proclaim they are specifically for "dating" and not just hookups (i.e., Match.com and some others). I post portraits -- not pictures of my privates, but real, wholesome pictures of myself. I write a nice profile about friendship and long-term relationships. I reach out to those who've wrote these profiles about how they're looking for commitment and how wonderful they are. I "smile" at them. I send them emails. I keep in touch with one of the (few) guys that contact me. I exchange about four dozen email messages with him. I talk at length on the phone with him. I go on a first date with him. And, I find out that, after all of that, he just wants the sex -- or he decides he's not interested in me -- and none of the previous steps ever truly mattered to him. What a waste. :grrr:
 
ozguy, you are so right!

I can't believe I didn't mention Silverdaddies.

When you visit the profiles, you come across a huge number of guys who've met the love of their life on SD.

Of course, it isn't all cross-generational but mostly...

ozguy said:
One of my favourite sites (if you're into older men) ....

http://silverdaddies.com/

All kinds of liaisons catered for. ..|
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loki81 said:
a/s/l? :P

I'm crossing my fingers and hoping it's just a bad spell where I talk with a guy, go on 2-3 dates, hook-up, and then the guy drops off the face of the earth or is suddenly super busy and stops responding to calls/texts.

or maybe I'm just really bad in the sack :lol: but it seems unlikely that it just happens that every guy I meet is a great actor, and my old FB never had any complaints, though.
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Sorry, but what does "a/s/l" mean?

I hope it's just a bad spell in my case too (a *brief* bad spell). I haven't really been looking for LTRs online recently, more for just a little intimacy. But there's been a series of encounters that started online but ended unsatisfyingly in person. Either I wasn't interested in the guy because he wasn't anything like he said he was in his profiles and emails. Or, after rescheduling a dozen times (due to "work"), he would finally arrive and say something like "I feel like I just got out of bed. Let's do it some other time" or "I'm not into this...I just broke up with my boyfriend two weeks ago" or "I have to stop. This is only my second time with a man. I'm having a panic attack." People are such flakes. In a city of eight million people one would think it should be much easier to have satisfying sex.

I swear #-o ...I should just hire an escort already.
 
loki81 said:
a/s/l? :P

I'm crossing my fingers and hoping it's just a bad spell where I talk with a guy, go on 2-3 dates, hook-up, and then the guy drops off the face of the earth or is suddenly super busy and stops responding to calls/texts.

or maybe I'm just really bad in the sack :lol: but it seems unlikely that it just happens that every guy I meet is a great actor, and my old FB never had any complaints, though.
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This is what happens to me. I totally understand it if he and I don't mesh well, but this happens to me even when we hit it off very well and haven't had sex. It isn't like I'm being clingy or anything. The last thing on my mind with someone I've dated a couple times is a life partner or LTR, especially from someone I met on Manhunt.

If it isn't that, than I find guys so concerned with asserting just how unattached they must remain to be that being with them is utterly unenjoyable. I may not be looking for any strings attached either, but that doesn't mean you can't even say goodbye when you drop me off in the morning.

Then I see them at the bar and they greet me with a hug and a smile and go on and on about how busy they are without me having to ask yet can't introduce me to the new guy they're trying so hard to impress with how social and well-known they appear to be. Disingenuous flakes.
 
arpeggi said:
This is what happens to me. I totally understand it if he and I don't mesh well, but this happens to me even when we hit it off very well and haven't had sex. It isn't like I'm being clingy or anything. The last thing on my mind with someone I've dated a couple times is a life partner or LTR, especially from someone I met on Manhunt.

If it isn't that, than I find guys so concerned with asserting just how unattached they must remain to be that being with them is utterly unenjoyable. I may not be looking for any strings attached either, but that doesn't mean you can't even say goodbye when you drop me off in the morning.

Then I see them at the bar and they greet me with a hug and a smile and go on and on about how busy they are without me having to ask yet can't introduce me to the new guy they're trying so hard to impress with how social and well-known they appear to be. Disingenuous flakes.
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If there's one thing all the online sites and bars and clubs have in common it's all the damn flakes. There are more of them prowling such places than snowflakes falling during a January blizzard. :rolleyes:
 
FunFunk said:
If there's one thing all the online sites and bars and clubs have in common it's all the damn flakes. There are more of them prowling such places than snowflakes falling during a January blizzard. :rolleyes:
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I typically compare them to my breakfast cereal, but your blizzard shall suffice.
 
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