xbuzzerx
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hell yeah, another thing too.
you notice how some of these guys use the excuse of being unattracted to somebody as a means to basically disassociate themselves all across the board with anything other than dating. as a friend, as an acquaintance, someone to talk to, and etc. it basically implies that they feel that that group has NO qualities that they see that is good with them where they literally write them off altogether. like folks aren't attracted to women BUT does that keep them from making friends with women though? it's one thing if you live in an area that has NOBODY of a certain group or very little BUT if you pretty much come in contact with folks everybody and you can't even talk with them and get to know them to an extent where it's big or small, you can imply that something about them.
like i certainly don't have to date someone to talk to them over a simple casual talk. what's that about?
I think you probably pegged the way you can separate "i'm not attracted to x" from "I'm prejudiced against x."
I have friends from virtually every cultural background you can think of and on a purely physical level, I don't find at least half of them attractive at all. I do think that much of the U.S. still suffers from a lot of hush-hush self-denial about how much willful social segregation there still is by race, and there are a lot of white people who don't have more than the token coworker acquaintance from another ethnic background.

