Who is into fem guys?

[toxicboi54]

i wish i could be more straight acting.

 

[Crackberry]

i wish i could be more straight acting.

You should love yourself the way you are. Everyone has something unique to bring to the world.

 

[Yuki Sohma]

i wish i could be more straight acting.

Hi toxicboi54

I agree with crackberry-------------

You should love yourself the way you are. Everyone has something unique to bring to the world.

I am sure that you are a beautiful person and would make a good (no grate) friend you have a beautiful (actually a very gorgeous) smile ...............

 

[a little edgy]

I don't know if I'm into fem guys really. I'll just say that most gay men I've ever met could be considered a little on the femmy side...even the ones who obviously think they're not.

I tend to think the same way. The problem is that it's almost impossible to make judgments like this without some form of bias. Here's what I mean:

If you meet men in a setting where you know they're gay, then you're likely to be looking, at least subconsciously, for "proof" that gay men are almost always slightly (or more) fem. Chances are you'll find it because masculinity and femininity are neither clearly defined nor mutually exclusive.

On the other hand, if you meet men in a setting where their sexual orientation is unknown, then you'll only notice the ones who are a bit fem; you'll assume those men are gay and will thus have more proof your hypothesis. The men who might be gay but don't have a "tell" will be assumed to be straight, further reinforcing the idea.

 

[shotgun17]

Riiiiiiiiiiight.

are you being sarcastic?

 

[joshz88]

I have nothing against guys who are feminine, I just personally don't find them attractive. I'm only attracted to guys who are masculine, I guess because I tend to have a lot more in common with guys who are into sports and politics who like going out for a beer to watch a football or baseball game at a sports bar. I could be friends with a guy who is feminine though, I have one friend from high school who is feminine, and he is an insanely hilarious and fun person to be around that pretty much everyone, gay and straight, loves.

 

[Gengar7s]

Why? There are enough slow people in the world...

I'm not slow. There was that one time I asked my friend how he got a mesquito bite, but that's beside the point!

 

[t1ghtO]

the ones who choose fems are because they are one.

why are you generalizing cose that ain't true ?!

here,take me for example,I'm the epitemy of a "fem dude" by your standards,I wear two tons of makeup everyday,have blond curly hair,smoke my skinny ass cigarettes,walk like a nympho,laugh loud all the time & guess what,I don't like other boys who act like me

I know that cose in my highschool we where two gay boys in the same class,ok they may be other but here's the point,when I looked at him I was like what the fuck,that boy needs a cock up his ass cose he's too much but in the same time I was twice the "fem" he was

anyway,the thing is "fem" boys don't necesarily look for another fem boy to mess around,on the contrary,I need a good man to stand by my side whenever I need

so there you have it,myth busted

 

[MystikWizard]

They are despised by many gay men, but I have no problem with them.

As to being into one, well, if I met one and we clicked, I don't foresee a problem.

Count me as one of those guys that despises Fem guys. Absolutely drives me crazy whenever I see Gay Men acting Feminine, as I feel it simply adds to the stereotype that all Gay Men are a bunch of limp-wristed pansies.

I know they are good people and mean well, but man that really gets under my skin whenever I see anybody acting like this in public.

 

[Gengar7s]

Count me as one of those guys that despises Fem guys. Absolutely drives me crazy whenever I see Gay Men acting Feminine, as I feel it simply adds to the stereotype that all Gay Men are a bunch of limp-wristed pansies.

I know they are good people and mean well, but man that really gets under my skin whenever I see anybody acting like this in public.

I feel like that sometimes

 

[Oceansluver78]

raises hand halfway...if that explains anything lol

 

[tylersf]

I agree.
I don't care if you're fem or masc.
So long as you're a good person, with a good heart, you have my attention!

You should love yourself the way you are. Everyone has something unique to bring to the world.

 

[Give-It-2Me]

Fem guys not so much. pretty boys yes please.

 

[Crackberry]

Count me as one of those guys that despises Fem guys. Absolutely drives me crazy whenever I see Gay Men acting Feminine, as I feel it simply adds to the stereotype that all Gay Men are a bunch of limp-wristed pansies.

I know they are good people and mean well, but man that really gets under my skin whenever I see anybody acting like this in public.

So it bothers you when other people are being true to themselves, because you don't like how it reflects on YOU? Sad.

 

[Crackberry]

I have nothing against guys who are feminine, I just personally don't find them attractive. I'm only attracted to guys who are masculine, I guess because I tend to have a lot more in common with guys who are into sports and politics who like going out for a beer to watch a football or baseball game at a sports bar. I could be friends with a guy who is feminine though, I have one friend from high school who is feminine, and he is an insanely hilarious and fun person to be around that pretty much everyone, gay and straight, loves.

Uh, what the hell does being into politics have to do with masculine or feminine?

 

[hextula]

I am absolutely amazed at the responses i have got. We have a loooong way to go in the gay community. Fem guys or masculine guys, we are all biological men and like other men in a sexual way and prefer to mate with our own gender. Yet i have seen numerous "i despise responses". Truly sad.

 

[MystikWizard]

So it bothers you when other people are being true to themselves, because you don't like how it reflects on YOU? Sad.

It bothers me because of how it reflects on the Gay Community, as a whole.

Furthermore, I think it is a mental thing with Feminine Guys. I think they go out of their way to "act" Feminine, and that they wouldn't act that way, unless they were intentionally making a conscious effort to try.

So, yes ... I think it is sad, on their part. And its unfortunate that people like this give Straights more ammo to use against the Gay Community, who a majority of which do not act like that, to begin with.

 

[inlovewithblair]

It bothers me because of how it reflects on the Gay Community, as a whole.

Furthermore, I think it is a mental thing with Feminine Guys. I think they go out of their way to "act" Feminine, and that they wouldn't act that way, unless they were intentionally making a conscious effort to try.

So, yes ... I think it is sad, on their part. And its unfortunate that people like this give Straights more ammo to use against the Gay Community, who a majority of which do not act like that, to begin with.

There are many different types of people in the world. Some girls are "tom-boys", some guys are sensitive, jocks, muscular, skinny, fat. Some girls are bulimic, some are anorexic. Some black people like hockey, some white people like basketball, some gay people are straight-acting, while others are feminine.

Until you start developing a better sense of the world and those around you, you will be the one who reflects on the gay community poorly, not the "feminine" guys you speak of.

 

[MystikWizard]

There are many different types of people in the world. Some girls are "tom-boys", some guys are sensitive, jocks, muscular, skinny, fat. Some girls are bulimic, some are anorexic. Some black people like hockey, some white people like basketball, some gay people are straight-acting, while others are feminine.

Until you start developing a better sense of the world and those around you, you will be the one who reflects on the gay community poorly, not the "feminine" guys you speak of.

I am well aware that there are Tom-Boy girls out there, so please spare me your lectures. However, the public doesn't necessarily associate all Dykes as Tom-boys, now do they? They seem to split that stereotype 50/50 ... where as all Gay Men are essentially stereotyped as limp-wristed and Feminine.

I think if the Feminine Gay Men didn't have this obsession to act like the opposite sex (or somehow think they are the opposite sex in their minds), we would be doing a much better job reducing those negative stereotypes.

Maybe I don't want to be looked upon as a Girlie Fem-guy. And I most definitely am not.

So tell me. Why the need to talk like a woman? Walk like a woman? Act like a woman? Tell me about it and make be better understand why this obsession to act like the opposite sex? Help me gain a little insight.

 

[inlovewithblair]

I am well aware that there are Tom-Boy girls out there, so please spare me your lectures. However, the public doesn't necessarily associate all Dykes as Tom-boys, now do they? They seem to split that stereotype 50/50 ... where as all Gay Men are essentially stereotyped as limp-wristed and Feminine.

I think if the Feminine Gay Men didn't have this obsession to act like the opposite sex (or somehow think they are the opposite sex in their minds), we would be doing a much better job reducing those negative stereotypes.

Maybe I don't want to be looked upon as a Girlie Fem-guy. And I most definitely am not.

So tell me. Why the need to talk like a woman? Walk like a woman? Act like a woman? Tell me about it and make be better understand why this obsession to act like the opposite sex? Help me gain a little insight.

I don't know why people talk like women or whatever. But, I do know that there are children who already developed those gay "accents" or whatever you call it. And, they have no idea what they're doing or why they're doing it. They just do because it's who they are.

I don't think anybody has an "obsession" to act like a woman. Feminine gay men are also the ones who are bullied and threatened throughout their lives - if it were so easy to get rid of, I'm sure many of them would've to spare the hate.

Men who want to be woman are transgendered or something, not gay. BTW.